Ever since she’s been holding the key to my cage, she’s become the dictator! And I love it! Why I was nervous is because I don’t know how will adjust staying locked for weeks and then months!

Whenever we talk about me introducing chastity to her, all she says is “you should have been careful what you wished for! Now that you have handed over the control to me, there is no going back

At the moment we too are at PIV at once a month but its up to her if she wants me inside but after a recent talk i don’t think she seems to want me inside any time soon.

Last time it was over in 30 seconds and today my KH said her goals are to shorten that time even more and another is to have me Cum while locked in my device.

My KH also has goals of a month lock in and then to extend that until there is a real reason to remove the device other than teasing/denial but we will cross that bridge when we get there.

KH thought it was funny that I had to admit I was not as big as I thought I was. At first she refused to let me out saying I should be careful what I wish for. KH also hinted when it does arrive I may locked for sometime.

KH believes I should be in the smallest ring with the shortest spacer as it his her property and she can lock it as tight as she wishes. Is she correct or is she going to damage the goods by doing so?

Some of the topics talk about how long some of us remain locked, how long we go between orgasms, or how we are unable to get an erection due to being in a restrictive device. This made me realize that, aside from knowing that i have not cum or have had an erection in a very long time, i have not seen myself erect for an even much longer time. i actually can’t recall when i saw it last because the few times i am unlocked by my wife i am always in bondage with my eyes covered.

This thought excites me tremendously because it means that i have absolutely no control over that part of my anatomy any more. i have been locked since January 15th this year & was last given permission to have an orgasm in November of last year. When that happened i was bound in a standing position tied to a column in the basement. My legs were apart & kept that way with a spreader bar, my arms were behind the pole with my wrists locked together, my head was locked in a leather hood with a blindfold, posture collar & gag.

My wife had teased me for a while after removing the chastity making me harder than i could imagine. She had finally granted me permission to cum & used a cup to catch it, removed my gag & told me to keep my mouth open as she poured it all in & made me swallow. Before the blindfold was undone i was locked back in & never saw anything. This has been one of a few ways i have been teased & permitted to orgasm. The time prior to that was while laying on my back, but also with the hood, collar, blindfold & gag. Last year i was not permitted to have penetrative sex & last did so in 2012.

I am almost sure i would have seen my erection last summer when i was unlocked for an extended time period, but i just don’t remember what it looked like…..LOL

No change in shape here and I don’t get out of my device much and orgasms for me are rare. Yes, my skin is super soft and hypersensitive now and when unlocked aousal is far from robust unless my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder pushes just the right buttons, which is also very rare…she is not much into unlocked edging but when she does choose to do so the skin takes on a shiny appearance. Fit properly, the 6000s is very secure, unforgiving and definitely very “taming”.

As & when I’m unlocked for just a few minutes, my cock instantly erects at its maximum. While erect, it is straight. However, when it is flaccid, it takes the exact shape of the cage, as if removed out of the mould. But by then, my KH wife locks me again!
I have not removed my base ring in the last one year, so don’t know how it looks when it is removed.

I used to feel sexually satisfied when we had sex when I was unlocked. Now it just seems to be all for her benefit. Then again, I guess that is what it is all about though. I read posts about guys being locked up from anywhere from a few days to a few months or longer. I am wondering if that means being locked during sex or not? I imagine if the KH likes PIV sex, she would unlock you but from her point of view, why unlock your penis if she does not need it?

I agree… my selfish desire for an orgasm, which is always followed by a period of indifference toward mistress, goes away. I become completely focused on doing only what she wants, and when she wants it. That’s why it’s important for mistress to get her man locked up quickly after he gets his little free time, so she can get him under control again.

I’m locked in spiral steel cage (my avatar). We have PIV sex about once ot twice a week. During sex, when my KH wife unlocks me, my dick erects instantly, and I cannot remove the base ring. So I have to turn the locking post downwards & penetrate. Immediately after sex, she locks me. So I have not removed my base ring in the last many months.
We leave in on. We have a MM QK and the base ring we turn around, so the point is under the sack when she wants PIV sex. And it is only happen twice this year by the way.

My ring stays on, but i have not been allowed to penetrate in a very long time, maybe 2012 i think.

Firstly, my wife unlocks me only after foreplay & actually when I insert in her. That time my cock is maximum hard. The moment our sex (penetration & orgasm) is over, she locks me instantly by literally shoving my cock in the cage, so she does not give me even few minutes to get my cock flaccid. I have not removed my base ring in the last many months.

I have not had penetration in my wife for over 20 years, To small. I cant get in. Two inchs hard. Or limp! LoL! When she strapon pegs me, And she yells at me to cum, I then flow and orgasm. I leave ring on. Her humiliation and Dildo is the only thing to make me cum anymore.

