My owner Ms Lee enjoys keeping me in strict, long term chastity. I wear a chastity sleeve that I fashioned myself, secured by five tight ‘chastity chains’. The device is quite effective at preventing anything approaching a real erection and also enforces her 24×7 rule that prohibits touching myself in any sexual manner.

Early in the summer Ms Lee had me shorten my chastity chains by a link each to correct me for having an unauthorized release. It was purely an accident with no associated pleasure, but Ms Lee is firm and allows no deviation from her expectations. My chastity chains were already incredibly tight and there was little room for further tightening. Initially this was to be for a period of a single week, but that was extended for another week when I asked if it would please her to extend my correction. This cycle was repeated until finally she told me that I should just extend my punishment thru the rest of the summer.

The effect of my tightened chastity chains was astounding. As my correction passed the two month mark I made this list of the effects for Ms Lee so she could fully appreciate my situation:

1) My penis is constantly crushed by my tightened chastity chains
2) I have to sit down and pee like a girl because the chains are so tight that my pee continues to dribble out for a few minutes after I urinate
3) By the end of each day my punished penis is raw and red
4) At times my tightly chastised penis feels like it is being burned, I feel an intense stinging that will not quickly go away. When this happens I endure the pain by thinking about your pleasure
5) Erections hurt even after I remove the chains at bedtime. The deep impressions inflicted on my poor penis continue to cause pain as if the chains were still in place
6) I realize that the viciously tight chastity chains are conditioning me to prefer anal pleasure since any attempts to enjoy an erection are instantly corrected by the bite of the viciously tight chastity chains
7) When my tightly chastised penis does attempt an erection it is barely able to achieve 4 inches in length. And of course it is restricted to less than an inch in thickness. This is quite humiliating and I am really beginning to wonder if my extended, severe chastity might actually be causing my inadequate penis to become even smaller than it already is

It was so humiliating to realize that my penis had shrunk by over an inch! I was in a panic as I asked Ms Lee if she thought my penis might regain the lost length now that the chains were being loosened. I also asked her how I would ever be able to please a woman with such a small penis. My humiliation was intensified as I reflected that even with a six inch penis I had never really fully satisfied any of the women who had allowed me to try.

If I expected Ms Lee to sympathize with my predicament I was sadly mistaken. Instead she clearly demonstrated that she desired to magnify my humiliation as she directed me to update my blog with a full report on my punishment, the extensions thru the summer and all the effects upon my poor penis.The reality of my situation really sunk in as I realized that Ms Lee did not seem at all concerned that my already inadequate penis had become even more so. It was obvious that she thought the issue was insignificant other than creating an opportunity to further humiliate me.

Somehow I do not think that adding back a single link to my chastity chains is going to allow my shrunken penis to regain any significant amount of the length it lost. Hopefully it won’t shrink any further, but I suspect it won’t matter very much anyway. It has now been over 140 days since Ms Lee last allowed me to enjoy an unruined release and she seems to have completely lost interest in allowing me to enjoy erections. Instead she is now apparently on a campaign to train me to appreciate anal stimulation, but that is another story.

I’m exactly the same as in the previous post. I’m in a Lori #5, so there’s no teste ring it’s just held in place by the snug tube and the head of my penis, and locked on with a 0g PA pin. After 10 months (it never comes off – ever – and most likely never will) my cockhead seems bigger, all the blood goes there and the base of my shaft. It seems like my penis head has gotten bigger, always slightly engorged. I’m always semi hard, but it seems my penis has adapted to the tube and changed shape a bit, and the head has filled out the space it has in the tube, under the bars on top.

I have been locked for around 4-5 years, I can’t remember exactly when we started. Over that time I have lost only an inch in length ( 6.5″ down to 5.5″) but I have lost 1.5″ in circumference, ( 6.5″ down to 5″). Most of that was been locked in cb3000 so it is exciting to see what happens while wearing a much smaller Jailbird over the next few years.

Well my subby has very definitely shrunk over the years since he’s been locked 24/7/365, which for me is a definite added bonus. Also increases his sense of inadequacy – just how I like it!!

Definitely all depends on the people involved. For me…locked up means locked up…period. I don’t get out at all. If my wife wants some pleasure, I give it to her…but I don’t get anything until she decided to unlock me.

He hasnt had a full orgasm since last December, and I have no plans to let him have one. That doesnt mean that Im not serious or that Im slack, Im VERY strict. He has been milked, not regularly but it does happen, he IS edged on a regular basis and he has had a few ruined climaxes but that is all. HE IS STILL CHASTE

My lovely Mistress Sarah had me doing chores plugged, and now 55 days and desperate in the CB. She often says She will keep me locked for a year, just to see me cry…Today was chores all dressed as Her maid, plugged, nipples clipped and a very leaky clit. She enjoy watching me mince about the house doing all the cleaning, laundry, serving Her lunch all while i dripped like mad…Permanent chastity sounds very difficult, i doubt much if i can handle much more, but i don’t dare whine, or complain, just serve Her pleasures…

I am currently in a Mature Metal Jailbird with the security screws. She used blue Loctite on the screw this time. It is supposed to be removable with the key. She is 64 years old and has already made the decision of permanent chastity at the point she no longer desires penetrative sex. She feels close enough to that point to already have purchased red Loctite.

I prefer to be with woman who believe in permanent chastity. I dont know why, but I cant resist woman who think that men should never cum again My last affair never wanted me to cum. So it was kind of permanent chastity. I had no device. I was just not allowed to cum as long as I wanted to be with her. I was just allowed to make her cum.

I’ve known since the first time in a device, 10 years ago, I desired permanent chastity. That night, laying spooned together after some sweet one-way orgasms, I actually whispered in her ear, ‘please keep me caged forever’. Knowing now that it will happen because she wants it, the day she looks in my eyes and seals it with the red Loctite will be almost as wonderful as the day she agreed to marry me.

We have found a wonderful small & confining device, which serves to not only remind me, but due to it’s size, really deters masturbation. Even though I desire it so strongly, chastity without a device is not really practical for me. We are a very secure, mature couple. The only thing that will ever divide us will be one of us passing.

My KH wife is taking me to prolonged lockup duration, targeting 3-4 times a year.
May be later it will be once a year. She can’t even dream of me being castrated.
It’s like this. You use your precious jewelry once or twice a year. Does that mean you dispose it off?
There is a great pride in ‘possessing’ something valuable though it is not used often.

As Owner of slave peter on here and elsewhere and of course in real life, I should like to ask members here about permanent long term chastity of male slaves. Knowing there is a distinct line drawn between male slavery fantasy and fiction to real life male slavery to a Female and also where chastity is used by couples wishing to put a spark into their marriage there begs a question that is very often misconstrued regarding whether chastity is worthwhile in long term unconditional slavery of males to Females.

let me put it this way, slave peter is on a long term unconditional slavery to me and has been permanently locked without relief, except being anally milked every three month,s. I don’t allow any masturbation, nor self relief whatsoever and he never expels,s his filth without being in chastity. He knew this when he signed my contract and has never mentioned or begged to be released as he knows it would be pointless anyway.

