1. An entire year of pussy-denial. That means I’ll be eating and stroking it for her on pretty much a daily basis, and she might even let me rub against her opening every couple of weeks just to remind me what I’m missing. But I’m not allowed inside her for an entire year. She will not even entertain the idea, and if I try to back out, she’ll add another year.

2. One orgasm every 3-4 months, depending on whether she feels like it.

i been in chastity life style for about 10 years
right now its 4 months since my last release yes long term lock up for me
she does not want sex an does not care for it but i do have to perform oral on her when ever she wish an use didlo vibrators
she does not care if my little guy gets hard in the cb an bustin to get out it stays there till she feels she wants to unlcok me for shving cleaning an back in again

I’m currently in pussy denial. Last time inside my wife was 10 months ago.

I’ve had one accidental orgasm since then, so that’s about one orgasm every 5 months.

I wouldnt know. My orgams have been taken away from me and I am not sure if Mistress will ever give me one again.
I am locked in a full steel belt now and its been like 8 months or something…I dont even remember what it is like to not be locked in this chastitybelt. I am only milked once every 3 weeks now and only if I am totally submissive and obedient at all times. Mistress told me recently this will continue for 3 years but she also sometimes says it is now permanent as she likes me so much better locked up she sees no reason to ever unlock it again.

I will say I miss orgasms very much though.

Incidentally, and possibly you are not going to like this, but I think your wife is being extremely generous in suggesting the idea of allowing you a maximum of 12 orgasms this year! I am sure once she sees how submissive you will become after just 30 days – she will want you to go 60! Then once this milestone is reached she could well be thinking 90 & so on!!

I have noticed that as chastity becomes more & more widespread, women are fast catching on to added benefit of chastity and that is Orgasm Denial. They soon learn that the longer a guy is denied an orgasm the hornier the woman & the guy gets! The big difference – is that the woman will get to orgasm!

also, my Wife/Goddess lets me pleasure her while i stay locked. it’s an incredible turn on.

Mistress likes to lock me back up so that, the next day I’m dying to come again – hornier than after the long term lock up – but no dice, its wait and suffer again!
Currently I’m being punished for not being properly submissive after my last release – 3 months minium lock up this time.

I can only dream of 30 days now. MSTRS was punishing me with a 90 day lock up until I disrespected her and raised my voice to her. She cuffed me to the mantle, arms out to the sides, clamped my nipples with her mean flat fronted serraded metal nipple clamps and gave me 300 strokes across my clamped nipples with the meaty part of her single tail while informing me that I must now go another month – 120 days. I won’t be raising my voice to her again!

Congrats on making it a year…I am sure its easier when you have no choice. Mistress kept me locked up through the holidays and New Years eve. Her total disconnection of the Holidays and my chastity have only now reinforced her total dominance and unyielding control of my life.

My chastity belt is now permanent as she simply milks me now. I cannot complain about it either as if I do, I am whipped and my milkings pushed further back.

I am locked in a totally custom made steel chastity belt which cost over 1000 dollars. My Mistress has decided that we are to live as Mistress and slave 24/7/365 and also that my chastity is pretty much permanent. Could I cut it off ? maybe…. I would likely injure myself trying and ruin a very expensive belt. It was her idea to get the belt and she is very aggressive about making sure it stays on me. If I started rebelling and wanted it off, it would likely end the relationship.

I love her with all my heart and although living this way is very hard, I now cannot imagine not being her slave.

So in essence I have no choice. It is non consensual. It is almost certainly enforced chastity. I cant take it off and she wont take it off me. I cannot pull out as it is very tight. I am so used to it now that I have just gotten on with my life except that I am a real slave to a woman I love.

It is not a cheap plastic toy for sure but I think my chastity lies in the realm of the belt being a symbol of my status, a 24/7/365 reminder of my status, a means of physical control, and a powerful deterrent from any self pleasuring. The intended purpose of the belt has manifested in that i’m totally dependent on her for any physical pleasure and so I think only of her needs and wants far above my own. I am totally submissive and obedient at all times no matter what is going on.

I suppose in part I am a slave to my own desires but she has brought me further than I ever thought possible, pushed my limits way beyond what I ever imagined, and repetition coupled with her strong desire to own and train a slave to this level has developed an acceptance of how my life will be run….by her.

It is now on it’s second Mistress and despite having been locked in it for over 400 days in total I have never yet found any way to escape, remove it or reach orgasm in it. There have been times, quite frequently in the early days, when I have begged & pleaded to have it removed. There have been others where I have tried for literally hours to find a way out of it, sometimes ending up crying with frustration at my failure. This I consider true, enforced chastity. I do not always want to wear the belt, indeed sometimes I positively hate it. It makes no difference – I cannot remove it and She will not remove it. I am locked 24/7. The belt is removed once a week by Her, with me fully bound, blindfolded and gagged. I am not allowed to touch or even see what is happening. Sometimes She will allow me release, other times She will simply clean me and lock the belt back on – no matter, I have no control, no chance of escape and no option! I have now not touched or seen my penis for 70 days, despite the fact that we have enjoyed sex frequently during that period. I am not cuckold and She is not interested in others – She simply insists that She be in charge of all matters sexual at all times.

She has made it clear to me that if I insist on release then She will unlock me, however it will be the end of our relationship. As I plan to marry my Mistress next year that’s not really something I’d consider – enforced chastity is a small price to pay for the strength of the relationship we have.

