I have been locked in chastity for almost exactly 3 years now by my wife. She releases me for sex of one form or another about every 20-30 days. When released, my wife first locks a steel collar around my neck, to ensure that I lock my device on again afterwards. Oral sex for her is about twice weekly.

I find that there are times when I hate it and want to remove the device, but that is what the lock is for of course, for those particular moments. Then when I realize I cannot remove the device, I get that “controlled feeling”, and I am hooked again….every time.

I am told to kneel in front of her and she points to her boots/shoes/feet which is my signal to start kissing and licking.

After a while she will tell me to stop and asks, “Do you want to make me happy” to which i of course reply “yes”.

She then signals to me to continue with my foot worship, this goes on for an hour or more.

Eventually Mistress will stop me from worshiping her feet and ask again if i want to make her happy, “Yes Mistress”.

She will say “The reason you want to make me happy is so you will be released from chastity, correct ?”

“Yes Mistress”

“Good” she will say, “to make me very happy now i want you to beg me to let you remain in your CB for another week”

The reverse element.

I so want to be released, but i also want to make my beautiful Wife happy so i bow my head.

“Please Mistress, will you allow me to stay locked up for another week”

She then teases, “Sorry slave, i didn’t hear you” or “well if you really want to, i was going to let you out tonight and let you have sex with me, but if you really want to stay locked!!”

When my wife and I got into long term chastity a few years ago I
always wanted to masturbate and cum. Now Ive realized that I don’t
feel that way now. We agreed to stick to a few rules this time.

1. Only the wife can orgasm..I ejaculate without orgasm every 3 weeks
or so.

2. I cannot masturbate.

3. I am locked at all times when at home.

4. I cannot cum during sex..sex is only when the wife wants. Once she
has had her orgasm I must refrain from thrusting and let her slide me
out and re-lock me. I may not receive oral sex or manual stimulation
of my genitals. Essentially…my cock is now only for my wife’s
pleasure.

I to only view sex as something for my wife’s pleasure. On occasions I am allowed sex with her and only then allowed an orgasm. Over time I have found greater pleasure in pleasing my wife in whatever fashion she desires, than from any orgasm I am allowed.

Today – Valentines day, she has told me I am going to be locked up permanently, by which I mean that I shall no longer have ANY time out of the tube without her. I simply do not know if this means that she will give me release again and when I ask she does not give me an answer. I know that at the very least I shall be kept in chastity for possibly months, and I know I shall never be free to abuse again – EVER. I know she MEANS IT

I may mention we have recently got engaged so my married life will always be one of total chastity.

I just had my B-day several days ago. My wife/mistress has kept me locked up without any release for 50 days. My birthday came and she decided to tease me all day long. When it was time for bed, I satisfied her as always without question. Afterwards she just said good night and that was that

A happily married monogamous male, we decided in 2009 that penetrative sex for him was over due to her wishes. After realizing that a female dominant, male in chastity relationship would work best, we’ve enjoyed moving down the path of a female led marriage and pegging became our normal form of intercourse. She, of course, gets all the orgasms She wants and last year had well over 2,000 orgasms as fulfillment of a goal She set. While we won’t have that many this year, I will still have none (except anal orgasms which are quite different).

He bagan his pursuit of my affections by kissing my lips, my neck, my breasts all while his fingers worked their magic. I turned over and to allow him to kiss the back of my neck, which gives me chills everytime, down my spine, and attend to my rump. I then rolled onto my back and said we are ready for take off! I allowed him to slowly make his way over me and he paused to allow me time to guide him in. When I reached down between his legs I stopped just short before I kissed him one more time and asked him to be a dear and get his cage on.

I tried, I really did try to keep a straight face but the look on his was priceless!

When he asked me why I told him we always have your cage on when you are pleasuring me so you don’t have an accident silly. As he kneeled there looking dumbfounded I reminded him this is what he asked for so go put the cage on.
I told him of my plans, of my hope to show him this is not what he really wanted for a birthday, but at least I hoped he would find it inwardly enjoyable and memorable.

Then I handed his list of chores for the day. He seemed a little shocked

While he had to perform his usual chores he also was going to be putting our winter clothes in storage, weeding my flower beds, scrubbing my bathroom top to bottom, making sure the house was spotless for his birthday party that evening, making his birthday cake and going shopping with me in the afternoon.
After my shower I was going to swing by and see my mom for an hour before having lunch with a friend. I would return to pick him up so we could go shopping and buy me gifts with the money that normally would have been spent on his birthday. His expression of disappointment was not supported by what was happening in his pants.

She is kind and loving yet strong and in control of my physical pleasures. She requires me to wear a chastity device 24/7. I am denied the most privileged right a husband is allowed to have with his wife. Being able to make love to her, empting my load deep inside her, feeling her hot wet sweetness around my cock. What started out as a novelty of sorts has become a part of our everyday life. I am no longer allowed to feel the pleasures of driving my cock in her pussy. Now I have a plastic pussy 24/7. Being the smart guy I thought I was by suggesting that we purchase a chastity device for fun has certainly not turned out how I thought it would be.

Some where along the way it has turned into reality. Now I am locked up all the time never getting any release. I have come to realize how much she does love me by denying me my right as a husband. She has created a focus in me to please her much more overall, body rubs, feet massages. Catering to her needs at all times. She tells me that by not being able to have her is the strongest display of my love and commitment.

