My Wife/Mistress/KH Ms Karen also has me on a 1 year schedule now. It did not start like that, but She had over time worked me up to it.

I am allowed 1 pleasurable orgasm on Christmas day only. She has often joked that its just like Christmas. Everybody looks forward to it, and like Christmas, I cum but once a year.

During the time in between, I am either locked up, or released for cleaning, teasing, training, milking, etc. Never a pleasurable powerful orgasm, I only dribble and She insists I swallow most everything that dribbles out of me. This makes me very frustrated and submissive.

As full spectrum said, it really drives home the understanding that I am her sub and She controls me.

This year i have so far been allowed 2 full pleasurable orgasms, 1 in January & the 2nd at Easter this year. For the first I was tied to the bed with my legs tied above me, then masturbated into my own ring gagged mouth. For the second i was allowed to kneel at my wife’s feet & masturbate myself into a pair of her worn panties.

She has told me that i will receive no more than 2 further such treats during the rest of this year & less if my performance begins to suffer.
For health purposes i am “emptied” every few weeks usually by milking or ruined orgasm. However, all too rarely, i am allowed a semi pleasurable release as a reward for particularly good behavior.

Last Friday was such a chance &, after giving my wife 3 orgasms in an hour to seal the deal, i was ordered to kneel & cuff my hands behind my back. She then removed my cage & gave me 2 minutes to rub myself off against her stockinged leg – heaven & such relief!

She has not been in the mood. So all i can do is rub her back and ass at night and drip. She also told me intercourse is now down to once every 2 months..MAYBE and i have to put on 2 rubbers, so i don’t get to feel her pussy that well. Pretty much any relief i get will be with her hand , as she would rather see it, and watch me clean up the mess after.

She was close to 2 months not letting me put it in, as it was, but even with 2 rubbers on, it will be great to be able to enter her again.

I cant say i know the feeling anymore. I haven’t entered my wife in 160 days. I miss it so much. But as my wife says pussy is in the past for me for now. Anyway 2 rubbers? i would be happy with 20 rubbers on at this point. Whatever makes her happy right?

I have to use the old style heavy rubbers. I guess her thinking is I will not get to feel her that well, just the tightness.
I’m sure it will not slow me down much…LOL But that’s fast becoming a thing of the past anyway. My tongue and her toys is what she likes best.

Fortunately she gets off on seeing me shoot, pretty much on her command, or in less then 30 seconds…LOL
But now, its pretty much i don’t get to take the whole CB off anymore. Once she unlocks me, it takes a little bit just to get the cage part off, as I’m jammed into it, and growing the whole time I’m trying to take it off. But that’s about as far as i get now, the rings and what not are still in place. Then i have to shoot for her, which she makes sure I’m covered with it. Then i get to clean up, and get back in the cage.

My Lady busted my male ego all the way to the bottom. Having intercourse with me is Her biggest waste of Her valuable time. As soon as i was close to having any sex with My Lady i would orgasm before entering. How ashamed and inferior i felt but feeling sorry for myself is not allowed.  Now i just make sure i am very useful around the house and serve as a good house keeper. Then i learned being a whining begging pet is a pain so putting My Lady first is best and more useful.

I read on some site that a woman who chastises her man should go at least a year the first time around so he understands clearly that it is not about his desires or wants. It is about the wife having complete control. By the end of a year the man will understand the wife’s complete control. And it ensures that he knows that whatever desires he had about being caged and controlled by her are completely irrelevant.

I am always locked, when she wants sex. She gets serviced anyway she wants, tonge,vibes, whatever. She constantly torments me the whole time pulling, digging her nails into the top of the cage opening. So when she has cum enough, my balls are pretty blue, and as hard as i can get in the cage.

“Most” of the time she allows me releif, but only with her hand, and she has trained me to shot within 30 seconds.

