I removed my clothes, stood at the side of the bed and asked permission to enter her bed.  (I had promised Mistress I would always do that, even though she said it wasn’t necessary.  Even still, Mistress has said that she appreciates me asking. I have been lax on doing that lately … I need to better at that).  Instead of saying yes, she said “lock the door”.  Those three little words always put a smile on my face.  I locked the door and returned to Mistress’s bed. She removed the covers to reveal her beautiful naked body.  She instructed me to cover her body with soft kisses and to continue until I was to stop.  Sometimes that can be 10 minutes, sometimes an hour.

Covering her body with soft kisses is one of my favorite things in the world to do.  Why wouldn’t it be?  She was sleepy and wanted to be worshipped and pampered on her way to slumber.  I began my task with a deep, contented breath.  My cock was swelling at a rapid pace (you know, because this is one of my favorite things to do).   There is just something so wonderful about having my naked Mistress laying before me when all she wants is my mouth on her body.  I had been worshipping her for about 15 minutes. At one point I was just so overcome with lust that placed my rock hard cock against her ass and began a slow grind.  “No!”, she said, “continue with the kisses”.  I stopped trying to get some pleasure and proceeded to concentrate on the pleasure she was receiving. I am not always certain that Mistress will allow my lips, mouth or tongue to touch or get near her sex parts.  I never know until I try.  So I tried.  I ran my tongue up the crack of her gorgeous ass to see how she would respond.  She responded with a soft whimper and a slight pushback against my face.  So, I went a little deeper.  More of the same.  So I went a little deeper until my tongue rested on her tiny rear hole.  It was apparent that she wanted me to continue, so continue I did.

I need to tell you that being allowed to worship Mistress K’s ass in this way is something that, in and of itself, can cause me to want to orgasm.  This was no exception.  I plunge into a deep state of desire for her when I am allowed to place my mouth there and soon I was shuddering with excitement.  I took a small break and worked my way up her back with soft kisses when she said :get back down there!”  OMG … I thanked her for allowing me to worship her this way and returned to her bottom hole for more worshipping, all the while being keenly aware that I needed to make sure that I didn’t ejaculate from all the excitement.  After 15 minutes or so of this bliss, Mistress rolled onto her back, spread her legs and expected me to know what to do next.  She didn’t have to wait long for me to continue my worshipping of her at her alter.

I was lost in desire while pleasuring her with my mouth and I could feel her orgasm building.  Every so often, Mistress would have to adjust my head because my eagerness sometimes causes me to push to my mouth too hard against her.  My beloved Mistress K. had the most wonderful orgasm and pushed my head away when she could take no more.  I rose to me knees, rock hard cock in front of me, eager for attention.  I just took in the beautiful sight of my glorious Wife laying before me in her post orgasm glow.  It was wonderful.  After a few minutes, when she regained her composure, she said “go unlock the door and come back here and snuggle me to sleep”.

When I returned to the bed, I moved in behind her and pulled her sexually satisfied body in close.  I thanked her for allowing me to worship her with my mouth, and for allowing me to witness her orgasm.  She just said, in a very sleepy voice, “you’re welcome pet”.

I clumsily asked if I could be allowed a ruined orgasm and her response was “not tonight pet.  We’re going to go to sleep now”.  “Yes Mistress”, was my reply and we both nodded off to sleep with her orgasm still fresh on my face and my rock hard, eager yet denied penis firmly pressed against the most beautiful ass in the world.

• The Lady is the Dominant. The pet is the submissive.

• These rules may be amended or modified at any time at the sole discretion of The Lady

• Pet will be kept in constant chastity to The Lady. Such chastity is expected at all times whether it is voluntarily self-enforced, or The Lady has required the pet to wear a chastity device (lockable cage) that will prevent pet from touching or otherwise stimulating his penis, obtaining an erection or receiving stimulation directly against penis.