I go to bed every night with my balls on fire and my cock aching to get out, knowing what I want so badly is just inches away. Knowing that if she would unlock me and allow me to slide my sexually denied cock in her would be the most incredible feeling of relief EVER!! She knows that I am a submissive Husband that needs control and discipline and should be handled this way, DENIED.

Now I have to wait for her when she feels like having sex. Pleasing her orally when she requests. Constantly wondering if this will be the day I can cum, either from her hands or inside her. I dream about her pussy everyday since she hardly ever lets me see it now. Everyday my aching balls remind me how luck I am to give her my love and be her husband.

So me and my wife recently decided to pursue a life of
permanent orgasm denial for me. I do not wear a chastity belt – I
don’t need one, the only thing I need to remain chaste is my desire for
her.

It has been 16 months since my last ever orgasm.

Benefits for her:

1) She can relax and enjoy sex free from any need for reciprocation

2) We can both have total focus on her pleasure

3) Total devotion to her pleasure means we get more experience at pleasing her

4) More experience at pleasuring her means we get better at it all the time

5) Sex is never ended by premature ejaculation

6) We can always practice activities that she finds most enjoyable

7) There is no messy ejaculation to deal with

8) I never dissipate my sexual energy through orgasm and give it all to her

9) My total devotion to her carries over outside of the bedroom

10) She can get any type of massage or sexual pleasure anytime she wants

11) She can have multiple orgasms for as long as she wants

12) She can now have orgasms that last many minutes

13) She has a permanently aroused partner who will do anything she wants

“Be careful what you ask for it just might come true”,My wife.Mistress says their will never be a day of complete freedom for me again,everyday she loves it MORE.

After I posted that my wife wanted me in permanent chastity and no longer wanted me to screw her again I begged her to reconsider and that I would do anything. Well, I did something I thought I’d never do and never want to do it again. I’m not sure whey she wanted to do what me did but I’ really ashamed of myself.

She said I could f*ck her one last time on the condition that I eat all the sperm I deposit in her pussy. I refused and said this is a bunch of BS and I’m not going to lick my spunk out of her freshly screwed vagina.

Well, two days later I couldn’t take it anymore and I asked her again but again she came up with the same conditions. She began rubbing my locked and diapered pee pee (that’s what she calls it) saying come on honey it won’t be that bad and I’d like your little pee pee inside me one more time so that I really know I won’t be missing anything.

That was all I could take and I agreed. She unlocked me and I came in less two minutes. Her pussy was all full of my load which was surprisingly pretty big. I looked at it but could not bring myself to put my face there, but she just calmly and sweetly urged me to complete my task. I told her that i couldn’t do it and she got more demanding.”Look she said, since you can’t f*ck you must be good at something”. “So from now on you can be a clean up boy, she replied.” “You can lick my pussy after I go to the bathroom and I’m sure I’ll think of some other uses for you.”

I felt that familiar sting of a big plug being stuffed in with minimal lube and then the torture began. She started cursing and whipping the shit out of my ass and talking about what a poor sub I was and that the reason she liked me locked up was because I was to small to please her anyway. She must have lashed me 35-40 times, it was absolutely crazy and super humiliating, I honestly felt ashamed…wow.

She then unhooked my nipple chains from the wall hook and turned me around I could hear the chains jingle and she spread my legs and using our spreader bar, and told me to stand still and that she would be back in a moment, she came back in and was talking to me sweetly asking me several yes /no questions that I was to knod my head to answer.

She asked me those humilliating dom / sub questions.. like do you have a small dick, do you like it when I fuck you with a strap-on and so on… She then asked if I like cock and ball punnishment, I knodded and BOOM she kick me in the nuts with CB on and all, It immediatly bent over , not realizing that my locked nips were still attached to something, it hurt so bad, that something clicked in my head and I started to cry with the gag in my mouth, still hooked to something by my nipples, balls aching, and spread out, I reached for my poor boys and then BOOM, she kicked me again and yelled, “dont touch my nuts or I will kick them again” I stood there wimpering in horrible pain, I could feel the tears and slobber from the gag making the hood wet

Male orgasm denial reactivated men’s natural need to satisfy his wife. The abolition of male full orgasm is the best option. This should not be done at the beginning. Timing is the key for everything.
Orgasm denial activates men’s need to satisfy his wife in many ways. The wife should allow him to satisfy that need.

I love penetrative sex. My husband and I have sex once a week. Emla cream and condom reduced sensitivity of his penis. We both enjoy sex without fear that he will have an orgasm.

Long orgasm denial and elimination of his full orgasm. done so that he has a strong mental orgasm while pleases me. It’s wonderful and that is why we feel great.

With us, my wife likes most of all penetrative sex though I am not allowed to orgasm. I learned a couple of years ago to not orgasm physically so I fulfill her needs and desires. I last as long as she wants and derive my pleasure from hers. I no longer want to orgasm. I don’t want to lose that “high’ I have for her. She believes in long term orgasm denial for me, believing it makes me a better husband. Who am I to argue, I believe it too!

