Wife dictates sex life

After 4+ years my wife seems to actually be trying to deny me forever. Our chastity play is basically orgasm time indeterminate and I am led around with a carrot on a stick with an orgasm just within my grasp, only to be pulled away at the last moment. My wife is having extremely intense orgasms the longer she denies me. Things are working well for us so we will just keep going denying me as long as we can.

I owe my wife for sharing her girlfriends with me for most of our 44+ years or marriage. My wife has shared me with other women since the second year of our marriage until just 7 years ago. I have promised her that sex will focus only on her and I can go as long as she wants to take me without an orgasm. I cannot say how long that will be but right now but there are no orgasms planned. She has always said that if she had her way I would never orgasm again due to how good she was at providing me with girls. She now has her way and I am fine permanent orgasm denial.

My wife and I finalized our new sex life. Chastity will be our normal sex from now on. There will be no scheduled orgasm dates for me. I essentially am denied an orgasm unless a lack of it affects my well being is affected. My wife will provide hope that an orgasm may be coming up in a few months but then cancel it or just let me perform oral on her. She understands that with no hope she has no control over me since no matter what, I am not going to get an orgasm.

We also worked out something to take care of those times when I complain about a lack of orgasm and a few other things she finds annoying. I will be punished for as long as she deems necessary. It will be either either her paddle, strap or cane.

I’m coming up on 2 years being locked 24/7 365 my wife loves me locked and if she does let me out its very quick and then it goes right back on. Not sure what defines permanent to most but 1 or 2 orgasms a year and very short times when it does comes off seems like permanent to me.