So, for starters, we use chastity 24/7 on a fairly strict schedule. Sundays he’s released for a deep cleaning of the cage and a deep cleaning of the penis and balls with a supervised cold shower of course. I won’t speak to the orgasm denials and what not as that is just something I manage and he is not allowed to ask I honestly don’t track it or put timelines on it.

Every Sunday evening we sit down for our weekly “meeting” as we call it. It’s a 30 minute session on FLR and I give him his current list of daily chores I expect done M-Saturday. Mt husband sucks at cooking so that is one thing we don’t mess with but he does do all the dishes by hand from cooking and cleaning up the kitchen the night of cooking.

So, Monday-Saturday he does his chores and I inspect, I do control what he eats for lunch and sometimes when he eats for lunch, I will randomly spot check him forcing him to take a photo of him in the cage. He can’t get out of the cage I do hold the keys but I do find it hot and fun to make him send me a photo in 5 minutes or else… very fun when he’s driving somewhere and the destination is over 5 minutes away. He’s literally pulled over at a porta potty before to send it 😂.

Now, this isn’t like the fantasy stuff you read on here. No, I’m not making him scrub the bathroom floor on all fours while I sit there and tease him. This is real life. He gets home, he sits down and we chill for a little bit and talk about our days and then he gets started on chores and I’ll go do whatever it is I want :). Once he’s done with chores, he will come to me and tell me he’s completed and some days I make my rounds and some days I ask him if he’s done a good enough job that he’s willing to bet $$$ I won’t find a single failure. 8/10 he will go back and self inspect and save me the trouble because he’s wrote me a check before for $750 because I kept raising the stakes and found failures. So he’s learned!

But beyond the chores, the little things we do everywhere to really drive home the relationship home may seem boring to some but it’s our little reminders that fuel this beyond just a sexual exchange of power in the bedroom.

So, for starters, I drive everywhere we go together and it drives him crazy because YES there’s been times I drive his truck and he rides bitch. Were very private about our life but it’s funny when his friend asked one time “why you riding passenger in your brand new $80k truck?” And he has to lie and say “I just don’t like driving” 😂 He does have to ask permission for mostly everything now. Want to hang out with friends this weekend and go to the football game? Ask first. Dinner or drinks with the boys? Ask. Etc. I have curfews for him too in instances like that and location is tracked. Yes he’s went over and was punished when he got home and “grounded” as we called it for a month. I’ve already mentioned the daily chores but that’s a strict one. My parents have a cleaning lady so I got access to a cleaning list they left behind once and it’s my husbands guide. He doesn’t deep clean every single day, we aren’t that messy. But just general tidying up. Emptying out trash, wiping down mirrors, organizing shoe racks, cleaning up my morning coffee mess (always have one 😂). Dishes daily even though we have a dishwasher. We have hardwood flooring through the entire house and I require it vacuumed daily. It was so cute that I bought my husband an expensive vacuum cleaner for Christmas and he couldn’t wait to try it out. You know how most guys have a hobby of collecting stuff? My husband geeks out on cleaning products and microfiber towels he finds on Amazon. That’s how trained he is!

In the summertime, he’s not allowed to outsource our mowing like he used to. It’s a task i expect to be done once a week and I rate it like I did when we had a service. We paid that service $300 a month. My husband still continues to pay that $300/mo but I get the Venmo instead. My mother also recently got divorced from my step dad and my husband took on her lawn as well. Again… real life situation, no she does not know our arrangement and we will never tell her. She has offered to pay him and he know he is never to accept it and if he does due to her forcing it on him, I get that money.

Random one that came to mind (I’ve been typing this for a few days and coming back to it when it’s on my mind). We recently (Jan 1st) cut him off from pussy. He is PF now. Yes I have a boyfriend. I’m not looking for one. And with this we introduced a rule where if I was changing, or just got out of the shower, etc… basically if the damn bedroom is closed KNOCK BEFORE COMING IN! Well, 3x in a month he “accidentally” caught me nude. Once I was literally stepping out of our shower. Second time I was changing and was naked in my closet looking for a top and he caught a full shot, the third time was again right as I got out of the shower. So, I put a twist on it (obviously he was punished big time) and made him give up nudity. No nudity in movies at all, close your eyes if you see it unexpectedly, no porn watching (however I can’t control what he sees on here and expect him to be honest but will do phone control if I catch him…) and then I made him send me every nude he had of me on his phone and I put them in a folder on mine and I double checked all of his folders to make sure he wasn’t hiding any and then after he sent them to me I deleted all of them from his phone and he will get them back whenever I feel like it. We started this Feb 1st.

I’m sure I’m leaving some things out. But this is the gist of what I wanted to share. Some non sexual ways we enjoy making the most of our FLR.

I told him he could see me naked upon requests. It was just part of our denial stuff. And he started intentionally breaking the rules by walking in the bathroom while the door was closed and he knew I was showering. Walking into the bedroom while I was changing and the door was closed. So I punished. He didn’t listen and it happened a 3rd time. So he lost privileges.

I’ve heard of cuckold couples where for periods of time the wife denied the cuck the chance to see her in the nude. She’d wear sweats most of the time so she looked “frumpy” for him while being well dressed for her boyfriend.

The wife also kept a blindfold around. She made him put it on and she could remove her sweatpants without her husband seeing her naked body. That way, he can focus on pleasing her orally. She loved the idea and the poor husband said it was even more humiliating because he had to serve it, but not see it.

We did denial December where I was fully denied by my wife for the month. No nudity, I had to knock on bedroom door for permission to enter. No touch, kissing or cuddles. No cuckold duties either, naturally she continued to enjoy time with her boyfriend. Very frustrating and arousing. Made up for it in January, lots of intimate time between us.

Generally it’ll be for a week or so at a time I’m not allowed to see her undress or get ready… and licking her has to be done in the dark under a blanket… I hate it.

My wife is pretty similar about nudity now. At minimum she will keep her panties and bra on and has given me a telling off for walking in on her showering (she should have locked the door). If we do have sex, which is now a nice rarity, her bra will often stay on and it’s the only time really she will consent to me seeing her nude.

I only see wife naked when I’m licking her clean or occasionally when she’s feeling particularly evil. She has me kneel at her feet and she’ll play with her pussy while telling me how unworthy I am of her body. Sucking her toes, looking at what I’m not man enough to have.