Of course, I defer to all other Mistresses about what they want to do with the penises they own.
But in my posts, I have expressed the opinion that penises of slaves, sissies and chaste guys need to stay small. This is why.
What is the purpose of an erection? There are two.
Men who are about to fuck clearly need erections. My boyfriends have beautiful ones and use them to pleasure me. They are men. They are entitled.
Erections are also acceptable for boys who masturbate. Let them have fun with their cocks.
But slaves like my husband are not allowed to fuck or masturbate, making an erection not only unnecessary but inappropriate.
So if you are not fucking or masturbating, why should your penis be allowed to grow?
When one of my boyfriends comes over, shouldn’t his be the only erection in the room? If my husband had one too, how disrespectful would that be?
An erection could also indicate that my husband sees his penis as a sex organ, which is of course ridiculous. his mouth and his asshole are his sex organs and he knows this.
When I first forbade erections, my husband had trouble obeying this. So I did him a favor and put him in chastity. he was grateful because it helped him obey my rule.
The only time he showed any lack of gratitude was his first day in a KTB. After his first erection attempt in that device, he asked me to take it off. I refused. he never asked again.
I adore the way you are with your slave husband. I am in a similar situation. My penis is never used for sex, not even jacking off. Instead, I prepare my wife for sex with real men. I also get to worship her ass frequently. Over the years, watching and listening to her have great sex with her lovers, I have learned just how truly inadequate I am providing my wife with sexual pleasure. I have learned to accept my role as her “eunuch” helper. She too finds my erections and especially my cum as offensive and demeaning to her. When I sniff her asshole, I do get aroused and leak some precum, but I never ever erect.
I am so happy for you. Not only is your penis never used for sex. But you also get to have your face near Her wonderful asshole. What a lucky slave you are.
Although I do not allow my husband to have erections, I do have use for his cum. About once a month, I perform a prostate milking so that his cum dribbles from his limp penis with no orgasm. Then he licks it up.
Submissive males who choose to live with a dominant woman may find themselves pleasuring her as a submissive with his tongue and not as a lover with his undesired penis. He will forgo erections, ejaculations and fucking all for the pleasure of worshiping his female partner. I really struggled early on in my relationship as my wife found great pleasure with her lover. On those nights, she was so worn out sexually afterwards that she had absolutely no energy, let alone desire, to play with me. It was never “my turn.”
I accept it now. No erections. No orgasm. No sex (except worshiping her feet or asshole).
My wife loves sexual pleasure. Her lover, and occasionally a female for a threesome, join with her in a night of sexual bliss. I am never invited to participate. I never erect. My penis appears to them as a “button” between my legs, dripping pre-cum to show my arousal. But, I am addicted to all of it. I can’t imagine life without this. I prepare her for sex. She will have me sniff and lick her asshole in between rounds of sex. Her feet get sweaty and I adore the smell and taste as I lick them clean.
I accept it now. No erections. No orgasm. No sex (except worshiping her feet or asshole).
The current status of my Mistress’s penis is “Purely decorative”. Mistress hasn’t told me yet if I will ever get another erection or use if for anything.
In most devices, your penis will try to expand but not have enough room to. It will press against the device and eventually give up.
The KTB is different. With that, spikes will dig into your penis as it tries to erect. As you can imagine, this quickly ends your erection attempt.
If you are permitted to pee without asking permission, the need-to-pee erection is not a problem. your penis will not be able to erect but you will be able to sit on the toilet and relieve yourself with the device on.