After almost two years of being locked 24/7 with 2-3 orgasms a year, my wife and I just started phase two. Erection and orgasm denial. I used to be unlocked for a sex a few nights a week but not know. My wife had me send my Jailbird in to have the security screw installed so that there is no more padlock with sharp corners so she can play with me while locked. Today was the first day we had sex after receiving my Jailbird back. Without the ability of playing with my penis to to make me moan, her orgasm trigger, she went to work on my testicles until I was moaning in pain. She had her first orgasm then. When she calmed down she went to work on them with her cane and that was a first for me. Much more painful than on the butt. I was screaming in pain and that was the start of orgasm number two for her. After she came down from her second orgasm, she left the bed for me to fix up. This is going to be my life from now on.

Just two years ago she did not want to try chastity and now she is complaining when my device was in the shop to be adjusted. She got used to controlling me by keeping me horny all the time and punishing any misbehavior. I do not think there is any going back for her. She was mad at me the whole week I was unlocked.

Day by day my KH wife is getting more n more dominant
She has not only sealed my cage with adhesive
But now a days she keeps both my hands handcuffed to my cage throughout the night
If I do not obey her orders, I get severe punishment

being teased before sex is nothing new in our relationship. last night was pretty usual in the way it started with long foreplay. it had been a week since we had sex i was a little anxious but she was determined to prolong penetration for a while. just as i was to enter her she announced” i think you need to be in chastity, now hurry i am timing you.” with that i reached into the nightstand and got it. per our agreement she decides when i go in and i must without delay or question put it on. as i lay there she became a woman on a mission telling me to hurry that she was horny and wanted to be eaten all the while kissing licking and rubbing her crotch on my groin. going down in order to fit in my chastity was impossible. i complained and she said it wasn’t her problem but for every minute it took. i would spend at least that many days locked up. oh how i wished she had just done it rather than tell me. i thought i would never go down. all the while still tweaking my nipples and nuzzling my neck. purposely making it difficult and getting off on my problem. it took me 27 minutes to get it in. then i had to service twice. as she fell into a deep sleep i lay awake reliving the nights event and thinking how deviously sexy she is.

She is at the point of no, not interested. I have to dress in stockings heels her bra. I have to clean the house.
Then have to spend a good hour rubbing her, all over then have to suck on her toe’s and rub them, then, move to her pussy or her ass..which she seems to like more. Then maybe use her vibrator on her. Depends on her mood…she may tie me up and abuse me while she uses the vib….or she has me use the vibe. But thank god she likes to see me shot, so at some point, i’m let out of the cage and she jerks me off. I shot all over the place, but I have clean every thing up. This may take hours on end for her to get to that point, but at least I get to have release….this may happen once a week..just depends on her mood.

I am the live in sissy to my Mistress and I am not allowed intercourse at all. My chastity is not full time but my abstinence from sex and masturbation is. My personal duties include but are not limited to Massage, foot service, oral service, shoe and boot care, personal care such as trimming pubic hair, leg shaving, powdering her body and the cleaning and maintaining of personal toys.

I knew before we got married that I would never have intercourse with her. I am in permanent chastity, and am submissive.

My Keyholder will not let me enter her anymore. She feels I need to increase my stamina and last longer in order to please her. I do have the bad habit of premature ejaculation. I have been locked in inescapable chastity since Dec 20, 2013 and my release date is August 29, 2014.Upon release I will work my stamina up through hand jobs. I please her whenever she requires with my tongue and various toys only.