As he is 45 years old, his breeding days (if he had any) are well and truly over, not physically as I realise many males can still breed well after this age, However, he has chosen a life of servitude to me on his own free will and cannot escape, even if he wanted (at least not without dire consequences). The question is, (at the risk of being slated here) that should it be legal in this country why is not correct or sensible to have him castrated ? or rendered properly impotent? Now I know I risk all the stupid remarks on ethic,s and morality here, but my slave is quite happy to undergo this for me, and yes I can take him to Thailand or Mexico and have it done legally I know, it just seems rather silly and stupid. Lets face it, any male who is on here, single and without an Owner and is over the age of 40 are probably masturbating furiously and pretending to be chaste ! anyway. All males unowned or uncontrolled will masturbate incessantly as to them it is pure fiction or wank fodder. My view is once a male has decided on a life of slavery to a Female, then he basically gives up all rights to function as an intact male, unless his Owner decides he can. Some Female Owners want an intact male, I don’t. And to perfectly blunt, keeping him locked and having to milk him occasionally is a chore I don’t need or want. As a Female Supremacist, I find single males furiously masturbating over porn and the Female body very degrading and suggest that when a male is unowned, unmarried and over 40 they should be either castrated or put into permanent chastiy. vey controversial I know, my view only.

I am in permanent chastity for 5 years because I can not satisfy my wife with my little sex.
As I understood my situation and that I love my wife, I respect his decision.
I emptied by milking every six months.
Now, my only goal is the pleasure of my wife.

I enjoy the castration fantasy, and often ask my slave if he would willing have it done, or threaten him (fantasy} with it. telling him since his dicklet is unused, why does he need it. but it would take such pleasure away from both of us, as i so enjoy teasing and torturing it. im sure there are people that go to the extreme, and to each her or his own.

I sense from my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder that it doesn’t matter whether it is porn, sexy ice dancers at the Olympics, a smartly dressed professional woman clicking down the aisle in her heels at the grocery store or a sweaty female jiggling by our home in her form fitting spandex jogging or power walking that she takes delight in knowing that these images arouse me and that I can only look longingly and leak away.

It was my idea given that maintaining my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder’s feet and toes is one of my responsibilities. She receives many compliments on her toes in warmer weather and does not hesitate to offer up the information that “our bedroom” is where she goes to get her pedicures and that I am the person performing them…sort of embarrassing, but the reactions are usually an expression of jealousy and admiration that she is lucky to have me trained so well.

Day by day me & my KH wife are enjoying my chastity more & more.
While I enjoy serving her, she enjoys a TOTAL control over my dick.
She is more possessive about the key than her jewelery!
She now has a large collection of chains, handcuffs & collars – all for me!

I have kept my husband locked for the last 3 years. A few months ago I discovered he had cheated and masturbated without permission, so I decided his punishment would be permanent chastity (that means no more orgasms for him). He’s only 27 y/o, so his sex drive is quite high, which is really frustrating for him.

Not letting him masturbate or have penetrative sex, made him really submissive, which I took advantge of to transform him into a sissy. This means he’s always fully shaved, his only underwear is sexy lingerie, preferably pink, and the only sex I allow him to have is giving oral sex to me, my bf or whoever I want. If he behaves well, sometimes I penetrate him with toys or let my bf or others fuck his ass. I also tease him regularly and force him to sleep buttplugged, but obviously he’s not allowed to orgasm under any circumstances.

Today my wife said that she no longer felt any guilt or pity for not giving me an orgasm and liked things the way they were when I did not have one. She further stated that she no longer wanted to give me an orgasm on some arbitrary future date because that is what I wanted. She said that often she did not want to put up with my mood after an orgasm for the next 3-4 days and then wait another 4 or 5 days for me to get to the point where I was willing to do anything she wanted and no longer argumentative.

There was also talk about how many times she made me cum when she was not in the mood and how it is her turn now to have orgasms when I did not. She also told me that since she always had her orgasm first because after I had one, I would go through the motions with her, she too lost interest after a few orgasms and just wanted to relax and not have to work on me. What ended up happening is that pointed out that our Valentine’s Day agreement only specified no orgasms for me until that day but did not say I would have one. Darn, I did not consider that. Anyway, she left it at denying me an orgasm for whatever period of time she wanted to and that would usually be if I was very obedient and did not piss her off and when it would contribute to her orgasm, not just because I wanted one or she felt obligated to give me one.

I do not know how long she intends to deny me and now my eager anticipation of Valentine’s Day is ruined. Yet, I do not know if she will let me have an orgasm of if I am going to have to wait until she feels that she needs me to cum for her enjoyment. In the past, she did take pity on me which is why we had the no orgasm agreement in place. However, I did not anticipate what would happen after that. I assumed and assumed wrong.

I had my usual one week panic attack and told my wife that I cannot sleep and need sex. She got mad at me and said no. It was an interesting day. She took me shopping and bought $200 worth of lingerie to tease me with. She made me carry the bags. Then it was off to food shop. Usually I just tag along but this time she was barking orders for me to fetch the items she wanted to buy.

When we got home she told me to unload the car and bring all the grocery bags in. After that she modeled the lingerie she bought but told me not to touch. She really has embraced teasing and denial in a big way.

I told her that she was under no obligation to make me cum on Valentines Day as she had previously said. I told her to just make me cum when she wanted me to. Her reply was that could be a very long time. We talked some more. I mentioned that she is getting moe dominant each day. She said she was aware of that and she liked the control over me. Then she said that if it was up yo her, I would never cum but I said that it would be good to give me an orgasm or two each month to make sure the plumbing was working and clean out the pipes.

She also wanted to add that I get one warning to adjust my attitude or else she will add another week to my chastity period. Whether she really would or not, I do not want to chance it. She had read on some website that after the guy has his orgasm it is important to put him right back into a submissive frame of mind. To that end, she wants to lock it up right after I have my orgasm.

Mistress decided it would be at LEAST 90 days before allowing me to unload. At 90 days she said she could see no reason to allow me to unload ….. it ended up being 234 days before she unloaded her balls.

I am now at about 45 days and she says she will not even consider it until at least Memorial Day and more than likely it will be at least Labor Day. She does unlock me and do Training Sessions where she may edge me several times without release. She also allows me to “visit” her but her cock must always be put in a cock sheath to enter her.

We are now trying for at least one month of chastity. My wife has lost any guilty or dutiful feelings that used to make her give me an orgasm earlier than she wanted. One big difference is that before, she always unlocked me for sex and would edge me over and over for an hour. I would beg for an orgasm and sounded very pitiful. The difference now is that she keeps me locked up all the time so her teasing does not elicit the same response to me. I have found that if I just respond to her teasing but do not beg for release, she is not conflicted about what to do. Now I just tell her how good it feels and that I never want that feeling to go away.

