My most intense / horrifying / depressing moment in chastity was on the night of November 1, 2014
It was absolutely without informing me
That night my wife chained my hands & legs & I was blind folded, unable to move
Then she permanently sealed the locking post of my cage with Araldite, the super glue
Now I satisfy her with oral sex – cunnilingus
Since then my erections and my life, both have gradually calmed down

I think that a Lockedboy must to live with his cock permanently locked in a Cage for depriving him of erections and not allow him to cum never again ….. but I am also categorically convinced that, also his hole must to be used to long time, and when it isn’t used, is necessary to put in it inside a Tunnel to keep it constantly wide open 24/7.

My husband has been in his Lori tube now for 8 months. But I have purchased a new smaller cage. He has been able to grow a bit in his current one and the inner was enough to allow a little as well. The new cage is a half inch shorter making it 1 inch and the inner diameter is now 3/4inch. It will be much tighter and not allow any growth. I have spoken with Lori extensively about it and this will be a perfect fit. He doesn’t know it but tonight the old one comes off and the new one (that he doesn’t know about yet) will go on. After a week trial to see how it goes, it may be be the last time he is free for the year.

I am excited. I love this lifestyle. But, I am going to give him a treat tonight that I said I’d never give him, I am going to let him have an orgasm unlocked and inside me (with a condom) since we aren’t pushing for kids. He has never done this before. He deserves a reward for being so good

I have been locked in a Mature Metal Watchful Mistress for an entire year! I am allowed out by my Mistress occasionally for release and immediately locked.  I have to say for the first time I feel the total emasculation that comes from no longer owning a penis. My KH and I are both loving the dynamic this new level of security has added to our chastity relationship.

Tonight is one of our scheduled sex nights. I like to know when I will be teased as it allows me to get through the rest of the week, knowing that I will get some sex, even if just teasing, which I really enjoy.

She allowed me two hours of freedom and then asked me to lube up real good and put it back on but this time with the medium size Points of Intrigue (POI). She knows that my penis will try to get hard all day in anticipation of tonight.

I will be called out for dinner and then after I wash all the dishes and clean off the table, I have to take a shower, shave and lay down on my bed naked, waiting for her to enter. She would have told me whether she wants me locked or not. If I see a whip, paddle or crop on the bed that means as least 50 smacks on my butt. Most times more, as she is getting more comfortable in keeping on going despite my cries of pain. Last time it was 65 strokes but she wants to work up to 100 as she thinks I am getting used to it.

I can lay on my bed naked with arms by my side, until she enters the room. The wait can be anywhere from 10 minutes to two hours. Depends if she is watching a movie on TV or just wants to make me squirm in anticipation. I once made the mistake of yelling out to ask her if she forgot about me and painfully learned to never do that again as she skips the teasing and administers only the pain.

This is our normal routine for sex night. If we have a date for my orgasm, the day is much different. It is romantic. I massage her whole body by candle light.

Yesterday my wife lay on the bed with her dress up round her tummy as I lapped at her clit, me fully clothed, wearing my device. This happened just as I was about to go food shopping after I cleaned  the house. After two great orgasms she commented that “that was really lovely, thank you” and sent me on my way. She doesn’t count the weeks I’m in chastity, doesn’t take off the device which can be cleaned without removal, or give me ruined orgasms, she just enjoys the results.

My wife has become more assertive and whereas at the beginning she would have worried about my orgasms, now she’s enjoying sex on her terms, and has told me so!

hello Lady, I have had my slave locked for 2 years and 7 months plus, his only time out of a cage has been for cleaning and shaving, a little teasing, or to change cages. i have seen no reason to allow him orgasm, he has has a few ruined cums while locked, but no full release. he drips from time to time, but thats about it. his balls have a nice color and look big and beautiful. fun for me, since i enjoy busting! but as of today, there have been no problems.

She allowed me a 30 day break-in period, key in hand. Then she requested the key back. And now, even though we’d never made a week before, I’ve been caged for 5+ weeks and she is ready for long term/permanent chastity. She tends to ebb & flow on her long term desires, but has made it clear that 6 months is the minimum this time. That takes us to Thanksgiving.

If you want him to permanently accept you as his keyholder, then tattoo your name on him that is visible
This has worked wonder in my case
My wife has made me tattoo her name on my forearm
Cage & collar can be removed, tattoo can’t be, so easily

Last night my KH wife gave me a shocking news.
She said she is quite bored taking in the same junk for the last 25 years, and now she needs change.
So she has ordered a strap-on dildo from ebay.
It should arrive in 15-20 days and she is eagerly awaiting to take that 7″ long solid dildo in.
OMG! Now what about me? Will she ever release me which she used to, for sex?
Because once she experiences the pleasure of a dildo, I fear she won’t let me in, never.
I just imagined that she has strapped on the dildo on my cage & I’m giving her the pleasure of PIV sex!
I am worried & little nervous because she may leave me in permanent chastity.

Well, if the Strapon does give her more pleasure than you ever do, what would be the point in unlocking you? Always remember that you are there for her best pleasure.