• The pet acknowledges that his pleasure is derived from providing service and pleasure to The Lady.

• The pet shall make every attempt to keep his body in pristine condition so as to further enhance the enjoyment of its use by The Lady. As such, the pet shall maintain a completely shaved genital and anus area. Pet shall submit to physical inspection of any part of pet’s body, at any time, for any reason by The Lady.

• As a default and at all times, when The Lady and pet are securely alone (as determined by The Lady), pet shall be expected to be naked and to be kept naked even while performing normal duties and functions. Pet shall be expected to become naked and remain so without being asked. The Lady may require pet to wear something, anything, exclusively of The Lady’s choosing, as determined solely by The Lady.

• In normal life, during the normal course of a regular day, pet will wear normal clothes. The Lady may require that the pet wear something in particular under pet’s “normal” clothes at her sole discretion as she deems appropriate.

• All pets’ orgasms are owned by The Lady. If pet is to have an orgasm, it will be because The Lady has allowed the pet to have it. Any such permissible orgasm for the pet shall be achieved solely in a manner dictated by The Lady.

• The pet will plan on having fewer orgasms than given the prohibition to masturbation.

• The Lady will manage and control the release of seminal fluid of the pet as The Lady deems appropriate. Such release may or may not include orgasm, at the sole discretion of The Lady.

• Pet will be required to orgasm on demand, or conversely, will be denied orgasm as The Lady deems necessary and at her sole discretion.

• The duration and sensitivity/roughness of pets sexual performance at the pleasure of The Lady is at the sole discretion of the lady.

• Pet’s body belongs to The Lady. As such, The Lady has exclusive use, control and direction of pet’s body.

• Any part of pet’s body is available for use by The Lady at any time, day or night, for the sexual, visual or physical pleasure of The Lady, in any way The Lady determines. Pet may be required to perform sexual acts that give direct stimulation to The Lady or pet may be required to perform sexual acts on him for the visual pleasure of The Lady. Any such acts are at the sole discretion of The Lady.

• Any sexual demand/request made of pet by the Lady will be followed without question and with enthusiasm.

• Pet is only allowed to have orgasm when given permission/instruction by The Lady. When in the presence of The Lady, and when on the verge of achieving orgasm. Pet will always ask for permission to orgasm. Pet will only be allowed to orgasm if such permission is granted by The Lady

• Pet may not fondle, massage, stroke, rub or otherwise touch his penis (except when urinating and cleaning) without permission or instruction from The Lady.

• Pet may not fondle, massage, rub, enter or otherwise pleasure his anus (except when pooping and cleaning) without permission or instruction from The Lady.

• Pet will wear any accessory or device, externally or internally, the Lady deems necessary at any given time, for however long is deemed appropriate by The Lady, without hesitation and without argument. Such device may be anything that might harness or control pet’s penis or something that may be inserted and held in pet’s ass.

• Any item that may be inserted into pet’s ass will be at the sole discretion of The Lady. Items may be inserted for a variety of reasons, such as training pet’s ass; as a punishment; as a reward; as a visual stimulation for The Lady; as a constant reminder of pet’s dedication to The Lady throughout the day; just because The Lady wants to.

• Pet is required to communicate with The Lady about any physical issues that may prevent pet from performing his duties in the service of The Lady.

 Punishment

• The pet is under the authority of The Lady.

• There will be times when the pet breaks guidelines, misses expectations, fails to follow instructions, or generally displeases The Lady. Without consequences, the pet will be pretty much be encouraged to continue to displease The Lady.

• Finding a punishment that has the desired effect of correcting behavior is an exercise for The Lady to determine, at her sole discretion. Such punishments shall be determined to be corrective punishment, or punishment that’s that are in direct correlation to displeasure of the pet by The Lady.