Well……….. It’s finally happened. Amy has decided, and I can only agree with her decision though it pains me because I DO enjoy them, that it’s a bad idea for me to have any orgasms at all in the forseeable future. I need to update my ticker when I’m at home because the Sunday before last she did allow me to have two, but the memory of those two and how good they felt will have to last me at least for several months, if not a year or years. Indefinite period of chastity indeed.

I love being used by Mistress, She told me this morning, your tushy needs some play soon. That’s because she loves to peg me. She turns me into a wimpering, submissive , Sissy bitch. that needs her cock so so bad. And she is so aware of that! I would do anything for her, She owns me. She fully understands what she is doing, and what direction she must continue to take me, into her SPELL! I need her, and want her. And adore her!

Last month after a edging session and after i calmed down and put my cage back on i returned to bed to find her naked and she simply said you have 2 min to orgasm but you will wear a condom and your time starts NOW.
i rushed to get my cage off and find a condom all the while she was counting down.

Suffice to say i was only inside when it was over… it took 30 seconds.
My KH was delighted ??

The next day i enquired why was she so happy about it and does she not worry if we were to stop with chastity that this PE problem could remain from her training me like this.
Turns out she is not worried at all and this is actually a plan to faze out “HER” penis in favour of her Favourite BBC dildo that she has been saving her self for to enjoy in the next 3 months from now, So im to under go further training until then.

As much as this is shocking to hear, i so enjoy using the Dildo on her with the harness. (Never seen her cum so hard)

At least now i know my retirement date.

With all of that edging though I bet you were ready to explode at the thought of her letting you penetrate her. I have a strap-on that allows me to be wearing my cage and take her with the dildo. She likes that since it allows her to feel like a cock is in her while still keeping me locked up. Keep up the good work!

My size started to dwindle too. Today, it is barely 5.4″ when really hard, and 5 1/4″ when hard most of the time (we/she measured it just last night). So now, instead of being in the “average” range, I’m in the bottom 25% of size and my wife loves it more as it gets smaller. She says she’s shooting for under 5″ hard !

We’ve also moved from the plastic CB to a mature metal CB (Queen’s Keep), and physical/emotional step has been a huge one for both of us. Instead of looking down and seeing something plastic that could easily be broken off if desired, it is clearly permanent. I can’t describe the increase in submissiveness — almost like now I can’t wait to be locked-up, and forcibly kept in it forever.

So we just ordered a new mature metal Jail Bird which they said can be curved down more sharply. We’ve also shortened the cage length to only 2″ because I often have a little space in the 2 1/4″ Queens Keep when soft. And it seems my wife is very serious about getting my maximum length under 5″ when hard.

I clearly went from 5.9″ to 5.4″ when extremely hard. I know that sounds terrible from a male perspective, but it is erotically fulfilling to a submissive. I asked my wife for her thoughts before I posted this reply, and She said (actually texted me): “The shrinkage is a tangible reaffirmation for my husband that he cannot adequately satisfy my needs. This satisfies his submissive needs and my dominant sexual ones in one very happy outcome for us both!”

Ten years ago, my subhub was about 5 1/2″ erect. These days, he’s down to four at the most. LOL

I’m usually in for a minimum of 6 weeks at a time. My longest is about 5 1/2 months and I was suppose to go longer, but had to fly somewhere due to an emergency. She says she wants to try to go longer, but it will be a surprise when that happens. Fortunately she doesn’t like to go without penetration from me for that long. However we’ve been talking about doing a routine, where I’m released from the belt for penetration but not allowed to cum (cock ring works well for that) and then after she gets off, I’m locked back up without an orgasm. Should be interesting.

Just hit 182 days today ….. slave has begged for Mistress to let him unload but to no avail. Her reply is usually, “slave hasn’t earned that reward” She has ruined it twice and has allowed me inside her for a short time to allow her to feel me inside her but warned that I had better not mess inside her and has always pushed me out if she felt I was close to unloading.

It has now been 126 days again and Mistress has said it will most likely be a year this time “because slave behaved so well before” She said she plans to keep me locked 100% of the time so slave can concentrate on pleasing and pleasuring her and not be worried about her cock.

on day 53 atm> Every new day is the longest ive been. Im having no difficulty adjusting to the life. I dreamed of being locked by a beautiful woman for years. Now i have found one and she has not mentioned the idea of an orgasm at all. I have no intention of ever asking either, as the control she has is far more arousing to me then any orgasm. If she told me i would never have another one. I think i would be ok with that
I am going to count myself among those who have made it for 90 days. The official number of days is 89 and I was released about 15 hours into the 90th day.

I did recover after. My keyholder noticed it instantly, saying there was a lack of passion in the backrub I was giving her after my release. There were certain chores that had become habit for me (making dinners, cleaning house on the weekends, etc) but the bliss of doing them was gone. There is a definitive change in your point of view as you go longer and longer without.

We absolutely did NOT stop our chastity play after that 90 day stint. My wife has become a very enthusiastic keyholder. We have yet to match the duration of that experiment, but we are currently en route to doing so. She has set my date this time around to March 1st, which will be 120 days locked.

After 4 years of chastity i think that i have become pretty experienced in staisfying Chistine sexually but as a lesbian

We started anew with full submission on my part agreed to in Jan 2012. Since that time I was permitted 1 orgasm in October of 2012 and one in August of 2013. My Wife/Mistress/Keyholder is liking what we have embarked upon more and more and I do not sense any plans on her part to permit another orgasm anytime soon. It has become the “new normal” for us. I must admit I never expected it to develop as it has…sorta expected it to be “earned orgasms” with dates on the calendar if I was meeting expectations and lots of T&D. My penis has become like the fine china you see every day safely kept in a cupboard with glass doors…rarely used or touched, but in plain view. Use of plug and plug harness has seemed to take the place of the “need” for her to have to provide penile stimulation for me; I generally “get lucky” (plugged) about once or twice a week—about the same amount as we used to have sex in the vanilla sense way back when. “Let’s get busy Sweetie, go get dressed and harness up (put on some hosiery and plug harness w plug).” her common request. Things are very different…once you reach 90+days I think things change. If you allow it to happen, be ready for some inextricable changes that will be difficult to reverse on for you and your Mistress. Physical changes too…hair trigger sensitivity…my last orgasm I did not last 20 seconds inside her. She positively loved the feeling of removing any ability I had to prevent myself from climaxing so quickly. Even the appearance of my penis has changed…the texture of the skin on tip of my penis has turned shiny smooth and it is hypersensitive in my underwear on the occasions I am permitted to be out of my device (extremely physical athletic endeavors, doctor appointments etc.). 90 days is a drop in the bucket now for me, but it has a price so be ready to pay it! It may not be quite what you have bargained for…

It wasn’t a surprise for me. My chastity started for a week at a time, then built up to a month and so on. Then one day it was announced by Christine, “from this day on your only sexual activity will be in satisfying me”. True to Her word that has been the case, almost on a daily basis. very gratifying it has been as well for both of us.

