Monthly Archives: October 2015

only ass worship allowed

I am relegated to continual denial while only being allowed to service my keyholder’s ass, as a form of degradation or breaking me.  They invite friends over and I am used to service their asses, never their pussies.  Femdom fantasies can follow the same theme.  I am used only for pleasuring asses.  It is the only part of her body that I am allowed to touch.  The act is meant to serve to break me, demean me, humiliate me…as I am not worthy of more.

my wife has decided to be dedicated to making me a slave using chastity. She won’t let me out no matter what until April. At that point, if I have been obedient, I will get to fuck her without me getting an orgasm. In May, I get to orgasm. Until then, nothing. I have to wear my Queen’s Keep.

Now about two weeks into it, I am going crazy, but she is clear about this. No cum. For me. She had her orgasm today with a toy while I touched her all over, straining in my cage, then I organized the entire garage like an obedient boy. I like it, but reality is far more difficult than fantasy.

 

no penetration allowed

It was decided that my husband would no longer be allowed to penetrate and fuck me effective January 1st a few years back.  He would now be focused on kissing me passionately during lovemaking and eating my pussy, as well as submitting to facesitting, queening, mouth dildo training, golden/brown showers and feminine orgasms into his mouth. Instead of him fucking me, I would now fuck him in the ass using the strap-on.  My husband was placed into extended chastity (using a CB3000 cage) to build up his semen load and ensure compliance with my wishes. He was told that he would be allowed periodic ejaculations/releases, using non-traditional sex methods, under my control.  I informed him that he would remain in chastity faithful to me for our marriage harmony and his future development.  I made him sign an agreement that he understood the terms and that this was not infidelity, since I was not hiding anything from him.

I listened carefully to him. I said to him that I did not think he was that desperate to be released. He repeated that he was desperate. I said that if he were desperate then he would be begging, and that he should beg to show his sincerity and also to please me as I liked seeing him begging at my feet.  I said that I would think about it while he begged.

So he dutifully took my foot in his hand, covered it in kisses while mumbling please Miss may I be released, please (kiss kiss) please. I told him how lovely it was, stroked his head a bit and let him beg and grovel for a few minutes.

Then I took a handful of his hair in my hand and twisted his face up and brought my face close to his. I said that I had thought about it, and the answer was…..no. No he may not be released. He could have 20 minutes with it off in a supervised shower to make sure he and the device was clean and to apply some healing creme and then it goes back on.

While he was there, on his knees at my feet, I thought this was the ideal moment to tell him that from now on, all of the housework and laundry was something that he should be taking care of. He already does all the yardwork and gardening and of course I set him chores around the house. But we have shared the day to day housework and the laundry and ironing. From now on though, he was to do it all. I was not going to designate any chores anymore, because he was going to do it all. Of course I can still tell him things I want doing especially.

You see being a slave is not all bells and whistles. Its a lot of ironing, mopping, hoovering and loading and unloading of washing machines. Just because you are good at kissing feet and arse does not make you a good submissive.

I told him that any reluctance or complaints would be met with swift and harsh punishment that he would absolutely not enjoy. Not like the erotic spankings I give him several times a week.

For what it’s worth, my thoughts are that the starting point for chastity should always be 24/7. All other things being equal, the male should not have any choice in the matter, all the control being with the Female.

My cage has been securely on without a second of release for the last three weeks and their is no end in sight, with the rule when it went on that she will determine when it comes off, and I am not to ask

 

husband does all housework

Taking control of sex entails training your husband that sex is for your benefit, not his. It is the case that he is no longer to be allowed to enjoy sex. It is simply that when sex is allowed, the entire focus is on pleasing the wife. The rule you want to establish is that sex happens when you want it to happen. You do not have sex simply because your husband is aroused. You have sex when you are in the mood for it.

Most of the time, you will want to turn that energy toward his chores. Only when you are in the mood and you are satisfied with his behavior should you accept his proposition. He may become frustrated at your frequent denials but if you are firm and you occasionally say “yes” then eventually he will grow accustomed to the arrangement.

Additionally, you can accept his proposal for your own sexual satisfaction but still withhold his own release until another time. For example, you might respond to his proposal by directing him to give you oral and ending the encounter with that. Thank him for giving you an orgasm and encourage him to ask again later.

