Five years later, WE own 2 devices and, at her leading, I wear one or the other 24/7 with rare exceptions for medical reasons. Recently, due to a small sore, I was out of the device for 4 days and she commented about the change to my attitude that occurs when I’m unlocked. I don’t expect to ever be without again.
My wife told me one time she couldn’t wait for me to become impotent. It hasn’t happened yet, but I know it’s not far off. Since I’ve been put in chastity, I no longer have involuntary erections. It also takes far more effort to get myself hard than even 3 months ago. My keyholder, MDsh, has been training me to stay limp, and it’s working. She says there’s no need for me to have erections since I can’t please a woman with my tiny dick. And, now that MDsh has me in permanent chastity, I’m not allowed to fuck or cum, so it doesn’t matter if I’m impotent.
I wonder howm many others on this site are peased that they are now impotent. After all chastity prevents erections and PIV sex so the natural progreession from that desire perhaps is to become impotent. I know in my particular case I am extremely happy not to get erections or to ejaculate / leak any male fluids
Locked up permanently since November 1, 2014. No hope for release in the next few years
Each lock up has been getting longer since married a year and a half ago. Last was 175 days.
I’m only 5 days into this locked session but my wife never plans on letting me free ever again. I was only free 5 days ago because it was my 40th birthday but now its all over according to her. She will release me 1 time per week for shaving and washing only and then locked right back up, no questions asked.
Tonight is a night to remember for me.
She’s had me in and out of lock down for the last three months. Started out with the holy trainer and now the bird lock… I’ve been in the bird lock for the last 7 days. And tonight I was just told that we will order my new MM queens keep. And I can be let out from the tube only, and only for an erection for an hour. And my hands will be tied to the head board.
I almost know that she’ll tie my hands and go soak in the tub for the hour
“5 Food Groups” of FLRs, which they list as:
1. Finances
2. Free Time
3. Household Chores
4. Life Direction
5. Sex
These are areas of a relationship in which couples can profitably experiment by expanding the area of female control, from 50/50 to total. The site discusses the advantages to a woman (and, ultimately, to her spouse) in gradually ratcheting up the amount of control she exercises in each of these areas.
He fantisizes about – her exerting power over him including humiliation and punishment.
His fantasy may include any or all of these: being naked when the woman is clothed, kneeling at her feet, performing sex acts on demand, bowing to her, kissing her feet, wearing a collar, being held in chains, having to obey her at all times, being in bondage so he cannot resist, being teased sexually, being whipped, being tortured, being caged, being leashed (led by a leash), being kept in a dungeon, being one of many slaves, being required to dress in women’s clothes, being required to dress in only an apron, addressing her as “Goddess”/”Mistress”/”My Queen”; her forcing him to submit sexually “her giving him anal sex with a strap on device”, “being forced to service her friends or other lovers sexually”. Sexual chastity, wearing a chastity devise, prostate milking, and orgasm denial. Being slapped in the face, spanking, corner time out, genital torture, required to wear genital fetish wear, forced to wear a butt plug.
He fantisizes about – her interest level being very high and she is confident. She wants it.
He wants his fantasy to desire the relationship more than he does, to drive it and make it happen, to captivate him. She is sure of herself, she talks down to him, commanding him and belittling him to remind him of his place. Yes she puts him in his place, “naked, at her feet”. Depending on his, preference she may wear long flowing fairy or goddess clothing; she may wear sexy, tight, or leather outfits; she may wear motherly or business attire. In his fantasy she makes him want to surrender and serve. He has a fantasy that she has sadistic desires.
He fantisizes about – Sex and/or sexual control especially fetish sex, props and costumes.
Her power is enhanced by being able to control his orgasms. She denies him pleasure, teases him – sometimes painfully. She flaunts her power and control with whips, riding crops, canes, and her, many ways of restraining him. She may have sex with others while he is teased sexually and forced to watch then denied pleasure. She is in complete control of his sex and pleasure.
He fantisizes about – his willingness to give up control to her.
He wants her to take control and is willing to submit but feels/needs to become a much better servant by forced and very strict training. He desires humiliation as a teaching tool and is willing to beg and worship. His willingness is limited — he wants her to use him in many ways or it just wont work. He wants to be used as a servant, sex object and for her sadistic desires.
He fantisizes about – his level of high interest in her body and serving her as a woman.
He is interested in the woman’s body; it turns him on because it is so different from his and a little mysterious. He wants contact, especially when she demands it. He wants to serve her every desire from fetching her slippers to providing oral sex on demand, all while he is naked. He want to bath her, dry her and put lotion on her body, help her dress and undress. He wants her to dress in her sexy attire (differs from man to man). He wants to be his fantasy’s personal butler. Some men want to wait on/serve women using the toilet or menstruating. He is interested in all things female especially in ways he feels are private.
I am a wife and my husband often bows down on my feet and kisses them. He shows me respect this way.