The abolition of male masturbation and porn, do that he behaves better. Teasing and male orgasm denial incredibly improve male behavior. Rare male orgasms give better behavior.
Positive reinforcement gives better results than punishment, if his masturbation and orgasm under control.

We went back to our usual FLR where I was the Dom and Karl was the sub, but didn’t involve slavery or 24/7 activity.  Yes, Karl was always at my beck and call, and the majority of our time was more or less normal, at least for us,  but always with the realization that I was in control and could and would exercise that control as if saw fit.  And I saw fit quite often, keeping Karl under my thumb, using and abusing him for my (and his) pleasure.

This wasn’t just a game any more.  I decided that if I were going to become a slavemaster I had to take on the attitude of a slavemaster and Karl had to take on the attitude of a real slave.  He had to surrender completely to my will and he had to do it 24/7.  I, in turn, had to commit to being in charge every minute of the day and night and accept that I was not his wife, but his ruler.  We had previously used “Your Highness” and not simply “Milady” to refer to me when we had our slave weekend years before, and now I was “Your Highness” again, and I was prepared to accept that situation and all that it implied.  It implied a lot of work on my part, physically and mentally, and a lot of physical and mental surrender on Karl’s part.   Karl was now simply known as “slave” and on the occasions when he was allowed to address me, I was “Your Highness”, and he quickly learned that his Highness was not joking around.

The last two slave sessions have found me carrying a whip all the time, and using it whenever my slave failed to satisfy my endless demands.  At times, I used it even when he did satisfy my demands simply because I found that I LIKE to use it.

Maybe there’s just something about being in control of a groveling slave that leads to a love of the whip.  I don’t know if that’s a fair assumption, but Karl had truly become a slave in his own mind, showing an attitude of “slaveness” that equaled my attitude of slavemaster.   He groveled well, he jumped to my commands, he worshipped every inch of me with relish, he accepted whatever I did to him and thanked me for it, and he MEANT it.

Since Karl’s basic slave fantasy has always been to be a SEX slave of a beautiful GODDESS,  I’m doing him quite a favor when I’m in the mood for “servicing”.  Of course, slaves pay a price for everything that they may deem pleasurable, and I certainly enjoy the sexual frustration (for him) that inevitably goes with satisfying my needs.

I had him kneeling before me, his head facing me and his forehead on the ground in front of me, my high heels resting on his back as I explained my goals for the day.  “Today, slave, I wish to be pampered and pleasured.  You will serve me all day, always available at my beck and call, ready to answer a snap of my fingers or the tinkling of this glass bell I’ll be keeping near me.  You’ll follow all commands quickly, efficiently and silently.  You’ll do nothing without a direct order from me, and that includes eating, drinking and going to the bathroom.  You exist to please me, to obey me, and to worship me, and your sole function is to assure my pleasure, and I plan to have a great deal of pleasure.  If you have a physical emergency requiring you to use the bathroom, for instance, you will raise your hand and await permission to speak.  This sort of “interruption” to my pleasure will be punished, of course, so I expect you’ll think twice before raising that hand.  Now clean my shoes with your tongue, then remove them with your mouth and take them to my closet.  Your hands will remain tied behind your back for now, and you’ll stay on your knees until you return to me and resume this position.  Now get started.”