This is something that I’ve been trying on my slave (who I used to call my husband in the bad old days) for a few years now, and I’ve really had some good results from it.
Firstly, I’m sure I don’t need to tell you, put your slave in an inescapable chastity belt. Nothing guarantees obedience quite like the knowledge that he can’t even get an erection, much less an orgasm, until you allow it. Now here’s the clever part – instead of a padlock with a key, lock the belt on with a combination lock.
What difference does it make? Well, I find it’s better in three ways.
1) First, and most obvious, there’s no key for him to find! And believe me, if you’ve never seen a man after a couple of months of continuous frustration, he will turn the house upside down to find that key he’s so desperate for, except now there’s no key to find and the combination’s not written down anywhere, so he can’t find that either!
Oh, and if you’re thinking he might get desperate enough to just try every combination until he hits on the right one, here’s the catch. Instead of an ordinary padlock with 3 or 4 numbers, make sure you use one with 6 – that’s one million possible combinations!
And of course, his busy schedule of earning a living, doing all the household chores and keeping me satisfied sexually hardly leaves him enough time to sleep, let alone waste time trying random combinations…
2) Secondly, it increases the level of control you have over him. With a combination lock, he knows that I could tell him the combination, and grant him the release he’s so desperate for, any time I liked. But still I don’t. Sometimes I even purse my lips as if I’m about to say it out loud. I wish i could describe the frustration and desperation on his face, knowing that I could end his torment in a second if I wanted to – but I don’t!
3) Thirdly, and best of all, it adds another layer of creativity to the process of deciding what he has to do to get out. With a regular padlock, it’s all or nothing – you either let him out or you don’t. With a combination lock, you string the process out, one number at a time. For example, sometimes I say that for each number he has to serve me perfectly for a day, without even the tiniest slip up – and I do mean the tiniest! I find there’s always something I can find fault with, and if he only did it that way because that’s how I wanted it last time, who said life was fair?
Anyway, so eventually he gets his first number – but I don’t tell him where in the sequence it comes. For that, he has to serve me perfectly for a second day. So finally he gets to the point where he knows one number and its position, and the number of possible combinations between him and freedom has gone down from a million to just one hundred thousand!
I used to just string it out like this until he finally had enough number to get the thing off and gets himself off – under my supervision, of course. But lately I’ve devised an even sweeter torture for him. He’s now on a monthly cycle. If he doesn’t get the thing off within a month, too bad – the combination is reset and the whole process starts again. Of course, this involves me cuffing his hands behind his back, or tying him spreadeagled on the bed, and taking off the padlock… just so I can put it straight back on again. Sometimes I like to let his cock stretch out for a teasing session, but mostly I don’t take the belt off at all.
Ladies if you could see his face when it gets near the end of the month and he realizes he’s not going to make it… That’s the time to start being creative, dreaming up other things he can do besides waiting on you hand and foot so that you’ll tell him another number. Things I’ve made him do include eating a large tin of cat food (I’m still experimenting to find which flavors he particularly dislikes!), spending the night naked in our outdoor cage (in the middle of winter, of course), hanging by his wrists overnight… or of course just taking a really savage beating. If you want to be especially cruel, don’t tie him up – just tell him he has to lie there and take it, unless he feels like waiting another month before getting out of his belt!