There are many advantages for a relationship when the wife of the house is leading in the marriage. Some of these advantages include ample time to plan and think about where the family is headed. The Dominant Wife will always make sure that what needs to be done in their homes is done at the right time. Since she is already aware of all the work that needs to be done in order to keep her house running she always ensures that jobs are done well. Women are good at juggling lots of tasks at once, unlike men who are always focused on a particular task. In a wife led marriage, the wife decides what is important for her man to do at any given time and after the wife has ordered the work to be done, she always ensures that it is done in the right manner. The Wife should be strict when controlling Her family. When the wife comes to a disagreement with her husband, there is a need to discipline the man. If a guy fails to clean up the rooms as ordered by his wife, he should not be surprised if his wife punishes him. Recent research proved that the majority of men who want a wife led marriage have the need for their wife to control their lives. In our modern world, many women are out earning their way on their own. A Wife led marriage ensures the streamline making of decisions by the wife. It empowers the wife in making decisions and it brings order and predictability to the marriage. It solves issues that the couple may have. A wife who is leading in a marriage always assesses her own failures and strengths in an honest manner. Many wives have the final word in decision making since many Women are great leaders with or without the training. Training cannot make a man be a good leader. A Wife led marriage is where the wife makes decision for the whole family including the husband in a balanced approach that both the wife and her husband have agreed upon to be their lifestyle. Women involved in a Wife led marriage know how to control the outcome even when things go wrong and they are never terrified of any failure. If the wife and her husband are very honest to each other, they will both agree that the wife is the best equipped person to fulfill the role of a leader in the house. A Wife led marriage means that the wife will be responsible for all major decisions in the household. A Wife led marriage helps the men to get over their current socialization.

In a Female controlled relationship the domestic chores are almost always done by the male.

The Female will often make the decision early on in the relationship that the man is to do all the house chores. Sometimes the man will offer to do all house cleaning in the beginning. At other times it will just naturally happen as the man will already know this is his role.

Domestic chores often mean the cleaning of the house, washing, ironing, cooking, gardening and more. The Female may set out a list of everything that needs to be done each week and the male must have everything completed or suffer discipline.

For most couples the issue of the domestic chores is minor and often sorted out early in the relationship. The Female should find little or no resistance from the mal;e when it comes to the domestic chores in a Female led relationship.

It is well known that men love to do domestic chores for a dominant Female. The man will often make it clear early in the relationship that he really wants to serve by doing all the domestic chores around the house. The woman may decide it is a good idea to dress the man up as a sissy maid when he is doing the house cleaning. She may even invite her friends around to admire her well trained sissy maid husband.

Women love a man that knows how to clean the house and do a good job of the cleaning. Do not wait for your wife to ask you to do the domestic chores. Women love a man that knows his place and is wanting to serve and obey in the area of domestic chores.

Often the woman will set a series of rules and regulations for the man to follow. It is sometimes a good idea for the rules to be written down and posted on the wall.

The control of the finances is another important issue in a Female controlled relationship and often the Woman will have full control over the finances and the earnings of the male. However, in some Female controlled relationships the finances are jointly under the control of both partners. It will be a matter for each couple to come to an agreement on this early in the relationship.

Generally the domestic chores become the role of the man. He will be required to do all the house cleaning and chores. That may involve washing and ironing the clothes, doing the dishes, cleaning the toilet and bath, and other cleaning in the house. The woman may set out a roster of weekly chores for the man to do each week.

Another area of the relationship may have to do with social activities. The Female will often be the sole decider of all social activities. For example, if going to watch the movies the Female will decide what movie to watch, what seat to sit in and what snacks to eat and drink.

Discipline is another important part of the Female controlled relationship. For some couples the Female may administer verbal discipline. But other Women may also use physical discipline as part of the training. Obedience on the part of the male is the foundation of such a relationship. Different women will have different expectations on how obedient the man should become. Any breach of obedience is often met with very strict discipline.

As more couples engage and embrace a Female controlled relationship they are understanding the positives of such a relationship. Other couples who observe this are also moving towards a Female controlled relationship.

here’s the chores that Mistress expects to be completed automatically, without mention:

laundry…washing, folding, hanging, putting clothes away and ironing
cooking all meals
errands
shopping
coffee, tea, water, cocktails and wine…Her glass must never be empty
paying bills
keeping O/our home neat (i don’t do house cleaning, W/we have a service)
keeping the kitchen clean and loading and unloading the dishwasher
personal assistance…keeping Her calendar, answering phones, etc.
bathing Mistress and shampooing Her hair
shaving Mistresses’ pussy
carrying anything that Mistress needs…Her brief case, planner, computer, etc.

I do the cooking,cleaning,washing clothes putting away,pick up around house clean the table it cant be messy at all.
i must service my KH anytime she wants even if im tired and want to go to bed
there have been many times i had to perform oral and just roll over an go to sleep after.i am to keep her sex toys clean and lube ready for her to use anytime she wants to

if i am good slave boy she may let me out once every 3 months to either have pentratied sex or masterbate and then lock back up

I do work full time. I cook dinner about 4 times during the week and I am also responsible for breakfast and dinner on weekends. I have to cook whatever she provides, about once per month I get to go to the store with her and pick out a few things I would like to have for the pantry. As you may already know I have no money to go by myself. I also keep the cars clean, clean the pool, do all laundry, vacuum and mop the house.