I have not had intercourse in 8 years with my wife. Just twice with her girlfriend about 5 years ago. It started when her g/f told her to no longer do that and my wife grew to like it and we never did it again despite leaving her g/f behind 4 years ago when we moved. I am submissive to her in our wife led marriage and also in chastity for an undetermined amount of time. I really miss intercourse now (not so much orgasms) and my wife has been hinting that maybe by the summer she will let me since it has been a very long time and she is no longer interested in getting a new g/f to do it to me, for her. What I do not know is if she will just let me penetrate her or let me have an orgasm inside of her too. To tell the truth, she finds the whole male ejaculation things icky, her words.

this sissy has not had intercourse with its Mistress/Wife for more than 12 years. Mistress wanted to marry a sissymaid, and sissy’s chastity is and continues to be a very important part of this marriage (not to mention the housework and almost continuous service). Mistress doesn’t miss intercourse with Her maid in the least, but dearly misses getting to know and make friends with other Wives who have similar types of marriage relationships!

My problem would be, my wife has been using Chastity devices on me for at least 4 years. I of course am never allowed to jerk off. Only when she allows it. I have to take care of her in any way she wants. Once she is done and satisfied, the cage portion is taken off and i’m allowed maybe 30 seconds to shoot by her hand. Now it only takes maybe 15 seconds, or a few strokes of her hand. So she has basically trained me to shoot for her in no time at all.
The few times she allowed the whole cage to come off, and I was told to enter her, I could barely even get it in before I lost control.
Now things have progressed to any cleaning that needs to be done, I have to be dressed in her stockings, bra, panties, collar, maybe a hood. Depends on how much of a bitch she feels like being. She may come out with one of her whips and use it on me if she does not think i’m working hard enough, or fast enough or just because she feels like it. Once i’m done cleaning what she wants, she tells me to go sit in a chair, while she takes a shower. Once she is done with whatever she is doing, i’m called into the bedroom were she is naked and i’m to start rubbing her back and body for how ever long she feels like. I’m not allowed to touch her breasts, or suck on her nipples unless she tells me too. Pretty much I can’t touch any part of her body unless told too. Which could be 45 min’s of rubbing her feet and sucking on her toes. Once she is done with me. I may get to take the cage part off, or she may tie me up and abuse me.

lucky for you that she unlocks you to jerk you off like that
my wife an i dont have sex at all but then i have to do same things as you do also messarge her an use vib on her pussy to make her orgasm an then lick up her juices she will play with cage manybe maybe put vib in my ass an fuck me but that is it stay lock no sex that is how this marriage goes

not to mention i do all house work

I have not had intercourse with my wife in about 30 years at the request of her girlfriend and my wife leans more towards females than males. I did not miss it when we were a poly triad with her gf but now that we are just a couple again, I am missing intercourse. I was told that it may be a possibility depending on how well I do in chastity with only 3-4 orgasms a year. Obviously she has not need for my penis but loves me and feels that she should give me something. She has hinted that she may let me have intercourse with her if I agree to one orgasm a year. I can take a wait of 4 months but it is very hard.

I am in permanent chastity for 8 years. My Wife frees me when she feels like it. She practices milking the prostate to empty me without orgasm as she wants.
My cock can not satisfy her, she ties me a dildo and she straddles me wildly. My Wife made me wear a plug in permance to sodomize me regularly.

Pretty much she will not have any sex with me unless i’m dressed, also now I have to have a hood on. I also have to buy a latex hood, that she would like better. I also have to wear her panties and bra around the house all the time.
I’m not sure 100% why. But that’s seems to be what turns her on. The fact she wants the hood on all the time now..not sure again. At least for any sex she wants it on. But again, if she likes it and jerks me off…. I’m happy.

I have not been allowed intercourse for far more the 6 months now, if not longer. She does give me relief every 2 weeks or so with a 30 second hand job. Pretty much i’m supposed to rub her back and body.Pretty much when ever she wants it. I’m not really supposed to rub her breasts, and never touch her pussy unless i’m told. 2 nights ago I was rubbing her, guess I was talking too much and coming close to try and lick her nipples, so she said put on your gag, which she made very tight, then I just had to keep rubbing her for the next hour. When she was done, then I could take off the gag and go to sleep. Hope that is not an all the time thing now.