My loving wife has locked me in a steel chastity device to help me stop masturbating by not being allowed to orgasm without consent,

Strange change in mindset, prior to being placed in a chastity cage I would look forward to masturbating now I look forward to being anally milked I suppose you look forward to releif fitting to your position and as I am caged that means masturbating is now out of the question, but that said I am not craving masturbation anymore so maybe being kept in chastity is changing me. Mistress then requested the obligatory licking up my mess as a further treat.

She said that’s good news as our next contract will introduce you to being locked 24/7 more often instead of the current waking until 11.30pm, as you seem to be broken in almost to the wearing of a penis cage and ring. I intend to have you locked 24/7 Monday – Thursday each week with you returning to your waking until 11.30pm regime Thursday evening thru Monday morning. We will then together reappraise your confinement regime after your next contract period with a view of having you in full time chastity by Xmas if this is what you request. She says that her method was devised months ago prior to my initial contract where she has read that males need to be gradually a customised into chastity over a fairly lengthy period so that mentally and physically they accept their new submissive chaste condition without objection and that this then becomes their new normal position a gradual transition that ensures compliance and ultimatley submission . She advised that Milking would be something I would be looking forward to for arousal and satisfaction as ultimately anal stimulation would become my ‘normal’ male release mechanism and orgasm via a male erection she would allow maybe 4 times a year. However her end game as she has said before is to condition me to be unable to orgasm without Viagra and be effectively her impotent neutered male who cannot masturbate to erection anymore without her direct support. You will be more comfortable if I can get you to a stage where you don’t even attempt to erect anymore. Her idea of controlling a ‘neutered’ man excites her knowing that her man is now totally reliant upon her for any form of sexual satisfaction or release even via his milking. Once I am convinced you are truly transformed mentally and cannot erect anymore I may allow you release from your penis cage more often, however this may take some time so be prepared to be wearing a cage from now on until further notice, its for your own good. If we cannot attain your neutered state via these methods I would like to have you hypnotised by a colleague so that sexual excitement / erection is impossible unless commanded by Mistress a condition where you will be aroused and erected by a single command and orgasm’d by another command. Both commands will be subtle and a delayed reation will be inbuilt so that you are not aware after this conditioning that you are now controlled subconsciously and kept neutered via a subconscious process meaning that you may be released from your penis cage more often. This is not a process to rush if I want to achieve our end goals, however you are doing well so far I will get you there in the end.

To that end Mistress has Milked me again today getting more semen each time she performs the act so she is definatley getting better. I am to be kept dry she says so that even if I was allowed out there would be little point as you have no male fluids on any significance anymore and thats how you will now stay, chaste limp and dry.

My husband, who became my sissy after an affair ten years ago this month, has gone through a rather long series of treatments over the years, and I can offer this. If you are financially able to do so, the use of female hormones cause many changes in the male body. dickie has been through several rounds of treatment with the use of estrogen and androgens, that will, over time, in the proper doses, greatly reduce sexual drive or libido, as well as the physical amount of semen and prostate fluids produced. This makes chastity more easy to enforce and gets to the point that where chastity is no longer needed to prevent constant masturbation, lt alone the chance of being aroused in an extramarital encounter.But this is a big step, and can be expensive to follow up on.

Mistress likes me in my new small cage as she says its nice to see that my testicles are larger than my penis and thats how she wants me to look. I must admit having my sac hang lower than my penis is something new but I agree a penis smaller than ones sac is nice I suppose well as I now don’t have a choice I would say that

Mistress has re appraised the new cage length and determined 6.5cm is too long for her sissy so I have had to compress it to 5cm which is quite a reduction however my new 5cm penis pleases Mistress as she says it looks much more comfortable and discrete and has the proper effect that NO erection however small will now be possible and that it extenuates the fact my testicles are now almost twice the size of my penis, how nice . My normal penis size is around 6” when erect and now confined to a permanent 1.8 inches.

My first paragraph stated that I was to be locked in a non removable chastity device to help stop my masturbation all I can say is that after 50 days in the device it certainly works and any women out there that want to control their partners access to self stimulation put them in a chastity device for a minimum of 30 days with a view to having them in the device permanently which is happening to me. It started as our chasity play but then developed into our new lifestyle now Mistress has seen the benefits for her any myself. Having not been able to self masturbate now for so long I must admit it changes your attitude to this selfish act and I now crave to be locked and controlled rather than selfish self stimulation. I am more content being constantly on edge but having no way to release myself and subjected to periodic prostrate milking as a reward for accepting my new condition. I am so lucky to have a wife who will be my mistress. 50 days ago I was a free man to do what I wanted now I am her chastity controlled bitch and happy to be kept this way to serve her anyway she pleases.

We have noticed that an erection now no matter how hard cannot grow now to any meaningful force meaning it addresses two of Mistresses demands of me. 1) I am kept very small while caged 2) Almost no possibility of an erection feeling what so ever. These two adaptions means I have now entered into the possibility of 24/7 lock up from the previous 8am – 11.30pm which we used to ensure no damage and an overnight recovery period helping us use the cage 365 days if required.