Donna permitted my release last Sunday evening in a very wonderful and exciting lovemaking session, but to some very strange results. I was on an intense high for the rest of the night, and slept beautifully. The feeling was heavenly. The next day I acted like a moron. I was lackadaisical in preparing breakfast and serving Donna, and I was slow to respond to her requests. I didn’t treat her with the love and deference that I normally do

We have attempted to engage in intercourse without Ken having an orgasm but we still struggle in that arena. We either end in disaster (orgasm for him) or we seem to just get started when he needs to stop which is very frustrating.

 

I have my man search and pick a sheath that fits over his cock. I love the feeling of being gaped and full and he has come to love being inside me and pumping away if only to be able to slightly feel the warmth. And I sometimes have him take a before and after picture…wonderful. He does all the work and I get the rewards. After,,, he has to slowly and gently lick my swollen and stretched lips.

You are not alone with the feelings of guilt and wondering if you really want to cum. Mistress Rita is very strict with my cum privileges and i’m only allowed a maximum of 3 ruined orgasms PER YEAR. Your partner is actually quite generous letting you cum every two months or so.

my husband leaks all the time>he has to lick alot of it if he gets it on me >everytime he give me massages he leaks and then licks it.after a couple of months without coming i have actually seen some white fluid leak out due to his balls being so full and keeping him aroused and denied and it is very very humiliating for him while it is me and his penis is soft and locked up

We both knew that we needed to have a frank discussion about intercourse but I decided that I would initiate that discussion on my timetable. I wanted the feelings associated with his recent failed attempt at intercourse to be fresh but also wanted the discussion when his hormones had him in full on pursuit mode. When I considered what I was going to propose, that our relationship would be better if we were not burdened with his need for intercourse, I wanted things to be just right.

“What is the purpose of us having intercourse?” “How does it help us?” Then I waited for his response.

He seemed genuinely caught off guard by my question. He had no way to know I was just getting started.
After a surprisingly long wait to hear the answer to a pretty simple question he replied
HIM: “Because it feels good”.
ME: “Is that what it has come to? We do whatever feels good?” Not giving him a chance to reply, I fired again “How do you feel when it is all over?”
HIM: “After a few minutes I feel let-down, almost sad”
ME: “How long does that last?”
HIM “Sometimes a couple of days”
ME: “Does something seem wrong with this picture? You have a momentary experience that you feel bad about for up to a couple of days”

I could tell by his body language that this was not going well but I refused to give up.

ME: “Us females can have fun without all the mess that a guy makes when he orgasms, why do you think that is?” Because that nature was designed to be very purposeful, can you tell me the purpose of a man’s ejaculation if reproduction is not the goal?”

The early church saw that the singular purpose of intercourse was pro-creation. It was considered a misuse of sex for it to be simply for sexual pleasure of the male. A wife was made with the ability to have many orgasms because that is what God wanted. Her orgasms were to be for their pleasure. The only reason for his orgasm is to make babies. To ejaculate his seed into his wife when children are not the goal is wrong. Worse, to be so callous as to have intercourse knowing full well that their is no intention to bear children angers God. I could tell he wasn’t happy but I was unrelenting. I get that way when I am right.

It is the role of the wife, the helpmeet, to steer her husband in the right direction and that begins with saying no to intercourse unless trying to have children. Wives shouldn’t replicate that mistake by allowing recreational intercourse.

That God designed a woman to have far more orgasms than her husband and their sole purpose is to bring her and her husband pleasure is a given.
A Godly husband will cast aside his carnal desire for intercourse and give his efforts for his wife’s pleasure.  Her orgasm was designed for them both.

The husband should get to a point that his ‘only’ pleasure is through the wife’s pleasure! It should be clear that his ‘finishing’ is NOT a source of pleasure that he should look forward too.
Therefore; HE is not expecting to ‘finish’, ever. He is totally satisfied by pleasuring her. Her orgasms IS his orgasms as well!
And therefore; there is no reason to unlock him (other then cleaning & comfort)

It’s just that his pleasure does not come from his ejaculation. His pleasure is: serving her with the utmost devotion and -when she is in the mood- giving her heavenly orgasms with whatever ‘tools’ she wants, which is obviously not his penis.

But….. I hope for his sake that at some point SHE has the desire that HE should have a full orgasm.
But that’s for her to decide, not for him.

 

1. An entire year of pussy-denial. That means I’ll be eating and stroking it for her on pretty much a daily basis, and she might even let me rub against her opening every couple of weeks just to remind me what I’m missing. But I’m not allowed inside her for an entire year. She will not even entertain the idea, and if I try to back out, she’ll add another year.

2. One orgasm every 3-4 months, depending on whether she feels like it.

i been in chastity life style for about 10 years
right now its 4 months since my last release yes long term lock up for me
she does not want sex an does not care for it but i do have to perform oral on her when ever she wish an use didlo vibrators
she does not care if my little guy gets hard in the cb an bustin to get out it stays there till she feels she wants to unlcok me for shving cleaning an back in again

I’m currently in pussy denial. Last time inside my wife was 10 months ago.

I’ve had one accidental orgasm since then, so that’s about one orgasm every 5 months.

I wouldnt know. My orgams have been taken away from me and I am not sure if Mistress will ever give me one again.
I am locked in a full steel belt now and its been like 8 months or something…I dont even remember what it is like to not be locked in this chastitybelt. I am only milked once every 3 weeks now and only if I am totally submissive and obedient at all times. Mistress told me recently this will continue for 3 years but she also sometimes says it is now permanent as she likes me so much better locked up she sees no reason to ever unlock it again.