• The Lady may determine that regularly scheduled, maintenance punishments will be useful. The type, duration and severity of said maintenance shall be at the sole discretion of The Lady

• Punishment may include, but are not limited to the following:
  – Spanking, with or without the use of an implement such as a paddle, hair brush, wooden spoon, ruler, riding crop. Spankings may be administered by The Lady in any position she deems suitable, at her sole discretion
  – Repeated intense Tease and Denial
  – Longer duration of chastity
  – Sleeping on floor
  – humiliation

My husband and I have been in the chastity lifestyle more than 5 years. If you are asking how long has he been in the cage presently, I really don’t know. I no longer keep track.

He is ALWAYS locked during sex. Because he is usually on the edge if you know what I mean, it is not safe for his manhood to be rubbing on the sheets when he is pleasuring me. On the rare occasions when I want to involve his penis, I replace his cage with desensitizing cream and a condom.

We use a Jailbird. We use the chastity device as a tool to reprogram his thinking that all his passions are directed toward me. I then utilize those passions to get things done, increase my leisure, or to have them released byhim pleasuring me.

We both have seen a change in his mindset towards sex. He doesn’t want to ruin our sex life by having an orgasm. I agree with him.
He has orgasm via night emissions about every 5-6 weeks which seem to have little impact on his pursuing me. These night emissions tell me he has been faithful. We will never permanently lock him up. But his having an orgasm will soon permanently be a thing of the past.

Chastity belt keep him on track. No more porn and compulsive masturbation. He focused on my satisfaction. He has a strong mental orgasm when I have an orgasm. He simply enjoys to give me pleasure.

Man in female-centric relationship needs stability. Long term orgasm denial it always ensures maximum stability. Frequent ejaculation affects badly his behavior, even when they are without an orgasm.

I love intercourse once or several times a month (depending on my mode for it). Emla cream and condom are required. I like chin dildo. He did not need much preparation as for his penis. Put on his head and he can begin. With such intercourse he can licking my clitoris too. Penis in this case remains in the chastity belt.

Positive reinforcement is what I always do. I tell him: “Good boy or You were fantastic” , kiss him. It is equally important as a chastity belt.

His last orgasm? Oh my, this is going to sound so bad of me, but I honestly don’t remember. Is there a reason that should be important to me?

In the context of a female led relationship where masturbation is forbidden, like mine, masturbating is akin to infidelity. Before I entered into my FLM with my Mistress Wife, I masturbated A LOT. Because I could! For us, it was something we identified together as being harmful to our marriage and as such, Mistress K. strictly forbade it. Once that particular new context of our relationship was established, it was (for me) a matter of my commitment to my Mistress Wife, and whether I felt it was important enough to adhere to that rule.  I am lucky enough to be able to adhere to the rules my Mistress has placed upon me in our marriage.

Just because I insist that my husband remain in chastity does not make me a bitch.

And knowing that I have the authority to deny him permanently (if I wanted to), makes me even wetter. Keeping a man under my long, manicured thumbnail by securely locking his dick up, is the ultimate power trip.

I also happen to be a crazy control freak. I like to have things just the way I want them. My locked up man enables me to keep my life in perfect order.

• He makes sure that the house is kept spotless, both inside and out
• He works six days a week bringing his BIG paycheck home to me
• He keeps my car detailed, washed and waxed so it always shines
• He polishes my large high heel collection so I always look my best
• His tongue is always ready and willing for my pussy or asshole
• He meekly takes my hard slaps to his face when I’m in a bitchy mood

Yeah, all I have to do is snap my sexy fingers and he’ll do ANYTHING for me! And in return, all I have to do is humiliate the hell out of him.

The truth is that he loves being with a cunt like me. If I asked him to leave tomorrow, he would instantly drop to his knees and BEG me to let him stay. But I’m not the total bitch since I do allow him a supervised orgasm once every so often.

How often? Just once a year at most. That sounds cruel I admit, but insisting that your husband be locked in chastity does require you to have, or develop, some sort of mean streak. Nothing quite matches the power dynamic of keeping your husband permanently
denied (more or less) and locked in chastity.