My most intense / horrifying / depressing moment in chastity was on the night of November 1, 2014
It was absolutely without informing me
That night my wife chained my hands & legs & I was blind folded, unable to move
Then she permanently sealed the locking post of my cage with Araldite, the super glue
Now I satisfy her with oral sex – cunnilingus
Since then my erections and my life, both have gradually calmed down

I think that a Lockedboy must to live with his cock permanently locked in a Cage for depriving him of erections and not allow him to cum never again ….. but I am also categorically convinced that, also his hole must to be used to long time, and when it isn’t used, is necessary to put in it inside a Tunnel to keep it constantly wide open 24/7.

My husband has been in his Lori tube now for 8 months. But I have purchased a new smaller cage. He has been able to grow a bit in his current one and the inner was enough to allow a little as well. The new cage is a half inch shorter making it 1 inch and the inner diameter is now 3/4inch. It will be much tighter and not allow any growth. I have spoken with Lori extensively about it and this will be a perfect fit. He doesn’t know it but tonight the old one comes off and the new one (that he doesn’t know about yet) will go on. After a week trial to see how it goes, it may be be the last time he is free for the year.

I am excited. I love this lifestyle. But, I am going to give him a treat tonight that I said I’d never give him, I am going to let him have an orgasm unlocked and inside me (with a condom) since we aren’t pushing for kids. He has never done this before. He deserves a reward for being so good

I have been locked in a Mature Metal Watchful Mistress for an entire year! I am allowed out by my Mistress occasionally for release and immediately locked.  I have to say for the first time I feel the total emasculation that comes from no longer owning a penis. My KH and I are both loving the dynamic this new level of security has added to our chastity relationship.

Tonight is one of our scheduled sex nights. I like to know when I will be teased as it allows me to get through the rest of the week, knowing that I will get some sex, even if just teasing, which I really enjoy.

She allowed me two hours of freedom and then asked me to lube up real good and put it back on but this time with the medium size Points of Intrigue (POI). She knows that my penis will try to get hard all day in anticipation of tonight.

I will be called out for dinner and then after I wash all the dishes and clean off the table, I have to take a shower, shave and lay down on my bed naked, waiting for her to enter. She would have told me whether she wants me locked or not. If I see a whip, paddle or crop on the bed that means as least 50 smacks on my butt. Most times more, as she is getting more comfortable in keeping on going despite my cries of pain. Last time it was 65 strokes but she wants to work up to 100 as she thinks I am getting used to it.

I can lay on my bed naked with arms by my side, until she enters the room. The wait can be anywhere from 10 minutes to two hours. Depends if she is watching a movie on TV or just wants to make me squirm in anticipation. I once made the mistake of yelling out to ask her if she forgot about me and painfully learned to never do that again as she skips the teasing and administers only the pain.

This is our normal routine for sex night. If we have a date for my orgasm, the day is much different. It is romantic. I massage her whole body by candle light.

Yesterday my wife lay on the bed with her dress up round her tummy as I lapped at her clit, me fully clothed, wearing my device. This happened just as I was about to go food shopping after I cleaned  the house. After two great orgasms she commented that “that was really lovely, thank you” and sent me on my way. She doesn’t count the weeks I’m in chastity, doesn’t take off the device which can be cleaned without removal, or give me ruined orgasms, she just enjoys the results.

My wife has become more assertive and whereas at the beginning she would have worried about my orgasms, now she’s enjoying sex on her terms, and has told me so!

hello Lady, I have had my slave locked for 2 years and 7 months plus, his only time out of a cage has been for cleaning and shaving, a little teasing, or to change cages. i have seen no reason to allow him orgasm, he has has a few ruined cums while locked, but no full release. he drips from time to time, but thats about it. his balls have a nice color and look big and beautiful. fun for me, since i enjoy busting! but as of today, there have been no problems.

She allowed me a 30 day break-in period, key in hand. Then she requested the key back. And now, even though we’d never made a week before, I’ve been caged for 5+ weeks and she is ready for long term/permanent chastity. She tends to ebb & flow on her long term desires, but has made it clear that 6 months is the minimum this time. That takes us to Thanksgiving.

If you want him to permanently accept you as his keyholder, then tattoo your name on him that is visible
This has worked wonder in my case
My wife has made me tattoo her name on my forearm
Cage & collar can be removed, tattoo can’t be, so easily

Last night my KH wife gave me a shocking news.
She said she is quite bored taking in the same junk for the last 25 years, and now she needs change.
So she has ordered a strap-on dildo from ebay.
It should arrive in 15-20 days and she is eagerly awaiting to take that 7″ long solid dildo in.
OMG! Now what about me? Will she ever release me which she used to, for sex?
Because once she experiences the pleasure of a dildo, I fear she won’t let me in, never.
I just imagined that she has strapped on the dildo on my cage & I’m giving her the pleasure of PIV sex!
I am worried & little nervous because she may leave me in permanent chastity.

Well, if the Strapon does give her more pleasure than you ever do, what would be the point in unlocking you? Always remember that you are there for her best pleasure.

If you TRULY want to please your Wife & a strap on can do it better than you can, than that is what is important so go for it. my Wife has not needed me to penetrate Her since mid 2012 & has found that Her Hitachi & a variety of other toys, including a strap on i wear for Her, works adequately to satisfy Her sexually. It’s kind of an unwritten rule for us, but if i am not needed to be unlocked for Her to get pleasure, then so be it. It was what i wanted a long time ago & i am now living that fantasy. i understand that this arrangement may not be for everyone in chastity, but it works for us & i am perfectly happy this way

Was very intense…Prior, yes, but for the last 6 months, she has become more rigid and is playing strict with the control. So I am only let out to please her, then put into mental or physical chastity. I am lately (last three months) only allowed to cum in my cage or, if out, swinging free with no stimulation…both situations the orgasm is stimulated as in the situation last night, by anal penetration/prostate stimulation. She has expressed a great deal of curiosity about how that works/how to get it more exact so that she can control it better, so I think that is the driver (she is curious). We have a background in animal husbandry, and she has lately been discussing Electroejaculation as fascinating, watching videos with me of them doing this to bulls and other animals…we’ll see where that heads, I have visions of this being me soon

We decided to get a PA piercing, probably the best decision we made as now D has no issues with leaving me lock without any release with full denial indefinitely. D also gets serviced by me regularly and at anytime she requests, that orally. It is exactly 5 months today that I was last allowed intercourse and an orgasm, but this has not been an issue and our relationship is stronger than ever.

I’m on 120 days today with no end in immediate sight and no talkeven really of when I might be released or not. I don’t want to bring it up and she only speaks of “youll get out when I have use of it.” I wonder some days if she’ll ever have use of it again ever!

We worked through some issues and I looked in the mirror and realized that for this to be legitimate that I must forgo my topping from the bottom and any expectations of how I think she should behave or treat me. I timidly suggested we try again in January and she jumped right on it apparently missing it as much as I. No more directing, no more whining and I am now learning to stifle frustration and disdain about mundane things or requests and just smile. Things are great at the 6 month mark. Plenty of backrubs, footrubs, pedicures, massages, prepared meals/refreshments as my work schedule permits. She is more than satisfied with one of her vibrators 3 to 4 times per week. For this interval my only pleasure has been to hold her closely and feel her explode into orgasmic shudders while laying astride her. I have not questioned it but there is no kissing her on the lips, no oral worship, only minimal touching of her breasts (to help with her orgasms) and cuddling. No touch from her…just some mild nipple play the other day ( heavenly!) I did question several weeks ago and was informed my behavior needs to be ingrained before she thinks of actively teasing me let alone considering an orgasm for me.