My husband hasn’t had his ring off in a year and a half. He is in a Lori tube and when I do unlock him, I just turn the ring like you guys do so that the part that attaches to the cage doesn’t irritate my sensitive parts. It serves two purposes: 1) Keeps him hard, and 2) Makes it easy for quick lock up when I’m done using him.

My wife now has me locked in it for who knows how long. She has caught me a few times just admiring her cock locked in the Jailbird. I cant help it. She just laughs and walks away. On a few occasions she has said I was right all along. I am meant to be locked in chastity. Forever controlled and dominated by a woman.

Exactly 2 years ago I started my journey into chastity.
My KH wife greeted me for total transformation of my personality & also for being a loving, caring husband.
In the last 2 years we have been having PIV sex at least once a week.
Last night, she declared that today onwards the frequency of PIV sex will gradually reduce to once a month, then once in 2 months and finally 3-4 times a year.
However that will not restrict her from having sexual pleasure. I’ll have to give her an oral sex at least once a week or whenever she demands.
This announcement was so unexpected, that I don’t know how to react!
All I know is that I dare not oppose what she’s proposed.

My owner Ms Lee enjoys keeping me in strict, long term chastity. I wear a chastity sleeve that I fashioned myself, secured by five tight ‘chastity chains’. The device is quite effective at preventing anything approaching a real erection and also enforces her 24×7 rule that prohibits touching myself in any sexual manner.

Early in the summer Ms Lee had me shorten my chastity chains by a link each to correct me for having an unauthorized release. It was purely an accident with no associated pleasure, but Ms Lee is firm and allows no deviation from her expectations. My chastity chains were already incredibly tight and there was little room for further tightening. Initially this was to be for a period of a single week, but that was extended for another week when I asked if it would please her to extend my correction. This cycle was repeated until finally she told me that I should just extend my punishment thru the rest of the summer.

The effect of my tightened chastity chains was astounding. As my correction passed the two month mark I made this list of the effects for Ms Lee so she could fully appreciate my situation:

1) My penis is constantly crushed by my tightened chastity chains
2) I have to sit down and pee like a girl because the chains are so tight that my pee continues to dribble out for a few minutes after I urinate
3) By the end of each day my punished penis is raw and red
4) At times my tightly chastised penis feels like it is being burned, I feel an intense stinging that will not quickly go away. When this happens I endure the pain by thinking about your pleasure
5) Erections hurt even after I remove the chains at bedtime. The deep impressions inflicted on my poor penis continue to cause pain as if the chains were still in place
6) I realize that the viciously tight chastity chains are conditioning me to prefer anal pleasure since any attempts to enjoy an erection are instantly corrected by the bite of the viciously tight chastity chains
7) When my tightly chastised penis does attempt an erection it is barely able to achieve 4 inches in length. And of course it is restricted to less than an inch in thickness. This is quite humiliating and I am really beginning to wonder if my extended, severe chastity might actually be causing my inadequate penis to become even smaller than it already is

It was so humiliating to realize that my penis had shrunk by over an inch! I was in a panic as I asked Ms Lee if she thought my penis might regain the lost length now that the chains were being loosened. I also asked her how I would ever be able to please a woman with such a small penis. My humiliation was intensified as I reflected that even with a six inch penis I had never really fully satisfied any of the women who had allowed me to try.

If I expected Ms Lee to sympathize with my predicament I was sadly mistaken. Instead she clearly demonstrated that she desired to magnify my humiliation as she directed me to update my blog with a full report on my punishment, the extensions thru the summer and all the effects upon my poor penis.The reality of my situation really sunk in as I realized that Ms Lee did not seem at all concerned that my already inadequate penis had become even more so. It was obvious that she thought the issue was insignificant other than creating an opportunity to further humiliate me.

Somehow I do not think that adding back a single link to my chastity chains is going to allow my shrunken penis to regain any significant amount of the length it lost. Hopefully it won’t shrink any further, but I suspect it won’t matter very much anyway. It has now been over 140 days since Ms Lee last allowed me to enjoy an unruined release and she seems to have completely lost interest in allowing me to enjoy erections. Instead she is now apparently on a campaign to train me to appreciate anal stimulation, but that is another story.

I’m exactly the same as in the previous post. I’m in a Lori #5, so there’s no teste ring it’s just held in place by the snug tube and the head of my penis, and locked on with a 0g PA pin. After 10 months (it never comes off – ever – and most likely never will) my cockhead seems bigger, all the blood goes there and the base of my shaft. It seems like my penis head has gotten bigger, always slightly engorged. I’m always semi hard, but it seems my penis has adapted to the tube and changed shape a bit, and the head has filled out the space it has in the tube, under the bars on top.