All you ask in return is that he wear a chastity device to assure you that he isn’t masturbating behind your back and to come to the realization that he can still make love to you without the need for penetration and ejaculation, that the romantic benefits from this are worth the sacrifice.

Tears and drama are normal, chastity is not easy for a man. What he needs is exactly what you’ve given him, a firm, disciplined yet loving hand. If you choose to go the route of permanent chastity, that is absolutely your prerogative and I respect that.  I like working hard to prove to my wife that I deserve an orgasm every month, it gives me something to look forward to and makes it go a little easier on me. This is just my opinion and it may not work for your desires or the direction you wish to take, so I totally understand and respect that and your husband is just going to have to accept it.

I’m of the opinion that looking at photos of women, be it a lingerie or swimsuit ad, the Victoria’s Secret show on tv, or even online porn, while masturbating is extremely disrespectful of women. Even masturbating to the thought of a woman you saw down the street or at work is disrespectful. It’s not only disrespectful of the man’s significant other, but it is also disrespectful of women in general.

It’s almost as if because I know that masturbation is no longer an option and it’s something my wife greatly disapproves of, I’m forced to look beyond a woman’s appearance or clothing, no matter how she’s dressed and how sexually aroused I am. No longer is it a woman’s responsibility to dress in a way that doesn’t arouse me, rather, it’s my responsibility to control my urges and treat her with respect.

My wife thinks the act of me ejaculating to the thought or image of another woman is disrespectful to her, to the woman I’m imagining or viewing while doing it, and to women in general, which I agree with. I find that my view and treatment of women completely changes for the better when I’m not allowed to masturbate to them.

It was always our intention that Ken wear the chastity device the rest of his life. The focus was to reprogram his mind to accept that an orgasm for him was not needed for us to enjoy a fulfilling sex life. And even more, that his orgasm is actually a hindrance and since we no longer had a desire for more children, we had no need for his orgasm.

As I have shared in previous posts we have been at male chastity for years, always with the goal that we could move to the place that I could trust him to do the right thing with his penis and quit acting like a child. I have the right to know that just because he sees a pretty woman he is not going to start down the road that ends with him masturbating. I mean seriously, don’t I deserve his affections? Don’t I deserve to know that his passion is mine alone? The problem was all his and I needed to help him get free of it. Love is about giving and he had done far too little of it, especially in our sex life. I didn’t want just great sex, I wanted a man who would put my wants above his needs. A man who would know the sacrifice and joy of giving. Until Ken became that man we would be using a male chastity device until all of his selfish desires were gone.

I had to say no to his desires and yes to mine, always! I wanted to get to the place that I knew to my core that I had my husbands heart, all of it. I wanted a husband who knew that intimacy was about more than sex, it could be cuddling, touching, kissing, or me getting a massage.

And if I wanted an orgasm, he was not only a capable but an eager partner. Always and whenever.  I wanted the satisfaction of knowing that when we were intimate I would be satisfied, he would not simply put my desires first, they would be the singular goal. He pursues, I get captured, pleasured, loved and cared for. His pursuit of me never ends.

I never feel more beautiful and loved than when I am pursued. Why should that be ruined by his having an orgasm?

He has learned to pursue and pleasure me without messing things up (pun intended) by having an orgasm. Even when we are having intercourse we have developed techniques where he can experience my orgasm through my eyes without his having to ejaculate.

We will usually play for a while, then he will perform oral sex on me through two or three orgasms. But I still love the intimacy of looking into his eyes as I come so we try to finish with having me on top intercourse. Because that Ken has a hair trigger we have gone to using desensitizing cream and a condom. There is something wickedly fun about applying a cream to my husbands penis to decrease his pleasure so he can increase mine.

But he willingly allows me to as it puts my hands in touch with his manhood. The sacrifice he is making is never lost on me and I tell him how much I love him.