She did milk me yesterday. Or more to the point she lets me take the cage part off, and I get a 30 second hand job.
She has been playing with Chastity for over 3 years now. But the length of time I am locked up, has now become 24/7
The amount of time for me to have any relief is now about 2 weeks. She has a dryness problem in her pussy, so to have intercourse, she has to put in a lot of lube so I don’t hurt her. But since she has been training me to shoot for her in 30 seconds or less, trying to put it into her is almost pointless. Hopefully I can get all the way in, and manage a few strokes, that’s about it.

The first 6 months were just about not masturbating. Then she wanted me locked at night too. It took me a few months to get used to it but all four of my devices were uncomfortable. My wife told me to get a custom device because preventing orgasms was getting boring and now she wanted to prevent erections. The custom device touches my penis at the tip and all sides so I can start to get erect but that is it.

Now being allowed to have an erection is given in place of when I used to get orgasm. I still get orgasms every few months but most times I am released to get hard either by her hand or mine and then locked up again.

She told me she was locking me up for a week after we have sex, right before I am about to cum she says “if you orgasm without permission it will be 2 weeks” I lost it right there. When we got done she said well you earned yourself another week. 2 weeks is obviously twice as long as I had ever gone so I was a little scared but super turned on. About a week later when we went to bed I was cage humping her from behind a little and she told me to be careful or I would get another day, we went to sleep and I had very hot tease and denial dream. In the morning the first thing she said was “hope you enjoyed it cause you just earned another day” I asked her why and she told me that I humped her all night long, I then told her about my dream and she giggled and said she liked it. I did a couple good things and she told me she may take that added day back off and that I could earn 2 more days off if I gave her a massage. That night before we went to bed she started rubbing her body, it was killing me she was wearing my favorite bra. I had an even hotter dream where she teased me until she made me beg her to add a week just for the chance to eat her, I told her about it first thing in the morning, she told me that she was really horny and was maybe going to let me out for some fun but she liked my dream even better. She then started rubbing her body and I asked her if I could eat her, she said no, so I asked if I could kiss her pussy, she said no, I then asked if I could kiss around her pussy area, she said OK but to be very careful, if I even touch her pussy it will be two more days. As I kissed her upper thighs I said screw it and went in and started kissing, she just laughed, she then said keep it up and you will keep getting denied , I stopped. I was so horny, I just wanted to eat her, so I told her that I would trade the 1 day I had earned back plus I would give her the massage without getting 2 days back if she would make my 1st dream come true, she smiled and said OK. I believe she plans to make me beg for another week the night before my release.

I have been completely faithful to my wife, And inside my head, I always look to her as my superior. My wife, on the other hand, does not have to work. She is a Princess and loves her role in our marriage. She controls the money, takes naps, goes out to lunch with friends, and in general does whatever she wants to do.

Every evening when I get home, I take off my suit and put in my nose ring. I am generally naked and ready to serve until the next morning. My wife’s mood will define our evening activities.

Let’s first do a quick check of the relationship I have with pet:
* All money is mine – CHECK.
* Hubby does shopping/cooking/cleaning/other household duties – CHECK.
* Sex is when I want, how I want – CHECK.
* Hubby does everything he is asked to do! – CHECK.

I knew I was emasculated and humiliated when I heard my wife and Mistress talking with a female friend of hers. Her friend was having trouble conceiving a baby and they were discussing it. At one point, her friend asked my wife about something related to intercourse and my wonderful wife replied “oh no, we don’t do that anymore. And besides, his penis is locked up. It’s for the best.”

My experience is that rules define the Mistress / slave relationship with nightly canings for violations (six every night + 1 additional for each infraction). Rules should span the gamut of the relationship, from kissing her feet in the morning and when you or she re-enters the house, to preparing her coffee in the morning, shaving before greeting her, giving her a massage nightly, washing clothes, refraining from requesting chastity release, refraining from requesting orgasm, refraining from inquiring regarding release, referring to your wife or girlfriend only as “Mistress,” etc. Interestingly the categories are probably: Chastity, Poverty, Obedience, and Daily Tasks. You and she would agree upon the rules and she would agree to the nighly canings.