I do laundry, cleaning, cooking meals, running errands. I serve coffee and fetch whatever Mistress needs in the house.

What helped for our chores is that we got wipe clean weekly planner board – it has a list of the standard chores that need done every day, and each day has an extra – dusting, hoovering, laundry, clean bathroom etc. At the end of each day Mistress writes the points She awards for that day up: 1 for crap, 2 for acceptable, 3 for excellent. At the moment I need 14 points to be allowed an orgasm at the weekend. As I have one day off a week, I need to score some excellents every week.

I have a full time job so sometimes, it’s hard to be motivated, especially when I know I’ve blown it for a week. But I suppose that’s what the flogger is for.

As I’m on holiday for the week, it’s great, I’ve got time to be a good househusband at the moment.

i have done many of the same things in service to a Woman. All of the domestic chores were part of my responsibilities, although i was not a live-in slave. i was also used by one Woman i served to do things at Her parents’ house – cleaning, etc. and wash their cars periodically. They thought She did these things so She started to be the “favorite daughter” because She was the one who helped them out so much. i always found that interesting and gratifying because She could reap benefits without doing any of the work, just as it should be in my estimation.

Currently, i am trying to promote the ideas of Female Supremacy and what it means to live as a male who believes in and supports the idea that Women are superior to men.

An FLR is not a sexual relationship. It is a lead and follow relationship. That is, as the leader of the relationship, you, as a woman, should be getting anything and everything you want. Only then, should you feel the need to reward your submissive with sexual favors that he wants, whether they be kinky or not.

Men, if you are not willing to give up your right to make decisions, to choose what you do and don’t do, on a daily basis, to turn over total control of your families finances to your wife, then you are not submissive at all. Being sexually submissive is NOT the same as being submissive to your partner in all things.

If you, as a man, want to be denied an orgasm for months at a time, then you must be willing to do anything to get that. Yes, I said “ANYTHING!” A true submissive will be rewarded for serving unselfishly. That means, if you expect no reward for your service to your partner and you serve her without complaint, then you deserve to be rewarded. That reward may, or may not, be sexual in nature, but it will be fulfilling. So serve your wife (Mistress) without seeking reward!

The mistress will peg me until I spill, and chastise me for being so weak and out of control. By that time Im feeling like warm bowl of watery Jello. Ill agree with anything she says. (Good she doesnt ask for a new car or expensive jewelry)

I’ve noticed that as soon as the belt goes on she becomes far more ‘aloof’. It is almost as if I stop being her husband and start becoming a ‘sex slave’. She will allow me to give her back rubs / massages, but I’m most definitely NOT expected to play with her tits or her pussy without her prior permission. Also I’m expected to give her a ‘chaste’ peck on the cheek rather than a ‘full-on’ French kiss.

I can’t say that I see a big change in her once my device goes on, since it’s always on. Well, at least for the past year and a half it has. I mean…it comes off when she wants access or for periodic cleanings, but it’s pretty much on 24/7. I noticed a big change when we first started down this path, but there was more involved than simply male chastity. It was an entire lifestyle change for us to a 24/7 female led marriage.

Mistress does not always use corporal punishment as it can blur the lines between play and punishment, but she does not hesitate to use it if she feels it’s necessary and it’s always effective. I can’t say that I enjoy being strapped down and being whipped or caned beyond my pain limit with no warm up and often no rest or recovery period between strokes, but afterwards, when I’m released and calming down and feeling remorseful for what I did to deserve that, I feel an incredible closeness to her and just want to hold her and tell her that I’m sorry and that I won’t do it again.

Funny that you mention the kissing thing. She does exactly the same thing. Often, she just lets me kiss her on the forehead rather than the lips, but when SHE decides to, she’s a wonderful kisser. Yesterday, she was leaving for a 2 night trip for work. I was in the driveway telling her goodbye and she grabbed me by the hair and pulled me close to her face, grabbed me by the balls with the other hand, whispered “stay tight” and gave me a very deep, passionate kiss. She then pushed me away and got into her convertible and drove off.

I enjoy the frustration immensely. The CB just enhances that frustration. I think she enjoys the level of control that it gives her…..not only in the bedroom, but 24/7. No obligation on her part. No guilt for not reciprocating the energy that I put into pleasing her and the realization of how close it brings us.

The entire female dominance and male chastity thing is the best thing that has EVER happened to my marriage….period.

My wife controls everything whilst i’m under lock and key, Her tits and pussy belong to her and she controls my access to them, and she also controls my cock.
i guess thats the way it should be

Same for me. I’m locked 24/7 and haven’t come in 2 months. Take this morning, a nice cuddle then my wife tells me to get up and make the breakfast. I noticed as I got out of bed that she glanced to check my cock was straining inside its cage.

