I am in denial most of the time to try to regulate my servitude. My wife and I have realised that this is the most effective weapon. It is completely voluntary on my part. Earlier this week I was allowed to see to myself as my wife was feeling sorry for me. I did it as “economically” as possible, making sure that I would still be in a state of arousal when I had finished. I may as well not have bothered. As the week has progressed my mood has become less responsive to her and low, something we both find difficult to cope with. It seems that the only way it can be guaranteed that I stay focused on her is to deny me indefinitely. I have no idea if that is possible and I’m sure my wife would prefer it to not be that way but we see no other option.

When it became obvious that my Lori’s tube was comfortable enough to wear indefinitely, and that it was very secure, my key holder wife suggested we try a three month period of chastity to begin. There was to be no tease and denial what-so-ever, she has a zero tolerance for any type of penis stimulation, and a few failed milking attempts led her to eliminate those as well. At the three month mark there was no discussion at all – I was to go another three months. At six months without orgasm She decided that I would be allowed only one orgasm per year, on our anniversary. I thought this was too long and more than I had ever bargained for, but she was adamant that our relationship was so improved that I needed to accept it. I had become obedient and attentive like never before and she had come to love having me penetrate her with a strap-on dildo.

Permanent chastity is not only possible, it is preferable in some cases. She also admitted how much more she prefers the large vibrating strap-on dildo to my penis, and how turned on she gets at the idea of never letting me out of chastity and never letting me orgasm again. So she decided that I’m not to be let out for purposes of ejaculation ever again. I agreed and no longer struggle with the decision. For us it is best.

Glad to hear the same sort of story from others. It really is a lock it or leave it situation for me but I think she is completely justified – I was BAD, really BAD though I never cheated. I’m chastised, tattooed with her name and soon getting a chastity tattoo (though I won’t be shown the design or placement until we get it done), plugged often, spanked cropped and slapped, monitored via security cams in my home and office, and generally the house slave cooking most meals, serving her and cleaning up, I perform regular foot worship and pedicures, pussy slave, etc…. The grip keeps getting tighter and I am happier and happier. Very in love and truly fulfilled. We are still best friends and both amazed that it took 20 years of marriage to figure out this arrangement. It’s my fault that is took so long of course. The Lori’s device didn’t hurt either.

Yes, our lifestyle is D/s. Yes, we live in a FLR. Yes, he is in permanent chastity. His device will not be removed.

I have my personal reasons why I want him chaste. He has requested a possible release but I will not even consider this for two full years.

Thank you, lockit. It is not fantasy. It is very real. I do not plan on unlocking him with one exception. The one exception will be if I decide to send his chastity tube back to Ms Lori Lancer for a 2 gauge pin. In that case DC will be placed in the yoke with his hands locked. He will go into his Neosteel belt until the device gets back.  

I am exploring different ways of accomplishing total frustration for him driving him mad with passion. There will come a time that he will beg with all his heart to be released. He is almost there, but not yet.

Over the last few years, She has increased the amount of time i spend in chastity to the point of Her current position. She has decided i will be in permanent chastity for this vary issue. She is tired of my continual obsession with Her property and the hassles that go along with the multitude of devices, keys, and my constant questions of Her “plans.”

The only thing She has said is that my chastity is permanent, but She will revisited the issue in two years if i remain compliant, non- questioning, and non- argumentative.