It’s been almost 10 years now since my husband and I have been active in an FLR. When we started, it was a bit rough at first. He was fine and then after a while, he would start challenging me for authority. This was creating a lot of issues for both of us. I started to prevent him from orgasm. On top of this I used punishment. Punishment was fairly extreme at first. Basically what I had to do is break him down to where he was in tears after the punishment. I would do this a couple times a week, even if he was a model husband. Afterward, I was loving and understanding. Every couple weeks, if he was a model husband, I would allow him release through a prostrate milking. This would give him the much needed release without allowing him orgasm, which was the main issue. My husband is now very happy with our FLR. He maintains a clean home for us. He caters to me, always buying me flowers. He pleasures me whenever I need. I have several lovers I maintain for my entertainment. He completely is supportive of my lifestyle and even helps me get ready for my date nights. It’s been over 5 years now since I’ve allowed him any penetration and he is perfectly happy fulfilling MY needs. We have never been as happy in our marriage as we are now!
- Before coming to bed he will kneel at the foot of the bed and rub your feet until you say stop. If you are already asleep he must kneel at your feet for 5 minutes and meditate on your feet before entering bed.
- He will always sit while peeing everywhere he is
- When you teach/correct him he must be positional lower than you
- Stand in front of him in your bath robe while he is naked and kneeling in front of you, and command him to kiss your feet, kiss your ankles, kiss your thighs, you get the idea, work him up to oral sex. Don’t take off your robe and he needs to be kneeling for the duration – no reposition.
- When you punish him he must now be naked
- If working on romance and or sex — for at least one 24 hour period he will serve you hand in foot romantically and sexually remaining naked and attending you are all times. (have him sit or kneel quietly if you don`t want attention, such as using the bathroom)
- If you physically punish him he must now get on all fours at your feet or over your knee (OTK)
- Being naked is not practical in public
This is designed to be a role reversal from traditional dominant male stereotypes where the man must be pleased by a woman who dresses for show, attempts to be sexy and alluring, satisfies her man to keep him happy, and does what he is asking for.
- If you want, make him prove he is obeying and working hard to please you by asking him to do something you command him to in front of your girlfriends or sisters. Start small by asking him to fetch everyone drinks and work up to him kneeling at your side or rubbing your feet. In public.