When it became obvious that my Lori’s tube was comfortable enough to wear indefinitely, and that it was very secure, my key holder wife suggested we try a three month period of chastity to begin. There was to be no tease and denial what-so-ever, she has a zero tolerance for any type of penis stimulation, and a few failed milking attempts led her to eliminate those as well. At the three month mark there was no discussion at all – I was to go another three months. At six months without orgasm She decided that I would be allowed only one orgasm per year, on our anniversary. I thought this was too long and more than I had ever bargained for, but she was adamant that our relationship was so improved that I needed to accept it. I had become obedient and attentive like never before and she had come to love having me penetrate her with a strap-on dildo.

Permanent chastity is not only possible, it is preferable in some cases. She also admitted how much more she prefers the large vibrating strap-on dildo to my penis, and how turned on she gets at the idea of never letting me out of chastity and never letting me orgasm again. So she decided that I’m not to be let out for purposes of ejaculation ever again. I agreed and no longer struggle with the decision. For us it is best.

I’m in the same exact situation…given two choices…and chose to stay, only under my wife’s terms. We have a FLR and she has been my dominant for over six years. After the initial shock, I’ve adjusted to Mistress now making the decision, not just sexual, but in many other facets as well.

I’m chastised, tattooed with her name and soon getting a chastity tattoo (though I won’t be shown the design or placement until we get it done), plugged often, spanked cropped and slapped, monitored via security cams in my home and office, and generally the house slave cooking most meals, serving her and cleaning up, I perform regular foot worship and pedicures, pussy slave, etc…. The grip keeps getting tighter

Thanks for sharing MistressL, I have the same sort of relationship with my Wife Superior. I’m locked permanently with no tease and denial, no orgasmic releases, no removal of the device (Lori #2). We went through a year of exploration much as you did, and have come to what we believe is best for Her. She decided I should commit to 12 years of this type of chastity during which I will be re-made into an “extremely obedient woman” in her own words.

My Mistress Wife has taken control of the household finanaces after 15 years of marriage. I no longer have a platinum card, gas card, ATM, checking account etc available to me. When I am paid I sign my check over to her and she deposits it in to her account.

I thought giving up control of my orgasms was humbling but it has nothing on having to kiss her boot for lunch money or gas to get to work. I do not think I noticed untill just now, but over the last few years all the utilities and such have been transferred in to her name.

She really is enjoying this new level of control over me, she will make it a point at the checkout line to ask if I need lunch money, or handing me a couple of dollars for the “dollar menu”. I have given up carrying my wallet, there is nothing in it anyway.

I don’t know if this will happen to you, but it’s where we are at; I don’t generally have more than a few pounds in my pocket so I never impulse buy anything; Mistress, on the other hand, buys shoes and clothes when she feels like it. It used to bother me but it’s OK really. If I ask for something nicely she is generous (and stuffs the money down my panties usually )

The only bit I still hate is when I have to ask for money in front of my friends and family but by now I think people who know me think I’m totally pussywhipped. Financial domination works for us as well. I hope you and your Wife’s enjoy this form of control in the future.

i have been the slave of a D.M. for ten years. i was a virgin when we met, and still am. Ladies have had me, if you understand me, but i have never had sex. Mistress has kept me in various chastity devices over the years, and i was infibulated for a long time. Mistress is in complete control of my sexual outlet, and when i visit She sometimes helps me to orgasm, but most times not, i can go without relief for many months. i cannot “help myself” as, the last time i did so received a 200 stoke caning when i confessed. Next time it will be worse, which is unthinkable. Mistress is now talking of castrating me and removing my penis altogether. i belong to Her completely, and whatever She decides to do with me i accept unconditionally. i find great comfort and inner strength from being owned, and, now there is no other way to lead my life. Best respects, slave david.

My husband is a male virgin and he will be the first to tell you he would not change anything about his service to me. If him staying a virgin makes me happy, then he is happy too. It is all about putting me first.