If you TRULY want to please your Wife & a strap on can do it better than you can, than that is what is important so go for it. my Wife has not needed me to penetrate Her since mid 2012 & has found that Her Hitachi & a variety of other toys, including a strap on i wear for Her, works adequately to satisfy Her sexually. It’s kind of an unwritten rule for us, but if i am not needed to be unlocked for Her to get pleasure, then so be it. It was what i wanted a long time ago & i am now living that fantasy. i understand that this arrangement may not be for everyone in chastity, but it works for us & i am perfectly happy this way

Was very intense…Prior, yes, but for the last 6 months, she has become more rigid and is playing strict with the control. So I am only let out to please her, then put into mental or physical chastity. I am lately (last three months) only allowed to cum in my cage or, if out, swinging free with no stimulation…both situations the orgasm is stimulated as in the situation last night, by anal penetration/prostate stimulation. She has expressed a great deal of curiosity about how that works/how to get it more exact so that she can control it better, so I think that is the driver (she is curious). We have a background in animal husbandry, and she has lately been discussing Electroejaculation as fascinating, watching videos with me of them doing this to bulls and other animals…we’ll see where that heads, I have visions of this being me soon

We decided to get a PA piercing, probably the best decision we made as now D has no issues with leaving me lock without any release with full denial indefinitely. D also gets serviced by me regularly and at anytime she requests, that orally. It is exactly 5 months today that I was last allowed intercourse and an orgasm, but this has not been an issue and our relationship is stronger than ever.

I’m on 120 days today with no end in immediate sight and no talkeven really of when I might be released or not. I don’t want to bring it up and she only speaks of “youll get out when I have use of it.” I wonder some days if she’ll ever have use of it again ever!

We worked through some issues and I looked in the mirror and realized that for this to be legitimate that I must forgo my topping from the bottom and any expectations of how I think she should behave or treat me. I timidly suggested we try again in January and she jumped right on it apparently missing it as much as I. No more directing, no more whining and I am now learning to stifle frustration and disdain about mundane things or requests and just smile. Things are great at the 6 month mark. Plenty of backrubs, footrubs, pedicures, massages, prepared meals/refreshments as my work schedule permits. She is more than satisfied with one of her vibrators 3 to 4 times per week. For this interval my only pleasure has been to hold her closely and feel her explode into orgasmic shudders while laying astride her. I have not questioned it but there is no kissing her on the lips, no oral worship, only minimal touching of her breasts (to help with her orgasms) and cuddling. No touch from her…just some mild nipple play the other day ( heavenly!) I did question several weeks ago and was informed my behavior needs to be ingrained before she thinks of actively teasing me let alone considering an orgasm for me.

No unlock for any reason what so ever, still on my current stint which is now by far the longest. But I don’t have the cleaning and shaving issues due to the device.

Guess what I got for my birthday on Aug 1st this year! I got one year in lock up. I’m locked in my PA 5000 with the DreamLover 2000 attached and my keys have been put in the vault and it’s been set for 4 months. The reason that the safe is only for 4 months and not the full year is that is how long the batteries last in the DreamLover.

It’s important to mentally “sit back” and accept the sexual denial as the way of life that is mine now. Although i did ask for it, i did not think She would love it so much. i know now that there is not much sense in worrying about the effects of long term chastity. Whatever they may be, they will be.

Shouldn’t being locked up make you focus on your keyholder?
Hopefully your wife or S/O. For me when i am locked up which is 24/7 i cannot even look at another woman lustfully i can’t get my eyes and lust off of my Wife.

At least in my case, after about 4-5 weeks my entire personna begins to change. Making Madam happy is much easier as the primary focus of my life. Thoughts of sexuality become much more passive feminine. I desire to be taken and used; to be penetrated, and not do the penetrating. But also sexulaity becomes much less a driving force.

I easily maintain my focus on my daily tasks, am much more responsive to Madam’s needs, and significantly more encouraging and supportive of Madam’s assignations.

arousal isn’t a factor for me. After a few weeks I don’t really get aroused unless madam has decided to do something to make that happen. It just is what it is, and my mind accepts that arousal is pointless. My deire to keep Madam happy is not conditional on my sexual feelings.

I went through what you are in the middle of a couple years back. Thank god we are past that. I am currently at 101 days since having an orgasm with my Mistress, and 73 days from an orgasm of any kind having had an accident at that time. I was caged for a month for that among other most unpleasent things. Normally i get 2 orgasms a year. My birthday and our aniversary or once every 6 months.

My last orgasm was Feb 29 so today is my 6 month anniversary. During the last 5 years I was allowed to cum 3 or 4 times per year. The longest continual stretch was just over 10 months and the shortest was about 1 month.
I have been told that my next cum will be on Feb 29 again, i.e. 4 years total of denial.
I often think what that day will be like. After 4 years will I beg to cum or not to cum?

Longest denied time when in a relationship was 6 months though I used to get out often and we’d have intercourse. My longest locked and denied is my present one and have not been out at all for over 12 months the end of this session is at least 12 months away, or so I’m told. It coul dof course be less than that but I’m more inclined to think it will be longer.

158 days has been my longest but I am regularly locked for 90+ days and Mistress has decided that I will now be locked 24/7 with no end in sight so it could be permanent

It has been a while since I posted under this topic so to summarize, I went 291 days before my lovely Wife/Mistress/Keyholder allowed me out for a fabulous orgasm on our anniversary. I am now back up to 38 days and counting. Life is so busy for us right now that intimacy of any kind is in the back seat….and so, I am just plain locked up and shut down as I have come to learn women like their man when “life gets in the way”; no masturbating to porn,