Now that you are in control of sex you are ready to begin the techniques that will transform your marriage and make you the Queen of your household. Everything so far has been mere preparation. Preparing you to take charge of your marriage. Preparing your husband for your ascendancy.

Getting your husband to embrace a role as househusband may be easy or hard depending on your situation and his background. It is truly blissful to return home from a hard day at work to a home cooked meal, a well ordered house, and a loving and obedient husband.

f his friends are docile and obey their wives, it will be that much easier for him to do so. Men love being “one of the guys”; make sure your man is “one of the guys” cleaning house, doing ironing and obeying his wife.

We don’t advise that men be allowed outside activities unless supervised, at least in the early stages of an FLR. If such a “men’s night out” is allowed, women should be aware of who will be involved, what they will be doing and when their man will return. Men’s night out should be planned with the wives of other attendees, and the women should insist on a full account of what took place when their men return.

Of course, men’s night out (or “boys’ night out”) should be an infrequent occurrence. Such events are a burden to women and keep men from doing things they should be doing.

A number of women we’ve spoken with forbid their husbands going out for extended periods or on weekend trips. If men want to go on an overnight trip, why not consider having at least one or two of the wives accompany them to keep tabs on things; men do need a chaperone! If they don’t want women along, then you’ve got to wonder what they were planning. Permission to take the trip—DENIED!

Dennis loves being invited to “Girl’s Night Out,” a weekly event that includes mother, four of our women friends, and the occasional progressive gentlemen or two. It is an evening for women, so we call the shots as to what we’re going to do and if we want men along. We are under no obligation. Guys being invited to Girl’s Night Out is a real privilege that’s earned, not lightly granted.

The couple’s sex life is entirely in her control. She may go to the extent of saying that I want you to massage my body for an hour. Watch the clock. Following this, we will go to sleep. You will not have an orgasm for tonight. The needs of the woman belong to high priority. The husband’s needs are secondary.

Interestingly, while doing chores is a behavior that you are encouraging through positive reinforcement, it may also happen that certain aspects of doing the chores will become secondary reinforcers themselves. For example, as you train your husband to wash the dishes, and reinforce that behavior, your husband may come to indirectly associate the experience of washing the dishes with sex. The more consistent and powerful the reinforcement, the more likely and strongly will be that association. Your husband may actually become aroused by washing the dishes. Thus, over time, washing the dishes may become its own reward.

I often find I have become sexually excited at the darn-est times. I may be ironing her clothes, cleaning the bathrooms, preparing dinner, washing dishes — you name it. And I realize I have an erection. I get excited every time I think about her. I get excited sometimes when I am doing the most mundane of chores for her. She may not even be at home and yet I have become excited just knowing I am serving her in some fashion.

Similarly, you can create an association between general submissive behavior and sex so that he becomes aroused by his own expressions of submission to you.

 

punishment spankings

“Punishment Spanking” is necessary to keep your man upright in FLR lifestyle. It is quite different from the “Attitude Adjustment” which is done more frequently for minor mistakes, whereas spanking is the kind of punishment carried out on breaking the rules. The rules are made by dominant partner in the household which of course is the wife. I have made certain rules for him and breaking a rule comes under the category of serious offence which makes him liable for a punishment spanking. Here is a list of my rules:

  • Ignoring or forgetting household chores
  • Swearing or using foul language
  • Failure to call when he will be late
  • Lying
  • Cheating
  • Stealing
  • Completely disregarding a request I have made
  • Doing/seeing naughty things: i.e. going to gentleman’s clubs, pornography, viewing my lingerie catalogs without permission, etc.
  • Any unauthorized masturbation

I never let any breaking of the rules slide by. He knows with 100% certainty that if a rule is broken he will be having a Punishment Spanking.

As a Punishment Spanking technique, unlike other types of spankings, I rely totally on rapid-fire strokes without warm up that sting as opposed to bruise. I favor a lot of stinging strokes as opposed to a few extra-hard for several reasons. One, I don’t want him to be able to mentally “recover” from a swat and get ready for the next. Two, my target is from mid-bottom cheek to mid-thigh and wooden, plastic or other hard implements do not allow safe application in this complete target area.

