We have the old version, my husband “Hates it” He knows I am serious when this comes out. Like Gazdi says, it is ok when he is limp, but the slightest bit of arousal it starts to hurt, and when I really tease him and he gets hard he says it becomes unbearable for him.
I am into my seventh month of chastity, prior to this I had no experience beyond simply being denied sex. At about the two and half month I started having real doubts and wanted out of chastity. However my wonderful Miss coached me through this time, reminding me it was my desire to please her and at my request she had purchased the cage to further this. Miss also provided me with distraction when she saw it was required and encouraged me to keep going. I am now thankful of her help, assurance and positive mind frame and would not have it any way else. She now wants me locked up permanently.
I have taken sex off of the table for the time being, as we get to know each other in this new relationship. I want to make sure these lessons stick, before we take it to the next level. We continued to have some sexual intercourse, but eventually I weaned him to the point where we no longer indulge in anything but sexual play, for my sake, while only allowing him to masturbate, when I am satisfied.
I’ve begun giving him more and more daily tasks. Since he’s not working full-time, he has more time to see to my needs. I’ve even taken to calling him in the middle of the day, when I’m at work, to tell him exactly how I expect to find things when I get home: A glass of wine and a nightgown on the bed, so that I get can undressed and relax the moment that I walk in the door. His reward is snuggling up after he’s done with the dinner dishes.
During playtime, I have him massage and kiss my feet. When I let him touch me, I guide and command his moves. It’s almost orgasmic to hear him say, “Yes, Diva,” as he goes from one command to the next, trying to please me. My Pet is still on sexual probation, so it has actually been quite a while since we have had genital-to-genital intercourse. He gets the scrunchy-face and tongue-biting thing going when I remind him, during playtime, that he is still on lock down. That’s when I give him new suggestions for how he can put his tongue to better use. His “Yes, Diva,” at such times is a little pathetic, but he gets right to work, as directed.
My wife has found out the longer she keeps me horny, the better my attitude, my housework, ironing and overall wanting to please her. Next year she has said no orgasms at all for 2014. This year I have had 2 orgasms, and I am hoping for one more in December before the year starts.
We have been in a WLM for about 12 years, we are both retired so I have the time for this class. I have been doing all of the housework, ironing most meals etc. But my wife always finds some fault with what I have done, and as a result I get punished by her, sometimes severely . I would love to learn to do housework properly. She goes out golfing, plays tennis or goes to the gym when I do housework, she does not want to stand over me. She will always find something not done properly, then it is more chastity time in my CB 6000 , corner time or other punishments. This course would help me serve her better.
I’ve been serving my Goddess for 7 years now. She is the sole earner and i’m her full time slave. She and her girlfriend have taught me all the housework. Recently my Goddess has got a scholarship for a Phd in a prestigious London Institution. I’ve been saving some money with her permission and begging her to allow me to buy PS4. But now i think i should beg my Goddess to let me join a course for a Nail Technician, since she’ll be busy with her degree and the least i can do is to serve her better. First, i and other men in an FLR take ownership of housework and we feel it’s a part of our roles and responsibilities. Nothing was needed to change that. i take pride in doing whatever my wife, her mother, or other female authority figures in my life tell me to do. Period!