long term chastity – orgasm denial

As a year end treat for me, Mistress informed me that She kept a tally of our orgasms for 2012. What a cool surprise! Mistress 167 ~ Me 11. She thinks that almost 1 per month is way too generous, so next year’s total shouldl be fewer.

your Mistress is right. one per month is far too many. i can count on one hand how many i’ve had this year and i wouldn’t need more than 2 fingers and a thumb!

Maybe she will, as she let me cum Christmas eve and I blew my lid that afternoon, and she put together that when I orgasm I have a problem with my temper, so I have been locked since. Prior to that it was 120 days. I didn’t even get release for my birthday this year.

One year plus a day with out a orgasm. Looking deeper into being more helpful and not disappointing My Lady with my needs. Happy New Year everyone!!

My wife/mistress has me on all fours during milking and stay locked. not allowed to touch balls or penis.

So lately, starting 4 months ago, things have changed. She stated that she like me locked up and makes sure that when I clean myself that I am locked back up. She has even considered piercings to keep me better locked up.

But, the last 2 month stay, I only gave her sex once and there was nothing else, and when I say nothing else I mean no teasing, no kissing, no cuddling. Pretty much nothing. When I was released for relief, and before I locked myself back up I stated that I kinda felt abandoned since there was hardly any touching in any way. She listened and I was locked back up.
So today, 2 weeks later I am again in the same boat, except this time nothing at all. She did not even want me to please her.

My question is what to do? I still want to play and she still wants to play, but the total lack of contact (kissing, holding hands, snuggling, and even giving her pleasure) has me at crossroads. I am not even looking for relief, but I don’t know what I am looking for.
I know that as a chastity-sub, its all about her, but the feeling of abandonment is taking this whole chastity thing in another direction for me.

Eventually, you might take more liberty as you rub her feet. You might start to kiss and lick her feet. I wouldn’t do this the first time, but if she responds positively to the massages, then keep adding to them. You might work your kissing and licking from her feet, up her legs, and then to her crotch. That’s right, get in the habit of orally servicing your wife. Kiss her body all over and make love to her with your mouth and tongue. Do not ever penetrate her with your penis, unless she requests it. Do not focus on your needs, but instead focus on her needs. Please her sexually as your Queen. Remember that she is superior to you. Don’t you dare ever take any liberties, without her permission.

Another way to seduce your wife’s dominant nature is to be very obedient when she asks you to do chores for her. First, begin by doing all of the chores that you already know that she would like you to do. Don’t wait on her to ask before you take out the garbage, cut the lawn, wash the cars, or whatever else you are suppose to do. She will be amazed if you start to serve her by doing your chores willfully. The next step is to then ask her if you can help her with her chores. Ask her if you can do the dishes and help her clean the house. Tell her that you exist to serve her and that you will do  whatever she asks of you.