This weekend she allowed me to enter her. To be honest, i’m not sure the last time she did, but i guess it was close to 2 months ago. It was wonderful to be inside her, but I knew i could never last…..it might have been a total of 45 sec. If that. You would think that she would be upset, but she’s not…in fact it turns her on. She says, I have no control over my orgasm anymore, and she can make me shot anytime she wants, in less then a min. Which is pretty much true at this point. In 1 case i had some type of orgasm,(release of fluid anyway) while still locked and using a strapon on her..she thought that was cute, that i even had no control with the cage still on.

My wife hasn’t let me inside her for 2 years :/

It’s odd because it was one of my earliest fantasies about chastity – complete pussy denial. But it was so frightening to even contemplate that I never shared that fantasy with her. I didn’t know if I could take it.

Apparently I don’t have a choice!

At the end of the session I would be allowed to masturbate looking at her naked body. Once I was hard I would be offered a choice. Finish myself off or penetrate her but with no thrusting until I was limp. Then I would be penis whipped and sent off – no orgasm. I no longer fancy penetration!!

As a year end treat for me, Mistress informed me that She kept a tally of our orgasms for 2012. What a cool surprise! Mistress 167 ~ Me 11. She thinks that almost 1 per month is way too generous, so next year’s total shouldl be fewer.

your Mistress is right. one per month is far too many. i can count on one hand how many i’ve had this year and i wouldn’t need more than 2 fingers and a thumb!

Maybe she will, as she let me cum Christmas eve and I blew my lid that afternoon, and she put together that when I orgasm I have a problem with my temper, so I have been locked since. Prior to that it was 120 days. I didn’t even get release for my birthday this year.

One year plus a day with out a orgasm. Looking deeper into being more helpful and not disappointing My Lady with my needs. Happy New Year everyone!!

My wife/mistress has me on all fours during milking and stay locked. not allowed to touch balls or penis.

So lately, starting 4 months ago, things have changed. She stated that she like me locked up and makes sure that when I clean myself that I am locked back up. She has even considered piercings to keep me better locked up.

But, the last 2 month stay, I only gave her sex once and there was nothing else, and when I say nothing else I mean no teasing, no kissing, no cuddling. Pretty much nothing. When I was released for relief, and before I locked myself back up I stated that I kinda felt abandoned since there was hardly any touching in any way. She listened and I was locked back up.
So today, 2 weeks later I am again in the same boat, except this time nothing at all. She did not even want me to please her.

My question is what to do? I still want to play and she still wants to play, but the total lack of contact (kissing, holding hands, snuggling, and even giving her pleasure) has me at crossroads. I am not even looking for relief, but I don’t know what I am looking for.
I know that as a chastity-sub, its all about her, but the feeling of abandonment is taking this whole chastity thing in another direction for me.

Eventually, you might take more liberty as you rub her feet. You might start to kiss and lick her feet. I wouldn’t do this the first time, but if she responds positively to the massages, then keep adding to them. You might work your kissing and licking from her feet, up her legs, and then to her crotch. That’s right, get in the habit of orally servicing your wife. Kiss her body all over and make love to her with your mouth and tongue. Do not ever penetrate her with your penis, unless she requests it. Do not focus on your needs, but instead focus on her needs. Please her sexually as your Queen. Remember that she is superior to you. Don’t you dare ever take any liberties, without her permission.

Another way to seduce your wife’s dominant nature is to be very obedient when she asks you to do chores for her. First, begin by doing all of the chores that you already know that she would like you to do. Don’t wait on her to ask before you take out the garbage, cut the lawn, wash the cars, or whatever else you are suppose to do. She will be amazed if you start to serve her by doing your chores willfully. The next step is to then ask her if you can help her with her chores. Ask her if you can do the dishes and help her clean the house. Tell her that you exist to serve her and that you will do  whatever she asks of you.

i am locked since 8 years , during the first years i was alowed to help myself here and than ,so 2-3 times a year ,but last few years nothing has happend and when i had my last one i can not remember !

i am looked up 24/7 by my mistress and only get to cum when she allows it. i do not know when or if i will get to cum ?????? its all up to her now, and she make me sign a life time contract as well.