There needs to be a delay as the cream works it’s magic and I will usually busy him keeping my motor running. One time I got lost in the pleasure of him doing so and he had lost his erection.

Try as I might I could not get him hard. The next time we made sure not to play too long before I mounted up and soon that transitioned into me riding him to my orgasm trying to time it to the very last moment before he goes soft. It is actually fun as I stare into his eyes and feeling me get closer and closer to orgasm as he loses sensation and begins to shrink. If I time it just right he “pops” out of me on my last orgasmic shudder.

it is as if you are living in our house and reviewing the very things that have occurred in our FLM. Mistress K. has long since stopped wanting to worry about whether or not I would obey my rules of not masturbating, not touching myself sexually, unless it with her permission and under her supervision. She has no desire to even consider allowing me to remain completely chaste without the need of a chastity cage. We determined some time ago that a steel chastity cage was needed, and then sealed it permanently. The vows we exchanged in our collaring ceremony on our 15th wedding anniversary, that unauthorized masturbation or self inflicted sexual pleasure is no different than infidelity in our marriage. I am simply not allowed to do it.

Mistress K. even threatened divorce. Breaking these rules would be the same as infidelity. Yikes! For me, it was problem solved and as a result, our marriage couldn’t be stronger. I naturally now live in a constant state of desire because of this one thing you said …. “I wanted the satisfaction of knowing that when we were intimate I would be satisfied, he would not simply put my desires first, they would be the singular goal” Sex is only for my wife’s pleasure and I am never allowed to ejaculate.

Attitude

The slave is not allowed out of chastity but Mistress Michelle is going to use and taunt him anyway. After doing chores for her all day, it is time Mistress Michelle make use of his mouth. She first tease him with her sexy latex boots, kicking his chastised cock. Then Mistress Michelle make him eat her pussy until She is satisfied.

There’s a lot I like about this FLR: the way he has to present himself, get on his knees, kiss her boots and then – of course – pleasure her while in chastity. A regular morning routine in a life of a slave husband includes lovingly kissing her feet, waiting for her next order.

He knows that begging is useless. And he knows that I want him at home and available to me at all times and that I will not be swayed by any argument in that regard. And he knows that pointless arguing will only bring him trouble.

As I have explained in a previous post, he has a challenging and time-consuming job working for me, whether I’m at work or at home. And when I’m home I want him to be at my beck and call at all times to serve me hand and foot. Even when he is allowed “free time” I can call him and order him to come home.

I would not ask a maid to do all the things I’m asking of him (naturally I’m not even talking about sexual services here). For example I like my lingerie, shapewear and nightwear hand-washed AND ironed. I did not request that from the maids, but I have no difficulty requiring a man to do these things. I furthermore recall maids that worked really slowly or would have their pet activities, like polishing silverware, while showing less interest in scrubbing bathrooms and kitchen floors. Those days are fortunately over!

Regrets? Maybe – he works harder now and longer hours and he has no “workers’ rights”, only obligations.

Ms Becky, does your husband have any sort of life outside of serving you?

He does. Obviously there are limits to his free time, as I’m very demanding: he does all the work in and around the house, he has to execute those tasks to a very high standard and he is not allowed to procrastinate, unless a very good reason can be given.

And most importantly: I like to be pleasured by him – oftentimes and not just for fifteen minutes or half an hour. I am addicted to having his head between my thighs, licking and sucking away, whether I’m relaxing with my head resting on soft pillows or doing some routine work at home, reading a book or watching the news or a movie.

In addition to all that there has to be time for discipline. This may sometimes take just five minutes, like when I need to be off to work but still have time to make him fetch the crop.

On the other extreme I may find it necessary to subject him to a disciplinary session lasting from Friday evening to Monday morning (naturally not just consisting of corporal punishment!)