I have been locked for around 4-5 years, I can’t remember exactly when we started. Over that time I have lost only an inch in length ( 6.5″ down to 5.5″) but I have lost 1.5″ in circumference, ( 6.5″ down to 5″). Most of that was been locked in cb3000 so it is exciting to see what happens while wearing a much smaller Jailbird over the next few years.

Well my subby has very definitely shrunk over the years since he’s been locked 24/7/365, which for me is a definite added bonus. Also increases his sense of inadequacy – just how I like it!!

Definitely all depends on the people involved. For me…locked up means locked up…period. I don’t get out at all. If my wife wants some pleasure, I give it to her…but I don’t get anything until she decided to unlock me.

He hasnt had a full orgasm since last December, and I have no plans to let him have one. That doesnt mean that Im not serious or that Im slack, Im VERY strict. He has been milked, not regularly but it does happen, he IS edged on a regular basis and he has had a few ruined climaxes but that is all. HE IS STILL CHASTE

My lovely Mistress Sarah had me doing chores plugged, and now 55 days and desperate in the CB. She often says She will keep me locked for a year, just to see me cry…Today was chores all dressed as Her maid, plugged, nipples clipped and a very leaky clit. She enjoy watching me mince about the house doing all the cleaning, laundry, serving Her lunch all while i dripped like mad…Permanent chastity sounds very difficult, i doubt much if i can handle much more, but i don’t dare whine, or complain, just serve Her pleasures…

I am currently in a Mature Metal Jailbird with the security screws. She used blue Loctite on the screw this time. It is supposed to be removable with the key. She is 64 years old and has already made the decision of permanent chastity at the point she no longer desires penetrative sex. She feels close enough to that point to already have purchased red Loctite.

I prefer to be with woman who believe in permanent chastity. I dont know why, but I cant resist woman who think that men should never cum again My last affair never wanted me to cum. So it was kind of permanent chastity. I had no device. I was just not allowed to cum as long as I wanted to be with her. I was just allowed to make her cum.

I’ve known since the first time in a device, 10 years ago, I desired permanent chastity. That night, laying spooned together after some sweet one-way orgasms, I actually whispered in her ear, ‘please keep me caged forever’. Knowing now that it will happen because she wants it, the day she looks in my eyes and seals it with the red Loctite will be almost as wonderful as the day she agreed to marry me.

We have found a wonderful small & confining device, which serves to not only remind me, but due to it’s size, really deters masturbation. Even though I desire it so strongly, chastity without a device is not really practical for me. We are a very secure, mature couple. The only thing that will ever divide us will be one of us passing.

My KH wife is taking me to prolonged lockup duration, targeting 3-4 times a year.
May be later it will be once a year. She can’t even dream of me being castrated.
It’s like this. You use your precious jewelry once or twice a year. Does that mean you dispose it off?
There is a great pride in ‘possessing’ something valuable though it is not used often.

As Owner of slave peter on here and elsewhere and of course in real life, I should like to ask members here about permanent long term chastity of male slaves. Knowing there is a distinct line drawn between male slavery fantasy and fiction to real life male slavery to a Female and also where chastity is used by couples wishing to put a spark into their marriage there begs a question that is very often misconstrued regarding whether chastity is worthwhile in long term unconditional slavery of males to Females.

let me put it this way, slave peter is on a long term unconditional slavery to me and has been permanently locked without relief, except being anally milked every three month,s. I don’t allow any masturbation, nor self relief whatsoever and he never expels,s his filth without being in chastity. He knew this when he signed my contract and has never mentioned or begged to be released as he knows it would be pointless anyway.

As he is 45 years old, his breeding days (if he had any) are well and truly over, not physically as I realise many males can still breed well after this age, However, he has chosen a life of servitude to me on his own free will and cannot escape, even if he wanted (at least not without dire consequences). The question is, (at the risk of being slated here) that should it be legal in this country why is not correct or sensible to have him castrated ? or rendered properly impotent? Now I know I risk all the stupid remarks on ethic,s and morality here, but my slave is quite happy to undergo this for me, and yes I can take him to Thailand or Mexico and have it done legally I know, it just seems rather silly and stupid. Lets face it, any male who is on here, single and without an Owner and is over the age of 40 are probably masturbating furiously and pretending to be chaste ! anyway. All males unowned or uncontrolled will masturbate incessantly as to them it is pure fiction or wank fodder. My view is once a male has decided on a life of slavery to a Female, then he basically gives up all rights to function as an intact male, unless his Owner decides he can. Some Female Owners want an intact male, I don’t. And to perfectly blunt, keeping him locked and having to milk him occasionally is a chore I don’t need or want. As a Female Supremacist, I find single males furiously masturbating over porn and the Female body very degrading and suggest that when a male is unowned, unmarried and over 40 they should be either castrated or put into permanent chastiy. vey controversial I know, my view only.