My KH wife has sort of chastised me for ever in a different way.
Whenever she needs a play or I have to shave, she chains & locks both my hands behind my back.
Then she opens the lock, plays, or shaves, and then locks again.
Only then she releases my hands.
I have not really even touched my dick (out of cage) in the last many months.

i am locked up too, 24/7 by my mistress and i only get to cum if she wants it. she also made me sign her contract, which by the way is for life. maybe your mistress should make you do the same. a life time contract where she says when you get too cum.

I am on month four of 24/7 chastity in what has been slated a six month term due to my misbehavior. Although I have been granted two ruined orgasms during this sentence, the daily grind of constant denial through these hot months of my scantily clad Keyholder while providing her with countless pleasure has driven my psyche to immeasurable heights

Well true to her word, the cage stayed in place.
My whole weekend was spent doing chores around the house and slaving in the garden. She did insist apon frequent inspections with a good cropping for badly preformed chores.
She has relenquished on the September date by 1 day, which I dont feel could come quick enough. My poor cocklet now constantly cry’s chasterty tears and strains to escape making my ball sac a tadge on the tender side, much to Mistress’s amusementWell true to her word, the cage stayed in place.
My whole weekend was spent doing chores around the house and slaving in the garden. She did insist apon frequent inspections with a good cropping for badly preformed chores.
She has relenquished on the September date by 1 day, which I dont feel could come quick enough. My poor cocklet now constantly cry’s chasterty tears and strains to escape making my ball sac a tadge on the tender side, much to Mistress’s amusement

I see no reason for your being allowed any release at this time. Many men go 6 months, or more, being allowed to cleanse themselves, with strict supervision, then immediately being relocked into their device.

If they are very good boys, their Mistress performs prostate milking, with the chastity device in place. I suggest you beg for a prostate milking.

But my wife hasn’t allowed me to have any pussy for 3 years now, and it appears quite likely that she’s going to deny me permanently. This was never part of my intentions, to say the least. It was my darkest fantasy, no doubt – part of me craved for her to deny me in such a serious and permanent way. But I never shared that with her. I was too afraid she might do it, and I have a very healthy sex drive. It was a frightening fantasy.

Well, like it or not, she’s now made my darkest fantasy a reality, and it appears probable that she’s truly never ever going to allow me to have pussy again. The idea that my wife would put me in permanent pussy denial has forced me to really dig deep into myself, because this is not just a game. There’s nothing pretend about it. It is a very serious, sobering, life-changing perspective to realize, and more importantly to accept, that pussy is never going to happen again for you. You will live the rest of your life without it, because that’s what your wife has decided you need.

I guess I’m looking for a show of hands of anyone who’s either been told outright, no more pussy for you (period), or has been specifically denied it for a minimum of a year, and how it changed your perspective on your relationship as you came to terms with this.

Personally I am now of the opinion that this is how things should be. A marriage is at its best when the husband is only allowed pussy for the purpose of having babies, and is otherwise kept locked and denied, while the wife’s sexual needs are met.

Our marriage has never been better or stronger than it is right now, now that I’ve accepted that pussy denial is a permanent fact of my life. Now that I have begun to accept that her pussy is off limits to me, our relationship has blossomed in ways I never would have expected. But if she had never cut me off completely, I would never have found this place I’m in now. Sure, I’d love to have sex, but I love even more that she’s denying it to me from now on. I don’t have the strength to do it myself, but I realize it’s exactly what I need to be the best husband possible.