Hi Ms Becky. I overheard the following conversation from a couple sat in front of the train. Her: What shall we do when we get home. Him: Can I kiss your legs? Her: No. You can kiss my feet, then my legs, then you can lick me. Him: Thank-you. Her: What did you call me? Him: Thank-you Mistress. Her: That’s right. Good dog.

In addition to all of this there are other punishments she could consider: corner time, withdrawal of certain privileges etc. And very female friendly: assigning you with chores, that are both practical for her and helpful for putting you in the right frame of mind.

I guess I come across as a tough cookie sometimes, but those who follow this blog know I have my soft side. And I see a relationship as a two-way street. So yes, I do like to stimulate him and I do enjoy his pleasure, just like he does mine. The difference is that any of it is always on my terms, at my discretion, when I feel like it. But I love to see his reactions to my flirtations – an erection I regard as a compliment! (Unlike the lady in this recent re-post I did, who told her guy to remain soft, I never require him to stay soft. Whether he gets to reach a climax is a different matter of course.)

I like this idea. But for me, I think I would have to move the keys out of the house. Keeping them at work or a safe deposit box or something. I am keeping the options open. There is a scenario where we would have to unlock it, so that it is probably a better deal than sealing it. Really this is symantics because it almost never comes off. Like two or three times that I can think of this year.

my Wife MsL and i have been married over 40 years. Most of it She has been the Dominate person in control of the finances, household decisions, and me, both in and out of the bedroom. We lead a simple life in a FLR and D/s relationship. She has decided to keep me chaste so i am permanently locked in a Lori’s #5 which i have grown accustom to over the last year.

my experience in male chastity is extensive. We started in 2002 with an MCD which is a plastic strip with spikes. i could only wear it three days at the most. Like most, we tried the cbxxx series and She soon decided plastic was a toy. i was measured and fit with a Neosteel Hip belt and wore it almost full time after an adjustment period. Jan. 2004 She gave me the gift of receiving an 8 ga PA. and three months later She gave me for our anniversary a Lori’s #6 the older solid model so we could switch between the Neosteel and the Lori’s and not leave me unlocked.

My sub/hubby has been grumbling about my plan to keep him in permanent chastity and orgasm denial. He has been locked up pretty much 24/7 now for about the last 3 years. He gets out for a few days or a week once in awhile. I milk or give him a release ever now and then, no more then 10 a year. My plan next year is absolutely no release from his chastity sleeve, and only 4 milkings and 1 orgasm a year from now on. he thinks I am being extremely cruel and unreasonable about it. And says there isn’t many Women around the world who would do that to there hubbies. I don’t believe that.

I have trained him to please Me properly with his mouth and tongue. As well, we have many strapon’s and toys for My pleasure. I haven’t needed his penis in Me for sometime now. I get all the pleasure I need in other ways.

I feel that it is your choice on what happens as he is nothing more than a sub.

he is just scared of what he has created I think. Careful what you wish for men, it could happen to you! Fantasy and reality are two different things. We are a long time couple who have grown to this stage over 15 years. If he wanted to stop or out, he would have. he needs this as much as I do. We both love it. It’s just new to him being in a total FLR for him. he will adjust.

To the previous poster…they are a couple that i an familiar with ..she is real and he is afraid …i’ve met him.

Let Me tell everyone, i love my Mistress and if she was to tell me i would never have another orgasm again just to please Her. i would be fine and accept Her choice for me.

Yes i love to cum, used to jerk off daily all my life. i found over time how selfish it was, and as i got older. It took longer to rebound and be attentive and submissive to Her, sometimes days, and then i would be jerking off again. Again ignoring her pleasure and only being selfish about my own. I have to say, i am happier to be locked and have those orgasms taken away and out of my hands, and let her decide when i get to cum.

Yes i was grumbling about what she has in mind, but i gave her that control. What kind of a man goes back on what. i hoped and begged for a Mistress like that all my life. Now i have what i wished for. Sometimes it sucks a bit, but i wouldn’t trade it for a vanilla life again for anything.

