Our situation is similar in the past 3 years we have only had penetrative sex 5 times. Although it is pleasurable for both of us it never lasts long. Foreplay is always the best part for both of us (I give she receives only). We have many more ways to connect that bring us closer to one another with more intamicy than penetration ever has. Mascara Snake is very correct when she says that penetration isn’t the end all act. Have penetrative sex always ends in a full orgasm for me (after she gets hers) and then I’m sad, moody and argumentative for several days after. We prefer to keep me on edge as I am more attentive to her needs and stay in high spirits.
Since starting with chastity we both have noticed this difference and both love me being locked up so that I can be her dream husband and take of her before myself. Having a chastity cage that is easy to clean and of proper size and comfort makes keeping it on full time a reality rather than a fantasy. Milkings and ruined orgasms on occasion answer the delema of health. As long as both parties are in it together come what may both good and bad then more power to their decision on how to live.

One evening, about 5-6 months ago my KH wife simply sealed my lock post with wires & adhesive
It can’t be removed unless cut with saw
I know for sure that I am never going to have sex / masterbution
As against, I am having the best of her companionship and the pleasure to keep her happy all the time
So sacrificing my cock is worth the returns what I’m enjoying!

I haven’t had penetrative sex with a woman for over 6 years. I am in 24/7 chastity and feminized. I am very happy this way and I have no desire to have sex with a woman ever again. My small and useless penis is at best 3.75″ erect and recently measures in at 3.25″ this makes penetrative sex for a woman very unsatisfying and pointless.

I would either cum in less than 3 minutes or just keep losing my erection through lack of friction. They can’t really feel me inside them and I can’t really feel them.

One of the main considerations for me is that by penetrating a woman I am validating both my masculinity and my penis, which are the 2 things that I most want to eradicate from my life.

Much much happier being a girl and staying limp at 2 inches is key to this.

My sissy hubby will get to have sex one more time with me on our anniversary and that will be his final time. I let him have sex with me on our last anniversary. So far it has been almost 9 months for him with three more to go for his final shot, then he will be locked permanently.

As he only has PIV sex once a year, he should get used to permanent denial quite quickly.

A close friend is locked in a Lori’s tube However, He has learned to orgasm by prostrate stimulation with anal sex .

This is a very good example of what I would classify as “Erotic Zone migration”
Something that can be cultivated through and associated with the cessation of penile stimulation.

There is something very erotic about permanency. I haven’t had penetrative sex for 6 years and will soon have a Jailbird so that I need never take it off. No great loss, as I am only allowed to masturbate about 4 times a year. When it becomes zero times a year it will be the psychological impact that is so arousing and more than makes up for the physical loss of touching myself.

I have been denied intercourse for over 18 months now, however, I would also say that both D and I have never had a better sex life. Intercourse is way over rated and the fire and excitement of a session with D makes it pale in comparison.

667 days since my last orgasm (and the last time I had PIV intercourse…all 90 seconds of it!). My Wife/Mistress/Keyholder has not so much as touched my genitals in this timeframe and has shown no inclination to do anything to stimulate me to an orgasm. She enthusiastically attends to my nipples orally and manually and seems to happily entwine her smooth legs with mine when I am wearing hosiery. She has not said a single word about intercourse, fellatio or anything of the sort…no “never agains” or anything…NOTHING. That said, she seems perfectly happy interacting with me sexually as if I had no penis (I see it as very lesbian-esque and if you have read our story, you know my theories there). If I DO get to have sex (PIV) again, I do not see it being very often…oh, yet another “be careful what you wish for moment”.

It’s been one year since I had sex.
Iv been in and out of chastity most of the time iv been locked now for 23 days no release for cleaning or anything will be locked for one year. My kh will never let me have sex again anybody else feeling sorry for thier bits as I used to enjoy sex now I never want again only to please my kh who finds it so funny .
Texted her asking if I can remove cage for shower .her reply was hope my useless bits fall off .I love it but kinda feel scared

Just what I’d say to you. My subbie’ll never have sex again either. Not ever.

I am the dominant in our relationship and so what I say goes. Not that he would wish to go without. He enjoys chastity for periods as part of my overall control of his sexual experience. He doesn’t have a yearning for being permanently locked up or permanently denied sexual intercourse.

My current Lady and I have been together for 28 months.She has never allowed (used ) my penis for regular intercourse.it is kept caged 99.99 % of the time.
personally it works for me /us..i provide and she uses me for plenty of other sexual acts and as she isn’t interested having me penetrate her..it’s a total win win☺

24/7/364, now in my second year of this regime. Thats locked all the time, not removed for cleaning etc as its not necessary to remove with the Loris’#5.