July 4tt will be 3 years in chastity for me…. my wife locked me up on independance day to claim “HER INDEPENANCE” I cheated on her and she felt this was the best way to teach me a lesson… I have not had sex as a man since. .. I am allowd to jerkoff once a month if I am good.. but that has not happened in almost 4 months…I also was told that I will never have sex as a man again

We are in remarkably similar situations! It has been over 7 years since my wife and I enjoyed full intercourse because of the pain to her. I do still enjoy being able to provide her with oral service so I am not fully cut off from her pussy! We have currently been experimenting with edging and tease and denial and are getting pretty serious about long term chastity.

always hoping for sex but am rarely released, milking while locked is what I get most of the time. mistress/wife keeps full control of me

My wife/Mistress, no longer has much of an interest in intercourse with me. Only my tongue, and her toys. She keeps me locked in the CB 6000S as she wants to keep me as small as possible all the time.Which is not the easiest device to wear. I will get bruises and stuff in it, so it does have to come off sometimes for a while to heal up. She is looking into the small Dick cage as it’s “supposedly” easier to wear all the time. So i can switch on and off from the CB6000S. She has no interest in prostate milking, so she does let me out every 2 weeks or so…after she’s fully satisfied. My balls are pretty much blue at that point. She allows the cage part to come off, then grabs me and gives me a harsh handjob, which now lasts for less then 30 seconds. At that point i shot all over the place which amuses her. Then i have to clean up the mess and put the cage part back in place and locked up again.

Since she has trained me to shot in her hand within 30 seconds or less….I can no longer last at all if i’m allowed to enter her. I may last a few strokes ,but sometimes i can’t even get it all the way in before i shot. She decided thats a complete waste of her time, maybe she will allow it once a year at this point. She just enjoys keeping me as small as possible all the time. The 6000S can be very painful when she’s teasing me, the small Dickcage maybe some what more tolerable altho i’m not sure the cage is smaller. If she could, she would have me locked into something even smaller, but i don’t think thats doable and would end up in extreme pain.

My wife/Mistress has had very large cock before…which she likes to remind me about as he was over 10″ very thick with a big head. I am no were close to that, and since i can only last a few strokes at this point, my cock is worthless to her. She has no interest in haveing other men, only my tounge, which can be a good hour between her clit and asshole, then her viberators. She enjoys keeping me as small as possiable all the time. Fortunatly she also gets off on forceing me to shot in front of her.

Mistress/wife keeps me locked in neosteel 24/7, I keep her pleaured orally and with the neosteel dildo witch is somewhat bigger than me. She says its as close as il get to being hard from now on. restained when released so no touching it and am milked about once a month. she also lets her friends see the belt and teases me constantly

Although my keyholder hasn’t specifically told me she no longer requires my cock, she is thriving having multiple orgasms from my tongue or her toys. When released from chastity, I can not last more than 30 seconds so she can have multiple, lasting orgasms with me remaining locked – and she lets me know it!. Her vibrating dildo is significantly bigger than my member and it satisfies her better. I’ve been locked almost a month and whenever I beg and plead to release she simply laughs, reminds me of the above facts, and demands me to please her. I guess this is why we chose this lifestyle

Wife/mistress says I wil be in lockup 24/7 from now on. She also says she dosnt need me for sex therefor no need for release. my question is does anyone else have have this problem and what did you do about it. I keep her well pleasured as it is now I think.

I’ve done this to my subby for years now.

And nothing he could, or can, do about it. He doesn’t get sex, period. That’s the whole point!

Milking is as close as I get to orgasm. which isnt much. apon asking for sex mistress/wife attached dildo to belt and had me fuck her to climax for her. Then said I am to keep dildo on for the day even tho she has friends comming over today. she says its as hard as I going to get from now on.

After almost two years of being locked 24/7 with 2-3 orgasms a year, my wife and I just started phase two. Erection and orgasm denial. I used to be unlocked for a sex a few nights a week but not know. My wife had me send my Jailbird in to have the security screw installed so that there is no more padlock with sharp corners so she can play with me while locked. Today was the first day we had sex after receiving my Jailbird back. Without the ability of playing with my penis to to make me moan, her orgasm trigger, she went to work on my testicles until I was moaning in pain. She had her first orgasm then. When she calmed down she went to work on them with her cane and that was a first for me. Much more painful than on the butt. I was screaming in pain and that was the start of orgasm number two for her. After she came down from her second orgasm, she left the bed for me to fix up. This is going to be my life from now on.