I would prefer you to wear it from now on, it pleases me, will you be a good boy and go attach it to yourself from now on without being prompted. I will allow you out each evening unless under contract where I have the option to keep you 24/7 with it attached. I think you should now consider that I will require you to be wearing your cage from now on as I like seeing you caged. Consider it now part of your wardrobe, you would not go out without clothes would you so you won’t be going anywhere from now on without you’re new little attachment run along and put it back on please.
Looks like we really are going down the no orgasms and erections unsupervised from now on, how did this come about I thought it was our little game. Obviously game becomes reality once a Mistress see’s the benefits that my chastity brings for her. I am well and truly down the rabbit hole I guess. Has this behaviour happened to anyone else.

Mistress has a new requirement as a ritual I must perform each morning while I am caged. I am required to kneel and kiss her high heeled feet and then thank her for being so kind to me by enforcing my chastity. Of course I will comply Mistress gets what Mistress desires.

Mistress says as a reward for being denied for getting on 60 days she will dress as a Witch on Halloween and have me service her with my penis and allow me to cum. Then its back into my cage for an undetermined time.

Got to Orgasm last night after 60 days denial and caged having never since puberty have I gone so long without release the experience was very different from my normal orgasms. Firstly due to denial it took time for me to orgasm which pleased Mistress then when I did and I am always made to extract before coming as MIstress does not like male fluids inside her if she can help it. I extracted bursting to orgasm which I did however the orgasmic contractions squirted fluids out like a continious long gushing stream there was so much fluid to come out so much so the orgasm could not expel all of them and for half an hour later I had feelings there was more to come out and was dribbling. Seems like after this long chastity period there is so much stored fluids that one ejactaculation can’t eject the lot in one go so you feel like the orgasm is going on longer than it dose normally i.e a quick quirt. Mistress says I can eject myself now at will for the next two days then back in my cage until Xmas Eve.

I think I know what happened when I could not ejaculate all my pent up fluids once allowed to orgasm after 60 days. Due to the non use the muscles must have weakened not allowing a full ejaculation.. Mistress likes this concept of having a reduced ejaculation ability after release as she says that next time I am allowed to ejaculate on Xmas eve what I can’t extract on one go means the cage goes back on and its staying there until Easter. I must admit the ejaculation during our intercourse was really strange it went on and on after the initial squirt it was like a river but to my dismay I could not eject all of in in one go so next day Mistress made me masturbate to extract the remaining fluids, but not next time as I am to have a drooling ejaculation followed by the immediate refitting of my cage as soon as I am limp

Well it’s been a week now since I was allowed a drooling ejaculation and then immediately refitted with the 5cm cage. Mistress says that since I am well adjusted now to wearing a chastity device over the previous 60 days that it makes sense to have me locked for 10 days at a time using the timer safe. Therefore the timer was set to 10 days closed and locked then the padlock was clicked closed on my cage ensuring for 10 days I have no possible release from my minimised confinement cage.

Mistress liked the fact that once allowed to orgasm after over 50 days I could no longer empty myself in one go and then to have the cage refitted with fluids still built up in me is a real torment as you now want to extract again but cannot for another undefined period. This is the erotic and frustrating nature of keeping a man in a chastity device along with the fact he cannot erect anymore at will.

I have learned today that my chastity regiem is to be 24/7 for two months with no removal of my device and butt plugged each morning after using the bathroom. The chastity safe has now been locked for 10 days timeout and will be re locked each timeout until 60 days have elapsed. Mistress says that my rear plug will maybe help me self release fluids and condition me for anal only stimulation as ultimatley my penis will be effectively removed from me by being permanentley encased in steel. Mistress is also investigating full cover male chastity belts as a way to deny me total access to all my male parts thus allowing me access only to my rear. She says that since I have no need to have access to my penis and balls it is cruel to allow me partial access so it will be better if I don’t see or touch them anymore that way I can adjust to my new feminine role and will find it easier to adapt to my new lifestyle as her bitch.

Just a thought. Prior to having my cage refitted onto me my penis was measured at just under 4″ now I am a constant 2″ in my 5cm cage. Just brings it home when your testicles are now visibly much larger and longer than your penis. Also this new cage with the end cap means almost no stimulation so most of the time I can’t even feel my penis either except when I get aroused and its grows to a whopping 2″ guess there’s no need for anything larger when you can’t access it so there’s little use for having a males penis when its now used to just dribble pee

I’ve been allowed out of my cage for a few weeks now due to good behaviour but mistress says that my penis seems like its is getting back to its original non castrated lenght now I am allowed out and she much preffered it when I wore my cage which somehow seems to reduce my size most of the time and significantly shortly after removal of the cage when even my erections were about 30% smaller immediatley after being encased for 2-3 weeks so I have been asked to attach my cage again and relock myself for 10 straight days and nights using the time safe.
Mistress says that having a smaller penis most of the time and reduced erection size is the end game. She says that she would love the time when I can’t get erect on my own and have to toally rely on her and though mental conditioning she wants to control my ability to erect under all circumstances basically never being allowed to erect unless instructed to do so hence the cage to stop nocternal and involantary erections. She has also started saying that to stop my penis being used for intercourse she is contemlating having me PA and wearing a padlock through my penis as the norm that way she says the apendage can never be used on a female which makes my penis sort of a useless apendage when un caged. I must admit the thought of a permanent padlock through my penis whenever uncaged is kind of kinky but I am a little aprehensive I must say as going down this route my penis could and most likely will be attached to almost anything that takes her fancy to restirct me.