I am not a virgin but I might as well be. I have rarely had the opportunity to penetrate a woman. None of them ever achieved orgasm, unless you count the one girl who got on top and ground her clit in to my pelvic bone and got off that way. Sex with women always ended up oral only. And each of these women found other men to give them the satisfaction they deserved and then they moved on. My natural submissiveness grew stronger with each rejection. My wife and I came together more than ten years ago because she loved having a submissive who is completely devoted to her and would give her the freedom to have sex with other men. She never has any sexual contact with me except to let me worship her asshole (daily). I have finally overcome my jealousy and envy towards her lovers. Now, it just seems completely natural that she and her lover enjoy “real” sex. I adore hearing her scream out in orgasm and sexual bliss.

Since I haven’t permitted my subhub to enter me for well over seven years now, should he be considered a male virgin once again? Some might say so. LOL 🙂

we had not talk about permanant but for me lock and its been 4 years since we had sex and she wil lnot unlock mefor sex and does not care if i do itor not to her since 4 years since i did it i dont care much for it now

I am the happy Owner of a male virgin. he is my husband. he is 29 and we have been together for four years. he has never had penetrative sex with me or with anyone else. And maybe he never will. It all depends on what I decide.

Right now, I just see no need for it. I get my sexual pleasure elsewhere. I like seeing him locked up. And he serves me the way he is.

I’m not ruling it out sometime in the future. But for now, his virgin dick stays locked up.

You’ve got your hubby in KTB. I think, starting from scratch, my choice woule probably be Lori 2E or similar though I’ve yet to see a pic of one being worn – I’ve seen one of the 2D worn though.

a male virgin who was kept permanently chaste and dominated by his live in Mistress Aunt. His aunt would make sure that he remained chaste and a virgin and also could deal with his virginity as she saw fit but because he was submissive she stated that he should give her complete authority over his orgasms and sexual release.

She had him sign a contract where he agreed never to orgasm without permission and that he would never ask, hint or imply that he would like sexual attention & another line agreeing never to masturbate for the duration of their relationship. And Yet another signature agreeing to wear a chastity device when and as she saw fit, including a permanent device if that was her desire. She had him in the end wear a permanent chastity device as there was no provision for him to have an orgasm or penetrative sex. She did however give him a prostate milking once a month, something i have never experienced myself.

a woman like that who wanted to keep me permanently chaste & maintain my virginity. The thought of handing over my orgasms to someone is powerful. There is also the fact that i would be handing over my erections as i would not be able to get one if in a chastity device or be able to masturbate.

men who were locked in chastity but were also wearing stap on dildo’s. The woman can still have intercourse but the man feels no pleasure as he will be locked in chastity. This would be incredible frustrating as the man can’t get a erection while locked in chastity and feel no sensations but the woman still gets all the pleasure she wants and does not have to worry about the man coming before her as he won’t be coming at all!

The thought of being permanently locked up and denied and doing the above is something that both turns me on and scares me.

I don’t think many man locked in a KTB would like many pointed spikes sticking into his erection but many woman would.

Yes, it is exciting. I get to decide when or if he will ever have sex. And if so, what the circumstances will be.

But if it ever happens, it won’t be soon. his dick is so cute locked up and I don’t need it for my sexual satisfaction.

With my husband, it just hasn’t been an issue. I may choose to let him have sex someday. he may be a virgin forever. It’s not his decision. he accepts that and he just devotes himself to my pleasure.

One thing you should not negociate is for the chastity device. She must have total control over that and She decide when you get release and for how long…

As long as you don’t have health problems you must wear the CD 24/7. It might be hard at first but eventually you want to go back in after 5 sec of release. Let say at first you wear the CD for a full week minimum and She decide after the week is done if She release you right away or keep you in for a few more days…

Trust me when the time for release is coming you get so exited that you do nothing else that what She says to please Her… you’ll become more romantic and start notice details about Her.