Just two years ago she did not want to try chastity and now she is complaining when my device was in the shop to be adjusted. She got used to controlling me by keeping me horny all the time and punishing any misbehavior. I do not think there is any going back for her. She was mad at me the whole week I was unlocked.

Day by day my KH wife is getting more n more dominant
She has not only sealed my cage with adhesive
But now a days she keeps both my hands handcuffed to my cage throughout the night
If I do not obey her orders, I get severe punishment

being teased before sex is nothing new in our relationship. last night was pretty usual in the way it started with long foreplay. it had been a week since we had sex i was a little anxious but she was determined to prolong penetration for a while. just as i was to enter her she announced” i think you need to be in chastity, now hurry i am timing you.” with that i reached into the nightstand and got it. per our agreement she decides when i go in and i must without delay or question put it on. as i lay there she became a woman on a mission telling me to hurry that she was horny and wanted to be eaten all the while kissing licking and rubbing her crotch on my groin. going down in order to fit in my chastity was impossible. i complained and she said it wasn’t her problem but for every minute it took. i would spend at least that many days locked up. oh how i wished she had just done it rather than tell me. i thought i would never go down. all the while still tweaking my nipples and nuzzling my neck. purposely making it difficult and getting off on my problem. it took me 27 minutes to get it in. then i had to service twice. as she fell into a deep sleep i lay awake reliving the nights event and thinking how deviously sexy she is.

She is at the point of no, not interested. I have to dress in stockings heels her bra. I have to clean the house.
Then have to spend a good hour rubbing her, all over then have to suck on her toe’s and rub them, then, move to her pussy or her ass..which she seems to like more. Then maybe use her vibrator on her. Depends on her mood…she may tie me up and abuse me while she uses the vib….or she has me use the vibe. But thank god she likes to see me shot, so at some point, i’m let out of the cage and she jerks me off. I shot all over the place, but I have clean every thing up. This may take hours on end for her to get to that point, but at least I get to have release….this may happen once a week..just depends on her mood.

I am the live in sissy to my Mistress and I am not allowed intercourse at all. My chastity is not full time but my abstinence from sex and masturbation is. My personal duties include but are not limited to Massage, foot service, oral service, shoe and boot care, personal care such as trimming pubic hair, leg shaving, powdering her body and the cleaning and maintaining of personal toys.

I knew before we got married that I would never have intercourse with her. I am in permanent chastity, and am submissive.

My Keyholder will not let me enter her anymore. She feels I need to increase my stamina and last longer in order to please her. I do have the bad habit of premature ejaculation. I have been locked in inescapable chastity since Dec 20, 2013 and my release date is August 29, 2014.Upon release I will work my stamina up through hand jobs. I please her whenever she requires with my tongue and various toys only.

I have not had intercourse in 8 years with my wife. Just twice with her girlfriend about 5 years ago. It started when her g/f told her to no longer do that and my wife grew to like it and we never did it again despite leaving her g/f behind 4 years ago when we moved. I am submissive to her in our wife led marriage and also in chastity for an undetermined amount of time. I really miss intercourse now (not so much orgasms) and my wife has been hinting that maybe by the summer she will let me since it has been a very long time and she is no longer interested in getting a new g/f to do it to me, for her. What I do not know is if she will just let me penetrate her or let me have an orgasm inside of her too. To tell the truth, she finds the whole male ejaculation things icky, her words.

this sissy has not had intercourse with its Mistress/Wife for more than 12 years. Mistress wanted to marry a sissymaid, and sissy’s chastity is and continues to be a very important part of this marriage (not to mention the housework and almost continuous service). Mistress doesn’t miss intercourse with Her maid in the least, but dearly misses getting to know and make friends with other Wives who have similar types of marriage relationships!

