my wife also keeps me locked in chastity and we both feel oral sex for her is our sex life, we both know my 30 second mess isn’t worth the clean up or attitude for a week so she has recently decided to keep me locked for a year with no orgasm
I hope I can make it lol
You’ve got it right when you say “permanent wooing mode” This has changed me chemically. I think it drives me even deeper into wooing mode having so much intercourse without ejaculation which is exactly where she wants me. There’s not an aspect of my life she doesn’t exercise control over. I never dreamed I would have a wife that would set my bed time or have to get permission to spend over $50, approval for a grocery list and produce a receipt for her inspection, permission to eat out for lunch, wipe her after she uses the bathroom.
Of course it helps no end if your partner is actively restricting access to her body; sometimes I am not even allowed to kiss, and must ask permission, which of course increases the value of a simple kiss a thousand fold.
I’m locked away in my chastity cage since my last orgasm, which means I haven’t grown more than 2.5 inches long in over a month. It will probably be at least another two weeks before it does grow long. I will likely have a half-dozen orgasms this year, maybe eight or even ten if I’m lucky.
Now that my slave is permanently locked into ‘The Helmet’ chastity device with the KTB I do not permit him to orgasm or achieve erection. He is milked once a month with my gloved finger.
A moment in the kitchen is sexual, a look, a smile, a text, a call, a card, flowers, a touch. These do not lead to sex, they are sex. When I stroke his back, when my hand rests on his leg, when my fingers run through his hair, we are having sex. When he sees the smile on my face as he cleans for me we are having sex. When I leave him doing dishes to go shopping, or scrap-booking we are having sex.
this slave simply wears a necklace with its Owner’s name, Sonia, an S charm dangling from its left pierced nipple and a slave tag engraved from Mistress’ chastity lock that reads “DOOMED FOREVER”.
simple little constant 24/7 reminders
24/7/364, now in my second year of this regime. Thats locked all the time, not removed for cleaning etc as its not necessary to remove with the Loris’#5.
Except for regular cleaning (Mistress supervises) I have been caged for over 3 years now.
Well – I’m not locked – He is!
Permanently! – and he loves it as well. As much as it terrifies him, as much does it turn him on and make him so humble and serving. Still get my penetration when needed, but he struggles! It has now been like 130 days, -and he is doing just fine. So is the tube his is captured in. Apart from a brief encounter with a summer-edition – a more open device during vacation – he is always totally deprived the ability to feel anything down there – because of the closed tube. Only when I want him to he can feel me. But that does not happen all that often.
And for “cleaning the pipes” and stuff – I do not really believe in that.
I have come to understand that his body will reabsorb his surplus production of semen, so really no need to go for milking and such. Haven seen any enlarged filled up scrotum because of the long denial.
And certainly no ruined orgasms either!
It might be so that he does not feel the greatest of pleasures by the hand of a ruin orgasm, ( but I would not really know – would I? – are men pulling our legs here??) – but he certainly had a quite notable change in his behavior after I tried it once. He was not on his toes, to the same degree as before. So – there will be none. Only some devious edging, when I feel like it..;-)
Remember – it is not about his needs!
He managed to convince me – way back – that the true energy in our take on the lifestyle was for him to trash his needs, and to focus entirely on mine. That was his wish, and so far he seems to enjoy tremendously that his wish has come true. And I am keeping him to his promise. I even feel I owe it to him, – to enforce the arrangement;-)
I pay him back for his sacrifice by denying him so intensively… He is not even allowed to kiss me or touch my body without permission. It is amusing to see him on his knees, groveling for the chance to cuddle or kiss me.