Consequently, I use the cane and leather tawse exclusively. Because of its ability to deliver 30 or so “pops” within, say, a 20 second timeframe, I use the cane for the Punishment Spanking. Sharp flicks of the wrist combined with the “whippy” nature of the cane are most effective at rapid-fire delivery. A one-minute caning, believe me, is a very effective PS! You can get it done and send him back to work in the one-hour lunch break. I use both striping as well as criss-cross patterns. I use the tawse exclusively for “extras”. The tawse has a different feel and will evoke quite a satisfactory reaction even on a well-caned bottom. Again, I do not count. He knows that when he feels the tawse it is because he has not accepted his punishment well and that the swats he has earned are directly for those infractions. Using just these two implements allows him to differentiate between the initial infraction and his ability to receive punishment effectively.

It’s over when I say so. I never, ever announce the number of swats or have him count. I deliver rapid-fire, nonstop pops to his bare bottom until I feel the lesson has been learned. If I have him count or announce a number, he can anticipate when the PS will stop. I do not want that to happen. I quickly build the sting; keep it going and am relentless in not stopping too soon. It also makes it difficult for him to hold position and I want that to be difficult for him. Remember, even two minutes of hard, swift pops does the trick. A Punishment Spanking that lasts, except for extras, 3-4 minutes is absolutely the maximum if you are doing it properly. Almost no one can stand it for that period of time. Also, there is never any warm-up. I get right at it.

I carefully observe the most sensitive areas and return to them often.

Crying out: I expect it. If I’m doing my job well, he will cry out. I never gag him. But there are exceptions:

  • He cannot curse or use a 4-letter word
  • He cannot ask for mercy or beg me to ease up
  • He cannot ask a witness to leave
  • In a non-pleading voice “I’m sorry” is acceptable as well as “Oh!” and “Oh my!” and the typical “Ouch!”
  • I also do not mind if he cries out “That hurts,” because it is supposed to hurt.

I always lock him up in a chastity device before a Punishment Spanking. I do not want to deal with the occasional erection and I do not want him thinking about sex. The tube stays locked on until the marks are gone, without fail. No exceptions.

 

wife controls all finances

If you haven’t already done it, now is the time to turn over all financial control to your wife. Your paycheck should be direct-deposited into her personal checking account.

You may think your wife can’t or does not want to handle the money. Odds are you are dead wrong. Once she has the control you will be amazed at her expertise and how this assumption of power will cement her control over you.

Three months after my wife took over she got “tired” of my having to ask her for money. She put me on an allowance. I thought it was way too little but she didn’t. She did agree to review it every six months. It is a real taste of submission knowing she can and does spend the money as she sees fit without any input or questions from me while I have to subsist on a small allowance that she allows me.

The Female In Control lifestyle can be yours if you really want it. It may not be the way you want. It may not be sexually rewarding and your wife may not feed your fetishes.

You have to get over the idea it should do those things. Her being in control is exactly what it says it is. You submit to her will, you obey her, you work for and serve her and devote yourself to her with all your heart and soul.

The joy of submitting to her will far exceed your expectations. As she grows used to her new role, she will consolidate her power and probably set forth in some fashion guidelines and principles for you to adhere to. She may even devise ways to punish you. But no matter what she does, you comply, you obey and you take it like a man. Pamper her by taking over all the household chores. All of them! A Female In Control should never do any housework.

wife worship tips

Adore her by your actions and your words. Never miss a chance to tell her how beautiful she is, how smart she is and how much you cherish her. Rub her feet at night. Give her pedicures, fold her nightgown, clean her hair brush (daily), rub her back, tend her bath (for example a simple thing like bringing her a hot towel to dry off with is little trouble and yet very sweet).

When you are in public let your adoration spill over. Treat her like a lady at all times. Open doors for her, stand when she enters a room, don’t interrupt her and be quick to tell everyone, anyone how special she is.

Worship her by treating her with the utmost respect, always putting her needs, wants and pleasures above your own and never expecting anything in return. The sheer joy of putting her first is your reward.