My problem would be, my wife has been using Chastity devices on me for at least 4 years. I of course am never allowed to jerk off. Only when she allows it. I have to take care of her in any way she wants. Once she is done and satisfied, the cage portion is taken off and i’m allowed maybe 30 seconds to shoot by her hand. Now it only takes maybe 15 seconds, or a few strokes of her hand. So she has basically trained me to shoot for her in no time at all.
The few times she allowed the whole cage to come off, and I was told to enter her, I could barely even get it in before I lost control.
Now things have progressed to any cleaning that needs to be done, I have to be dressed in her stockings, bra, panties, collar, maybe a hood. Depends on how much of a bitch she feels like being. She may come out with one of her whips and use it on me if she does not think i’m working hard enough, or fast enough or just because she feels like it. Once i’m done cleaning what she wants, she tells me to go sit in a chair, while she takes a shower. Once she is done with whatever she is doing, i’m called into the bedroom were she is naked and i’m to start rubbing her back and body for how ever long she feels like. I’m not allowed to touch her breasts, or suck on her nipples unless she tells me too. Pretty much I can’t touch any part of her body unless told too. Which could be 45 min’s of rubbing her feet and sucking on her toes. Once she is done with me. I may get to take the cage part off, or she may tie me up and abuse me.

lucky for you that she unlocks you to jerk you off like that
my wife an i dont have sex at all but then i have to do same things as you do also messarge her an use vib on her pussy to make her orgasm an then lick up her juices she will play with cage manybe maybe put vib in my ass an fuck me but that is it stay lock no sex that is how this marriage goes

not to mention i do all house work

I have not had intercourse with my wife in about 30 years at the request of her girlfriend and my wife leans more towards females than males. I did not miss it when we were a poly triad with her gf but now that we are just a couple again, I am missing intercourse. I was told that it may be a possibility depending on how well I do in chastity with only 3-4 orgasms a year. Obviously she has not need for my penis but loves me and feels that she should give me something. She has hinted that she may let me have intercourse with her if I agree to one orgasm a year. I can take a wait of 4 months but it is very hard.

I am in permanent chastity for 8 years. My Wife frees me when she feels like it. She practices milking the prostate to empty me without orgasm as she wants.
My cock can not satisfy her, she ties me a dildo and she straddles me wildly. My Wife made me wear a plug in permance to sodomize me regularly.

Pretty much she will not have any sex with me unless i’m dressed, also now I have to have a hood on. I also have to buy a latex hood, that she would like better. I also have to wear her panties and bra around the house all the time.
I’m not sure 100% why. But that’s seems to be what turns her on. The fact she wants the hood on all the time now..not sure again. At least for any sex she wants it on. But again, if she likes it and jerks me off…. I’m happy.

I have not been allowed intercourse for far more the 6 months now, if not longer. She does give me relief every 2 weeks or so with a 30 second hand job. Pretty much i’m supposed to rub her back and body.Pretty much when ever she wants it. I’m not really supposed to rub her breasts, and never touch her pussy unless i’m told. 2 nights ago I was rubbing her, guess I was talking too much and coming close to try and lick her nipples, so she said put on your gag, which she made very tight, then I just had to keep rubbing her for the next hour. When she was done, then I could take off the gag and go to sleep. Hope that is not an all the time thing now.

She did milk me yesterday. Or more to the point she lets me take the cage part off, and I get a 30 second hand job.
She has been playing with Chastity for over 3 years now. But the length of time I am locked up, has now become 24/7
The amount of time for me to have any relief is now about 2 weeks. She has a dryness problem in her pussy, so to have intercourse, she has to put in a lot of lube so I don’t hurt her. But since she has been training me to shoot for her in 30 seconds or less, trying to put it into her is almost pointless. Hopefully I can get all the way in, and manage a few strokes, that’s about it.

The first 6 months were just about not masturbating. Then she wanted me locked at night too. It took me a few months to get used to it but all four of my devices were uncomfortable. My wife told me to get a custom device because preventing orgasms was getting boring and now she wanted to prevent erections. The custom device touches my penis at the tip and all sides so I can start to get erect but that is it.

Now being allowed to have an erection is given in place of when I used to get orgasm. I still get orgasms every few months but most times I am released to get hard either by her hand or mine and then locked up again.

