I have been with my boy together more than 3 years now. We are both young (24 and 23) and we are still not married although we live together. I keep him denied from the beginning of our relationship. He had started to wear chastity device few months later and last two years he is locked 24/7. I have never allowed sex with me nor any masturbation. He is technically still virgin. I know it may sounds odd to someone. But it doesn’t mean I ignore him. It doesn’t mean I do not share intimacy with him. Quite contrary. I think it deepens our relationship. Even if there is no sex in the narrow sense of word there is a lot of intimacy, love and passion.
A btw I want to keep his virginity till our wedding night and it would be first time I will allow him experience orgasm with me.