I will say I miss orgasms very much though.

Incidentally, and possibly you are not going to like this, but I think your wife is being extremely generous in suggesting the idea of allowing you a maximum of 12 orgasms this year! I am sure once she sees how submissive you will become after just 30 days – she will want you to go 60! Then once this milestone is reached she could well be thinking 90 & so on!!

I have noticed that as chastity becomes more & more widespread, women are fast catching on to added benefit of chastity and that is Orgasm Denial. They soon learn that the longer a guy is denied an orgasm the hornier the woman & the guy gets! The big difference – is that the woman will get to orgasm!

also, my Wife/Goddess lets me pleasure her while i stay locked. it’s an incredible turn on.

Mistress likes to lock me back up so that, the next day I’m dying to come again – hornier than after the long term lock up – but no dice, its wait and suffer again!
Currently I’m being punished for not being properly submissive after my last release – 3 months minium lock up this time.

I can only dream of 30 days now. MSTRS was punishing me with a 90 day lock up until I disrespected her and raised my voice to her. She cuffed me to the mantle, arms out to the sides, clamped my nipples with her mean flat fronted serraded metal nipple clamps and gave me 300 strokes across my clamped nipples with the meaty part of her single tail while informing me that I must now go another month – 120 days. I won’t be raising my voice to her again!

Congrats on making it a year…I am sure its easier when you have no choice. Mistress kept me locked up through the holidays and New Years eve. Her total disconnection of the Holidays and my chastity have only now reinforced her total dominance and unyielding control of my life.

My chastity belt is now permanent as she simply milks me now. I cannot complain about it either as if I do, I am whipped and my milkings pushed further back.

I am locked in a totally custom made steel chastity belt which cost over 1000 dollars. My Mistress has decided that we are to live as Mistress and slave 24/7/365 and also that my chastity is pretty much permanent. Could I cut it off ? maybe…. I would likely injure myself trying and ruin a very expensive belt. It was her idea to get the belt and she is very aggressive about making sure it stays on me. If I started rebelling and wanted it off, it would likely end the relationship.

I love her with all my heart and although living this way is very hard, I now cannot imagine not being her slave.

So in essence I have no choice. It is non consensual. It is almost certainly enforced chastity. I cant take it off and she wont take it off me. I cannot pull out as it is very tight. I am so used to it now that I have just gotten on with my life except that I am a real slave to a woman I love.

It is not a cheap plastic toy for sure but I think my chastity lies in the realm of the belt being a symbol of my status, a 24/7/365 reminder of my status, a means of physical control, and a powerful deterrent from any self pleasuring. The intended purpose of the belt has manifested in that i’m totally dependent on her for any physical pleasure and so I think only of her needs and wants far above my own. I am totally submissive and obedient at all times no matter what is going on.

I suppose in part I am a slave to my own desires but she has brought me further than I ever thought possible, pushed my limits way beyond what I ever imagined, and repetition coupled with her strong desire to own and train a slave to this level has developed an acceptance of how my life will be run….by her.

It is now on it’s second Mistress and despite having been locked in it for over 400 days in total I have never yet found any way to escape, remove it or reach orgasm in it. There have been times, quite frequently in the early days, when I have begged & pleaded to have it removed. There have been others where I have tried for literally hours to find a way out of it, sometimes ending up crying with frustration at my failure. This I consider true, enforced chastity. I do not always want to wear the belt, indeed sometimes I positively hate it. It makes no difference – I cannot remove it and She will not remove it. I am locked 24/7. The belt is removed once a week by Her, with me fully bound, blindfolded and gagged. I am not allowed to touch or even see what is happening. Sometimes She will allow me release, other times She will simply clean me and lock the belt back on – no matter, I have no control, no chance of escape and no option! I have now not touched or seen my penis for 70 days, despite the fact that we have enjoyed sex frequently during that period. I am not cuckold and She is not interested in others – She simply insists that She be in charge of all matters sexual at all times.

She has made it clear to me that if I insist on release then She will unlock me, however it will be the end of our relationship. As I plan to marry my Mistress next year that’s not really something I’d consider – enforced chastity is a small price to pay for the strength of the relationship we have.

 

My loving wife has locked me in a steel chastity device to help me stop masturbating by not being allowed to orgasm without consent,

Strange change in mindset, prior to being placed in a chastity cage I would look forward to masturbating now I look forward to being anally milked I suppose you look forward to releif fitting to your position and as I am caged that means masturbating is now out of the question, but that said I am not craving masturbation anymore so maybe being kept in chastity is changing me. Mistress then requested the obligatory licking up my mess as a further treat.