No unlock for any reason what so ever, still on my current stint which is now by far the longest. But I don’t have the cleaning and shaving issues due to the device.

Guess what I got for my birthday on Aug 1st this year! I got one year in lock up. I’m locked in my PA 5000 with the DreamLover 2000 attached and my keys have been put in the vault and it’s been set for 4 months. The reason that the safe is only for 4 months and not the full year is that is how long the batteries last in the DreamLover.

It’s important to mentally “sit back” and accept the sexual denial as the way of life that is mine now. Although i did ask for it, i did not think She would love it so much. i know now that there is not much sense in worrying about the effects of long term chastity. Whatever they may be, they will be.

Shouldn’t being locked up make you focus on your keyholder?
Hopefully your wife or S/O. For me when i am locked up which is 24/7 i cannot even look at another woman lustfully i can’t get my eyes and lust off of my Wife.

At least in my case, after about 4-5 weeks my entire personna begins to change. Making Madam happy is much easier as the primary focus of my life. Thoughts of sexuality become much more passive feminine. I desire to be taken and used; to be penetrated, and not do the penetrating. But also sexulaity becomes much less a driving force.

I easily maintain my focus on my daily tasks, am much more responsive to Madam’s needs, and significantly more encouraging and supportive of Madam’s assignations.

arousal isn’t a factor for me. After a few weeks I don’t really get aroused unless madam has decided to do something to make that happen. It just is what it is, and my mind accepts that arousal is pointless. My deire to keep Madam happy is not conditional on my sexual feelings.

I went through what you are in the middle of a couple years back. Thank god we are past that. I am currently at 101 days since having an orgasm with my Mistress, and 73 days from an orgasm of any kind having had an accident at that time. I was caged for a month for that among other most unpleasent things. Normally i get 2 orgasms a year. My birthday and our aniversary or once every 6 months.

My last orgasm was Feb 29 so today is my 6 month anniversary. During the last 5 years I was allowed to cum 3 or 4 times per year. The longest continual stretch was just over 10 months and the shortest was about 1 month.
I have been told that my next cum will be on Feb 29 again, i.e. 4 years total of denial.
I often think what that day will be like. After 4 years will I beg to cum or not to cum?

Longest denied time when in a relationship was 6 months though I used to get out often and we’d have intercourse. My longest locked and denied is my present one and have not been out at all for over 12 months the end of this session is at least 12 months away, or so I’m told. It coul dof course be less than that but I’m more inclined to think it will be longer.

158 days has been my longest but I am regularly locked for 90+ days and Mistress has decided that I will now be locked 24/7 with no end in sight so it could be permanent

It has been a while since I posted under this topic so to summarize, I went 291 days before my lovely Wife/Mistress/Keyholder allowed me out for a fabulous orgasm on our anniversary. I am now back up to 38 days and counting. Life is so busy for us right now that intimacy of any kind is in the back seat….and so, I am just plain locked up and shut down as I have come to learn women like their man when “life gets in the way”; no masturbating to porn,

Defining the philosophy of Female Dominance, conducting a female led relationship in public and allowing a man achieve complete peace within himself through dedicated service to a woman continue to be the cornerstones of our relationship.

When our conversation touched on the ending of a FLR relationship, she was quite clear about it. Anything less that total obedience from a submissive male under her leadership could only have one result -There’s the door.
We talked about the necessity to maintain the purity of a FLR whilst in public. Lady Christine, however, was adamant that a FLR should remain robust and healthy whilst in public regardless of who we were with, and over time she would train me in ways to accomplish this.

“It’s not a true Female Led Relationship until it can function smoothly wherever the woman takes him,” she explained. “If he is properly attentive to her, he will be able to serve and obey her with grace and dignity absolutely anywhere in public.”

She will now happily let me know, for all present to hear, that I may be allowed just the one glass of wine tonight, that she has decided it’s time for us to leave or that I am to take care of the bill. I, of course, am required to obey immediately, politely and without a murmur of dissent.

Why should it be shameful or shocking to see a women tell her male to hold her packages or order her male to pay the bill and wait in the car while she does more business with a women colleague. FLR relationships should not be hidden in the home any more.

Women have become the main decision makers within marriages as more and more women are in charge of the checkbooks and the bank accounts. Women are becoming the main breadwinners in many families, and even in families where the husband has a higher income it is the wife who makes the financial decision.

I often tease my husband that sex was designed for the woman’s pleasure, not the man’s pleasure, and the male orgasm can never measure up to the intensity and pleasure of a woman’s orgasm(s) once she comes into her sexual prime.

After all, submission is really about servitude and worship, and servitude and worship, when broken down, are about intimacy, adoration and romance.

I love what we do in the bedroom as much as he does, if not more, because our motto is “sex is for the woman’s pleasure”. Sex has become all about my pleasure and a man who learns how to focus on a woman’s pleasure is a man you always want to have around.

The different punishments I’ve used are corner time, spanking (which involves the strap or paddle) being made to wear panties, pegging and mouth soaping.

My wife has been spanking me in front of her sister once or twice a year and it has had a dramatic influence on the number of times she has to spank me. I absolutely hate the ritual of being striped and spanked to tears in front of her and knowing she is probably giving her husband (my brother in law) all the details. Making Bob take it in front of a witness is probably the ultimate proof that you are in charge.

After months of threatening to spank me in front of a witness my wife chose to make her point by asking her sister if there was somewhere we she could take me to “adjust my attitude”. I don’t know if she had had the discussion with her in advance but my sister in law looked surprised when my wife took her hair brush from her purse and led me to the room her sister pointed to. I began to object when we were alone and she asked if I wanted her to call her sister to watch. I immediately decided that I didn’t want that and she really did adjust my attitude. I was really embarrassed when we returned my sister in law said” very interesting ” as I apologized . I know next time she will watch

My wife paddles me on a regular basis with a Spencer Paddle.

She prefers me restrained on the bed face down so I set up the bed so she can use eye bolts in all four corners and leather cuffs. She can secure me tight so I cannot move or get away.

She likes me gagged so I cannot complain or if I do the noise is muffled. She always selects a pair of panties from her hamper and uses a piece of duct tape to hold them in place.

My husband has been paddled, flogged, caned or strapped for a number of years (and, previously, by his late wife). The frequency of such treatment varies according to his behavior, but he ‘gets it’ at least once a week. Every so often, however, he is subjected to a “disciplinary week” during which he will get spanked once or twice every day – and he is also liable to get more than his share when we are on vacation.

