Be careful what you wish for

Ever since she’s been holding the key to my cage, she’s become the dictator! And I love it! Why I was nervous is because I don’t know how will adjust staying locked for weeks and then months!

Whenever we talk about me introducing chastity to her, all she says is “you should have been careful what you wished for! Now that you have handed over the control to me, there is no going back

At the moment we too are at PIV at once a month but its up to her if she wants me inside but after a recent talk i don’t think she seems to want me inside any time soon.

Last time it was over in 30 seconds and today my KH said her goals are to shorten that time even more and another is to have me Cum while locked in my device.

My KH also has goals of a month lock in and then to extend that until there is a real reason to remove the device other than teasing/denial but we will cross that bridge when we get there.

KH thought it was funny that I had to admit I was not as big as I thought I was. At first she refused to let me out saying I should be careful what I wish for. KH also hinted when it does arrive I may locked for sometime.

KH believes I should be in the smallest ring with the shortest spacer as it his her property and she can lock it as tight as she wishes. Is she correct or is she going to damage the goods by doing so?

Some of the topics talk about how long some of us remain locked, how long we go between orgasms, or how we are unable to get an erection due to being in a restrictive device. This made me realize that, aside from knowing that i have not cum or have had an erection in a very long time, i have not seen myself erect for an even much longer time. i actually can’t recall when i saw it last because the few times i am unlocked by my wife i am always in bondage with my eyes covered.

This thought excites me tremendously because it means that i have absolutely no control over that part of my anatomy any more. i have been locked since January 15th this year & was last given permission to have an orgasm in November of last year. When that happened i was bound in a standing position tied to a column in the basement. My legs were apart & kept that way with a spreader bar, my arms were behind the pole with my wrists locked together, my head was locked in a leather hood with a blindfold, posture collar & gag.

My wife had teased me for a while after removing the chastity making me harder than i could imagine. She had finally granted me permission to cum & used a cup to catch it, removed my gag & told me to keep my mouth open as she poured it all in & made me swallow. Before the blindfold was undone i was locked back in & never saw anything. This has been one of a few ways i have been teased & permitted to orgasm. The time prior to that was while laying on my back, but also with the hood, collar, blindfold & gag. Last year i was not permitted to have penetrative sex & last did so in 2012.

I am almost sure i would have seen my erection last summer when i was unlocked for an extended time period, but i just don’t remember what it looked like…..LOL

No change in shape here and I don’t get out of my device much and orgasms for me are rare. Yes, my skin is super soft and hypersensitive now and when unlocked aousal is far from robust unless my Wife/Mistress/Keyholder pushes just the right buttons, which is also very rare…she is not much into unlocked edging but when she does choose to do so the skin takes on a shiny appearance. Fit properly, the 6000s is very secure, unforgiving and definitely very “taming”.

As & when I’m unlocked for just a few minutes, my cock instantly erects at its maximum. While erect, it is straight. However, when it is flaccid, it takes the exact shape of the cage, as if removed out of the mould. But by then, my KH wife locks me again!
I have not removed my base ring in the last one year, so don’t know how it looks when it is removed.

This sissy has something to contribute to this read! after 1 year of being locked, both this sissy and its Mistress noticed that my old chastity appeared to be losing up its grip. Mistress then purchased a smaller chastity device: 1/2 inch shorter cage, 1/4 inch smaller ring diameter. It fits perfectly! at least in my case, prolonged long-term chastity has decreased the size of my clitty.
Last week we had an accident. While she was just holding my penis, I started to ejaculate. It caught us both by surprise. I always tell her when I am near an orgasm and did not feel I was that time. I guess it was the perfect ruined orgasm. Lots of fluid but only a burning sensation in my urethra. No feeling of pleasure at all. As usual she fed my cum to me and then called it quits for the night as she did not want to risk me having a full orgasm.
Since then, she is now gun shy or should I say, penis-shy. She wants me locked up all the time, even during sex. She is afraid that I will cum and she wants to hold off until Lent is over, before she lets me cum. The problem is that I really miss our edging sessions. I miss the feel of her hand and mouth on my penis. Now it is just some nipple and ball torture to make me respond like I did when she teased me. My wife needs to hear me moan to get aroused and she does not care how she does that.

I used to feel sexually satisfied when we had sex when I was unlocked. Now it just seems to be all for her benefit. Then again, I guess that is what it is all about though. I read posts about guys being locked up from anywhere from a few days to a few months or longer. I am wondering if that means being locked during sex or not? I imagine if the KH likes PIV sex, she would unlock you but from her point of view, why unlock your penis if she does not need it?