She said that’s good news as our next contract will introduce you to being locked 24/7 more often instead of the current waking until 11.30pm, as you seem to be broken in almost to the wearing of a penis cage and ring. I intend to have you locked 24/7 Monday – Thursday each week with you returning to your waking until 11.30pm regime Thursday evening thru Monday morning. We will then together reappraise your confinement regime after your next contract period with a view of having you in full time chastity by Xmas if this is what you request. She says that her method was devised months ago prior to my initial contract where she has read that males need to be gradually a customised into chastity over a fairly lengthy period so that mentally and physically they accept their new submissive chaste condition without objection and that this then becomes their new normal position a gradual transition that ensures compliance and ultimatley submission . She advised that Milking would be something I would be looking forward to for arousal and satisfaction as ultimately anal stimulation would become my ‘normal’ male release mechanism and orgasm via a male erection she would allow maybe 4 times a year. However her end game as she has said before is to condition me to be unable to orgasm without Viagra and be effectively her impotent neutered male who cannot masturbate to erection anymore without her direct support. You will be more comfortable if I can get you to a stage where you don’t even attempt to erect anymore. Her idea of controlling a ‘neutered’ man excites her knowing that her man is now totally reliant upon her for any form of sexual satisfaction or release even via his milking. Once I am convinced you are truly transformed mentally and cannot erect anymore I may allow you release from your penis cage more often, however this may take some time so be prepared to be wearing a cage from now on until further notice, its for your own good. If we cannot attain your neutered state via these methods I would like to have you hypnotised by a colleague so that sexual excitement / erection is impossible unless commanded by Mistress a condition where you will be aroused and erected by a single command and orgasm’d by another command. Both commands will be subtle and a delayed reation will be inbuilt so that you are not aware after this conditioning that you are now controlled subconsciously and kept neutered via a subconscious process meaning that you may be released from your penis cage more often. This is not a process to rush if I want to achieve our end goals, however you are doing well so far I will get you there in the end.

To that end Mistress has Milked me again today getting more semen each time she performs the act so she is definatley getting better. I am to be kept dry she says so that even if I was allowed out there would be little point as you have no male fluids on any significance anymore and thats how you will now stay, chaste limp and dry.

My husband, who became my sissy after an affair ten years ago this month, has gone through a rather long series of treatments over the years, and I can offer this. If you are financially able to do so, the use of female hormones cause many changes in the male body. dickie has been through several rounds of treatment with the use of estrogen and androgens, that will, over time, in the proper doses, greatly reduce sexual drive or libido, as well as the physical amount of semen and prostate fluids produced. This makes chastity more easy to enforce and gets to the point that where chastity is no longer needed to prevent constant masturbation, lt alone the chance of being aroused in an extramarital encounter.But this is a big step, and can be expensive to follow up on.

Mistress likes me in my new small cage as she says its nice to see that my testicles are larger than my penis and thats how she wants me to look. I must admit having my sac hang lower than my penis is something new but I agree a penis smaller than ones sac is nice I suppose well as I now don’t have a choice I would say that

Mistress has re appraised the new cage length and determined 6.5cm is too long for her sissy so I have had to compress it to 5cm which is quite a reduction however my new 5cm penis pleases Mistress as she says it looks much more comfortable and discrete and has the proper effect that NO erection however small will now be possible and that it extenuates the fact my testicles are now almost twice the size of my penis, how nice . My normal penis size is around 6” when erect and now confined to a permanent 1.8 inches.

My first paragraph stated that I was to be locked in a non removable chastity device to help stop my masturbation all I can say is that after 50 days in the device it certainly works and any women out there that want to control their partners access to self stimulation put them in a chastity device for a minimum of 30 days with a view to having them in the device permanently which is happening to me. It started as our chasity play but then developed into our new lifestyle now Mistress has seen the benefits for her any myself. Having not been able to self masturbate now for so long I must admit it changes your attitude to this selfish act and I now crave to be locked and controlled rather than selfish self stimulation. I am more content being constantly on edge but having no way to release myself and subjected to periodic prostrate milking as a reward for accepting my new condition. I am so lucky to have a wife who will be my mistress. 50 days ago I was a free man to do what I wanted now I am her chastity controlled bitch and happy to be kept this way to serve her anyway she pleases.

We have noticed that an erection now no matter how hard cannot grow now to any meaningful force meaning it addresses two of Mistresses demands of me. 1) I am kept very small while caged 2) Almost no possibility of an erection feeling what so ever. These two adaptions means I have now entered into the possibility of 24/7 lock up from the previous 8am – 11.30pm which we used to ensure no damage and an overnight recovery period helping us use the cage 365 days if required.

I would prefer you to wear it from now on, it pleases me, will you be a good boy and go attach it to yourself from now on without being prompted. I will allow you out each evening unless under contract where I have the option to keep you 24/7 with it attached. I think you should now consider that I will require you to be wearing your cage from now on as I like seeing you caged. Consider it now part of your wardrobe, you would not go out without clothes would you so you won’t be going anywhere from now on without you’re new little attachment run along and put it back on please.
Looks like we really are going down the no orgasms and erections unsupervised from now on, how did this come about I thought it was our little game. Obviously game becomes reality once a Mistress see’s the benefits that my chastity brings for her. I am well and truly down the rabbit hole I guess. Has this behaviour happened to anyone else.

Mistress has a new requirement as a ritual I must perform each morning while I am caged. I am required to kneel and kiss her high heeled feet and then thank her for being so kind to me by enforcing my chastity. Of course I will comply Mistress gets what Mistress desires.

Mistress says as a reward for being denied for getting on 60 days she will dress as a Witch on Halloween and have me service her with my penis and allow me to cum. Then its back into my cage for an undetermined time.

