I licked her to orgasm while the viagra was taking effect. By the time I was straining in my cage, she unlocked me, lathered me with lanacane and then placed not one, not two, but three condoms on my cock.

I entered her and we began to make love. Only problem was, I couldn’t feel anything! I told her that and she just laughed. I can still hear that laugh of shear delight when I said that.

I kept pumping and pumping. I swear it had to have been the longest I have EVER lasted. She had numerous orgasms, and I can vividly remember the look on her face as she lost herself in Dome-space. She was totally content and as happy as I’ve ever seen.

I remember being so close to getting there, but then it’s like the numbness kicked in another notch and I just couldn’t orgasm. Eventually she said enough, and made me stop. My cock just shriveled up in the condoms, useless.

She maid me clean up and then put the cage back on. That was brutal!

1-2 range – Checking in with her reguarly on the phone; receiving an allowance each week.

3-4 range – Doing my weekly chores as listed; cooking dinner every day;  laundry

5-7 range -Doing the various Fall Cleaning List for a household on the Domestic Servitude Blog; cleaning Her two cars; carrying Her purse and purchases at the mall; I absolutely love being the perfect househusband!

8-9 Giving her body and feet a massage; Being given a list of things to do while she is shopping with friends or goes with friends on a get away for the weekend;

10 Handing over my paycheck as Her personal paycheck to do as She pleases; sucking on Her feet; painting her toenails and shaving her legs and privates; bathing her; undressing her for the evening and putting her clothes away. Preparing her bed at night before she goes to bed and tucking her in, and then asking Her permission to get in Her bed (most of the time it is yes and sometimes no). Sleeping at the foot of the bed when commanded so she can have more room.

Part 1: What deepens Your Submission? I think in terms of the sexual aspect is important because of the intimacy and connection I have with my Wife. But I think this list in how I domestically serve only Her needs are even more important to deeping my submissive nature because this is paying attention to her needs and desires around the clock.

1-2 range – wearing daily a chasity device. A small constant reminder daily that my wife is in charge no matter how far away from home I am.

3-4 range – light CBT throughout the day at home. An occassional slap of the balls by my wife to remind me she is truly in charge.

5-7 range -Mistress causing an erection in the chasity device, somewhat uncomfortable, and interchanged with ball slapping, as she gives me instructions for the day gets me very deep into subspace and can get me to do anything.

8-9 bondage and spanking; sexually satisfying her while denying me, either through oral, hand, or strapon for her pleasure alone making sure I focus completely and only on her needs.

10 taking me with the strapon makes a total attitude adjustment in me and total puddy in her hands.

1-2: physical inspections, collar and leash, cock ring, blindfolds,

3-4: physical restraints, CFNM, being gagged with panties, eye contact restrictions, speech restrictions, pussy worship,

5-6: ass worship, wearing panties, covert public humiliation, being spat on, butt plugs, oral service in public places,

7-8: face fucking, being lent to other women, serving at a party, being pissed on, swallowing spit, strapon sucking, being locked in a cage, tease and denial, anal stretching

9-10: strapon fucking, swallowing my KH’s nectar, cleaning her after she uses the toilet, being cuckolded, overt public displays of submission, enforced chastity for an unknown length of time

0-1 range Knowing that my Keyholder is content and happy keeping my orgasms under Her control. Whether locked in chastity or not, trying to remember to do the little things every day that make Her happy.

2-3 range – Wearing daily chastity device, knowing and feeling the small constant reminder each day that my Keyholder is in charge, and the feeling knowing my shared secret with my Keyholder as we go about our everyday life.

3-4 range Anytime my Keyholder acknowledges or hints of my chastity, even better if in public. An occasional slap on the ass by my Keyholder to remind me that She truly is in charge.

5-6 range Keyholder teasing me, causing an erection in the chastity device.

6-7 range Spanking, Spanking and Spanking.

8-9 range – Sexually satisfying Her while denying me, either through oral, hand, or strap on for Her pleasure alone making sure i focus completely and only on Her needs.

A perfect 10 – Taking me with a strap-on both oral and anal. Making me Her total and complete bitchboy.

1 2 :
– Wearing Panties, it is a silent, but a constant reminder of my service. Sometimes, I forget about them until I have to go potty, then it becomes real and apparent.
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3 4 :
– Being constantly naked while serving Mistress.
– Wearing a locking collar. It serves as another constant reminder of who OWNS me.
– Wearing a chastity cage.
– Being commanded to sit or lie on the floor and rub Mistresss legs as she sits or does whatever she is doing. This is low on the list because I love doing it so much, that I do not really realize the level of submission.