Mistress has decided that a reduction in my cage length is well overdue after observing a slight gap between my penis and the end of the cage and has further requested a compression of my cage from its previous 5cm to 4cm (1.5″) gradually reducing my caged penis length. She aims to get me down to around 3cm just over an inch. Keeping me now at 1.5″ is quite comfortable as there is absolutely no room to grow as such I have little pressure pushing on my ball sac due to an expanding penis as I am caged there is no expansion possible anymore.

Mistress has also pointed out that her original goal of making my penis insignificant compared to my testicles has now been achieved and that my balls are larger than my caged penis a nice proportion I am advised for someone who cannot use their penis anymore without permission.

I really like being locked in my new shorter cage as its benefits around nocturnal or in fact any attempt to erect are remarkable in that the erection never actually starts as the amount my penis is allowed to expand is so limited. As such the forward pressure caused by an attempt to erect on my balls is minimal as is the size of my penis now. Mistress takes pleasure in showing me my erected penis picture I displayed in a previous post to show me what I now cannot achieve anymore and to reinforce my chaste status.
Being unable to masturbate anymore or erect uncontrolled is my ultimate act of submission and her dominance over me.
I have seen mistress investigating a full steel belt for me so I can also no longer even see my genitals or touch my balls anymore once she attaches this onto me any sexual pleasure from my genitals will have been totally removed from me.

Yes I agree I am a well trained sub now and fully compliant with mistresses demands of me. I attribute my submissive attitude to being kept chaste and now only having a 1” penis so to speak 99% of the time so I can’t really see any point in it being any other way especially when mistress has the keys to my chastity cage I now have to wear every day. Having no freedom to erect like a man or masturbate anymore is quite humbling and has a profound effect on ones submissive state. I feel even more submissive when mistress fastens me via a long chain to my scrotum ring to some immoveable object confining me like a dog on a leash to a fixed area and naked most of the time.

I feel as though I/we have hit a milestone regards my chastity now, as I cannot feel I am wearing my device most of the time due to my penis being kept so small with the added benefit that it now rarely attempts to erect in its new confined home as its quite pointless. I feel that I am completely conditioned to wearing my chastity device for as long as mistress wants me too while conceding that I am now effectively a neutered male effectively her pet. Pet is a good description for my condition now as I am regularly tethered, pee how and where I am instructed too, wear no clothing while at home usually chained, wear what I am instructed to wear, and if mistress gets tired of me speaking I am penis gagged too.
I suppose I am finally broken in both physically and mentally to accept my position and have come to terms mentally that I am now the submissive. Its really amazing how through chastity and bondage you can be physically and mentally adjusted. I am happy with my new status and thank mistress for enforcing this position on me.

Once attached the penis grows/swells into the 4cm cage and is now restricted to grow significantly resulting in almost no pressure being applied to the based ring. This is one reason the sub should be kept in as small a cage as possible and this technique allows you at attach a very small cage onto yourself or sub which will ultimately please many Mistresses who aim to have their sub kept very small. A further benefit to mistress is that due to the extreme reduction the sub usually never tries to grow so gets less pleasure of even attempting to erect.

Men full orgasm is absolutely harmful. Its role is only for procreation. Ruined orgasm is much better for a man. Is good on the end of denial. Long denial and 3 to 6 ruined orgasm per year is absolutely enough. Less is better. A year ago, I abolish his full orgasm. After that, he had incredible improvement in his behavior. Long term denial still improve his behavior. His denial period is three months. I am very happy with his behavior, which does not mean it can not still be improved.

Although my Mistress Wife has not abolished full orgasms for me, they are very few and far between. Like 7 over the last two years. It’s funny, I’ll sometimes that guys have gone1 week or 2 weeks without orgasm, and they are going “crazy”. If they only knew what they are missing. I suspect that only submissive men in true loving FLR/FLM can understand the benefit of loooong term denial.

We honestly can’t recall if he has gone longer than 117 days in the past, it is actually beyond 117 now, but we continue to push the envelope by increasing the times between orgasms for him. I am amazed and impressed with how well he has adjusted.

To help to change his mindset on that I have already instructed him that when he is having his next orgasm, which will be in nine months, he will be looking directly into my eyes and apologizing for the orgasm while it is happening so as to connect his personal responsibility to the occasion. Hopefully, this will end his feeling like I am somehow to blame for it.

He should be giving you massages way better then the one you paid for and foot massages every day your the goddess, so just snap your finger and kick of your shoes and your husband will jump to obey you. I have my submissive husband waiting on me hand and foot all of the time.

My Wife slowly took away any reason I had for her to unlock me and she finally settled on a set reply, “Dear There simply is no reason for a married man to have a free penis! I used to unlock you to go to the doctor. After I found out she does not check you down there anymore that’s not a reason, so the only reason I can think of for you to have free penis and be unlocked is if you are going to have sex, well are you?”

I always meekly said, “no dear” and soon I stopped asking knowing that her answer would always be the same!
She has kept me locked pretty much all the time the past 9 years and this from very vanilla woman that I thought would never embrace male chastity, boy did she prove me wrong. She has become very demanding about me always being locked!

It certainly sounds to me that your wife has embraced her role of helping you not only become the man you are supposed to be but also she is helping prevent you from falling into danger. Every act of adultery, every affair starts first in the mind. If a man is masturbating behind his wife’s back while thinking of another woman he is not only breaking his vows he is setting himself up to have an affair. Thus the need for the device to be kept on 24/7 until these nasty habits are broken which typically takes years. Besides, why should he be off pleasuring himself when there is dishes that need done and floors needing swept?