When I ordered my cb-6000 W/we were starting this lifestyle, after the break in period I was wearing my CB 24/7 until I got my PA. I notice that Her smile had change after a few days in my CB since I was more kind to Her and told Her about the little change in Her smile and Her eyes. After that She decided that corporal punishement was my punishement for mistakes or misbehave, so She bought a nice crop and I found a cane. Now my punishement is not keeping my CB but a nice cropping session because I must wear my CB 24/7. Well it should start again soon because I should change my PA slave ring for a curved barbell. I’ll be release only for clean-up and milking.

Because I started doing all the chores at home, She’s less tired and has more energy to spare. She’s feeling better and never felt so loved in Her life other than Her parents and family members.

You have to start slowly and She’ll get use to it and won’t want to stop and become better and more the Mistress She is, more confident about Herself because of all the control She’ll have over you.

Everything revolves around her and she has asked, demanded only one simple thing.

I am never to ask to be released. I have truly pledged this to her and this is a serious and non play matter between us. This simple fact has changed everything.

We agreed this last year, around September, and what I did not realize at the time is that this has given her complete control over everything my body, my brain, my very soul.

She knows me well enough I become completely obedient to her needs. and she knows this well. Sometimes she wants this total obedience, sometimes not, but each way she decides- by controlling my orgasms and planning in advance.

For three years or so, she has been ‘experimenting’ and this has meant that I am frequently locked for two months or so at a time. Durting this time I am closely observed for compliance and my level of worship of her is expected to be exemplary. She does not ask a great deal, but I know a moment of thoughtlessness – no spoon near the cup, will be noticed and will return to my Karma.

I am presently locked for six months with the promise of a year this time. She now knows full well that the moment she walks through the door I only have eyes for her. She has deliberately raised the stakes by allowing me to lick her to orgasm.
If she tires of this attention she sometimes releases me for a single orgasm which she controls she will explain to me I am never to come without permission and then I have to beg her to shoot.

By mutual agreement my cock is hers only now and I am not allowed to request favours for it – it is merely her plaything.

NEVER NEVER NEVER – NEVER let him ask,

It was supposed to have been a “ruined orgasm”, but I didn’t know that at the time. I’d been stripped naked and Goddess Robin had securely cuffed my hands above my head to the St. Andrews Cross.

My stainless steel Lori-tube had been removed and my normally imprisoned “long-clitty” was enjoying a rare holiday from 24/7 chastity. I suspected that Goddess had something diabolical in mind when she donned a pair of latex gloves and generously applied sex lube to my still flaccid clitty. She began to methodically stroke me, and in no time I was rock-hard and throbbing. She brought me close to orgasm, then backed-off and left me hanging there on the verge of squirting. She allowed me to calm down briefly then repeated the process again. And then again and again! It had been two months since my last orgasm, and my swollen balls ached from their full load.

I desperately wanted to squirt, but I didn’t have permission! Goddess threatened to keep up her masturbation torture for an hour then abruptly started to vigorously stroke me. I begged Goddess to please stop because I knew I couldn’t hold back and feared the punishment that awaited me if I squirted without permission. I struggled uselessly against my chains and cried for mercy! Then I screamed as my turgid clitty erupted like a volcano. Goddess immediately stopped stroking as I started to squirt, but there was no derailing the monster orgasm that washed over me like a tidal wave.

Goddess was furious and yelled that I would be sorry after the punishment and would learn to give up ejaculations for her. She slapped my face over and over and spit on me. “You disobedient piece of shit! I unlock your chastity after only two months and this is how you behave? Your chastity cage is now going to be permanently locked on your disobedient penis. It is never coming off again!”

We live a very similar lifestyle. His last time to have sex was last October and his last time will be this next October. I have led him cum three times since then but that too will stop in October. I love having him dread the upcoming date, knowing his next pleasureful experience will also be his last.

I have my reasons to do it to him, and I do it also because I can. His shaft’s not going anywhere into F pink piping again.