A little ritual we are fond of: On leaving the home, she will litely slap my cheek, I hold her hands, kiss one, then her lips and we say, together, “I accept”, a reminder of who we are to each other.

Have him cook and serve your dinner and remain either standing or kneeling by your side while you eat it. Have only your dishes on the table while you do this. When you are completely finished, he may begin dishing up his food and eating it. For fun you may try allowing him to eat from a dish on the floor.

My most memorable punishment was a caning. was administered by a woman who was pure evil. in hindsight, it was pretty much a non-consentual beating. live and learn, we did discuss and agree to the severity of the caning, i just didnt realize that what i considered intense could be considered mild by someone else. she was just brutal, and i agreed to an intense beating that turned out to be 10 times more intense than i was prepared for. when asked how i liked it afterward, i said it was way more than i was expecting, she looked shocked and said she “totally held back on me”. was a very bloody caning and the bruises lasted a long time, but it was still my most memorable punishment.

Mistress came home quite agitated, as I attempted to inquire what the matter was, I was slapped across the face and told to get my ass to the bench where she literally beat the shit out of me. It lasted almost an hour and left me bleeding and in tears!
We evolved from a few hours of chastity to 24/7 since about 2 years now. And I’ve never been happier. I must say that my wife loves cuddling, kissing, lots of fondling and attention but she doesn’t have the urge to have sexual intercourse frequently. So having a hubby locked 24/7 for long stretches of time don’t bother her. On the contrary, as all mistresses here know, keep us hubbies from orgasm and you’ll get lots more attention. If I’m out of the belt I usually couldn’t control myself. It started out with watching some porn on Internet, getting aroused and masturbate. Feeling guilty afterwards, but next day or sometimes hours later I went at it again.

Now my wife keeps me in my belt for 1 or 2 months before granting me a full orgasm. We discovered ruined orgasms at about the same time I switched to the Neosteel belt and 24/7 wearing.

My lovely wife now has acquired the art of “milking” me by submitting me to two or three consecutive ruined orgasms every two to three weeks. It is terribly frustrating for me but it does relieve me of some of the built up pressure but keeps me on my toes because the sexual urge and tension remains present. And keeps me tuned to my wife’s more romantic urges.

We agreed that you could try to achieve total chastity with technical means (the belts) but you need more than that. We think that 100 % chastity can only be reached by a combination of a CB and psychology. The sub who wants to be chaste has to turn the switch between his/her ears…stop thinking about how to escape your chastity but live and enjoy it and help your mistress by indicating where the weak spots remain so she can help you keeping chaste. Don’t hunt for orgasms but hunt for the satisfaction of pleasing your mistress by offering her your chastity. She will give you so much in return.

My wife now took complete possession of my penis. A few weeks ago I just handed over symbolically my penis to my wife. This means that in my mind I don’t have a penis any more. It’s my wife’s possession; I just carry it with me. So for me it’s only minimal touching any more, even when I’m not belted (which happens less and less). Usually for cleaning only.

Considering my penis, and of course anything it produces (spunk) as my wife’s exclusive possession helps me to mentally control myself for reaching 100 % chastity. If I feel that I’m on the edge of loosing control I immediately tell my wife and she will help me by keeping me from getting more aroused, if necessary restraining me until I calm down again or granting me a ruined orgasm to release some of the pressure. But that is only as a last resort.

We also agreed that my wife doesn’t tell me any more when I might expect an orgasm, not even a ruined one any more. I just have to wait and be surprised. I know I will still get a full orgasm from time to time but not if it will be in one, two three months or maybe tomorrow…

In the meantime I will of course take excellent care and be very mindful of my wife’s sexual needs. But I will stay belted and only use my fingers, tongue, and dildo’s and vibrators to satisfy her. Hoping that if I’m a real good hubby I might get some release with a ruined orgasm and every now and than a real orgasm.

I’ve been caned quite a few times. Mistress says that the cane is one of her favorite implements. I was quite thrilled when our dog chewed one up, but it was soon replaced.

I will say that it hurts quite a lot. I can USUALLY hold my position with no restraints for a crop, but no chance for a cane. I will say that I do enjoy pain to a certain extent, so it can be difficult to use it effectively as punishment, but when the cane comes out, there’s no question that I’m in trouble. It just hurts like hell.

I’ve never been brought to tears from it, but I’ve come close twice. The infraction that caused those two canings will NEVER be repeated.

SO, I guess I can say that I have a real love / hate relationship with the cane. I hate the feeling of it, but I LOVE the level of control that it gives her.

When it comes to actual punishment, which I often get for kissing, or touching, uninvited, when I’ve been disobedient or disrespectful she has a schooling whip which is a four foot long very thin fibre-glass cane with a chord tail on the end, and she makes me bend over for it, and hits really hard, and the chord whips round and cuts deep in my flanks, and I really know I’ve been punished by the time she has finished. Thankfully I am well behaved most of the time, so I don’t get punished very often. Mistress keeps a “black book”, and makes a note of any bad behaviour, and then fetches it out to “settle my account”, when she is in the mood to punish me.

