We, probably like most people, started out slowly and worked our way up to longer lockups. When the longer lockups started, during the first year she would allow me an orgasm if I was good. We were getting reacquainted with each other and our lives started to change for the better.

After the first year, she decided that I would only be allowed a ruined orgasm from now on. No more full orgasms and the long lockups continued. She has pushed me as far as 6 months without unlocking except for cleaning and only to get a ruined orgasm before being relocked for another 3 to 6 months. This went on for several years.

She was/is amazing. She had become sexually free and we both loved the new her. She was getting all the pleasure she wanted when she wanted and I was getting all the pleasure I wanted by pleasuring her.

If you had ever tried to tell me that I could be sexually fulfilled by pleasuring my wife and rarely getting an orgasm I would have thought you were smoking some bad weed.

Last year, after having some numerous discussions about the original intent of sex as designed by God and pondering the reality that there is no real need for the male to orgasm except to procreate we both decided that near permanent orgasm denial for me would be best for the both of us. We will complete that first year next week. This time the lockup periods have been a little different. No less than 3 months, sometimes longer, but after a couple of them, she unlocked me for brief sessions of repeated serious edging and denial then locked me for another 3 months or so. This really stirs up the pursuit chemicals in my brain.