When I married him, he had already been well ‘trained’ by his first wife (who was a good friend of mine), and I had watched her spanking him on a few occasions. Accordingly, I already knew that he not only accepted, but also – in a manner of speaking – ‘enjoyed’ being disciplined. Of course, he also feels the pain

Jen is actually a stricter disciplinarian than N. (my late wife). She claims that the skin on my backside has grown thicker from years of repeated (and frequent) chastising, and that she needs to paddle or flog me harder to ‘get the message across’…

I found that he often apologized somewhat flippantly for something he’d done, not because he was genuinely sorry, but because he knew I was upset about it. In turn, I accepted his apology, but silently held on to resentment for whatever it was. When I wasn’t angry with something he’d done, but hurt, he often told me that he wished that there was something he could do to demonstrate how sorry he was, even though I had accepted his apology. I suggested that we institute a punishment system – something that was pretty uncomfortable for him, and that would require him to submit to me and humble himself to apologize. After he had accepted and I had delivered whatever it was, he could feel forgiven, and I could feel that he was genuinely sorry.

In cases where I am upset with something he’s done, I will wait until we’ve calmed down and let him know that I feel a punishment would be appropriate for his behavior. Enjoyment is the last thing on his mind during a genuine punishment. Part of keeping those two worlds separate is fairly simple… We have one spanking implement used for punishment only, and one anal toy used for punishment only, stored in a separate place from everything else. That helps keep the mindset on discipline and not erotic activities for both of us.

I believe punishment should be sufficiently painful to correct behavior, but I don’t believe it should be administered cruelly, or with anything but love. It can be very hard, especially when it is a more severe one and I can see that it’s causing him pain. I have spanked him to tears on a number of occasions, and I believe strongly in holding, comforting, and ensuring that he knows he is forgiven afterward. I don’t “peg” him per se (we’ve found it’s simply too much for him) but I’ve modified the punishment in such a way that I’ll have him lie down, lie behind him, and insert it fully. After that I’ll hold him through what is inevitably a lot of squirming and wincing and pain, but eventually he reaches a point where the tears come, he is no longer resisting even though it hurts, and I am lying there with him in my arms, comforting and correcting at the same time. It takes an incredible amount of mutual trust and intimacy to punish someone that way and for the other person to submit to being punished that way, and I am grateful that we are able to share something like that… Afterward, I have laid with him for hours, him feeling completely forgiven and close to me and me having completely forgiving him and feeling close to him. Another benefit is that he is totally obedient and humble and begs to wait on me hand and foot, which I generously allow.

You recently finished up a punishment for Bob by pegging him and you got turned on. You had him lick you to orgasm after the pegging because you were very wet and you said you reached orgasm quickly. You also said that enjoyed having control over him during his spankings.

He should respect you all the time and I’m sure he does but if you start giving him what he needs (spanking) then he will learn to respect you even more or pay the price.

In closing, this is my summery, Women (yes with a capital) are rising in power, we as males are losing power, society will become more Female centric, Women will increasing make rules that they feel are proper, and increasingly they will teach us how to follow those rules, and we will be better off for it.

I married a woman who wanted to control our finances and expected me to do a significant part of the house work.

my wife also keeps me locked in chastity and we both feel oral sex for her is our sex life, we both know my 30 second mess isn’t worth the clean up or attitude for a week so she has recently decided to keep me locked for a year with no orgasm
I hope I can make it lol

You’ve got it right when you say “permanent wooing mode” This has changed me chemically. I think it drives me even deeper into wooing mode having so much intercourse without ejaculation which is exactly where she wants me. There’s not an aspect of my life she doesn’t exercise control over. I never dreamed I would have a wife that would set my bed time or have to get permission to spend over $50, approval for a grocery list and produce a receipt for her inspection, permission to eat out for lunch, wipe her after she uses the bathroom.

Of course it helps no end if your partner is actively restricting access to her body; sometimes I am not even allowed to kiss, and must ask permission, which of course increases the value of a simple kiss a thousand fold.

I’m locked away in my chastity cage since my last orgasm, which means I haven’t grown more than 2.5 inches long in over a month. It will probably be at least another two weeks before it does grow long. I will likely have a half-dozen orgasms this year, maybe eight or even ten if I’m lucky.

Now that my slave is permanently locked into ‘The Helmet’ chastity device with the KTB I do not permit him to orgasm or achieve erection. He is milked once a month with my gloved finger.

A moment in the kitchen is sexual, a look, a smile, a text, a call, a card, flowers, a touch. These do not lead to sex, they are sex. When I stroke his back, when my hand rests on his leg, when my fingers run through his hair, we are having sex. When he sees the smile on my face as he cleans for me we are having sex. When I leave him doing dishes to go shopping, or scrap-booking we are having sex.

this slave simply wears a necklace with its Owner’s name, Sonia, an S charm dangling from its left pierced nipple and a slave tag engraved from Mistress’ chastity lock that reads “DOOMED FOREVER”.

simple little constant 24/7 reminders

24/7/364, now in my second year of this regime. Thats locked all the time, not removed for cleaning etc as its not necessary to remove with the Loris’#5.

Except for regular cleaning (Mistress supervises) I have been caged for over 3 years now.

Well – I’m not locked – He is!
Permanently! – and he loves it as well. As much as it terrifies him, as much does it turn him on and make him so humble and serving. Still get my penetration when needed, but he struggles! It has now been like 130 days, -and he is doing just fine. So is the tube his is captured in. Apart from a brief encounter with a summer-edition – a more open device during vacation – he is always totally deprived the ability to feel anything down there – because of the closed tube. Only when I want him to he can feel me. But that does not happen all that often.

And for “cleaning the pipes” and stuff – I do not really believe in that.
I have come to understand that his body will reabsorb his surplus production of semen, so really no need to go for milking and such. Haven seen any enlarged filled up scrotum because of the long denial.

And certainly no ruined orgasms either!

It might be so that he does not feel the greatest of pleasures by the hand of a ruin orgasm, ( but I would not really know – would I? – are men pulling our legs here??) – but he certainly had a quite notable change in his behavior after I tried it once. He was not on his toes, to the same degree as before. So – there will be none. Only some devious edging, when I feel like it..;-)

Remember – it is not about his needs!

He managed to convince me – way back – that the true energy in our take on the lifestyle was for him to trash his needs, and to focus entirely on mine. That was his wish, and so far he seems to enjoy tremendously that his wish has come true. And I am keeping him to his promise. I even feel I owe it to him, – to enforce the arrangement;-)
I pay him back for his sacrifice by denying him so intensively… He is not even allowed to kiss me or touch my body without permission. It is amusing to see him on his knees, groveling for the chance to cuddle or kiss me.

She is in charge. She controls the bedroom. She decides if I’ll be free for the night, or for a weekend day or not; not me. She checks to see if I’m locked. I don’t grope her. She determines how long my time in denial will last and I honor her authority by letting her know, “I’m getting close” or by refusing to self pleasure during those times I am free for the day. And through it all – all of those things, all of those feelings, all of those rituals, all of those spontaneous actions – reinforce the bigger picture – of her being in charge.