When practicing Femdom both my wife and I accept that I am to do all the cleaning and all the cooking. In fact I am to do anything she says. That there is no nagging, she orders me, she does not ask, I am to obey immediately. Every evening after work I prepare dinner and clean up. I also plan the meals and order groceries. Many evenings I then work through a list of household cleaning chores that Mistress defines, as she relaxes. I only relax if she is happy with the house and allows me to do so. The only time she might do housework is if she wants to. This is what I would expect in a Femdom relationship.

How many of you submissive men are expected to do all the housework?

How many of you dominant women demand this of their men?

I am expected to do a lot of the housework, and most of the cooking; She wishes that I was available to do all the chores.

I did a lot of the housework & cooking because it had to be done. My wife would ask me & I usually would do as she requested. I only slept 6 hours at night.

I told her that my fantasy was to be made to be her sex slave. That I would be obligated to give her sexual pleasure any time, any where, and in any manner that she demanded. For my part as the slave, I could only receive sexual pleasure when she gave me permission and that I would have to obey her or be punished. We continued to hold each other for some time, then both fell asleep. The next morning life went on as usual and I had forgotten about telling her the story.

About three months later, the day before my birthday as we were going to bed, she handed me a present. It was a small box, beautifully wrapped with no card. As she handed it to me, she said that she had decided to give me a present a little early. I unwrapped the box and there was a box a hot wax for hair removal. I looked at it quizzically and then she spoke.

She said that she had been doing a lot of thinking since we last had sex, and decided that it would be real fun to have a slave, so if I was still interested, that she love to be my goddess. Well, I enthusiastically agreed. I told her that I didn’t understand what the wax was for though.

She just smiled and then she told me that to be her slave would mean that she was no longer going to consider me a full man, just a service object. She said that this really wouldn’t take too much imagination, since my penis was so small. She informed me that the reason we didn’t have sex more often was that making love to a dick that was only 3 1/2 inches long when hard, just wasn’t worth the effort. The wax she said was to remind me of my loss of masculine status and that we were going to start our adventure in a master / slave relationship by having all my body hair waxed off tonight.

We went out to the dining room and I saw that while I had been in the bathroom getting ready for bed, that she had been busy. Candles were lit around the dining room and there was a pillow on one end of the table. The table was covered in towels. She took the wax and put it into the microwave as she told me to climb up on the table. She tied my arms and legs to the four legs of the table. Now, completely vulnerable, with my cock fully erect and coming up to the top of my pubic hair, she asked me again if I really wanted to do this. I pleaded with her to please allow me to be her slave. Ok, she said, but remember later on that you did this voluntarily.

The wax was applied to my legs, chest and underarms. Then she got a pair of scissors and trimmed by pubes down to about ¼ inch and coated this area with wax also. Slowly, the wax was removed. Later I was made to turn over and my back side was waxed, and finally I had to kneel with my head down and the last bits of hair removed from around my recutm. I stood up and she asked me to feel how the new me felt. It felt really different, I was so smooth. She asked me what I though and I told her that I just loved the way being her slave felt.

She then had me service her orally. After she had experienced 3 or 4 orgasms, she asked me if I would like to enter her. I said YES. She said that that was too bad, since it would not be permitted. She also told me that I was no longer allowed to masturbate without her permission. She asked me if I was very horney and would like to relieve myslef. I again said that I would.

She reminded me that I needed to ask permission, so I said to her “may I please masturbate so that I can relieve myslef?”, to which she responded “no” it is time for sleep.

Sometime in the middle of the night, I was so horny from seeing her come so many times that I could not stand it anymore and went into the bathroom to relieve myself. Well, I guess I made a little too much noise, because the next thing I knew as I was mid stroke in barged my wife. She told me that it was pretty obvious I had not taken seriously her demands that I get permission first. She told me that I now had two choices, both of which had consequences.

We could forget about my being her slave and also forget about having anything to do with her sexually again, or she would put a chastity device on me that would keep me from being able to masturbate or have sex until she removed it. I thought for a minute or two and chose the chastity device. I had fantasized about being made to wear one for quite a long time, and now my dream was about to come true.

The next day, my birthday, I came home from work and there was my darling wife. She asked me to service her orally, which I did. Then she asked me if I remembered that I was going to be getting a chastity device. I answered “How could I forget” somewhat sarcastically. She asked me if I had masturbated while I was at work, which I replied that I had not. She then informed me that it was time to get my device and I was to get in the car.

She drove to a medical building and parked. We went up the elevator to the office of a Dr. Chris Rudkin, Urologist. The receptionist asked if she could help us, and my wife replied that I was here for my appointment with Dr. Rudkin for his chastity device installation. I could have died from embarrassment as several people in the waiting room stared at me. The receptionist went right along with registering me as though nothing were out of the ordinary. I took a seat and tried to hide myself in a magazine.

