I have been locked in chastity for almost exactly 3 years now by my wife. She releases me for sex of one form or another about every 20-30 days. When released, my wife first locks a steel collar around my neck, to ensure that I lock my device on again afterwards. Oral sex for her is about twice weekly.
I find that there are times when I hate it and want to remove the device, but that is what the lock is for of course, for those particular moments. Then when I realize I cannot remove the device, I get that “controlled feeling”, and I am hooked again….every time.
I am told to kneel in front of her and she points to her boots/shoes/feet which is my signal to start kissing and licking.
After a while she will tell me to stop and asks, “Do you want to make me happy” to which i of course reply “yes”.
She then signals to me to continue with my foot worship, this goes on for an hour or more.
Eventually Mistress will stop me from worshiping her feet and ask again if i want to make her happy, “Yes Mistress”.
She will say “The reason you want to make me happy is so you will be released from chastity, correct ?”
“Yes Mistress”
“Good” she will say, “to make me very happy now i want you to beg me to let you remain in your CB for another week”
The reverse element.
I so want to be released, but i also want to make my beautiful Wife happy so i bow my head.
“Please Mistress, will you allow me to stay locked up for another week”
She then teases, “Sorry slave, i didn’t hear you” or “well if you really want to, i was going to let you out tonight and let you have sex with me, but if you really want to stay locked!!”
When my wife and I got into long term chastity a few years ago I
always wanted to masturbate and cum. Now Ive realized that I don’t
feel that way now. We agreed to stick to a few rules this time.
1. Only the wife can orgasm..I ejaculate without orgasm every 3 weeks
or so.
2. I cannot masturbate.
3. I am locked at all times when at home.
4. I cannot cum during sex..sex is only when the wife wants. Once she
has had her orgasm I must refrain from thrusting and let her slide me
out and re-lock me. I may not receive oral sex or manual stimulation
of my genitals. Essentially…my cock is now only for my wife’s
pleasure.
I to only view sex as something for my wife’s pleasure. On occasions I am allowed sex with her and only then allowed an orgasm. Over time I have found greater pleasure in pleasing my wife in whatever fashion she desires, than from any orgasm I am allowed.
Today – Valentines day, she has told me I am going to be locked up permanently, by which I mean that I shall no longer have ANY time out of the tube without her. I simply do not know if this means that she will give me release again and when I ask she does not give me an answer. I know that at the very least I shall be kept in chastity for possibly months, and I know I shall never be free to abuse again – EVER. I know she MEANS IT
I may mention we have recently got engaged so my married life will always be one of total chastity.
I just had my B-day several days ago. My wife/mistress has kept me locked up without any release for 50 days. My birthday came and she decided to tease me all day long. When it was time for bed, I satisfied her as always without question. Afterwards she just said good night and that was that
A happily married monogamous male, we decided in 2009 that penetrative sex for him was over due to her wishes. After realizing that a female dominant, male in chastity relationship would work best, we’ve enjoyed moving down the path of a female led marriage and pegging became our normal form of intercourse. She, of course, gets all the orgasms She wants and last year had well over 2,000 orgasms as fulfillment of a goal She set. While we won’t have that many this year, I will still have none (except anal orgasms which are quite different).
He bagan his pursuit of my affections by kissing my lips, my neck, my breasts all while his fingers worked their magic. I turned over and to allow him to kiss the back of my neck, which gives me chills everytime, down my spine, and attend to my rump. I then rolled onto my back and said we are ready for take off! I allowed him to slowly make his way over me and he paused to allow me time to guide him in. When I reached down between his legs I stopped just short before I kissed him one more time and asked him to be a dear and get his cage on.
I tried, I really did try to keep a straight face but the look on his was priceless!
When he asked me why I told him we always have your cage on when you are pleasuring me so you don’t have an accident silly. As he kneeled there looking dumbfounded I reminded him this is what he asked for so go put the cage on.
I told him of my plans, of my hope to show him this is not what he really wanted for a birthday, but at least I hoped he would find it inwardly enjoyable and memorable.
Then I handed his list of chores for the day. He seemed a little shocked
While he had to perform his usual chores he also was going to be putting our winter clothes in storage, weeding my flower beds, scrubbing my bathroom top to bottom, making sure the house was spotless for his birthday party that evening, making his birthday cake and going shopping with me in the afternoon.
After my shower I was going to swing by and see my mom for an hour before having lunch with a friend. I would return to pick him up so we could go shopping and buy me gifts with the money that normally would have been spent on his birthday. His expression of disappointment was not supported by what was happening in his pants.