I have been married to my husband now for just over a year and wanted to let you know how things have been going since John and I discovered your site about 8 months ago.  He get a Prince Albert piercing and Guiche which could be locked together with a small padlock. We did this and it healed quite nicely and we finally got to the day when it would be locked together. Unbeknown to John however I had decided to go one better and had a stainless steel tube manufactured that was curved and had a slit at the top for his P.A. to fit through. It was plastic coated for cleanliness and only small enough for a flaccid penis to fit into. John would not be able to touch himself, have an erection or be able to urinate standing up again unless I wanted him to.

On the day I allowed him to be the aggressor in our lovemaking for the first time in a long time. That meant he was allowed to be on top and to penetrate me for a full 1 minute before he was made to withdraw.

“Firstly John” I smiled, “this arrangement will last at least a year during which you will not once feel orgasm.”
I explained that I was in complete control of his manhood and his sexual release forever.

I then explained that I was tired of him as a man and produced for him his first very own pair of panties. As his little cock was now securely tucked between his legs I explained he would no longer need male underwear. With the help of a sanitary pad (which he eventually would have to go out and buy himself) he looked quite feminine.

Over the first week until his milking he became quite horny and remarked at how it was difficult at times to think of anything other than release. He found it difficult to go to the toilet sitting down after having been able to stand all his life and was frustrated that the tube kept him limp all the time. I told him to get used to it as this was his life now. He was going to become a sissy maid for me and my pleasure was all he was going to live for.

I tried with my mouth for a bit and she informed me that wasn’t going to do it. She told me to get the key and I fucked her. In the end she did cum and I, of course, did not. I really wanted to though. Sometimes I enjoy the feeling of denial and happily pull out with a feeling of satisfaction. This wasn’t one of those times. I wanted to cum. I knew it wasn’t happening and I would regret it if I did, but that didn’t stop me from wanting it. An orgasm for me is 80% emotional ow.

Belle and I discussed several things afterwards. The first of which being her mental state with chastity. She doesn’t know when I will have my next orgasm and she no longer feels guilty making me go a long time. A “long time” is subjective anyway and since physically I don’t “need” an orgasm, time between them shouldn’t really matter.

A new device. We have been talking about a new device for a while. We will be buying one with our tax return. We have discussed a Steelheart as well as a Pet Trap. She said she is fine with either device but wants me to realize that with the Steelheart, I will have to go weeks without ANY stimulation since there are no holes in it like my Jailbird. It will not be a reason to be unlocked more frequently. This will take some thought. Not sure I’m ready to give up that aspect. Although the appeal to the Steelheart is that denial as well as denial of seeing my cock. It may be a little much for me. I told her that if this is the case, I will need even more mental stimulation.

1. It prevents him from masturbating. Male masturbation is a filthy habit. It’s addictive, selfish, and disrespectful to women. Chronic masturbation has the effect of substantially diminishing a man’s natural sexual desire for his wife of girlfriend. It unfortunately teaches him that his orgasm is primary, and hers is secondary…

2. Because he can’t even get an erection without her permission, it instantly changes the dynamics of the relationship…

3. It keeps his sexual focus and energy on his wife or girlfriend…

4. It will substantially increase his desire to orally service his wife or girlfriend…

5. If he’s never been an ass-eater, after having his penis locked up for a few weeks, he will be…

6. It serves as a constant reminder to him of her authority…

7. Because it makes his orgasms entirely dependent on her generosity, it positively incentives him to honor her, respect her, and motivates him to please…

8. It gives him the time and opportunity to substantially improve and perfect his oral skills…

9. It reinforces the idea that pussy is a precious gift that must be earned, and is to be savored and appreciated on those rare occasions when he does get it…

10. It teaches him that sexual activity with his wife or girlfriend doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with HIS penis…

11. It deepens his submission to her, and will cause him to worship the ground she walks on…

12. It will significantly improve his attitude, and make him more generous, caring, kind, respectful, and loving. It will help soften the sharper edges of his me-first masculinity. It will make him more of a listener than a talker…

13. It helps prepares him for the eventuality of anal penetration, and getting the strap-on. Because his penis isn’t being sexually stimulated, it has the effect of gradually turning other parts of his body into erogenous zones, particularly his anus and his prostate. With patience and persistence, he can be trained to orgasm from stimulation in that region via your finger, or the strap-on…

14. If his orgasms are consistently controlled and severely restricted, he will eventually get to the point where he will do just about anything to cum. You’ll be amazed by what he’ll do for you…

Note that there is no reason for the man to be erect during this process.  I rarely touch Evan’s penis during this procedure, and he doesn’t either.  Sometimes he gets hard, because if he hasn’t come in 1-3 weeks, he is excited about anything remotely sexual (and this definitely is sexual).  But I don’t touch his penis during the process.  It just dangles there, dripping.  It’s a beautiful thing to watch!

I usually milk Evan for about 5-8 minutes.  At this point, the drips have basically stopped.  Then I often turn the dildo so that it has the normal side up, and I peg Evan deeply for a couple more minutes, just because it’s fun for both of us to do this. I like it when he moans his adoration of me during all of this process.  Sometimes he will say “thank you, maam” every time I push deeply on his prostate or penetrate him.  It’s good to be appreciated.

Evan also tells me that he feels very submissive to me at this point, when I am massaging his prostate: apparently it’s when he feels most submissive to me.  He gets very quiet and subdued: not alpha male at all.  As you might imagine, I like this very much.

 We put a little dish or a cup below Evan’s penis during the milking process, to catch all the semen (the milk!).  Once the milking process is completed, I make sure that Evan drinks this down.

This time my wife has stepped and declared this is what she wants. In her words “I’m not letting this go. This is your life now. Get used to it. You may ejaculate and think your free periodically, but when you come back, I’ll be here waiting”.

I think it may be different this time because this time we’re practicing semen retention based on her feminist beliefs, and she is really anti male masturbation. She just thinks it’s a bad thing with all kind of bad consequences for me. It would be a major hitch in our relationship if I tried to back out as she’s not letting go of the semen retention thing. In her practice, the female orgasms as much as possible, and the male just doesn’t or does so very infrequently, or does so without ejaculating which I’ve heard can take years of training. It’ essential to her that the male retain sperm in order to devote himself to the female’s pleasure. She’ll do anything to make sure I achieve all the benefits of semen retention.

We, probably like most people, started out slowly and worked our way up to longer lockups. When the longer lockups started, during the first year she would allow me an orgasm if I was good. We were getting reacquainted with each other and our lives started to change for the better.

After the first year, she decided that I would only be allowed a ruined orgasm from now on. No more full orgasms and the long lockups continued. She has pushed me as far as 6 months without unlocking except for cleaning and only to get a ruined orgasm before being relocked for another 3 to 6 months. This went on for several years.

Last year, after having some numerous discussions about the original intent of sex as designed by God and pondering the reality that there is no real need for the male to orgasm except to procreate we both decided that near permanent orgasm denial for me would be best for the both of us. We will complete that first year next week. This time the lockup periods have been a little different. No less than 3 months, sometimes longer, but after a couple of them, she unlocked me for brief sessions of repeated serious edging and denial then locked me for another 3 months or so.