Soon I was called back and my wife came with me. As soon as I got to the exam room, the nurse told me to remove all of my clothing. I asked if I could please have a gown, to which the nurse replied that there was no need, everyone in the office had seen naked men before. I took off my clothing and sat on the exam table. The nurse took my blood pressure and temperature and asked the usual questions about drug allergies, etc. Then she had me lay down and took a ruler out and measured my penis. She smiled a bit and told me that I had just set an office record, that at 1 inch flaccid, I had the smallest penis they had seen. She asked me how big when I was erect and told me not to lie. I told her 3 1/2 inches and she said that I had just set a second office record.

A few minutes later there was a knock on the door and in walked a very beautiful blond woman. She introduced herself as Dr. Rudkin. She looked at my wife and asked if she was sure that she wanted me to have the kind of device they had spoken about. My wife responded that last night I couldn’t even a couple of hours without masturbating even after she had expressly forbidden me from doing this. Dr. Rudkin then said that male often had difficulty controlling their sexual urges unless they are properly forced into submission. Dr. Rudkin asked me if the procedure that was going to take place had been explained. There was no doubt from the way she said this that there was no question as to “If” the procedure of placing the device would take place. I told Dr. Rudkin that all I knew was that I would have to wear a chastity device, but I had no idea of any more specifics.

Dr. Rudkin explained that there were many devices that could be used, but that the most effective was an internal one. Unfortunately there were very few men who could wear these as anyone with an erect penis length of about 4 1/2 to 5 inches was too big for this method. Dr. Rudkin said that if there was ever a candidate for this type of device it was I.

She explained that the device was very simple. She would insert a rod with a large ball at one end down my urethra. She would make an incision between my legs behind the scrotum where the end of the rod would be pulled out. The ball on the end of the rod would prevent the one end from going down my penis. The rod would be pulled so that my penis would be pulled inside my body and a lock attached between my legs through a cross hole in the rod so that it could not be removed.

She explained that once the device was installed, erections would no longer be possible, hence eliminating the possibility of my having sex or masturbating. If my wife decided to give me sex or allow me the privilege of masturbating, all she had to do was to unlock the lock and slide the rod out of my penis and I could function as normal, then Dr. Rudkin said “almost”.

She explained that once the hole was cut into my urethra, all urine and semen would be leaving my body through this new hole, not out the end of my penis as I had always been used to. She said that if we ever wanted me to father a child, the procedure was completely reversible by just removing the rod and sewing up the opening. Otherwise, I would from this point forward have to urinate while seated only and that when I did ejaculate, it would be a good idea to make suitable arrangements for my semen exiting via a different path.

Dr. Rudkin explained that if this type of device were put on a man with a larger penis, the first thing that would happen once they started to become aroused was that they would damage themselves and rupture the involuntary muscles of the penis. This could result in gangrene and the subsequent removal of the penis or death. Dr. Rudkin explained that in my case, these were not concerns since I was so small that there would be no difficulty performing the procedure on me.

Dr. Rudkin said that because this was a very specialized procedure, useful on so few men because of the size limitation, if my wife agreed, she would invite the entire staff in to watch so that it could be used as a training example. My wife readily agreed. I was now beyond mortified. What had I gotten myself into, but I was determined to be my wife’s slave and was very excited about wearing a chastity device.

Dr. Rudkin called her staff in, who were all women. She described the procedure as a simple urethral transection posterior to the scrotum to provide resectioning and restraint of the abductor penile muscles and associated facia. Dr. Rudkin complemented my wife on her through job of preping me for the operation. My informed the good Dr. that this was not a prep job, but that I was no longer going to be wearing body hair since I was really not a male anymore.

Dr. Rudkin asked my wife what depiliation method had been employed, to which my wife responded “waxing”. Dr. Rudkin said that she could recommend a good dermatologist for when my wife decided to remove my hair on a permanent basis. I was now very curious about this doctor, so I asked her if chastity device installation was a specialty of hers. She responded that all urologists do a few of them, she seemed to get 2 or 3 a month, but did not perform and internal restraint like what she was doing on me but every couple of years. She said that more and more wives were having enforced chastity done to their husbands for a number of reasons, but that it still was not all that common.

Dr. Rudkin said that it was time to begin my procedure. How do you like that, having an act performed on you which will completely change your life referred to as “your procedure”. Dr. Rudkin started injecting my pubic area with anesthetic, Then she started scrubbing the area in preparation for performing the surgery.

Finally, she removed a stepped rod from its sterile container. She explained that the size a urethra could be stretched to was an individual thing, and that it was completely independent of how long a penis was. I turned out to have a fairly large urethra, so I guess something about my penis is at least approaching average size. The doctor then requested a 6 mm rod, which she lubricated with sterile lube and inserted into my penis.

I really couldn’t feel a thing. Then I felt some pressure as the incision was made. The doctor used the rod so that the incision had no chance of penetrating up into my prostate or other organs. The rod was withdrawn form my penis, and the Doctor started to cauterize the incision so that the edges would heal quickly. Next she took the actual chastity kit which had rods of several diameters.

She explained that she wanted to insert the largest rod she could so that urine would not be running up the end of my urethra. I felt as she inserted a 7 mm rod with about a 1/2 inch diameter ball on the end I felt as the doctor continued to push as the ball reached the end of my penis to drive my penis inside my body. I finally heard a click as the lock was installed. There was a cheer from the staff. The Dr. explained that they had all had their husbands put into chastity devices for control and they were always very happy to see another male under control.