Got to Orgasm last night after 60 days denial and caged having never since puberty have I gone so long without release the experience was very different from my normal orgasms. Firstly due to denial it took time for me to orgasm which pleased Mistress then when I did and I am always made to extract before coming as MIstress does not like male fluids inside her if she can help it. I extracted bursting to orgasm which I did however the orgasmic contractions squirted fluids out like a continious long gushing stream there was so much fluid to come out so much so the orgasm could not expel all of them and for half an hour later I had feelings there was more to come out and was dribbling. Seems like after this long chastity period there is so much stored fluids that one ejactaculation can’t eject the lot in one go so you feel like the orgasm is going on longer than it dose normally i.e a quick quirt. Mistress says I can eject myself now at will for the next two days then back in my cage until Xmas Eve.

I think I know what happened when I could not ejaculate all my pent up fluids once allowed to orgasm after 60 days. Due to the non use the muscles must have weakened not allowing a full ejaculation.. Mistress likes this concept of having a reduced ejaculation ability after release as she says that next time I am allowed to ejaculate on Xmas eve what I can’t extract on one go means the cage goes back on and its staying there until Easter. I must admit the ejaculation during our intercourse was really strange it went on and on after the initial squirt it was like a river but to my dismay I could not eject all of in in one go so next day Mistress made me masturbate to extract the remaining fluids, but not next time as I am to have a drooling ejaculation followed by the immediate refitting of my cage as soon as I am limp

Well it’s been a week now since I was allowed a drooling ejaculation and then immediately refitted with the 5cm cage. Mistress says that since I am well adjusted now to wearing a chastity device over the previous 60 days that it makes sense to have me locked for 10 days at a time using the timer safe. Therefore the timer was set to 10 days closed and locked then the padlock was clicked closed on my cage ensuring for 10 days I have no possible release from my minimised confinement cage.

Mistress liked the fact that once allowed to orgasm after over 50 days I could no longer empty myself in one go and then to have the cage refitted with fluids still built up in me is a real torment as you now want to extract again but cannot for another undefined period. This is the erotic and frustrating nature of keeping a man in a chastity device along with the fact he cannot erect anymore at will.

I have learned today that my chastity regiem is to be 24/7 for two months with no removal of my device and butt plugged each morning after using the bathroom. The chastity safe has now been locked for 10 days timeout and will be re locked each timeout until 60 days have elapsed. Mistress says that my rear plug will maybe help me self release fluids and condition me for anal only stimulation as ultimatley my penis will be effectively removed from me by being permanentley encased in steel. Mistress is also investigating full cover male chastity belts as a way to deny me total access to all my male parts thus allowing me access only to my rear. She says that since I have no need to have access to my penis and balls it is cruel to allow me partial access so it will be better if I don’t see or touch them anymore that way I can adjust to my new feminine role and will find it easier to adapt to my new lifestyle as her bitch.

Just a thought. Prior to having my cage refitted onto me my penis was measured at just under 4″ now I am a constant 2″ in my 5cm cage. Just brings it home when your testicles are now visibly much larger and longer than your penis. Also this new cage with the end cap means almost no stimulation so most of the time I can’t even feel my penis either except when I get aroused and its grows to a whopping 2″ guess there’s no need for anything larger when you can’t access it so there’s little use for having a males penis when its now used to just dribble pee

I’ve been allowed out of my cage for a few weeks now due to good behaviour but mistress says that my penis seems like its is getting back to its original non castrated lenght now I am allowed out and she much preffered it when I wore my cage which somehow seems to reduce my size most of the time and significantly shortly after removal of the cage when even my erections were about 30% smaller immediatley after being encased for 2-3 weeks so I have been asked to attach my cage again and relock myself for 10 straight days and nights using the time safe.
Mistress says that having a smaller penis most of the time and reduced erection size is the end game. She says that she would love the time when I can’t get erect on my own and have to toally rely on her and though mental conditioning she wants to control my ability to erect under all circumstances basically never being allowed to erect unless instructed to do so hence the cage to stop nocternal and involantary erections. She has also started saying that to stop my penis being used for intercourse she is contemlating having me PA and wearing a padlock through my penis as the norm that way she says the apendage can never be used on a female which makes my penis sort of a useless apendage when un caged. I must admit the thought of a permanent padlock through my penis whenever uncaged is kind of kinky but I am a little aprehensive I must say as going down this route my penis could and most likely will be attached to almost anything that takes her fancy to restirct me.

Mistress has decided that a reduction in my cage length is well overdue after observing a slight gap between my penis and the end of the cage and has further requested a compression of my cage from its previous 5cm to 4cm (1.5″) gradually reducing my caged penis length. She aims to get me down to around 3cm just over an inch. Keeping me now at 1.5″ is quite comfortable as there is absolutely no room to grow as such I have little pressure pushing on my ball sac due to an expanding penis as I am caged there is no expansion possible anymore.

Mistress has also pointed out that her original goal of making my penis insignificant compared to my testicles has now been achieved and that my balls are larger than my caged penis a nice proportion I am advised for someone who cannot use their penis anymore without permission.

I really like being locked in my new shorter cage as its benefits around nocturnal or in fact any attempt to erect are remarkable in that the erection never actually starts as the amount my penis is allowed to expand is so limited. As such the forward pressure caused by an attempt to erect on my balls is minimal as is the size of my penis now. Mistress takes pleasure in showing me my erected penis picture I displayed in a previous post to show me what I now cannot achieve anymore and to reinforce my chaste status.
Being unable to masturbate anymore or erect uncontrolled is my ultimate act of submission and her dominance over me.
I have seen mistress investigating a full steel belt for me so I can also no longer even see my genitals or touch my balls anymore once she attaches this onto me any sexual pleasure from my genitals will have been totally removed from me.

