I’ve been locked in permanent chastity, for the most part, for 3 years. Occasional release with numbing cream and condoms when wife wants me inside her, but no orgasm for me. I have been I locked in custom made cages for the past 2 1/2 years but 3 months ago got my first custom made cage with PA hook for my new piercing. I have been out once with numbing cream and condom since getting locked in this new cage.

Last week I sent flowers to my wife at work and then took her out to dinner for our 21st wedding anniversary. I also bought her a new Hitach Magic Wand because she wore out the old one. I thought this would be the first anniversary she would release me for sex. Boy was I wrong. When I asked she put her hand around my neck then gently patted me on the side of my face and said “You are so cute..No, that won’t be happening” then kissed me. She told me that if I was lucky I could watch her masturbate in bed that evening.

Later that evening when we were going to bed she lit one small candle and turned off the lights. She told me that I could watch her but only from across the room. I stood naked in my cage about 15 feet away and could only make out a silhouette of her body. She pushed the bed sheets asides to give me a better view then stared playing with her pussy. She was getting so wet I could hear the moisture as she dipped her fingers inside. After about 10 minutes of moaning and breathily heavil she had 3 orgams with the help of her magic wand. She said “Happy Anniversary ” then instructed me to get into bed and spoon her. That was the end to our 3rd anniversary with me locked in chastity.

I was promised a blow job on my wedding anniversary but at dinner in a nice restaurant my wife caught me looking at a young woman’s ankle boots. There was obviously no blow job and I was given one full month in chastity

Just passed through our Anniversary week with no orgasm. 🙁 I’m only permitted a handful of spurts per year, usually around special days, and traditionally our Anniversary has been one of them. (The last was in a national park on vacation in August.)

This Anniversary week, I was permitted a caged worship session — yum, my favorite type of sex — and, a few days later, I was unlocked and permitted a full throbbing erection. She used her Magic Wand to multiple moaning orgasms and then put the head of her erection inside and continued with her Wand. Finally she permitted full entry into heaven but closed her legs to any thrusting. When I calmed down she rolled me over and rode her erection to more orgasms, denying permission to spurt, before telling me she was done and to pull out. While I was relocking she asked again about how the numbing cream works.

With Locktober starting soon — full denial, no erections — it’s starting to look like it might be Christmas or New Years….

Mine ONLY does it to tease me. She loves to grope it when it’s locked up, just to drive me crazy. And when I’m not locked up she will often touch it for a few seconds – just enough to get me horny and wanting more – and then stop.

When she wants sex she has me lay on my back and she gets on all fours over me in a 69 position so that I can eat her out and then continue licking her while she gets fucked by her huge dildo. In this position she either refuses to touch me at all (even though her face and hands and breasts are all right there), or she sometimes lets her long blonde hair and/or her hot breath tease my little penis. But if I try to touch it myself or lift my hips to try to get my penis nearer to her, she will smack it hard and tell me to stop. It’s all about her pleasure.

it was a long long time ago but I don’t mind now I am milk every 8 weeks and that’s nice.

Drop or no drop it’s still playing with the penis and making it erect and making it drip, otherwise known as masturbation. Which is why you’re locked and why it’s good you don’t have the keys.

Now I’m about to finish my sixth week in the cage without so much as time out for teasing or even an erection. I’m seriously considering getting down on my knees and begging her for sex. I made a serious attempt to get her interested last night and while she enjoyed the attention she gave me a firm “no.” She’s had a few orgasms in the time I’ve been locked up and many foot rubs. I get teased before bed, she’ll then roll over and sigh… “sleep well.”

She has become much more comfortable with her role as keyholder while I am beginning to regret asking her to deny me quite so vigorously.

Be careful what you wish for…

My attitude is not just towards Chastity. I believe in my Goddess having total control. I adore her, and trust her never to abuse that power, but the power is hers and hers alone. I often wish she would be ‘meaner’

My wife made me get a PA piercing last summer after she found that I was able to pull out in the hot tub. I wasn’t able to pull out under normal circumstances. Only after things were warm, loose and shriveled up. She had seen the Rigid PA cages and knew it would do the job. I gradually stretched from a 10 ga to a 2 ga and ordered my cage in late Febuary of this year. It took 4 months to arrive after it was custom made and delivered from Poland.

She threaded the PA hook through my little clit 2 months ago and I haven’t been out since. I’ve been in permanent chastity for over three years and have rarely been released. On the few occasions I have its only for a short few minutes.

My wife is loving life and is the happiest she has been in the last 20 years of marriage. She says her sex life is the best it has ever been since she locked me up. Now my focus is no longer about me, and is all about her. I now believe that it is my duty to make sure she cums as often as she wants while I remain locked. I have purchased her a wide variety of new sex toys that she loves to play with while I am at work. As I snuggle up to her in bed when I get home from work she loves to rub it in and tell me how many orgams she had before I got home.

One of my favorite things to do is to fuck her with our strapon that I wear over my cage. It is much thicker and longer then me. The look on her face when her eyes roll back in her head and she moans as I slide into her is priceless.