His is concerned that I will keep him locked and forgotten. He acknowledges that he agreed to be completely submissive regarding sex and his penis but he still wants to have contact. He is worried about never being unlocked or never being allowed to cum. Also that I will cut him off from all sex.

So this is what I told him. I expect first and foremost that he will always be caged. No breaks unless and until I want him to be unlocked. I never want him to ask for it and if he does it will be a guaranteed no. However, he must trust that I will be aware of what is going on. For example, if he has a doctors appointment then we will go together and I will unlock him but he will never leave my side until it is locked back on. Air travel. This is a big concern but one I have decided will have to be dealt with. We went to a park recently where there were metal detectors and we were with friends.He began to get really nervous but I told him to just tell them he had piercings and it ended up being no big deal. So that is that. I don’t want to travel with a key simply because there is only one and I don’t want the chance for it to get lost. It stays at home. I know this may be an unpopular view here but if this is going to be what I want it to be, then we must learn to deal with some of these inconveniences. He is ok with that with some understandable reservations.

I promised him that so long as he continues to be good about this reset that he is going through that there would be some very very good rewards at the end. Think threesome. However there are conditions that I will go into at a later date.

He doesn’t want kids. I do. He wants to have orgasms (not chaste orgasms). I don’t want him to. I told him the following. So that we both have a choice here I will be willing to allow him an erect orgasm as long as it is inside me. I will not take the pill. We could have conceive so that will be the cost of getting what he wants and it will give me what I want. Once I conceive he will be locked until after the child is born and then if he wants to continue having orgasms there will always be the chance I get pregnant again. Otherwise we can have normal sex from time to time but he will not cum. So now he knows he has options and we both agreed to those terms. If he agrees to no orgasms, then his reward will be to have the opportunity to get what most men want but never will have. Me and my friend Jen (she is excited about this too by the way).

My main point is that I want him to have no orgasms. It turns me on. I would not have married him if this was a breaking point in our relationship. Again, you guys don’t have our full story. Non of this is non-consensual. That type of thing is non sense. The only reason he is pierced and in the cage in the first place is because he agreed to what I want. He knew coming into this relationship what I was going to be doing to him and to date it has worked for us.