I am in permanent chastity for 5 years because I can not satisfy my wife with my little sex.
As I understood my situation and that I love my wife, I respect his decision.
I emptied by milking every six months.
Now, my only goal is the pleasure of my wife.

I enjoy the castration fantasy, and often ask my slave if he would willing have it done, or threaten him (fantasy} with it. telling him since his dicklet is unused, why does he need it. but it would take such pleasure away from both of us, as i so enjoy teasing and torturing it. im sure there are people that go to the extreme, and to each her or his own.

I sense from my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder that it doesn’t matter whether it is porn, sexy ice dancers at the Olympics, a smartly dressed professional woman clicking down the aisle in her heels at the grocery store or a sweaty female jiggling by our home in her form fitting spandex jogging or power walking that she takes delight in knowing that these images arouse me and that I can only look longingly and leak away.

It was my idea given that maintaining my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder’s feet and toes is one of my responsibilities. She receives many compliments on her toes in warmer weather and does not hesitate to offer up the information that “our bedroom” is where she goes to get her pedicures and that I am the person performing them…sort of embarrassing, but the reactions are usually an expression of jealousy and admiration that she is lucky to have me trained so well.

Day by day me & my KH wife are enjoying my chastity more & more.
While I enjoy serving her, she enjoys a TOTAL control over my dick.
She is more possessive about the key than her jewelery!
She now has a large collection of chains, handcuffs & collars – all for me!

I have kept my husband locked for the last 3 years. A few months ago I discovered he had cheated and masturbated without permission, so I decided his punishment would be permanent chastity (that means no more orgasms for him). He’s only 27 y/o, so his sex drive is quite high, which is really frustrating for him.

Not letting him masturbate or have penetrative sex, made him really submissive, which I took advantge of to transform him into a sissy. This means he’s always fully shaved, his only underwear is sexy lingerie, preferably pink, and the only sex I allow him to have is giving oral sex to me, my bf or whoever I want. If he behaves well, sometimes I penetrate him with toys or let my bf or others fuck his ass. I also tease him regularly and force him to sleep buttplugged, but obviously he’s not allowed to orgasm under any circumstances.

Today my wife said that she no longer felt any guilt or pity for not giving me an orgasm and liked things the way they were when I did not have one. She further stated that she no longer wanted to give me an orgasm on some arbitrary future date because that is what I wanted. She said that often she did not want to put up with my mood after an orgasm for the next 3-4 days and then wait another 4 or 5 days for me to get to the point where I was willing to do anything she wanted and no longer argumentative.

There was also talk about how many times she made me cum when she was not in the mood and how it is her turn now to have orgasms when I did not. She also told me that since she always had her orgasm first because after I had one, I would go through the motions with her, she too lost interest after a few orgasms and just wanted to relax and not have to work on me. What ended up happening is that pointed out that our Valentine’s Day agreement only specified no orgasms for me until that day but did not say I would have one. Darn, I did not consider that. Anyway, she left it at denying me an orgasm for whatever period of time she wanted to and that would usually be if I was very obedient and did not piss her off and when it would contribute to her orgasm, not just because I wanted one or she felt obligated to give me one.

I do not know how long she intends to deny me and now my eager anticipation of Valentine’s Day is ruined. Yet, I do not know if she will let me have an orgasm of if I am going to have to wait until she feels that she needs me to cum for her enjoyment. In the past, she did take pity on me which is why we had the no orgasm agreement in place. However, I did not anticipate what would happen after that. I assumed and assumed wrong.

I had my usual one week panic attack and told my wife that I cannot sleep and need sex. She got mad at me and said no. It was an interesting day. She took me shopping and bought $200 worth of lingerie to tease me with. She made me carry the bags. Then it was off to food shop. Usually I just tag along but this time she was barking orders for me to fetch the items she wanted to buy.

When we got home she told me to unload the car and bring all the grocery bags in. After that she modeled the lingerie she bought but told me not to touch. She really has embraced teasing and denial in a big way.

I told her that she was under no obligation to make me cum on Valentines Day as she had previously said. I told her to just make me cum when she wanted me to. Her reply was that could be a very long time. We talked some more. I mentioned that she is getting moe dominant each day. She said she was aware of that and she liked the control over me. Then she said that if it was up yo her, I would never cum but I said that it would be good to give me an orgasm or two each month to make sure the plumbing was working and clean out the pipes.

She also wanted to add that I get one warning to adjust my attitude or else she will add another week to my chastity period. Whether she really would or not, I do not want to chance it. She had read on some website that after the guy has his orgasm it is important to put him right back into a submissive frame of mind. To that end, she wants to lock it up right after I have my orgasm.

