I used to have a similar problem until it was finally corrected. The first thing my Mistress did was to make me masterbate in front of her until I came. Yelling at me for disrespecting her and disobeying her the entire time. When it became difficult for me to stay aroused from being yelled at she begin seriuosly teasing me about how pathetic I was. Trust me, that whole thing was awful, and I never want to have to do that again. She also forbid me from wearing my cage. She knew for me that was the worst punishment of all since I do love to be horny all the time, but also knew I needed to be ” reset” as I was obviously out of control. The second thing she did after that was to forbid me from serving her. No chores, none or the little things I love doing for her. For me this was even worse then the first thing. God i felt awful. After a week of that I was begging her for another chance to please lock me and to please allow me to serve her and do my chores again etc. Only after I gave her my word of honor I would not bother her while she was sleeping did she permit me these gifts. I rarely bother her now, and IMMEDIATELY stop when told to on those rare occuances. The only reason I still do from time to time is sometimes she allows me to help her to orgasm. But I can count the times that has happened on one hand.

My husband hates being locked in his belt, so keeping him in line is easy for me – if he disobeys me in any way I postpone his release and he has to endure at least another week of chastity.
Generally I like him touching me and servicing me with his tongue although at times it only increases his frustration. As far as touching himself, the belt doesn’t really allow it, again it just seems that is increases his frustration to arouse himself in any way, but that’s his problem. It’s good to be the boss!

Once we married, i did occasionally fuck Her, but i was still never good at it. i still always felt like a fraud, and She still never had an orgasm that way. She still depended upon my oral skills for satisfaction. So after a few years, she instead made me into Her full time, 24/7 slave in every way. Not long afterwards, She decided that i wouldn’t ever be allowed to fuck Her again, and would only be required to make Her cum orally. But within another few years, She decided that i just wasn’t enough of a real man to be allowed to have any manner of sexual contact with Her, nor with any Woman, ever again, for the rest of my life. And the only way i would ever be allowed to cum, for the rest of my life, was by jerking off.

Yet all else aside, my Mistress-Wife would probably never allow me to have another orgasm, for the rest of my life. But in reality, She finds if i get too horny, i’m just too distracted to serve Her with the full attention She requires. Yet, if i’m allowed to cum too much, i grow too apathetic to serve Her with the anxious enthusiasm She deserves. She therefore requires me to jerk off exactly twice a week – no more, and no less – at exactly the times She specifies.

In any case, the irony of my situation never escapes me. i continually marvel at it. i was hoping that marriage would be my savior; that i’d have A beautiful, sexy Wife who would want me to fuck Her whenever i felt like it, and i’d never have to jerk off again. But instead, by my marrying this gorgeous, sexy Woman, it has condemned me to being exactly the jerk-off i feared ending up as. Even more so, it has insured that i will never have any sort of sexual contact with A Woman, ever again, for the rest of my life; and i will spend the rest of my life as the complete and total jerk-off i always feared being.

I like the idea of being put in chastity by a woman that has no interest in sex but who likes the idea of preventing me from doing it, or who would require me to have permission to do it.

Hi im not a virgin but have been locked and unlocked for past year without sex iv been told by kh ill never have sex again from jan 1 ill be locked for a whole year i kinda miss sex but want to please my kh more so sex is a thing of the past for me