I am in control of the lock and locking and find it a moving moment when he presents himself to me with his cage on waiting to be locked. This is a touchstone moment for us because it says so much. When he has the cage installed he comes to me to be locked. I am usually fully clothed while he is wearing only the cage. That moment is charged with excitement as we both know that when it gets locked it will be quite a spell before he is let out again. Sometimes I have him go into our bedroom and wait for a few minutes while I take my time getting there. What must go through his mind as he stands there waiting for me to arrive to seal the deal. I like to think this is also a teaching moment as he has often been impatient with me when I am running behind at other times and needs to practice patience. When I arrive I usually find a very respectful husband as I sit before him. I intentionally exam him to make sure it is properly installed making sure to capitalize on his vulnerability at that moment. I then retrieve the lock from my purse if I have remembered to bring my purse with me. Sometimes I have “forgotten” my purse just to have the enjoyment of having him go get it for me. My husband refuses to hold my purse when in public if even for a moment so there is a bit of irony that he goes to get it knowing it holds the key that wil lock him up. When I have the lock and key I usually test it to make certain it is working before slowly installing it while making eye contact when clicking it shut. That few moments after I have locked his cage and now heft his package in my hand while looking at his face is a very intimate moment for us. But after reading what you said, I may just like to try slipping on the penis part of the cage, could be fun as it waves goodbye to freedom. Frankly, because of our beliefs we have moved away from regular intercourse.

Because we are too old for children, there is no real need for regular intercourse. We feel that my orgasms were given to us for our pleasure so that is what we pursue. Occasionally Ken will have his orgasm via intercourse but that is limited to 2 or 3 times a year. The rest of his orgasms are allowed to happen by him rubbing himself on the bed sheets while orally pleasuring me. I like the connection that creates to his orgasm and further supports the thinking that without my pleasure he can have no pleasure. That also is preffered because it is easy to clean up and reduces the chance of my getting an infection. I do not allow him to masturbate . . . ever.

Getting used to a chastity belt overnight is difficult, but all the men adapt sooner or later. At the beginning, my husband complained that not sleeping well and I’m tied his hands handcuffed to the bed and removed the chastity belt. I woke up in the middle of the night, he lay on his stomach and rubbed his erect penis against the bed. He got a cold shower. His penis I locked in a chastity belt.

This issue has been resolved for all time. 24/7 is the best. After 10 days he wanted to give up. I told him that I am very proud of him, that is becoming a better lover and husband, and to I love him very much. It helped. At the beginning week of denial was a problem. After that he had a crisis when denial period was three weeks, next crisis was when his period of denial was 6 weeks. His cycle is about 130 days now.

My recommendation is to wife abolish his full orgasm and to his denial period is greater than two months.

After about three years of ramping up, lengthening my time locked she got me to where she keeps me locked all the time now. I’ve been locked in chastity at least 358 days a year the past nine years! She has eliminated every excuse I used to use for her to unlock me even going to the doctor, I see her doctor.

She is very demanding about making me re-lock after a month or more. She always makes me promise her that I will re-lock right after I shower or she won’t unlock me for a release!

She says, “Males don’t need to ejaculate! Their body will either reabsorb it or they will have a nocturnal emission!”

Twice she has made me go almost two months to cause me to have a wet dream and when I told her what happened she says, “Well there’s your release for this month! Hope you enjoyed it!”
I love it and I thrive on my Wife being stern with me. I see it as very sexy and it turns me on. The meaner crueler she is the more I love her for treating so abruptly.

I did finally admit to my wife that my inattentiveness and poor behavior on Labor Day was a result of having such a deep and powerful orgasm the day before. Her delightful smile and quick response startled me, “Okay, no more orgasms for you, then!” I feigned a shocked look, but thanked Donna and told her I would much rather please her than worry about when my next orgasm would be.

We had a fun conversation a couple of days later when I playfully tried to back out of the arrangement. “Remember when we talked about me not coming anymore? Can we reconsider that?” Donna smiled and said, “If you are going to be selfish and moody afterward, you will never come again. End of discussion.”

Donna has been happy and playful all week. Perhaps she knows that her loving, supportive husband is back and realizes that we are both most satisfied when her pleasure comes first! I’m not sure if I will be permitted release ever again, but I am feeling truly blessed to have a wonderful woman to love, cherish, protect, romance and serve.

When I accepted that I can have orgasms as much as I want and I’m not obliged to give my husband an orgasm, we both started to enjoy more. He has a strong mental satisfaction while satisfies me that is stronger than his orgasm.
Female-centric relationship is better for both. He has a much more energy, he spends a lot more quality time with me, gives me more attention. I love his passion. I love it when he does most of the housework.

An ideal goal would be to have your husband agree to wear his cage for a whole year, with no prospect of any orgasms, ruined or otherwise. This would demonstrate his undying love for you.

The next task would be to work out the logistics by considering the individual problems. To eliminate the need for shaving he could have a course of laser treatment at a beauty salon, to permanently remove the hair. The cage could be kept clean by having your husband sit in a bath, with disinfectant added, once a week and this would also improve his own hygiene, etc.