She told me she was locking me up for a week after we have sex, right before I am about to cum she says “if you orgasm without permission it will be 2 weeks” I lost it right there. When we got done she said well you earned yourself another week. 2 weeks is obviously twice as long as I had ever gone so I was a little scared but super turned on. About a week later when we went to bed I was cage humping her from behind a little and she told me to be careful or I would get another day, we went to sleep and I had very hot tease and denial dream. In the morning the first thing she said was “hope you enjoyed it cause you just earned another day” I asked her why and she told me that I humped her all night long, I then told her about my dream and she giggled and said she liked it. I did a couple good things and she told me she may take that added day back off and that I could earn 2 more days off if I gave her a massage. That night before we went to bed she started rubbing her body, it was killing me she was wearing my favorite bra. I had an even hotter dream where she teased me until she made me beg her to add a week just for the chance to eat her, I told her about it first thing in the morning, she told me that she was really horny and was maybe going to let me out for some fun but she liked my dream even better. She then started rubbing her body and I asked her if I could eat her, she said no, so I asked if I could kiss her pussy, she said no, I then asked if I could kiss around her pussy area, she said OK but to be very careful, if I even touch her pussy it will be two more days. As I kissed her upper thighs I said screw it and went in and started kissing, she just laughed, she then said keep it up and you will keep getting denied , I stopped. I was so horny, I just wanted to eat her, so I told her that I would trade the 1 day I had earned back plus I would give her the massage without getting 2 days back if she would make my 1st dream come true, she smiled and said OK. I believe she plans to make me beg for another week the night before my release.

I have been completely faithful to my wife, And inside my head, I always look to her as my superior. My wife, on the other hand, does not have to work. She is a Princess and loves her role in our marriage. She controls the money, takes naps, goes out to lunch with friends, and in general does whatever she wants to do.

Every evening when I get home, I take off my suit and put in my nose ring. I am generally naked and ready to serve until the next morning. My wife’s mood will define our evening activities.

Let’s first do a quick check of the relationship I have with pet:
* All money is mine – CHECK.
* Hubby does shopping/cooking/cleaning/other household duties – CHECK.
* Sex is when I want, how I want – CHECK.
* Hubby does everything he is asked to do! – CHECK.

I knew I was emasculated and humiliated when I heard my wife and Mistress talking with a female friend of hers. Her friend was having trouble conceiving a baby and they were discussing it. At one point, her friend asked my wife about something related to intercourse and my wonderful wife replied “oh no, we don’t do that anymore. And besides, his penis is locked up. It’s for the best.”

My experience is that rules define the Mistress / slave relationship with nightly canings for violations (six every night + 1 additional for each infraction). Rules should span the gamut of the relationship, from kissing her feet in the morning and when you or she re-enters the house, to preparing her coffee in the morning, shaving before greeting her, giving her a massage nightly, washing clothes, refraining from requesting chastity release, refraining from requesting orgasm, refraining from inquiring regarding release, referring to your wife or girlfriend only as “Mistress,” etc. Interestingly the categories are probably: Chastity, Poverty, Obedience, and Daily Tasks. You and she would agree upon the rules and she would agree to the nighly canings.

When it became obvious that my Lori’s tube was comfortable enough to wear indefinitely, and that it was very secure, my key holder wife suggested we try a three month period of chastity to begin. There was to be no tease and denial what-so-ever, she has a zero tolerance for any type of penis stimulation, and a few failed milking attempts led her to eliminate those as well. At the three month mark there was no discussion at all – I was to go another three months. At six months without orgasm She decided that I would be allowed only one orgasm per year, on our anniversary. I thought this was too long and more than I had ever bargained for, but she was adamant that our relationship was so improved that I needed to accept it. I had become obedient and attentive like never before and she had come to love having me penetrate her with a strap-on dildo.

Permanent chastity is not only possible, it is preferable in some cases. She also admitted how much more she prefers the large vibrating strap-on dildo to my penis, and how turned on she gets at the idea of never letting me out of chastity and never letting me orgasm again. So she decided that I’m not to be let out for purposes of ejaculation ever again. I agreed and no longer struggle with the decision. For us it is best.