Yes I agree I am a well trained sub now and fully compliant with mistresses demands of me. I attribute my submissive attitude to being kept chaste and now only having a 1” penis so to speak 99% of the time so I can’t really see any point in it being any other way especially when mistress has the keys to my chastity cage I now have to wear every day. Having no freedom to erect like a man or masturbate anymore is quite humbling and has a profound effect on ones submissive state. I feel even more submissive when mistress fastens me via a long chain to my scrotum ring to some immoveable object confining me like a dog on a leash to a fixed area and naked most of the time.

I feel as though I/we have hit a milestone regards my chastity now, as I cannot feel I am wearing my device most of the time due to my penis being kept so small with the added benefit that it now rarely attempts to erect in its new confined home as its quite pointless. I feel that I am completely conditioned to wearing my chastity device for as long as mistress wants me too while conceding that I am now effectively a neutered male effectively her pet. Pet is a good description for my condition now as I am regularly tethered, pee how and where I am instructed too, wear no clothing while at home usually chained, wear what I am instructed to wear, and if mistress gets tired of me speaking I am penis gagged too.
I suppose I am finally broken in both physically and mentally to accept my position and have come to terms mentally that I am now the submissive. Its really amazing how through chastity and bondage you can be physically and mentally adjusted. I am happy with my new status and thank mistress for enforcing this position on me.

Once attached the penis grows/swells into the 4cm cage and is now restricted to grow significantly resulting in almost no pressure being applied to the based ring. This is one reason the sub should be kept in as small a cage as possible and this technique allows you at attach a very small cage onto yourself or sub which will ultimately please many Mistresses who aim to have their sub kept very small. A further benefit to mistress is that due to the extreme reduction the sub usually never tries to grow so gets less pleasure of even attempting to erect.

Men full orgasm is absolutely harmful. Its role is only for procreation. Ruined orgasm is much better for a man. Is good on the end of denial. Long denial and 3 to 6 ruined orgasm per year is absolutely enough. Less is better. A year ago, I abolish his full orgasm. After that, he had incredible improvement in his behavior. Long term denial still improve his behavior. His denial period is three months. I am very happy with his behavior, which does not mean it can not still be improved.

Although my Mistress Wife has not abolished full orgasms for me, they are very few and far between. Like 7 over the last two years. It’s funny, I’ll sometimes that guys have gone1 week or 2 weeks without orgasm, and they are going “crazy”. If they only knew what they are missing. I suspect that only submissive men in true loving FLR/FLM can understand the benefit of loooong term denial.

We honestly can’t recall if he has gone longer than 117 days in the past, it is actually beyond 117 now, but we continue to push the envelope by increasing the times between orgasms for him. I am amazed and impressed with how well he has adjusted.

To help to change his mindset on that I have already instructed him that when he is having his next orgasm, which will be in nine months, he will be looking directly into my eyes and apologizing for the orgasm while it is happening so as to connect his personal responsibility to the occasion. Hopefully, this will end his feeling like I am somehow to blame for it.

He should be giving you massages way better then the one you paid for and foot massages every day your the goddess, so just snap your finger and kick of your shoes and your husband will jump to obey you. I have my submissive husband waiting on me hand and foot all of the time.

My Wife slowly took away any reason I had for her to unlock me and she finally settled on a set reply, “Dear There simply is no reason for a married man to have a free penis! I used to unlock you to go to the doctor. After I found out she does not check you down there anymore that’s not a reason, so the only reason I can think of for you to have free penis and be unlocked is if you are going to have sex, well are you?”

I always meekly said, “no dear” and soon I stopped asking knowing that her answer would always be the same!
She has kept me locked pretty much all the time the past 9 years and this from very vanilla woman that I thought would never embrace male chastity, boy did she prove me wrong. She has become very demanding about me always being locked!

It certainly sounds to me that your wife has embraced her role of helping you not only become the man you are supposed to be but also she is helping prevent you from falling into danger. Every act of adultery, every affair starts first in the mind. If a man is masturbating behind his wife’s back while thinking of another woman he is not only breaking his vows he is setting himself up to have an affair. Thus the need for the device to be kept on 24/7 until these nasty habits are broken which typically takes years. Besides, why should he be off pleasuring himself when there is dishes that need done and floors needing swept?

I am in control of the lock and locking and find it a moving moment when he presents himself to me with his cage on waiting to be locked. This is a touchstone moment for us because it says so much. When he has the cage installed he comes to me to be locked. I am usually fully clothed while he is wearing only the cage. That moment is charged with excitement as we both know that when it gets locked it will be quite a spell before he is let out again. Sometimes I have him go into our bedroom and wait for a few minutes while I take my time getting there. What must go through his mind as he stands there waiting for me to arrive to seal the deal. I like to think this is also a teaching moment as he has often been impatient with me when I am running behind at other times and needs to practice patience. When I arrive I usually find a very respectful husband as I sit before him. I intentionally exam him to make sure it is properly installed making sure to capitalize on his vulnerability at that moment. I then retrieve the lock from my purse if I have remembered to bring my purse with me. Sometimes I have “forgotten” my purse just to have the enjoyment of having him go get it for me. My husband refuses to hold my purse when in public if even for a moment so there is a bit of irony that he goes to get it knowing it holds the key that wil lock him up. When I have the lock and key I usually test it to make certain it is working before slowly installing it while making eye contact when clicking it shut. That few moments after I have locked his cage and now heft his package in my hand while looking at his face is a very intimate moment for us. But after reading what you said, I may just like to try slipping on the penis part of the cage, could be fun as it waves goodbye to freedom. Frankly, because of our beliefs we have moved away from regular intercourse.