Mistress decided it would be at LEAST 90 days before allowing me to unload. At 90 days she said she could see no reason to allow me to unload ….. it ended up being 234 days before she unloaded her balls.

I am now at about 45 days and she says she will not even consider it until at least Memorial Day and more than likely it will be at least Labor Day. She does unlock me and do Training Sessions where she may edge me several times without release. She also allows me to “visit” her but her cock must always be put in a cock sheath to enter her.

We are now trying for at least one month of chastity. My wife has lost any guilty or dutiful feelings that used to make her give me an orgasm earlier than she wanted. One big difference is that before, she always unlocked me for sex and would edge me over and over for an hour. I would beg for an orgasm and sounded very pitiful. The difference now is that she keeps me locked up all the time so her teasing does not elicit the same response to me. I have found that if I just respond to her teasing but do not beg for release, she is not conflicted about what to do. Now I just tell her how good it feels and that I never want that feeling to go away.

Well……….. It’s finally happened. Amy has decided, and I can only agree with her decision though it pains me because I DO enjoy them, that it’s a bad idea for me to have any orgasms at all in the forseeable future. I need to update my ticker when I’m at home because the Sunday before last she did allow me to have two, but the memory of those two and how good they felt will have to last me at least for several months, if not a year or years. Indefinite period of chastity indeed.

I love being used by Mistress, She told me this morning, your tushy needs some play soon. That’s because she loves to peg me. She turns me into a wimpering, submissive , Sissy bitch. that needs her cock so so bad. And she is so aware of that! I would do anything for her, She owns me. She fully understands what she is doing, and what direction she must continue to take me, into her SPELL! I need her, and want her. And adore her!

Last month after a edging session and after i calmed down and put my cage back on i returned to bed to find her naked and she simply said you have 2 min to orgasm but you will wear a condom and your time starts NOW.
i rushed to get my cage off and find a condom all the while she was counting down.

Suffice to say i was only inside when it was over… it took 30 seconds.
My KH was delighted ??

The next day i enquired why was she so happy about it and does she not worry if we were to stop with chastity that this PE problem could remain from her training me like this.
Turns out she is not worried at all and this is actually a plan to faze out “HER” penis in favour of her Favourite BBC dildo that she has been saving her self for to enjoy in the next 3 months from now, So im to under go further training until then.

As much as this is shocking to hear, i so enjoy using the Dildo on her with the harness. (Never seen her cum so hard)

At least now i know my retirement date.

With all of that edging though I bet you were ready to explode at the thought of her letting you penetrate her. I have a strap-on that allows me to be wearing my cage and take her with the dildo. She likes that since it allows her to feel like a cock is in her while still keeping me locked up. Keep up the good work!

My size started to dwindle too. Today, it is barely 5.4″ when really hard, and 5 1/4″ when hard most of the time (we/she measured it just last night). So now, instead of being in the “average” range, I’m in the bottom 25% of size and my wife loves it more as it gets smaller. She says she’s shooting for under 5″ hard !

We’ve also moved from the plastic CB to a mature metal CB (Queen’s Keep), and physical/emotional step has been a huge one for both of us. Instead of looking down and seeing something plastic that could easily be broken off if desired, it is clearly permanent. I can’t describe the increase in submissiveness — almost like now I can’t wait to be locked-up, and forcibly kept in it forever.

So we just ordered a new mature metal Jail Bird which they said can be curved down more sharply. We’ve also shortened the cage length to only 2″ because I often have a little space in the 2 1/4″ Queens Keep when soft. And it seems my wife is very serious about getting my maximum length under 5″ when hard.

I clearly went from 5.9″ to 5.4″ when extremely hard. I know that sounds terrible from a male perspective, but it is erotically fulfilling to a submissive. I asked my wife for her thoughts before I posted this reply, and She said (actually texted me): “The shrinkage is a tangible reaffirmation for my husband that he cannot adequately satisfy my needs. This satisfies his submissive needs and my dominant sexual ones in one very happy outcome for us both!”

Ten years ago, my subhub was about 5 1/2″ erect. These days, he’s down to four at the most. LOL

I’m usually in for a minimum of 6 weeks at a time. My longest is about 5 1/2 months and I was suppose to go longer, but had to fly somewhere due to an emergency. She says she wants to try to go longer, but it will be a surprise when that happens. Fortunately she doesn’t like to go without penetration from me for that long. However we’ve been talking about doing a routine, where I’m released from the belt for penetration but not allowed to cum (cock ring works well for that) and then after she gets off, I’m locked back up without an orgasm. Should be interesting.

