The ladies and I decided to “take” Karl for one day apiece as sort of a “preview of things to come” exercise. I took the first day and spent most of the time re-training Karl with a constant barrage of orders to follow, with emphasis on his immediate and enthusiastic response to whatever I told him to do. He was in his chastity, which remained locked for all three days, naked with short chains between his ankles and wrists, and a ball collar and neck collar, both with leash attachment capabilities.
Housekeeping for three of her women friends’ husbands. She shares experiences, makes comments, and gives suggestions as to what she feels we can do better. We love it! We’re Feminists, she’s a Female Supremacist, but we all feel that everyone gets ahead when men do more or all of the housework. She’s interested in some of the things we do — domestic service, for example — and we’ve invited her to visit us and experience it firsthand. She’ll also visit the women’s center and hold a talk about Female-centric religions that many of us are pursuing or are interested in.
Sue, a personal friend also in an FLR, and I—with the help of Nancy’s mother—decided that putting appropriate rules in place would make these socials possible. The more rules the better, it was decided, in order to address any situation that might arise. Now we’re not talking about some impromptu party here. Rather, it’s about socials—well-planned, wife-approved, woman-supervised get-togethers with an organized agenda and proper decorum. It may be guys’ night out, but women are in control; and all of us—women and men—want it that way!
- Guy socials are limited to once a month.
- The socials are, for the time being, limited to a group of six men in female-led marriages. Should the group expand in the future, it will be progressive gentlemen only and only with the women’s approval! No one wants to debate the merits of feminism or of FLRs with outsiders; the intent is to reinforce FLRs, not undermine the good work couples have been doing in promoting the lifestyle.
- Socials are on the man’s time and will not detract from other work he has to do; a man’s work at home is always the priority.
- Women approve of the socials’ agenda.
- The woman who chaperones at the event will ensure that the social
follows the agenda; she can modify that agenda as she sees fit.
- Invitations are sent to the woman, not the man. “Dear Ms. Smith, the presence of your husband is requested at a social to take place at the home of etc…” The invitation goes on to describe the planned event and concludes with, “Please give your permission or your regrets by returning the enclosed card.”
- The man must have his wife’s permission to attend, and we must have her RSVP for him to do so. A man’s not being permitted to attend a social doesn’t endanger his future participation. After all, a woman in charge is what we are all committed to. If anything, denial might be considered a badge of honor and an outward manifestation of a commitment to the lifestyle. As progressive gentlemen, all of us have had to say “my wife won’t let me” from time to time and think nothing of it whether speaking with someone in the lifestyle or with someone at work.
- Women always have an invitation to attend and participate in men’s night out and never have to RSVP their intent to attend.
- The social will always accommodate women attendees; women can steer discussion topics during the social if they so desire or they can plan an entirely different event. In advance of one of our meetings the women decided we’d all attend a local theater; and that was guy’s night out, and an enjoyable one, I might add!
- Women are honored guests and treated accordingly. Men take turns
serving women attendees.
- Meetings are planned at least eight weeks in advance; there are no impromptu husband socials.
- Activities and discussion topics for the meeting must be submitted in advance for review and approval; women have the right to changes or modify the event at any time.
- Women approve of the social’s venue; a man’s home is best if his wife approves; the women frown on restaurants and bars and do not permit meetings at such places, although the ballet or theater is okay.
- At least one woman is to be in attendance at these socials and act as chaperone; if circumstances arise where no women can attend a social, then it is canceled.
- Men clean up after a social.
- We discuss a variety of topics and always have an agenda for the meeting included with the invitation. Invitees may be asked to review a book, story, or issue in preparation for the social. This leads to some great discussions. Topics to date? On the serious side, Feminist issues and women in the workplace topics as well as lighter fare such as “Your best housekeeping tips.” We also had a wine and cheese social and went as a group to the ballet. We’ve had a Feminist speaker and plan to have other women guests present other topics in the future.
>It’s been great ever since, with women attending every meeting. The guys always prepare and serve some light fare and keep the ladies happy with good wine, great coffee and involvement in the discussion. It’s interesting (but certainly not surprising) the role reversal we have here.
Female Domination of the second sex. Often times a prohibition from a Mistress without ant reason at all goes a long way to teach the slave his slavery. It is about Womenhood dominating manhood and about Wives being revered and even feared as the Queens they are in a slave’s marriage to them.