Yes i Thank her every night for being my Mistress and keeping me in chastity and orgasm denial. I have never been able to cum in the tube, since it is so tight when i get hard. No movement in it. It’s less than a inch inside diameter. Mistress has brought me off in it only when she uses her high powered Hittachi vibrator. This will cause me pain and frustration, and i usually shoot about a foot across the floor. Which then i must knee and crawl while licking it all up.

Last year i only had 2 real orgasms, and the rest where milkings or ruined one. So really not far off that number if she goes thru with it. And she promised to give me at least 4 milkings. That’s one every three months. I can’t complain about that.

I would concur with the comments regarding milking and as long as they are entirely orgasm-free, then I see no problems for them to be given at regular 4 week intervals. This will drain him of any troublesome fluids.

I could care less if locked120 cums or not. FLR and male chastity was his deal when we met and I’m going along with it (not that I mind haha). He’s been locked up the whole time (approaching 3 yrs) and has maybe 4 or 5 usually ruined orgasms a year. BCWYWF

I personally know a few guys who do not get to orgasm period ..one for just under 1000 days …nada zippo… does he like it all the time ?…nope … does he want to orgasm? ..yup.. it’s because he asked for it and told his Mistress She has control ..She took that control and pushes him farther each year …he committed to Her …he is an honorable man.

Even though originally my fantasy was a woman that controlled my orgasm( including denying them completely) was where my perspective eas at the start, i also made it clear i wanted You to follow Your own likes and dislikes and i would follow in line with that.. To hear You say You don’t care one way or another is ….surprisingly hot☺ And a great big thank you for the type of orgasms You Do allow and produce…Always much appreciated.

Sigh. He asked, begged for chastity and only now has second thoughts? Too bad,it’s called Dominance and Submission,and he gets the submission part. All his whining is topping from the bottom.

If he’s been in chastity 3 years already I would think it isn’t a big deal to go 24/7 with less releases, isn’t that what eventually happens to everyone in (real deal) chastity?

You’re an alpha woman and your subby hubby should count his blessings that he can lick you to orgasm often while in long-term chastity. After all, you could have turned into a prude Puritan instead.

Sorry, I did not realize that Cumslave already is so well trained. Going from 10 to 1 (or none), well, a submissive man can come through a woman’s orgasm, if he sets his mind to it, without needing to ejaculate himself.

his anniversary is November 15th. That is when this year is up. he hasn’t cum or been milked since Aug 4th, and won’t be until the 15th of November. No way No how. Next year we discussed, and I have taken his milkings into consideration.

So for the rest of amount of times he get’s to cum, well will have to see. He knows he will get one next year, but I am incharge and maybe he’ll get more. This is also about his sub/slave training in a FLR also. So if he performs well, and meets My expectations as a worthy slave hubby. he might get more than he ever expected. But if not, he knows the consequences. We both agreed to this, and he is eager and willing to comply.

To Us this isn’t about just chastity and orgasm denial, but his training to be a perfect sub/slave husband. This means everything from domestic household chores to bringing Me the best orgasms he can. he has learned to lick My ass, drink my golden nectar, recycle his cum, massage My feet and body. Everything a sub/hubby needs to know to pleases his Mistress. This also includes a lot of sexual frustration for him. It just keeps him inline. There is also a lot of punishment and discipline he is given on a monthly basics. he can’t sit for days after I whip and beat his ass.

So this is our life, and we will keep communicating and exploring this wonderful life together.

I’m in discussion with a Domme/Cuckoldress who also desires permanent denial for Her sub/slave. Her reasoning is service to Her is unconditional and should not be linked to any possible pleasure or reward for the sub, therefore there should never be any release for the sub. I am a firm adherent of orgasm control and denial by a Female Dominant as it clearly defines the power exchange dynamic.

My subbie’s locked permanently. Final.

Not unreasonable at all.

If it’s what you want, and you can, then go for it.