I have a variation of the “beg for a pegging” ritual that I use
on David from time to time.

At the start of the month, which is when I often change his
rules for the coming month, I make it a rule that the only way
he will get any sexual relief in the current month is to beg for
a pegging.

He has to approach me when I am eating my breakfast in the
morning by crawling under the table and kissing my feet. There
he can ask politely something along the lines of…

“Please, I beg you, will you peg me today Mistress.”

Then, I will respond with something like. “I’ll think about it,
now go away and do some work, and no wanking today or you’ll get
no sex at all and a good thrashing besides.”

It doesn’t do, I think to allow him to control when he gets
pleasure. So later in the evening, if I am in the mood for using
my strap-on I may well peg him with that. But if I don’t feel in
the mood for that that I’ll peg him in a different way, by using
clothes pegs on his genitals and he will get no spurting that
day.

In any case, even if I do decide to use my strap on, an orgasm
(spurt) is by no means guaranteed for him. That will depend on
what behaviour or mis-behaviour my questioning of him reveals
while I am fucking him from behind.

If he has been very good, then while I’m pegging him with the
strap on, I’ll let him use the tip of one finger of his right
hand to stimulate his own “big clitoris” at the same time like a
‘girlie’. He is permitted to do that until he spurts or I stop,
whichever comes first. If I stop before he spurts, I might
remind him that many women don’t orgasm in love making, so he is
in good company.

The fact that I might stop at any moment is an incentive for him
to not languish or attempt to prolonging any pleasure he might
feel from playing with his clit, but instead to try to ‘cum’ as
soon as he can.

If he manages to spurt before I’ve finished shafting him, he has
to catch all the mess in the palm of his right hand, which means
the stimulation stops at the very moment he starts to spurt. In
this way the only stimulation he receives while spurting is my
thrusting into his rear.

He tells me that this whole process makes him feel very
submissive. And of course that is just the way he should feel
when allowed to spurt.

If any of his mess lands anywhere but his hand, then a good
thrashing follows straight away, and there is nothing worse for
my subby hubby than a thrashing after a spurt.

Of course he has to lick his hand clean and eat all his mess,
which is something that many subs like David also hate doing,
because after a spurt they tend to feel less like submitting.