I went home and my wife asked me if I liked my birthday present. I responded by hugging closely and kissing her deeply. I said that it was the greatest birthday present I have ever had.

Tonight my wife asked me how I was enjoying being her slave. I told her that it was beyond my greatest dreams or fantasies. She asked me if there was anything I would change about my situation if I could. I responded that the only thing I really did not like was having to wax all my body hair each month to keep myself smooth. My wife asked me if I wanted to grow the hair back, which I responded absolutely not, I love being all smooth. If I had hair, I would be too much like an unmodified and untrained man. My wife asked me what I wanted to do.

When I told her that I thought it was time to make an appointment with the dermatologist so that I could start getting laser treatments to permanently remove the hair so that we would never again be bothered by it, my wife just looked at me and smiled. She gave me a big hug and said “I love you”.

This form of slavery, i know is not for everyone, nor for the faint of heart, as many look upon this type of slave training as too dirty, unsanitary and unhealthy.

For me it was simply just another form of slavery and servitude that my Mistress desired of me as Her slave. Having been trained in Full Oral Service on Demand, a pussy cleaner/washer, it just coincides with and comes into being, as part of a slave’s duties and responsibilities.

This form of slavery and training happened for me very early in my submissive lifestyle and especially during the time when i was completely owned and kept as a 24/7 slave. It quickly started from the get go, immediately after being taken as Her live-in, having been made to wear the common feminine products. Sanitary Napkins and tampons.

Mistress would have me wear the napkins snuggly against my balls, with a full kotex always between my legs, and a nice tampax stuck up my asshole, instantly making my cock erect, especially whenever i was at work and away from Her.

This continued for me as a regular part of my more complete training to becoming Her complete pussy slave, and Ass cleaner. It encompassed other fetish forms of submission, like panty worship and cross dressing, as She would have me wear panties under my regular clothes, while wearing these feminine products, to help me from staining them or my clothes, if i were dripping too much or had an accidental climax.

i had been having serious thoughts and some fantasies about serving a Domina who was Fully In Bloom, and now found myself Owned by one who was definitely going to both train and use me for this purpose on a constant basis. My tampon and kotex training continued not only with wearing them but also how to properly apply them to Her. Changing them with only using my mouth and lips, until i had all of the nuances covered and was able to perform all the functions orally.

Finally, my Mistress called upon me, putting my prolonged nervousness to rest. She called for me to kneel down before Her, naked, while She started to fully explain Her desires and demands for becoming Her Full Pussy slave. As She looked down upon me She began to Recite;

You will be much more than just my slave, you will also be my “Girl Friday”. You will be required to wear women’s clothing articles, makeup and more per my wishes and instructions, and especially when home. You will Never pee standing up. Bitches pee sitting down and you will always pee sitting down.

You will wear a kotex inside feminine panties whenever away from home, unless directed otherwise, and you will constantly wear a tampon in your ass at ALL TIMES, and if you have to remove it for defecation reasons, you will have to replace the used one with a new one and safe the old ones to show me when you get home.

My Menstruation cycle lasts 7 days normally and you will be required to dress in panties, bra, garter and nylons, with your tampon in your ass, and orally remove any tampon or pad from my pussy, once removed you will smell them, lick them and suck them, after which you will Wear my used items until it is time for you to change me again or at such time as I allow you to take them off.

Once my used items have been removed, for the first 3 days, you will then properly clean my pussy by having a bowl of warm soapy water, towel and wash rag ready to gently and tenderly bathe my pussy region, before applying lotion and new pads and tampons as required.
On the 4th through the 7th day you will clean my pussy with your mouth, lips, and tongue, ensuring everything is clean, before then using the soapy water and changing out my used pads for new ones.

You will then wear my soiled panties on your facial area held in place with my dirty panties for aroma therapy,until you have throughly cleaned me and changed my pads and underwear, and hand washed my undergarments and check my outerwear for any spotting or stains and clean them as needed.

Once these tasks are completed you will remove my used pads from your face then attach my old pads to your belt and wear them until my next changing is due.

These tasks will be repeated throughout the course of my period without question or hesitation.

You will not be allowed to cum or touch yourself in any manner while performing menstruation training.

Mistress then presented me with my own sanitary napkin belt to wear around my waist, and since Her period had indeed started, She began in earnest to train me on how to clean and maintain Her pussy. When i had gotten to the part where i had to wear Her used kotex, i followed up with attaching it to my own belt.

Her pad was still warm from not only being in contact with Her pussy but also my own face and once i had gotten it into place inside my belt, almost immediately my cock began to swell up larger. This exact procedure went on with the changing and cleaning that She required, along with my aroma therapy and wearing of Her used pads for the 3 day period, after which i was then used to orally and completely cleanse Her pussy and crotch areas with my mouth and tongue, as well as following through with the hand washing, panty washing and aroma therapy and wearing of Her used pads.

Well, this went on for two months, or full cycles. Then, as they say, the 3rd Time is a Charm. For, in my case the third month of my training was quite drastically altered and changed.

