“Punishment Spanking” is necessary to keep your man upright in FLR lifestyle. It is quite different from the “Attitude Adjustment” which is done more frequently for minor mistakes, whereas spanking is the kind of punishment carried out on breaking the rules. The rules are made by dominant partner in the household which of course is the wife. I have made certain rules for him and breaking a rule comes under the category of serious offence which makes him liable for a punishment spanking. Here is a list of my rules:
- Ignoring or forgetting household chores
- Swearing or using foul language
- Failure to call when he will be late
- Lying
- Cheating
- Stealing
- Completely disregarding a request I have made
- Doing/seeing naughty things: i.e. going to gentleman’s clubs, pornography, viewing my lingerie catalogs without permission, etc.
- Any unauthorized masturbation
I never let any breaking of the rules slide by. He knows with 100% certainty that if a rule is broken he will be having a Punishment Spanking.
As a Punishment Spanking technique, unlike other types of spankings, I rely totally on rapid-fire strokes without warm up that sting as opposed to bruise. I favor a lot of stinging strokes as opposed to a few extra-hard for several reasons. One, I don’t want him to be able to mentally “recover” from a swat and get ready for the next. Two, my target is from mid-bottom cheek to mid-thigh and wooden, plastic or other hard implements do not allow safe application in this complete target area.
Consequently, I use the cane and leather tawse exclusively. Because of its ability to deliver 30 or so “pops” within, say, a 20 second timeframe, I use the cane for the Punishment Spanking. Sharp flicks of the wrist combined with the “whippy” nature of the cane are most effective at rapid-fire delivery. A one-minute caning, believe me, is a very effective PS! You can get it done and send him back to work in the one-hour lunch break. I use both striping as well as criss-cross patterns. I use the tawse exclusively for “extras”. The tawse has a different feel and will evoke quite a satisfactory reaction even on a well-caned bottom. Again, I do not count. He knows that when he feels the tawse it is because he has not accepted his punishment well and that the swats he has earned are directly for those infractions. Using just these two implements allows him to differentiate between the initial infraction and his ability to receive punishment effectively.
It’s over when I say so. I never, ever announce the number of swats or have him count. I deliver rapid-fire, nonstop pops to his bare bottom until I feel the lesson has been learned. If I have him count or announce a number, he can anticipate when the PS will stop. I do not want that to happen. I quickly build the sting; keep it going and am relentless in not stopping too soon. It also makes it difficult for him to hold position and I want that to be difficult for him. Remember, even two minutes of hard, swift pops does the trick. A Punishment Spanking that lasts, except for extras, 3-4 minutes is absolutely the maximum if you are doing it properly. Almost no one can stand it for that period of time. Also, there is never any warm-up. I get right at it.
I carefully observe the most sensitive areas and return to them often.
Crying out: I expect it. If I’m doing my job well, he will cry out. I never gag him. But there are exceptions:
- He cannot curse or use a 4-letter word
- He cannot ask for mercy or beg me to ease up
- He cannot ask a witness to leave
- In a non-pleading voice “I’m sorry” is acceptable as well as “Oh!” and “Oh my!” and the typical “Ouch!”
- I also do not mind if he cries out “That hurts,” because it is supposed to hurt.
I always lock him up in a chastity device before a Punishment Spanking. I do not want to deal with the occasional erection and I do not want him thinking about sex. The tube stays locked on until the marks are gone, without fail. No exceptions.