Just hit 182 days today ….. slave has begged for Mistress to let him unload but to no avail. Her reply is usually, “slave hasn’t earned that reward” She has ruined it twice and has allowed me inside her for a short time to allow her to feel me inside her but warned that I had better not mess inside her and has always pushed me out if she felt I was close to unloading.

It has now been 126 days again and Mistress has said it will most likely be a year this time “because slave behaved so well before” She said she plans to keep me locked 100% of the time so slave can concentrate on pleasing and pleasuring her and not be worried about her cock.

on day 53 atm> Every new day is the longest ive been. Im having no difficulty adjusting to the life. I dreamed of being locked by a beautiful woman for years. Now i have found one and she has not mentioned the idea of an orgasm at all. I have no intention of ever asking either, as the control she has is far more arousing to me then any orgasm. If she told me i would never have another one. I think i would be ok with that
I am going to count myself among those who have made it for 90 days. The official number of days is 89 and I was released about 15 hours into the 90th day.

I did recover after. My keyholder noticed it instantly, saying there was a lack of passion in the backrub I was giving her after my release. There were certain chores that had become habit for me (making dinners, cleaning house on the weekends, etc) but the bliss of doing them was gone. There is a definitive change in your point of view as you go longer and longer without.

We absolutely did NOT stop our chastity play after that 90 day stint. My wife has become a very enthusiastic keyholder. We have yet to match the duration of that experiment, but we are currently en route to doing so. She has set my date this time around to March 1st, which will be 120 days locked.

After 4 years of chastity i think that i have become pretty experienced in staisfying Chistine sexually but as a lesbian

We started anew with full submission on my part agreed to in Jan 2012. Since that time I was permitted 1 orgasm in October of 2012 and one in August of 2013. My Wife/Mistress/Keyholder is liking what we have embarked upon more and more and I do not sense any plans on her part to permit another orgasm anytime soon. It has become the “new normal” for us. I must admit I never expected it to develop as it has…sorta expected it to be “earned orgasms” with dates on the calendar if I was meeting expectations and lots of T&D. My penis has become like the fine china you see every day safely kept in a cupboard with glass doors…rarely used or touched, but in plain view. Use of plug and plug harness has seemed to take the place of the “need” for her to have to provide penile stimulation for me; I generally “get lucky” (plugged) about once or twice a week—about the same amount as we used to have sex in the vanilla sense way back when. “Let’s get busy Sweetie, go get dressed and harness up (put on some hosiery and plug harness w plug).” her common request. Things are very different…once you reach 90+days I think things change. If you allow it to happen, be ready for some inextricable changes that will be difficult to reverse on for you and your Mistress. Physical changes too…hair trigger sensitivity…my last orgasm I did not last 20 seconds inside her. She positively loved the feeling of removing any ability I had to prevent myself from climaxing so quickly. Even the appearance of my penis has changed…the texture of the skin on tip of my penis has turned shiny smooth and it is hypersensitive in my underwear on the occasions I am permitted to be out of my device (extremely physical athletic endeavors, doctor appointments etc.). 90 days is a drop in the bucket now for me, but it has a price so be ready to pay it! It may not be quite what you have bargained for…

It wasn’t a surprise for me. My chastity started for a week at a time, then built up to a month and so on. Then one day it was announced by Christine, “from this day on your only sexual activity will be in satisfying me”. True to Her word that has been the case, almost on a daily basis. very gratifying it has been as well for both of us.

My most intense / horrifying / depressing moment in chastity was on the night of November 1, 2014
It was absolutely without informing me
That night my wife chained my hands & legs & I was blind folded, unable to move
Then she permanently sealed the locking post of my cage with Araldite, the super glue
Now I satisfy her with oral sex – cunnilingus
Since then my erections and my life, both have gradually calmed down

I think that a Lockedboy must to live with his cock permanently locked in a Cage for depriving him of erections and not allow him to cum never again ….. but I am also categorically convinced that, also his hole must to be used to long time, and when it isn’t used, is necessary to put in it inside a Tunnel to keep it constantly wide open 24/7.

My husband has been in his Lori tube now for 8 months. But I have purchased a new smaller cage. He has been able to grow a bit in his current one and the inner was enough to allow a little as well. The new cage is a half inch shorter making it 1 inch and the inner diameter is now 3/4inch. It will be much tighter and not allow any growth. I have spoken with Lori extensively about it and this will be a perfect fit. He doesn’t know it but tonight the old one comes off and the new one (that he doesn’t know about yet) will go on. After a week trial to see how it goes, it may be be the last time he is free for the year.