I’m in the same exact situation…given two choices…and chose to stay, only under my wife’s terms. We have a FLR and she has been my dominant for over six years. After the initial shock, I’ve adjusted to Mistress now making the decision, not just sexual, but in many other facets as well.

I’m chastised, tattooed with her name and soon getting a chastity tattoo (though I won’t be shown the design or placement until we get it done), plugged often, spanked cropped and slapped, monitored via security cams in my home and office, and generally the house slave cooking most meals, serving her and cleaning up, I perform regular foot worship and pedicures, pussy slave, etc…. The grip keeps getting tighter

Thanks for sharing MistressL, I have the same sort of relationship with my Wife Superior. I’m locked permanently with no tease and denial, no orgasmic releases, no removal of the device (Lori #2). We went through a year of exploration much as you did, and have come to what we believe is best for Her. She decided I should commit to 12 years of this type of chastity during which I will be re-made into an “extremely obedient woman” in her own words.

My Mistress Wife has taken control of the household finanaces after 15 years of marriage. I no longer have a platinum card, gas card, ATM, checking account etc available to me. When I am paid I sign my check over to her and she deposits it in to her account.

I thought giving up control of my orgasms was humbling but it has nothing on having to kiss her boot for lunch money or gas to get to work. I do not think I noticed untill just now, but over the last few years all the utilities and such have been transferred in to her name.

She really is enjoying this new level of control over me, she will make it a point at the checkout line to ask if I need lunch money, or handing me a couple of dollars for the “dollar menu”. I have given up carrying my wallet, there is nothing in it anyway.

I don’t know if this will happen to you, but it’s where we are at; I don’t generally have more than a few pounds in my pocket so I never impulse buy anything; Mistress, on the other hand, buys shoes and clothes when she feels like it. It used to bother me but it’s OK really. If I ask for something nicely she is generous (and stuffs the money down my panties usually )

The only bit I still hate is when I have to ask for money in front of my friends and family but by now I think people who know me think I’m totally pussywhipped. Financial domination works for us as well. I hope you and your Wife’s enjoy this form of control in the future.

i have been the slave of a D.M. for ten years. i was a virgin when we met, and still am. Ladies have had me, if you understand me, but i have never had sex. Mistress has kept me in various chastity devices over the years, and i was infibulated for a long time. Mistress is in complete control of my sexual outlet, and when i visit She sometimes helps me to orgasm, but most times not, i can go without relief for many months. i cannot “help myself” as, the last time i did so received a 200 stoke caning when i confessed. Next time it will be worse, which is unthinkable. Mistress is now talking of castrating me and removing my penis altogether. i belong to Her completely, and whatever She decides to do with me i accept unconditionally. i find great comfort and inner strength from being owned, and, now there is no other way to lead my life. Best respects, slave david.

My husband is a male virgin and he will be the first to tell you he would not change anything about his service to me. If him staying a virgin makes me happy, then he is happy too. It is all about putting me first.

I am not a virgin but I might as well be. I have rarely had the opportunity to penetrate a woman. None of them ever achieved orgasm, unless you count the one girl who got on top and ground her clit in to my pelvic bone and got off that way. Sex with women always ended up oral only. And each of these women found other men to give them the satisfaction they deserved and then they moved on. My natural submissiveness grew stronger with each rejection. My wife and I came together more than ten years ago because she loved having a submissive who is completely devoted to her and would give her the freedom to have sex with other men. She never has any sexual contact with me except to let me worship her asshole (daily). I have finally overcome my jealousy and envy towards her lovers. Now, it just seems completely natural that she and her lover enjoy “real” sex. I adore hearing her scream out in orgasm and sexual bliss.

Since I haven’t permitted my subhub to enter me for well over seven years now, should he be considered a male virgin once again? Some might say so. LOL 🙂

we had not talk about permanant but for me lock and its been 4 years since we had sex and she wil lnot unlock mefor sex and does not care if i do itor not to her since 4 years since i did it i dont care much for it now