Everything that interferes husband to his wife stretched maximally satisfaction should be abolished. Husband’s full orgasm is best to abolish and and leave only ruined orgasm. His ruined orgasm needs to happen after long denial. Three to four times a year is more than enough.
All this helps husband to he have maximum enjoyment while satisfying his wife.The husband in this way more and longer enjoys. He sometimes experience strong mental orgasm while satisfy his wife. I love my husband and we both enjoy FLR.

We have been the chastity lifestyle for about the past 8 years with me locked all the time. It started after I asked my Wife to marry me when she made me promise to wear a male chastity device permanently.

Like your Ken I too get excited when my Wife gives me chores to do especially if it means my next release depends on them.

I like when my Wife is so demanding about requiring me to be locked all the time. She always makes me promise her that I will relock that day or after a shower before she will consider getting her key and unlocking me. I have gotten used to only once a month or longer releases and 4-7 weeks is common.

She desires a loving obedient husband and a well behaved one. Being denied orgasms sure helps me with the well behaved part and in truth is something we both love. I have been denied for going on 4 years and have not had an orgasm.

My Wife/Mistress/KH Ms Karen also has me on a 1 year schedule now. It did not start like that, but She had over time worked me up to it.

I am allowed 1 pleasurable orgasm on Christmas day only. She has often joked that its just like Christmas. Everybody looks forward to it, and like Christmas, I cum but once a year.

During the time in between, I am either locked up, or released for cleaning, teasing, training, milking, etc. Never a pleasurable powerful orgasm, I only dribble and She insists I swallow most everything that dribbles out of me. This makes me very frustrated and submissive.

As full spectrum said, it really drives home the understanding that I am her sub and She controls me.

This year i have so far been allowed 2 full pleasurable orgasms, 1 in January & the 2nd at Easter this year. For the first I was tied to the bed with my legs tied above me, then masturbated into my own ring gagged mouth. For the second i was allowed to kneel at my wife’s feet & masturbate myself into a pair of her worn panties.

She has told me that i will receive no more than 2 further such treats during the rest of this year & less if my performance begins to suffer.
For health purposes i am “emptied” every few weeks usually by milking or ruined orgasm. However, all too rarely, i am allowed a semi pleasurable release as a reward for particularly good behavior.

Last Friday was such a chance &, after giving my wife 3 orgasms in an hour to seal the deal, i was ordered to kneel & cuff my hands behind my back. She then removed my cage & gave me 2 minutes to rub myself off against her stockinged leg – heaven & such relief!

She has not been in the mood. So all i can do is rub her back and ass at night and drip. She also told me intercourse is now down to once every 2 months..MAYBE and i have to put on 2 rubbers, so i don’t get to feel her pussy that well. Pretty much any relief i get will be with her hand , as she would rather see it, and watch me clean up the mess after.

She was close to 2 months not letting me put it in, as it was, but even with 2 rubbers on, it will be great to be able to enter her again.

I cant say i know the feeling anymore. I haven’t entered my wife in 160 days. I miss it so much. But as my wife says pussy is in the past for me for now. Anyway 2 rubbers? i would be happy with 20 rubbers on at this point. Whatever makes her happy right?

I have to use the old style heavy rubbers. I guess her thinking is I will not get to feel her that well, just the tightness.
I’m sure it will not slow me down much…LOL But that’s fast becoming a thing of the past anyway. My tongue and her toys is what she likes best.

Fortunately she gets off on seeing me shoot, pretty much on her command, or in less then 30 seconds…LOL
But now, its pretty much i don’t get to take the whole CB off anymore. Once she unlocks me, it takes a little bit just to get the cage part off, as I’m jammed into it, and growing the whole time I’m trying to take it off. But that’s about as far as i get now, the rings and what not are still in place. Then i have to shoot for her, which she makes sure I’m covered with it. Then i get to clean up, and get back in the cage.

My Lady busted my male ego all the way to the bottom. Having intercourse with me is Her biggest waste of Her valuable time. As soon as i was close to having any sex with My Lady i would orgasm before entering. How ashamed and inferior i felt but feeling sorry for myself is not allowed.  Now i just make sure i am very useful around the house and serve as a good house keeper. Then i learned being a whining begging pet is a pain so putting My Lady first is best and more useful.

I read on some site that a woman who chastises her man should go at least a year the first time around so he understands clearly that it is not about his desires or wants. It is about the wife having complete control. By the end of a year the man will understand the wife’s complete control. And it ensures that he knows that whatever desires he had about being caged and controlled by her are completely irrelevant.

I am always locked, when she wants sex. She gets serviced anyway she wants, tonge,vibes, whatever. She constantly torments me the whole time pulling, digging her nails into the top of the cage opening. So when she has cum enough, my balls are pretty blue, and as hard as i can get in the cage.

“Most” of the time she allows me releif, but only with her hand, and she has trained me to shot within 30 seconds.

This weekend she allowed me to enter her. To be honest, i’m not sure the last time she did, but i guess it was close to 2 months ago. It was wonderful to be inside her, but I knew i could never last…..it might have been a total of 45 sec. If that. You would think that she would be upset, but she’s not…in fact it turns her on. She says, I have no control over my orgasm anymore, and she can make me shot anytime she wants, in less then a min. Which is pretty much true at this point. In 1 case i had some type of orgasm,(release of fluid anyway) while still locked and using a strapon on her..she thought that was cute, that i even had no control with the cage still on.