I am excited. I love this lifestyle. But, I am going to give him a treat tonight that I said I’d never give him, I am going to let him have an orgasm unlocked and inside me (with a condom) since we aren’t pushing for kids. He has never done this before. He deserves a reward for being so good

I have been locked in a Mature Metal Watchful Mistress for an entire year! I am allowed out by my Mistress occasionally for release and immediately locked.  I have to say for the first time I feel the total emasculation that comes from no longer owning a penis. My KH and I are both loving the dynamic this new level of security has added to our chastity relationship.

Tonight is one of our scheduled sex nights. I like to know when I will be teased as it allows me to get through the rest of the week, knowing that I will get some sex, even if just teasing, which I really enjoy.

She allowed me two hours of freedom and then asked me to lube up real good and put it back on but this time with the medium size Points of Intrigue (POI). She knows that my penis will try to get hard all day in anticipation of tonight.

I will be called out for dinner and then after I wash all the dishes and clean off the table, I have to take a shower, shave and lay down on my bed naked, waiting for her to enter. She would have told me whether she wants me locked or not. If I see a whip, paddle or crop on the bed that means as least 50 smacks on my butt. Most times more, as she is getting more comfortable in keeping on going despite my cries of pain. Last time it was 65 strokes but she wants to work up to 100 as she thinks I am getting used to it.

I can lay on my bed naked with arms by my side, until she enters the room. The wait can be anywhere from 10 minutes to two hours. Depends if she is watching a movie on TV or just wants to make me squirm in anticipation. I once made the mistake of yelling out to ask her if she forgot about me and painfully learned to never do that again as she skips the teasing and administers only the pain.

This is our normal routine for sex night. If we have a date for my orgasm, the day is much different. It is romantic. I massage her whole body by candle light.

Yesterday my wife lay on the bed with her dress up round her tummy as I lapped at her clit, me fully clothed, wearing my device. This happened just as I was about to go food shopping after I cleaned  the house. After two great orgasms she commented that “that was really lovely, thank you” and sent me on my way. She doesn’t count the weeks I’m in chastity, doesn’t take off the device which can be cleaned without removal, or give me ruined orgasms, she just enjoys the results.

My wife has become more assertive and whereas at the beginning she would have worried about my orgasms, now she’s enjoying sex on her terms, and has told me so!

hello Lady, I have had my slave locked for 2 years and 7 months plus, his only time out of a cage has been for cleaning and shaving, a little teasing, or to change cages. i have seen no reason to allow him orgasm, he has has a few ruined cums while locked, but no full release. he drips from time to time, but thats about it. his balls have a nice color and look big and beautiful. fun for me, since i enjoy busting! but as of today, there have been no problems.

She allowed me a 30 day break-in period, key in hand. Then she requested the key back. And now, even though we’d never made a week before, I’ve been caged for 5+ weeks and she is ready for long term/permanent chastity. She tends to ebb & flow on her long term desires, but has made it clear that 6 months is the minimum this time. That takes us to Thanksgiving.

If you want him to permanently accept you as his keyholder, then tattoo your name on him that is visible
This has worked wonder in my case
My wife has made me tattoo her name on my forearm
Cage & collar can be removed, tattoo can’t be, so easily

Last night my KH wife gave me a shocking news.
She said she is quite bored taking in the same junk for the last 25 years, and now she needs change.
So she has ordered a strap-on dildo from ebay.
It should arrive in 15-20 days and she is eagerly awaiting to take that 7″ long solid dildo in.
OMG! Now what about me? Will she ever release me which she used to, for sex?
Because once she experiences the pleasure of a dildo, I fear she won’t let me in, never.
I just imagined that she has strapped on the dildo on my cage & I’m giving her the pleasure of PIV sex!
I am worried & little nervous because she may leave me in permanent chastity.

Well, if the Strapon does give her more pleasure than you ever do, what would be the point in unlocking you? Always remember that you are there for her best pleasure.

If you TRULY want to please your Wife & a strap on can do it better than you can, than that is what is important so go for it. my Wife has not needed me to penetrate Her since mid 2012 & has found that Her Hitachi & a variety of other toys, including a strap on i wear for Her, works adequately to satisfy Her sexually. It’s kind of an unwritten rule for us, but if i am not needed to be unlocked for Her to get pleasure, then so be it. It was what i wanted a long time ago & i am now living that fantasy. i understand that this arrangement may not be for everyone in chastity, but it works for us & i am perfectly happy this way

Was very intense…Prior, yes, but for the last 6 months, she has become more rigid and is playing strict with the control. So I am only let out to please her, then put into mental or physical chastity. I am lately (last three months) only allowed to cum in my cage or, if out, swinging free with no stimulation…both situations the orgasm is stimulated as in the situation last night, by anal penetration/prostate stimulation. She has expressed a great deal of curiosity about how that works/how to get it more exact so that she can control it better, so I think that is the driver (she is curious). We have a background in animal husbandry, and she has lately been discussing Electroejaculation as fascinating, watching videos with me of them doing this to bulls and other animals…we’ll see where that heads, I have visions of this being me soon

We decided to get a PA piercing, probably the best decision we made as now D has no issues with leaving me lock without any release with full denial indefinitely. D also gets serviced by me regularly and at anytime she requests, that orally. It is exactly 5 months today that I was last allowed intercourse and an orgasm, but this has not been an issue and our relationship is stronger than ever.

