A relationship that puts you on a pedestal, with him serving you as you wish. Imagine a relationship, where chores are the mans job, (unless you want to help), orgasms are an obligation for the men to give, and a privilege for him to be granted rarely for exceptional servitude.
This is your world now. You are dominant, and your man is your submissive. He asked for this, but he didn’t realize what it meant. Too bad.
Make your man your bitch. That is the secret to life for all womankind.
You are now the dominant goddess of the house. What you say goes, is what goes. There are no exceptions. What you want is what you get…
Dominant women get a buzz off of dominating their men. This is a high for you. You are now addicted to dominating your man. You control him in every facet of your life and are free to explore boundaries limited only by consent, in which you can bend and manipulate to your favor…
He should have a buttplug in as often as possible. In fact, the only time he should have it out is when you are fucking his ass. Somewhere in between always plugged and huge-butt-plug-for-femdom-slavesometimes plugged is likely the right place to be. I am just a more dominant woman, and believe that my man should be plugged virtually 24/7. It serves as a reminder to him that I am his boss. If you try this, have 0 compassion when he begs you to take it out. Say no. Eventually, he will get used to it. Use a metal one. They are better for longterm use.
He will soon adore and cherish you as his Sexual Goddess, Queen and Master!
Feel and enjoy your developing supremacy; Your total feminine control over him sexually and his bursting hard, aching HELPLESS dominated erection. Treasure the glazed over, out of it, desperate look on his face when you take breaks, IT WILL BE PRICELESS. Be assured Ladies as you read this, It is very hot and sadistically delightful to have this kind of “TOTAL” control over your male. Rest assured that his penis will never lie to you.
You’ll get extremely excited watching him struggle not to cum as you tease him. Make sure that he fully recognizes his surrender to you, as you periodically take breaks to look deeply into his eyes and soul and take pictures of course! Sitting on his face or chest at this point and “Queening” him as he licks and nurses on your womanhood works even greater magic on his mind; as he usually will stay rock hard due to your intoxicating aroma and flavor.
You must completely change your way of thinking, (it’s not that hard after a few weeks in denial) to put all of her needs before yours.
Reality is the big football game you were excited about is coming on, she tells you to wash the dishes before you watch TV.
You were going out with co workers for some drinks, she asks you if the lawn has been mowed yet.
If you are serious about chastity and FLR, you won’t even bat an eye when she makes these requests. They will no longer be requests, just the way it is.
It’s not her being lazy, or controlling, or “bitchy”. It will be her taking control, and you following behind. It takes strength and trust and love for a true FLR relationship to work. It’s not for the weak.
Over time, doing all the chores becomes a normal (though dull) part of his life and there is an acceptance in him that that is the way it is. The same phenomenon applies to waiting on you hand-and-foot and to his restricted sex life. Get a chastity device. One involving a piercing is best. You will soon begin to experience the rush of having true power over another human being. Power is a huge rush and an aphrodisiac.
REWARDS…
Being sensitively woken and given tea or coffee in bed every morning. Being waited on hand and foot. Being utterly worshipped in mind and body. As many orgasms on demand as one could want. No household chores. No tedious paperwork or junk mail to deal with. A social life wholly of your choices. A 100% trustworthy partner who will never be unfaithful. Other sexual partners (in my case always female). The intense pleasures of power and sadism…