My wife hasn’t let me inside her for 2 years :/

It’s odd because it was one of my earliest fantasies about chastity – complete pussy denial. But it was so frightening to even contemplate that I never shared that fantasy with her. I didn’t know if I could take it.

Apparently I don’t have a choice!

At the end of the session I would be allowed to masturbate looking at her naked body. Once I was hard I would be offered a choice. Finish myself off or penetrate her but with no thrusting until I was limp. Then I would be penis whipped and sent off – no orgasm. I no longer fancy penetration!!

As a year end treat for me, Mistress informed me that She kept a tally of our orgasms for 2012. What a cool surprise! Mistress 167 ~ Me 11. She thinks that almost 1 per month is way too generous, so next year’s total shouldl be fewer.

your Mistress is right. one per month is far too many. i can count on one hand how many i’ve had this year and i wouldn’t need more than 2 fingers and a thumb!

Maybe she will, as she let me cum Christmas eve and I blew my lid that afternoon, and she put together that when I orgasm I have a problem with my temper, so I have been locked since. Prior to that it was 120 days. I didn’t even get release for my birthday this year.

One year plus a day with out a orgasm. Looking deeper into being more helpful and not disappointing My Lady with my needs. Happy New Year everyone!!

My wife/mistress has me on all fours during milking and stay locked. not allowed to touch balls or penis.

So lately, starting 4 months ago, things have changed. She stated that she like me locked up and makes sure that when I clean myself that I am locked back up. She has even considered piercings to keep me better locked up.

But, the last 2 month stay, I only gave her sex once and there was nothing else, and when I say nothing else I mean no teasing, no kissing, no cuddling. Pretty much nothing. When I was released for relief, and before I locked myself back up I stated that I kinda felt abandoned since there was hardly any touching in any way. She listened and I was locked back up.
So today, 2 weeks later I am again in the same boat, except this time nothing at all. She did not even want me to please her.

My question is what to do? I still want to play and she still wants to play, but the total lack of contact (kissing, holding hands, snuggling, and even giving her pleasure) has me at crossroads. I am not even looking for relief, but I don’t know what I am looking for.
I know that as a chastity-sub, its all about her, but the feeling of abandonment is taking this whole chastity thing in another direction for me.

Eventually, you might take more liberty as you rub her feet. You might start to kiss and lick her feet. I wouldn’t do this the first time, but if she responds positively to the massages, then keep adding to them. You might work your kissing and licking from her feet, up her legs, and then to her crotch. That’s right, get in the habit of orally servicing your wife. Kiss her body all over and make love to her with your mouth and tongue. Do not ever penetrate her with your penis, unless she requests it. Do not focus on your needs, but instead focus on her needs. Please her sexually as your Queen. Remember that she is superior to you. Don’t you dare ever take any liberties, without her permission.

Another way to seduce your wife’s dominant nature is to be very obedient when she asks you to do chores for her. First, begin by doing all of the chores that you already know that she would like you to do. Don’t wait on her to ask before you take out the garbage, cut the lawn, wash the cars, or whatever else you are suppose to do. She will be amazed if you start to serve her by doing your chores willfully. The next step is to then ask her if you can help her with her chores. Ask her if you can do the dishes and help her clean the house. Tell her that you exist to serve her and that you will do  whatever she asks of you.

i am locked since 8 years , during the first years i was alowed to help myself here and than ,so 2-3 times a year ,but last few years nothing has happend and when i had my last one i can not remember !

i am looked up 24/7 by my mistress and only get to cum when she allows it. i do not know when or if i will get to cum ?????? its all up to her now, and she make me sign a life time contract as well.

My KH wife has sort of chastised me for ever in a different way.
Whenever she needs a play or I have to shave, she chains & locks both my hands behind my back.
Then she opens the lock, plays, or shaves, and then locks again.
Only then she releases my hands.
I have not really even touched my dick (out of cage) in the last many months.

i am locked up too, 24/7 by my mistress and i only get to cum if she wants it. she also made me sign her contract, which by the way is for life. maybe your mistress should make you do the same. a life time contract where she says when you get too cum.

I am on month four of 24/7 chastity in what has been slated a six month term due to my misbehavior. Although I have been granted two ruined orgasms during this sentence, the daily grind of constant denial through these hot months of my scantily clad Keyholder while providing her with countless pleasure has driven my psyche to immeasurable heights

Well true to her word, the cage stayed in place.
My whole weekend was spent doing chores around the house and slaving in the garden. She did insist apon frequent inspections with a good cropping for badly preformed chores.
She has relenquished on the September date by 1 day, which I dont feel could come quick enough. My poor cocklet now constantly cry’s chasterty tears and strains to escape making my ball sac a tadge on the tender side, much to Mistress’s amusementWell true to her word, the cage stayed in place.
My whole weekend was spent doing chores around the house and slaving in the garden. She did insist apon frequent inspections with a good cropping for badly preformed chores.
She has relenquished on the September date by 1 day, which I dont feel could come quick enough. My poor cocklet now constantly cry’s chasterty tears and strains to escape making my ball sac a tadge on the tender side, much to Mistress’s amusement

I see no reason for your being allowed any release at this time. Many men go 6 months, or more, being allowed to cleanse themselves, with strict supervision, then immediately being relocked into their device.

If they are very good boys, their Mistress performs prostate milking, with the chastity device in place. I suggest you beg for a prostate milking.