I’m on 120 days today with no end in immediate sight and no talkeven really of when I might be released or not. I don’t want to bring it up and she only speaks of “youll get out when I have use of it.” I wonder some days if she’ll ever have use of it again ever!

We worked through some issues and I looked in the mirror and realized that for this to be legitimate that I must forgo my topping from the bottom and any expectations of how I think she should behave or treat me. I timidly suggested we try again in January and she jumped right on it apparently missing it as much as I. No more directing, no more whining and I am now learning to stifle frustration and disdain about mundane things or requests and just smile. Things are great at the 6 month mark. Plenty of backrubs, footrubs, pedicures, massages, prepared meals/refreshments as my work schedule permits. She is more than satisfied with one of her vibrators 3 to 4 times per week. For this interval my only pleasure has been to hold her closely and feel her explode into orgasmic shudders while laying astride her. I have not questioned it but there is no kissing her on the lips, no oral worship, only minimal touching of her breasts (to help with her orgasms) and cuddling. No touch from her…just some mild nipple play the other day ( heavenly!) I did question several weeks ago and was informed my behavior needs to be ingrained before she thinks of actively teasing me let alone considering an orgasm for me.

No unlock for any reason what so ever, still on my current stint which is now by far the longest. But I don’t have the cleaning and shaving issues due to the device.

Guess what I got for my birthday on Aug 1st this year! I got one year in lock up. I’m locked in my PA 5000 with the DreamLover 2000 attached and my keys have been put in the vault and it’s been set for 4 months. The reason that the safe is only for 4 months and not the full year is that is how long the batteries last in the DreamLover.

It’s important to mentally “sit back” and accept the sexual denial as the way of life that is mine now. Although i did ask for it, i did not think She would love it so much. i know now that there is not much sense in worrying about the effects of long term chastity. Whatever they may be, they will be.

Shouldn’t being locked up make you focus on your keyholder?
Hopefully your wife or S/O. For me when i am locked up which is 24/7 i cannot even look at another woman lustfully i can’t get my eyes and lust off of my Wife.

At least in my case, after about 4-5 weeks my entire personna begins to change. Making Madam happy is much easier as the primary focus of my life. Thoughts of sexuality become much more passive feminine. I desire to be taken and used; to be penetrated, and not do the penetrating. But also sexulaity becomes much less a driving force.

I easily maintain my focus on my daily tasks, am much more responsive to Madam’s needs, and significantly more encouraging and supportive of Madam’s assignations.

arousal isn’t a factor for me. After a few weeks I don’t really get aroused unless madam has decided to do something to make that happen. It just is what it is, and my mind accepts that arousal is pointless. My deire to keep Madam happy is not conditional on my sexual feelings.

I went through what you are in the middle of a couple years back. Thank god we are past that. I am currently at 101 days since having an orgasm with my Mistress, and 73 days from an orgasm of any kind having had an accident at that time. I was caged for a month for that among other most unpleasent things. Normally i get 2 orgasms a year. My birthday and our aniversary or once every 6 months.

My last orgasm was Feb 29 so today is my 6 month anniversary. During the last 5 years I was allowed to cum 3 or 4 times per year. The longest continual stretch was just over 10 months and the shortest was about 1 month.
I have been told that my next cum will be on Feb 29 again, i.e. 4 years total of denial.
I often think what that day will be like. After 4 years will I beg to cum or not to cum?

Longest denied time when in a relationship was 6 months though I used to get out often and we’d have intercourse. My longest locked and denied is my present one and have not been out at all for over 12 months the end of this session is at least 12 months away, or so I’m told. It coul dof course be less than that but I’m more inclined to think it will be longer.

158 days has been my longest but I am regularly locked for 90+ days and Mistress has decided that I will now be locked 24/7 with no end in sight so it could be permanent

It has been a while since I posted under this topic so to summarize, I went 291 days before my lovely Wife/Mistress/Keyholder allowed me out for a fabulous orgasm on our anniversary. I am now back up to 38 days and counting. Life is so busy for us right now that intimacy of any kind is in the back seat….and so, I am just plain locked up and shut down as I have come to learn women like their man when “life gets in the way”; no masturbating to porn,