5 6 :

– Whippings of any kind; short or long; easy or hard.
– Being shaved (pubic and underarms). You see it ever day when you shower.
– Long Term Chastity Cage lockup (more than 1 month).
– Being taken in the ass and used as Mistresss slut.
– Having a locking Restraint of any kind.
– Mistresss laugh when she is doing something/anything to me.

7 8 :

– Punishments of any kind. While rare, they do demonstrate there are rules and boundaries which must NOT be crossed. Punishments are also typically severe and while I know Mistress loves me, that fact does not deter her from her goal.
– Harsh discipline whipping session, where I would be bound unable to move. Mistress will get to a point where I mentally and/or physically am defeated and then I fall into submission.
– Teasing.
– Multiple LOCKS.

9 10 :

– Taking My Mistresss golden nectar makes me extremely submissive and focused on Mistress. Especially the moment right after she is done and has been cleaned and is getting up off my face. I lie almost in a trance for a few moments.
– Being locked into my sleeping cage at night at the foot of Mistresss bed. She will lock me in the cage at the end of the day, stand over me and talk to me. I stare up at her knowing that I am in the cage for a duration totally decided by Mistress. She will finish talking to me, and just stand over me and stare down at me. The longer that time, the more submissive I get. She then will walk away and slide into her warm and cozy bed, next to her pet. I watch and slide deeper into submission as I realize how much power she has over me.
– LOTS of Teasing.
– Being made to penetrate Mistress while locked in a CB Cage and using a strap on. I have not actually ever done this, but mentally, it seems like this would be the ultimate in submission. First you would have to really concentrate on the task due to the lack of feeling. And, you are being asked to be intimate with Mistress while totally forgoing your own pleasure.
– MORE, LOTS OF LOCKS.Did I mention those already.

1-2: Shaving pubic area and wearing panties. Always sitting down to pee.

3-4: Acting as a foot stool for long periods of time- especially during important sports events (on TV). The Everyone I know is watching the Super Bowl and I am blindfolded on my knees while my Mistress watches the game, her feet resting on my back, her paddle occasionally slapping my ass smartly.

5-6: Going to the piercing studio and getting my nipples pierced and my Mistress paying the tab (with my money). The pain and embarrassment made me feel very submissive and seeing the pierced nipples and feeling them under my clothing is (was, since I had to give them up for medical reasons) a constant reminder of my identity as a submissive person.

7-8: Consuming every drop of my own sperm. This is a brief act that takes only a few seconds but over time when you realize that a year or two or more has gone by and you have eaten every single drop of cum you made regardless of how it was produced- by orgasm, by milking or by accident the cumulative effect is impressive.

9-10: Never being allowed an orgasm- ever. Only serving Her and pleasing her sexually.

Explain the benefits (to her) of having you in a chastity device. You will be able to serve her sexual needs and she need not worry about yours. I have a 6000S and have been in it for almost 6 months. My wife does not reach orgasm by penetration thus, she doesn’t really need my cock. She does, however, get incredibly turned on by knowing that I am locked and cannot get off. Her best orgasms occur while she cleans my chastity in the dishwasher, keeps me in bondage and brings me to the brink, over and over again, but never lets me cum. After she replaces my cb, I am frustrated beyond belief. I always wanted to experience this and now that I know what it’s like, it is everything I thought it would be. Unfortunately, in the past I could masturbate after thinking about this scenario. Not any longer.
Once again, ask for what you want!

Sal – actually, my girlfriend has kept me locked up most of the time for the past two years or so.

She tells me that our relationship is unfair – clearly I’m not providing her with the sexual stimulation she needs, and it’s as much from my poor technique and stamina then my undersized penis. She suggests that she could and should severely punish me for selfishly depriving her in the bedroom. Examples of fair punishments might be paddling, grounding, reduction of allowance (she controls my finances and gives me a weekly allowance), writing lines, corner time, extra chores

I had been celibate for about 4 weeks. Mistress promised a Xmas gift and sure enough She provided. She gave me an orgasm. What surprised me was the quality of my response. She was very careful to completely control it. It was a hand job with Mistress staring deep into my eyes and me thanking Her all the way for my position in life. It happened fast and was without much force on ejaculation. Both of us commented afterwards it was more akin to a milking than anything else.