This time my wife has stepped and declared this is what she wants. In her words “I’m not letting this go. This is your life now. Get used to it. You may ejaculate and think your free periodically, but when you come back, I’ll be here waiting”.

I think it may be different this time because this time we’re practicing semen retention based on her feminist beliefs, and she is really anti male masturbation. She just thinks it’s a bad thing with all kind of bad consequences for me. It would be a major hitch in our relationship if I tried to back out as she’s not letting go of the semen retention thing. In her practice, the female orgasms as much as possible, and the male just doesn’t or does so very infrequently, or does so without ejaculating which I’ve heard can take years of training. It’ essential to her that the male retain sperm in order to devote himself to the female’s pleasure. She’ll do anything to make sure I achieve all the benefits of semen retention.

We, probably like most people, started out slowly and worked our way up to longer lockups. When the longer lockups started, during the first year she would allow me an orgasm if I was good. We were getting reacquainted with each other and our lives started to change for the better.

After the first year, she decided that I would only be allowed a ruined orgasm from now on. No more full orgasms and the long lockups continued. She has pushed me as far as 6 months without unlocking except for cleaning and only to get a ruined orgasm before being relocked for another 3 to 6 months. This went on for several years.

Last year, after having some numerous discussions about the original intent of sex as designed by God and pondering the reality that there is no real need for the male to orgasm except to procreate we both decided that near permanent orgasm denial for me would be best for the both of us. We will complete that first year next week. This time the lockup periods have been a little different. No less than 3 months, sometimes longer, but after a couple of them, she unlocked me for brief sessions of repeated serious edging and denial then locked me for another 3 months or so.

I haven’t had a full orgasm for longer than I can remember and haven’t had any kind of release in almost a year and will may never have one again. And guess what, I’m more than okay with that!
In fact, we both are.I would have my wife chime in but she is out with a friend shopping and I stayed home to get the house cleaned so she won’t have to.

Now that we understand that his orgasm was unneeded for my/our satisfaction we have all but eliminated them. The result is that he is in a near constant state of pursuit and I allow him to capture, pleasure me, and then continue with the pursuit until he captures me again.

We have settled on a Jailbird and have not looked for another since putting it on. He wears the device 24/7 probably 350 days out of the year with only a removing it for cleaning reasons before putting it back on after his shower. If you are getting 2-3 a month to her 12-15 that is a good start but I think that that is too many for you and she needs to cut back. Secondly, please make sure not to let this become just about the sex. Find other ways to pursue her and make her happy. My Ken seduces me by doing housework of my choosing.