I have been searching myself to figure out why I am so turned on by the fact that my husband has to remain in chastity for me. I don’t know how to explain it. I just really like that he wants me so bad and yet must wait to be inside of me for extended periods of time. Don’t get me wrong, I love my husband and his penis. But the more we go down this road, the more I want him to stay locked. It gives me such a good feeling knowing that he is waiting for me. And for some strange reason, in my twisted mind, I like the idea that my husband doesn’t get to experience an erection much less my touch and warmth 99% of the time. Everyday I see it in his eyes that he wants me badly but also wants to give me what I desire.

Making love is so much more sensual to me when he is locked. We have passion together and his frustration increases that passion. When we make love and his arousal increases he gets a lot of pleasure albeit in a slightly different form than ‘normal’. He goes deeper into submission when we have intimate time together knowing that it is very unlikely that he will be unlocked. I know that I have been tainted because of the internet and the fantasies here but am I the only woman that truly likes to do this to their husband or significant other?

I have had thoughts lately of one day making his cage permanent (not anytime soon) but someday. We have talked on fetlife to people who have done this and I have mixed emotions and so does he as you can imagine. But I cannot get this out of my mind. Of course I would never do this to him if he ever objected but it is something we have talked about and everything that has happed with us so far suggests that all I have to do is tell him it is going to happen and he will. I consider myself very lucky to have him and want to be careful not to move hastily with this and not to take advantage of him.

I am 55 and my wife 50
We have had an amazing sex life after she started keeping me locked and releasing only for PIV sex
Later she started enjoying cunnilingus / oral sex more than PIV sex
Then probably these exact thoughts came into her mind
And finally in November 2014 she sealed my cage permanently
Let me tell you, permanent lockup is altogether a different & exciting experience!
Now all my focus is only & only in pleasing her since my cock is no more existent for me

I think you love the power you have over your husband, as you say, you can get him to do whatever you want, I cant understand why more women don’t seem to want this.
I think you have a very special relationship with a guy that truly adores you.

Your hubby’s dedication to you is a result of and a tribute to the control that you have carefully enforced over him! What a great relationship for you both. More women should read about these sort of successes that result from chastity! Hearing this from the Mistress/Wife’s perspective makes me motivated and even more committed to my beautiful and powerful Wife & Mistress!

The past two years though, Mistress with me in full compliance has wanted to up the control and especially power exchange.

Eventually it will lead to significant chastity and orgasm control.

I currently wear both a cock/ball shackle and kalis bracelet when ever in mistresses presence – both have a combi lock which means that Mistress can unlock me remotely. Most we’ve done so far is an overnight but Mistress is wanting to extend this period.

My very long time subby knows excactley what is in store for him in the very near future and he will have no choice but to comply . If at any time he disobeys me I will not hesitate to put my plan into action. He has previously had a little taste of being humiliated in front of one of my neighbours ( female ) . I happened to be organizing my upstairs window box while subby was supposed to be licking my boots instead he thought that he would try to relieve himself on the sly …a defiinate NO NO . his punishment was thrown in a cubbyhole that has specially designated for him with cock and ball on and hands cuffed behind him as well as being blindfolded and left not sure how long as punishments are not something I keep time on . .

I control him on a daily basis and he has to contact me daily no matter what or where he is at specific times set by me Situations are going to change drastically for subby and I have demanded that another device will be got that will keep him under MY control ( lock and key ) for a much greater length of time. It wont be too long before I will have full total control of his sexual will be very few and far between and only at my command .

His is concerned that I will keep him locked and forgotten. He acknowledges that he agreed to be completely submissive regarding sex and his penis but he still wants to have contact. He is worried about never being unlocked or never being allowed to cum. Also that I will cut him off from all sex. So this is what I told him. I expect first and foremost that he will always be caged. No breaks unless and until I want him to be unlocked. I never want him to ask for it and if he does it will be a guaranteed no.

I am not allowed to masturbate at all. She used to let me “exercise” which I enjoyed but I found it lonely because she would always leave the room when I did it.

She is expecting a lot more service, which I am giving freely. Running hot baths, foot and back rubs, cooking and cleaning, laundry etc.

She is giving some as very clinical commands. This pushes my sub buttons but also feels like a shot at my ego too and this is the duality of flr. I am learning to accept this role and she is learning to enjoy my resignation to this subordinate role.

After a half day of constant service, she asked for a back rub. As we lay down and I rubbed her, she started to rub her buttocks against my crotch. Normally, I am forbidden to grind her but she seemed to be inviting it so I started up.

She asked me if I was grinding. I admitted yes. She then turned around and said she could do better by making me come in my pants. “Real men don’t come in their pants, do they?” , I said coyly as she fondled me outside my pants.

She replied, “You’re not a real man.”

I thought I would melt. I thanked her and asked her what I was. “A girly-boy.”, she said.

Before I was able to come, she stopped
” I think I will just stop right there. Come on, we are going out. Get ready.”.

Still denied, but not inderstimulated