Because we are too old for children, there is no real need for regular intercourse. We feel that my orgasms were given to us for our pleasure so that is what we pursue. Occasionally Ken will have his orgasm via intercourse but that is limited to 2 or 3 times a year. The rest of his orgasms are allowed to happen by him rubbing himself on the bed sheets while orally pleasuring me. I like the connection that creates to his orgasm and further supports the thinking that without my pleasure he can have no pleasure. That also is preffered because it is easy to clean up and reduces the chance of my getting an infection. I do not allow him to masturbate . . . ever.

Getting used to a chastity belt overnight is difficult, but all the men adapt sooner or later. At the beginning, my husband complained that not sleeping well and I’m tied his hands handcuffed to the bed and removed the chastity belt. I woke up in the middle of the night, he lay on his stomach and rubbed his erect penis against the bed. He got a cold shower. His penis I locked in a chastity belt.

This issue has been resolved for all time. 24/7 is the best. After 10 days he wanted to give up. I told him that I am very proud of him, that is becoming a better lover and husband, and to I love him very much. It helped. At the beginning week of denial was a problem. After that he had a crisis when denial period was three weeks, next crisis was when his period of denial was 6 weeks. His cycle is about 130 days now.

My recommendation is to wife abolish his full orgasm and to his denial period is greater than two months.

 

 

After about three years of ramping up, lengthening my time locked she got me to where she keeps me locked all the time now. I’ve been locked in chastity at least 358 days a year the past nine years! She has eliminated every excuse I used to use for her to unlock me even going to the doctor, I see her doctor.

She is very demanding about making me re-lock after a month or more. She always makes me promise her that I will re-lock right after I shower or she won’t unlock me for a release!

She says, “Males don’t need to ejaculate! Their body will either reabsorb it or they will have a nocturnal emission!”

Twice she has made me go almost two months to cause me to have a wet dream and when I told her what happened she says, “Well there’s your release for this month! Hope you enjoyed it!”
I love it and I thrive on my Wife being stern with me. I see it as very sexy and it turns me on. The meaner crueler she is the more I love her for treating so abruptly.

I did finally admit to my wife that my inattentiveness and poor behavior on Labor Day was a result of having such a deep and powerful orgasm the day before. Her delightful smile and quick response startled me, “Okay, no more orgasms for you, then!” I feigned a shocked look, but thanked Donna and told her I would much rather please her than worry about when my next orgasm would be.

We had a fun conversation a couple of days later when I playfully tried to back out of the arrangement. “Remember when we talked about me not coming anymore? Can we reconsider that?” Donna smiled and said, “If you are going to be selfish and moody afterward, you will never come again. End of discussion.”

Donna has been happy and playful all week. Perhaps she knows that her loving, supportive husband is back and realizes that we are both most satisfied when her pleasure comes first! I’m not sure if I will be permitted release ever again, but I am feeling truly blessed to have a wonderful woman to love, cherish, protect, romance and serve.

When I accepted that I can have orgasms as much as I want and I’m not obliged to give my husband an orgasm, we both started to enjoy more. He has a strong mental satisfaction while satisfies me that is stronger than his orgasm.
Female-centric relationship is better for both. He has a much more energy, he spends a lot more quality time with me, gives me more attention. I love his passion. I love it when he does most of the housework.

An ideal goal would be to have your husband agree to wear his cage for a whole year, with no prospect of any orgasms, ruined or otherwise. This would demonstrate his undying love for you.

The next task would be to work out the logistics by considering the individual problems. To eliminate the need for shaving he could have a course of laser treatment at a beauty salon, to permanently remove the hair. The cage could be kept clean by having your husband sit in a bath, with disinfectant added, once a week and this would also improve his own hygiene, etc.

Everything that interferes husband to his wife stretched maximally satisfaction should be abolished. Husband’s full orgasm is best to abolish and and leave only ruined orgasm. His ruined orgasm needs to happen after long denial. Three to four times a year is more than enough.
All this helps husband to he have maximum enjoyment while satisfying his wife.The husband in this way more and longer enjoys. He sometimes experience strong mental orgasm while satisfy his wife. I love my husband and we both enjoy FLR.

We have been the chastity lifestyle for about the past 8 years with me locked all the time. It started after I asked my Wife to marry me when she made me promise to wear a male chastity device permanently.

Like your Ken I too get excited when my Wife gives me chores to do especially if it means my next release depends on them.

I like when my Wife is so demanding about requiring me to be locked all the time. She always makes me promise her that I will relock that day or after a shower before she will consider getting her key and unlocking me. I have gotten used to only once a month or longer releases and 4-7 weeks is common.

She desires a loving obedient husband and a well behaved one. Being denied orgasms sure helps me with the well behaved part and in truth is something we both love. I have been denied for going on 4 years and have not had an orgasm.