When it became obvious that my Lori’s tube was comfortable enough to wear indefinitely, and that it was very secure, my key holder wife suggested we try a three month period of chastity to begin. There was to be no tease and denial what-so-ever, she has a zero tolerance for any type of penis stimulation, and a few failed milking attempts led her to eliminate those as well. At the three month mark there was no discussion at all – I was to go another three months. At six months without orgasm She decided that I would be allowed only one orgasm per year, on our anniversary. I thought this was too long and more than I had ever bargained for, but she was adamant that our relationship was so improved that I needed to accept it. I had become obedient and attentive like never before and she had come to love having me penetrate her with a strap-on dildo.

Permanent chastity is not only possible, it is preferable in some cases. She also admitted how much more she prefers the large vibrating strap-on dildo to my penis, and how turned on she gets at the idea of never letting me out of chastity and never letting me orgasm again. So she decided that I’m not to be let out for purposes of ejaculation ever again. I agreed and no longer struggle with the decision. For us it is best.

I’m in the same exact situation…given two choices…and chose to stay, only under my wife’s terms. We have a FLR and she has been my dominant for over six years. After the initial shock, I’ve adjusted to Mistress now making the decision, not just sexual, but in many other facets as well.

I’m chastised, tattooed with her name and soon getting a chastity tattoo (though I won’t be shown the design or placement until we get it done), plugged often, spanked cropped and slapped, monitored via security cams in my home and office, and generally the house slave cooking most meals, serving her and cleaning up, I perform regular foot worship and pedicures, pussy slave, etc…. The grip keeps getting tighter

Thanks for sharing MistressL, I have the same sort of relationship with my Wife Superior. I’m locked permanently with no tease and denial, no orgasmic releases, no removal of the device (Lori #2). We went through a year of exploration much as you did, and have come to what we believe is best for Her. She decided I should commit to 12 years of this type of chastity during which I will be re-made into an “extremely obedient woman” in her own words.

My Mistress Wife has taken control of the household finanaces after 15 years of marriage. I no longer have a platinum card, gas card, ATM, checking account etc available to me. When I am paid I sign my check over to her and she deposits it in to her account.

I thought giving up control of my orgasms was humbling but it has nothing on having to kiss her boot for lunch money or gas to get to work. I do not think I noticed untill just now, but over the last few years all the utilities and such have been transferred in to her name.

She really is enjoying this new level of control over me, she will make it a point at the checkout line to ask if I need lunch money, or handing me a couple of dollars for the “dollar menu”. I have given up carrying my wallet, there is nothing in it anyway.

I don’t know if this will happen to you, but it’s where we are at; I don’t generally have more than a few pounds in my pocket so I never impulse buy anything; Mistress, on the other hand, buys shoes and clothes when she feels like it. It used to bother me but it’s OK really. If I ask for something nicely she is generous (and stuffs the money down my panties usually )

The only bit I still hate is when I have to ask for money in front of my friends and family but by now I think people who know me think I’m totally pussywhipped. Financial domination works for us as well. I hope you and your Wife’s enjoy this form of control in the future.