But my wife hasn’t allowed me to have any pussy for 3 years now, and it appears quite likely that she’s going to deny me permanently. This was never part of my intentions, to say the least. It was my darkest fantasy, no doubt – part of me craved for her to deny me in such a serious and permanent way. But I never shared that with her. I was too afraid she might do it, and I have a very healthy sex drive. It was a frightening fantasy.

Well, like it or not, she’s now made my darkest fantasy a reality, and it appears probable that she’s truly never ever going to allow me to have pussy again. The idea that my wife would put me in permanent pussy denial has forced me to really dig deep into myself, because this is not just a game. There’s nothing pretend about it. It is a very serious, sobering, life-changing perspective to realize, and more importantly to accept, that pussy is never going to happen again for you. You will live the rest of your life without it, because that’s what your wife has decided you need.

I guess I’m looking for a show of hands of anyone who’s either been told outright, no more pussy for you (period), or has been specifically denied it for a minimum of a year, and how it changed your perspective on your relationship as you came to terms with this.

Personally I am now of the opinion that this is how things should be. A marriage is at its best when the husband is only allowed pussy for the purpose of having babies, and is otherwise kept locked and denied, while the wife’s sexual needs are met.

Our marriage has never been better or stronger than it is right now, now that I’ve accepted that pussy denial is a permanent fact of my life. Now that I have begun to accept that her pussy is off limits to me, our relationship has blossomed in ways I never would have expected. But if she had never cut me off completely, I would never have found this place I’m in now. Sure, I’d love to have sex, but I love even more that she’s denying it to me from now on. I don’t have the strength to do it myself, but I realize it’s exactly what I need to be the best husband possible.

July 4tt will be 3 years in chastity for me…. my wife locked me up on independance day to claim “HER INDEPENANCE” I cheated on her and she felt this was the best way to teach me a lesson… I have not had sex as a man since. .. I am allowd to jerkoff once a month if I am good.. but that has not happened in almost 4 months…I also was told that I will never have sex as a man again

We are in remarkably similar situations! It has been over 7 years since my wife and I enjoyed full intercourse because of the pain to her. I do still enjoy being able to provide her with oral service so I am not fully cut off from her pussy! We have currently been experimenting with edging and tease and denial and are getting pretty serious about long term chastity.

always hoping for sex but am rarely released, milking while locked is what I get most of the time. mistress/wife keeps full control of me

My wife/Mistress, no longer has much of an interest in intercourse with me. Only my tongue, and her toys. She keeps me locked in the CB 6000S as she wants to keep me as small as possible all the time.Which is not the easiest device to wear. I will get bruises and stuff in it, so it does have to come off sometimes for a while to heal up. She is looking into the small Dick cage as it’s “supposedly” easier to wear all the time. So i can switch on and off from the CB6000S. She has no interest in prostate milking, so she does let me out every 2 weeks or so…after she’s fully satisfied. My balls are pretty much blue at that point. She allows the cage part to come off, then grabs me and gives me a harsh handjob, which now lasts for less then 30 seconds. At that point i shot all over the place which amuses her. Then i have to clean up the mess and put the cage part back in place and locked up again.

Since she has trained me to shot in her hand within 30 seconds or less….I can no longer last at all if i’m allowed to enter her. I may last a few strokes ,but sometimes i can’t even get it all the way in before i shot. She decided thats a complete waste of her time, maybe she will allow it once a year at this point. She just enjoys keeping me as small as possible all the time. The 6000S can be very painful when she’s teasing me, the small Dickcage maybe some what more tolerable altho i’m not sure the cage is smaller. If she could, she would have me locked into something even smaller, but i don’t think thats doable and would end up in extreme pain.

My wife/Mistress has had very large cock before…which she likes to remind me about as he was over 10″ very thick with a big head. I am no were close to that, and since i can only last a few strokes at this point, my cock is worthless to her. She has no interest in haveing other men, only my tounge, which can be a good hour between her clit and asshole, then her viberators. She enjoys keeping me as small as possiable all the time. Fortunatly she also gets off on forceing me to shot in front of her.

Mistress/wife keeps me locked in neosteel 24/7, I keep her pleaured orally and with the neosteel dildo witch is somewhat bigger than me. She says its as close as il get to being hard from now on. restained when released so no touching it and am milked about once a month. she also lets her friends see the belt and teases me constantly

Although my keyholder hasn’t specifically told me she no longer requires my cock, she is thriving having multiple orgasms from my tongue or her toys. When released from chastity, I can not last more than 30 seconds so she can have multiple, lasting orgasms with me remaining locked – and she lets me know it!. Her vibrating dildo is significantly bigger than my member and it satisfies her better. I’ve been locked almost a month and whenever I beg and plead to release she simply laughs, reminds me of the above facts, and demands me to please her. I guess this is why we chose this lifestyle

Wife/mistress says I wil be in lockup 24/7 from now on. She also says she dosnt need me for sex therefor no need for release. my question is does anyone else have have this problem and what did you do about it. I keep her well pleasured as it is now I think.

I’ve done this to my subby for years now.

And nothing he could, or can, do about it. He doesn’t get sex, period. That’s the whole point!

Milking is as close as I get to orgasm. which isnt much. apon asking for sex mistress/wife attached dildo to belt and had me fuck her to climax for her. Then said I am to keep dildo on for the day even tho she has friends comming over today. she says its as hard as I going to get from now on.