The 3rd Month of my training required me to start with the immediate removal of the kotex and tampon, and immediately begin to orally cleanse Her pussy and crotch areas, using tongue and lips, actually sucking out the blood from Her pussy as well as cleaning the entire vaginal area, and then do full oral cleansing for the entire 7 day period.

This was accomplished with Her walking and talking me through the entire oral process, as She would begin by laying on Her back on the bed with Her feet up, legs spread widely apart allowing me full and complete access to Her vagina. Menstrual fluids and blood had leaked out from the lips of Her pussy. She was fully naked for this training and Her large breasts were jutting outwards like mountain peaks.

She firmly grabbed my head with both of Her hands, telling me to relax my neck and head totally so that She would be in full control of my movements. She slowly pulled my head full into Her crotch, smearing Her blood and fluids all over my face, mouth and lips. Sensually talking me to me, explaining what was happening and why, pulling my nose into Her pussy and holding my head in place without any movement, having me sniff, smell and take in Her scents and aromas.

Finally pulling my head out just enough, telling me to stick out my tongue and begin the cleansing process, and i licked and lapped up Her juices, finally getting the entire crotch area tongue and squeaky clean, then She had me place my mouth over Her vagina opening, using my lips to completely seal it now, and start to slowly suck up everything inside of Her pussy lips and vagina opening. The process being repeated over and over until i had ingested and taken in as much of Her fluids and blood as i possibly could.

During all of this, She was playing with Her breasts and nipples, all the time talking me through the process of how She wanted things done.
For me, the taste of Her was different but really not all that bad. i had received dirty pussy training already, so this was really and truly not all that bad and after the first taste, i was like some wild animal, licking, lapping and sucking Her bloody pussy in extreme earnest. i had no qualms about sticking my tongue deep down into Her pussy hole and actually began tongue fucking Her as well as cleaning Her out.

She had reached down and pulled Her pussy wide apart, giving me full access to every nook and cranny that was Her pussy. Seemed like the more i ate and ingested the better and better She tasted to me, as She had me suck Her engorged clit, until She orgasmed fully, discharging Her cum down into the juices of Her menstrual fluids and blood, creating such a Huge Savory Flavor of all Her juices combined that i had never experienced before and would from this day forward want to constantly experience again and again.

Finally, after orgasming and me finally cleaning up every last drop, She had had enough and pulled my head back and up. She stood up slowly, had me kneel down before Her Magnificence and said; “That is enough for Now, you have performed bravely, courageously and subserviently enough that you have now earned your “RED WINGS”.

With this award you have now become a total pussy slave and forevermore, you will use your mouth, lips, and tongue to not only eat my pussy but to clean it on a daily basis, regardless of the time of month, regardless of heavy soiling or other uses, you now have the task of full time pussy cleaner, washer and worshipper”.

With that She told me to attach a clean kotex and tampon to Her, as i would have to repeat my cleaning in about four hours from now. Then after putting Her panties back onto Her, She had me lie down on the bed, removing my kotex now, She had me take my legs back over my head, doubled over to the point where my cock was very close to my own face, as She began stroking my cock slowly at first, then increasing the tempo, faster and faster, until i was moaning that i was going to explode and cum, She ordered me to open my mouth wide as i could, then almost immediately i came, shooting my goo with a great stream from my cock into my own mouth. “Hold your cum, do not swallow it” She commanded me, so i held it and swished it around inside my mouth, until She finally commanded me to swallow. Already very familiar with the taste of my own cum, i was happy to do it and always would be.

Mistress then let me down and put Her last used kotex onto my belt for me, having me in my garter, panties, bra and nylons, it was time for the housework chores, so i immediately dove into my chores knowing full well that i now had a bit less than four hours to get my chores done, before it was time again to reclaim my newly earned RED WINGS.

First and foremost, is the delectable duality of being a Woman’s toilet- being both humiliating and degrading, while simultaneously also being that intimate companion and servant. For me, these feelings that occur within, during this type of training are of incredible sharing and participation with my Domina. The very lowly receptacle of HER wastes, but likewise, being the blessed recipient of HER body’s issues, thus being so deeply united as a part of Her that SHE too becomes part of me.

These forms of training become the stepping stool towards total GODDESS WORSHIP. Speaking strictly for myself, all of this training and especially the GOLDEN Training coming directly from HER Fountain of Womanhood is kin to a highly religious baptism with my GODDESS’S Holy Water. Ingesting HER fluids, joins us closely together with HER generous gift. It is hard for me to explain in the right words, or even recalling all of these special and precious moments without being reminded of the deep spiritual feelings and overtake you. The simple act of Drinking HER “GOLDEN WINE”, celebrates our deep intimacy with one another and further cements a deep and strong bonding union between us. All of which just reaffirms that through my a total power exchange and with my heartfelt submission and humble service and devotion to HER, while just in the most simplest, basest and most common activities.

Prepare & serve a coffee latte’, take care of overnight dishes and laundry if appropriate, sit next to Mistress and rub Her back, then sit on the floor and check Email; prepare & serve 2nd latte’; be excused to prepare for work, prepare and serve 3rd latte’. Weekends is slightly different.

