FLR with feminist

“The term female-led relationship (or “FLR”) refers to a model for romantic heterosexual relationship in which both partners agree that the woman will act as the leader and ultimate authority. If the participants are married, the arrangement may be termed a female-led marriage (FLM) or wife-led marriage (WLM).

This type of relationship may involve various kinds of dominant behavior by the female partner. It can include control over finances and free time of both people by the woman, determination of where the couple lives, works, or how they live on a daily basis in every aspect of the relationship.

As a part of a FLR, punishment and/or rewards are sometimes used to control or train the male partner.

Sexual activity may be completely controlled by the woman who determines how and when sex is practiced. Often the man may be placed in chastity and limited to orally satisfying the wife and may often be teased and denied in return.

In some cases, the female-led relationship may involve freedom for the woman to see other men, but total fidelity of the male partner (see Cuckolding).”

This form of relationship is really nothing new, it has been around for longer than I could figure out. However it is only recently that it has begun to become accepted in the mainstream of society. With this level of male humiliation and control again doesn’t surprise me that feminists would absolutely love it to have there cake and eat it too. After all, what feminist woman wouldn’t want to have control over every aspect of her man’s life, including his ability to even masturbate.

It’s also referred to as “loving wives”. Many men & women who desire this lifestyle, blog quite a bit about it, and share their experiences and “training” techniques.

Supposedly, the dominance training comes through sexual “tease and denial”. Wherein the male is put in his “headspace” by extended times of being forced to pleasure his mate, at the expense of denying his release, wherein he becomes very submissive, and becomes basically a willing slave, capitulating to her every desire. Many say that once they receive “permission” for.a orgasm, they basically turn back into a man, and become “lazy” & defiant toward their mate, until their body desires another release.

Seems like a complete gender reversal role, as the man winds up doing all the housework, has absolutely no hobbies of his own, no money to spend on himself. I akin it to a complete gender flip of the Duluth model of abuse. But these men somehow desire being controlled like this.