I haven’t had a full orgasm for longer than I can remember and haven’t had any kind of release in almost a year and will may never have one again. And guess what, I’m more than okay with that!
In fact, we both are.I would have my wife chime in but she is out with a friend shopping and I stayed home to get the house cleaned so she won’t have to.

Now that we understand that his orgasm was unneeded for my/our satisfaction we have all but eliminated them. The result is that he is in a near constant state of pursuit and I allow him to capture, pleasure me, and then continue with the pursuit until he captures me again.

We have settled on a Jailbird and have not looked for another since putting it on. He wears the device 24/7 probably 350 days out of the year with only a removing it for cleaning reasons before putting it back on after his shower. If you are getting 2-3 a month to her 12-15 that is a good start but I think that that is too many for you and she needs to cut back. Secondly, please make sure not to let this become just about the sex. Find other ways to pursue her and make her happy. My Ken seduces me by doing housework of my choosing.

It is simple. I don’t think he needs to be unlocked. His permanent chastity creates a peaceful atmosphere. It is wonderful.

You quoted exactly my wife’s words!

Yes, we are having a wonderful life since November 2014, when she sealed my cage. My wife has categorically stated that she is never ever going to unlock me. No discussions. To experience the pleasure of this kind, one needs to be locked permanently!

Over the last few years, She has increased the amount of time i spend in chastity to the point of Her current position. She has decided i will be in permanent chastity for this vary issue. She is tired of my continual obsession with Her property and the hassles that go along with the multitude of devices, keys, and my constant questions of Her “plans.”

The only thing She has said is that my chastity is permanent, but She will revisited the issue in two years if i remain compliant, non- questioning, and non- argumentative.

I am in permanent chastity 5 years because I can not satisfy my wife because of some sex.
I understand his decision and I respect it.
As I’m crazy about her, it is only my wife must have fun.

I introduced chastity lifestyle to my wife in April 2012
She not only liked it, but took it quite seriously
Till April 2014, we used to have PIV sex about once a week
However in April she decided that I should not be released even for sex
Last week, as usual she chained both my hands behind my back and blind folded me
Then she unlocked the padlock
Then to my surprise, she inserted thick steel wire in the locking hole and bent it with pliers
Then she applied waterproof epoxy adhesive and sealed the lock post
I was left chained for about 2 hours, till the adhesive cured
So now release is just not possible unless the locking post is cut with saw
No more sex

I have been locked in chastity for almost exactly 3 years now by my wife. She releases me for sex of one form or another about every 20-30 days. When released, my wife first locks a steel collar around my neck, to ensure that I lock my device on again afterwards. Oral sex for her is about twice weekly.

I find that there are times when I hate it and want to remove the device, but that is what the lock is for of course, for those particular moments. Then when I realize I cannot remove the device, I get that “controlled feeling”, and I am hooked again….every time.

I am told to kneel in front of her and she points to her boots/shoes/feet which is my signal to start kissing and licking.

After a while she will tell me to stop and asks, “Do you want to make me happy” to which i of course reply “yes”.

She then signals to me to continue with my foot worship, this goes on for an hour or more.

Eventually Mistress will stop me from worshiping her feet and ask again if i want to make her happy, “Yes Mistress”.

She will say “The reason you want to make me happy is so you will be released from chastity, correct ?”

“Yes Mistress”

“Good” she will say, “to make me very happy now i want you to beg me to let you remain in your CB for another week”

The reverse element.

I so want to be released, but i also want to make my beautiful Wife happy so i bow my head.

“Please Mistress, will you allow me to stay locked up for another week”

She then teases, “Sorry slave, i didn’t hear you” or “well if you really want to, i was going to let you out tonight and let you have sex with me, but if you really want to stay locked!!”

When my wife and I got into long term chastity a few years ago I
always wanted to masturbate and cum. Now Ive realized that I don’t
feel that way now. We agreed to stick to a few rules this time.

1. Only the wife can orgasm..I ejaculate without orgasm every 3 weeks
or so.

2. I cannot masturbate.

3. I am locked at all times when at home.

4. I cannot cum during sex..sex is only when the wife wants. Once she
has had her orgasm I must refrain from thrusting and let her slide me
out and re-lock me. I may not receive oral sex or manual stimulation
of my genitals. Essentially…my cock is now only for my wife’s
pleasure.

I to only view sex as something for my wife’s pleasure. On occasions I am allowed sex with her and only then allowed an orgasm. Over time I have found greater pleasure in pleasing my wife in whatever fashion she desires, than from any orgasm I am allowed.

Today – Valentines day, she has told me I am going to be locked up permanently, by which I mean that I shall no longer have ANY time out of the tube without her. I simply do not know if this means that she will give me release again and when I ask she does not give me an answer. I know that at the very least I shall be kept in chastity for possibly months, and I know I shall never be free to abuse again – EVER. I know she MEANS IT

I may mention we have recently got engaged so my married life will always be one of total chastity.

I just had my B-day several days ago. My wife/mistress has kept me locked up without any release for 50 days. My birthday came and she decided to tease me all day long. When it was time for bed, I satisfied her as always without question. Afterwards she just said good night and that was that

A happily married monogamous male, we decided in 2009 that penetrative sex for him was over due to her wishes. After realizing that a female dominant, male in chastity relationship would work best, we’ve enjoyed moving down the path of a female led marriage and pegging became our normal form of intercourse. She, of course, gets all the orgasms She wants and last year had well over 2,000 orgasms as fulfillment of a goal She set. While we won’t have that many this year, I will still have none (except anal orgasms which are quite different).

He bagan his pursuit of my affections by kissing my lips, my neck, my breasts all while his fingers worked their magic. I turned over and to allow him to kiss the back of my neck, which gives me chills everytime, down my spine, and attend to my rump. I then rolled onto my back and said we are ready for take off! I allowed him to slowly make his way over me and he paused to allow me time to guide him in. When I reached down between his legs I stopped just short before I kissed him one more time and asked him to be a dear and get his cage on.

I tried, I really did try to keep a straight face but the look on his was priceless!

When he asked me why I told him we always have your cage on when you are pleasuring me so you don’t have an accident silly. As he kneeled there looking dumbfounded I reminded him this is what he asked for so go put the cage on.
I told him of my plans, of my hope to show him this is not what he really wanted for a birthday, but at least I hoped he would find it inwardly enjoyable and memorable.

Then I handed his list of chores for the day. He seemed a little shocked

While he had to perform his usual chores he also was going to be putting our winter clothes in storage, weeding my flower beds, scrubbing my bathroom top to bottom, making sure the house was spotless for his birthday party that evening, making his birthday cake and going shopping with me in the afternoon.
After my shower I was going to swing by and see my mom for an hour before having lunch with a friend. I would return to pick him up so we could go shopping and buy me gifts with the money that normally would have been spent on his birthday. His expression of disappointment was not supported by what was happening in his pants.