Each morning I wake up with a pink ribbon and bow tied on my clitty and I immediately start to think about being locked up for the day. I rub Mistress’ back to awaken her then get Her a cup of coffee (from the timed coffeepot I setup the night before) When Mistress is in the shower I prepare Her breakfast then She puts on my cage and locks me up (to prevent masturbation) for the day. She gives me a list of tasks to be accomplished that day and departs for work.

I am Mistress and Mummy – the two roles sometimes blur but are generally separate. I am dominant female . He is a slave husband.
In my mind these are roles that are set in stone now… it all just seems very normal. Vanilla sex is all but gone, mostly now if we make love it is using other methods.The last time he got on top and fucked me it felt strange…something wasn’t as it should – don’t get me wrong it was hot and horny but not as it should be…

He is currently under Mummy’s control, orgasm denial,wearing nappies,24/7, being fed and chastised. If you would have told me 2 years ago this would be normal I would have laughed.
BUT THIS IS NORMAL NOW…..

We have ordered a cot and he will be sleeping in it every other weekend (due to kids being away) If kids were gone it would be all the time. My control over his orgasm denial and life is overwhelming sometimes but it is also something that is so important to me….and to him. He is a man who gives so much to me. I do allow him to suckle at my breasts and he can be smothered if he does not erect.

This is what makes me want to give so much to him. Yes, it’s sexual but also it’s SO much more….a connection that is so powerful, so awe inspiring. This all feels so right to me that it is a massive part of my life. I have honestly never been happier that when I am giving him a long list of chores or when I have him in the stocks, or naked serving me wine. I am free……and life doesn’t get much better than this !!!

Mistress has me take Viagra first then has me apply the cream using a cotton bud through the bars of the cage ranging from 15-30 minutes before removing the cage. Then she watches me amusingly has I struggle to make the now numbed cock get hard. That’s the reason for the Viagra, it will get there in the end…then once its hard we put a normal condom on. 15 minutes it has not quite numbed it, 30 minutes and it is very hard to get hard…depending on how evil Mistress is feeling.

I cant even tell I am in there its a very strange feeling to take your cock out and see that’s its still hard, when you cant feel it.

Of course that’s also Mistress favorite time to give me 30 seconds to cum….either by penetration or by my hand I still cant do it.

While mistress likes it to be completely numb (including balls and all), you use a bit less if you want to maintain some feeling.

We use a penis extender on my small penis. Mistress absolutely loves it and it frustrates me soo much – there is a good 2-4 inches between you and the rest of the extender so no stimulation to me – just to Mistress.

We cuddle then he touches me, (asking first of course) when I answer yes he suckles my nipples and strokes my pussy until I get wet. We often kiss and he brings me to amazing orgasms…
This sets me up for the day and leaving him wanting affirms that Mistress knows best- orgasms for me, none for him.

Hubby is going to stay locked for the rest of the year for going behind my back. He tried to get an extra key from Ms. Lori. I got a lovely email from her telling me about it with what he wrote copied on the email. I was not happy about this. I was going to unlock him on our anniversary coming up, but instead he will have to think about what he has done over the next five or so months. It is really sad because he has been locked now since February and I was looking forward to giving him an amazing treat for our anniversary. About a week ago he looked a bit desperate which doesn’t happen to often since he is used to being locked all the time. He told me he tries to remember what it is like to have an erect penis and to visualize what it is like to receive pleasure through his penis. Something in me just tingled when he told me this. Like a smile all over my body. He has been so good with the exception of his little mess up with Ms. Lori. He should be talking to me and telling me how much he wants to be out not her. She agrees. So let this be a little lesson for you boys who wear her devices and have a wife that purchased the thing. It will not go unpunished.

I introduced chastity lifestyle to my wife in April 2012
She not only liked it, but took it quite seriously
Till April 2014, we used to have PIV sex about once a week
However in April she decided that I should not be released even for sex
Last week, as usual she chained both my hands behind my back and blind folded me
Then she unlocked the padlock
Then to my surprise, she inserted thick steel wire in the locking hole and bent it with pliers
Then she applied waterproof epoxy adhesive and sealed the lock post
I was left chained for about 2 hours, till the adhesive cured
So now release is just not possible unless the locking post is cut with saw
No more sex
No more shaving
No more release
What if any medical emergency arises?
The only way out is cut the lock post

I think that all small cocks should be locked. my slave is small and kept locked. really no reason for release. being a good slave, you learn your place. pleasing your Mistress/Wife/Goddess should be your concern. not using something small, that prob isnt worth the trouble it takes to get it, what you call hard. accept that you are there to please her. your life has meaning.

My Princess keeps my tiny (less than 4 inch) penis locked, and I do not expect to be released for the remainder of the year. I understand now that my small thing is useless and should be locked as much as possible. I will probably never experience intercourse ever again, and Princess will see to it that my masturbation will be kept strictly in check. I’m happy to be kept locked by her, and know it’s exactly what I deserve because of my inferior size.