This is especially true in the bedroom. Sex should be when, where and how she says and strictly for her pleasure. Become an expert giving her oral sex and be willing to give it at anytime and anyplace. Never, never force yourself upon her or try to penetrate her. If she wants intercourse with you, she will let you know.

Listen to her. Her word is final. If in the past you have argued with her, failed to consult with her or not paid any attention to what she has said, then let the past become a distant memory. From this point forward your wife’s word is the law. If she allows you input or seeks your opinion, then give it but otherwise you do as she says. Do it joyfully and with pride.

Don’t question her decisions. If they prove to be wrong, never say anything. In fact you should take the blame.

obedience and orgasm denial

Obedience, it’s the first and most important of the four tenets of an FLR. It is the key to domestic bliss! Obey your Wife without hesitation and you can expect domestic tranquility and happiness. Disobey Her and there will likely be unpleasant consequences.

NEVER say “Please,” Ladies! You are entitled to have Your requests fulfilled and he is privileged to fulfill them. And there’s absolutely no need for “thank you” once Your request is filled.

I didn’t think this day would ever come. Six months ago, six months seemed like an erotic challenge four months ago the reality set in that the more I suffered the more Miss Beth got off on it. In the last couple of months I reached a new personal level of submission that Miss Beth liked so much that I started to doubt that my denial would be limited to six months.

I woke up in the morning (Monday 12th Nov) and wondered if today was the day. Miss Beth acted as if the day was no different to any other. One of my rules is that I am not allowed to ask for orgasm or any kind of stimulation so I didn’t dare say anything, instead I just hoped that she had remembered the days significance. I even wondered if it was a trap to get me to seal my own fate by reminding her.

I remained unsure for much of the day but later Miss Beth whispered in my ear that she was looking forward to a good fuck later on to celebrate my 6 months. Even this had a twist in the tale when she called me to the bedroom and threw me some lube and a butt plug and told me to ‘prepare’ myself for Her to fuck me! That she did, not in a gentle way as was the time before but hard and deep and afterwards I felt well and truly fucked!

Afterwards Miss Beth hugged me and said “I think it’s time for your orgasm”. She looked genuinely unsure and explained that although she missed me being her husband, she knew that she would really miss me being such a deeply submissive and obedient slave after allowing me to cum. This put me in a quandary because my life in the last 6 months had become focused entirely on pleasing her and even thought I craved an orgasm the thought of not pleasing Miss Beth felt very wrong. Once again Miss Beth assured me that I had earned my release.

What followed was me making love to my wife, it wasn’t a marathon, I didn’t last long but it was wonderful to not have to hold back as had been the case so many times until even that became impossible. My orgasm was amazing and the best way to describe it was that it felt very much like the first orgasm I ever had many years ago.

Now a few days later I have some time off for good behavior. Beth pretty much hates me because pleasing Miss has been such a huge part of my life for such a long time and I know that I’m not pleasing her like I was. She vowed to keep me under lock and key for at least a year before she would even think of letting me have another orgasm.

first week in chastity

This was his first solid week locked in chastity and the results were amazing. Just like I’ve read. We started on a Friday evening. The lock snapped shut at 8pm and the only key went around my neck, to be worn for the entire week. By Sunday night the effects began showing. Yes, there was some whining, begging, and general complaining. This was expected. When it got to be to much, I sternly told him to stop or we’d begin adding time. Those words did the the trick each time.

By Tuesday I began seeing a remarkable difference in his behavior and overall attitude. I came home from a long day at work and found all the household chores done. The vacuuming, the dishes, the dusting, almost everything.This was unheard of. It had only been 4 days and I was already loving the results.

We spent the entire evening watching TV while he rubbed my feet. We ended the evening with him lapping my pussy for ½ hour and bringing me to multiple over the top orgasms. This was a turning point for me. If I had ever had any doubt that locking up his cock was the right decision, those doubts were gone. All the articles and stories I read were dead on. I was ecstatic and already began plotting how I would make this “trial period” a permanent arrangement.

The rest of the week saw him submission deepen each and every day. On Wednesday he went to his underwear drawer and found all his boxers replaced with my own panties. With the confused look on his face I crept up behind him and reached around to cup his little locked cock in my hand, I whispered heavy in his ear:

“Honey, with your little cock neatly shaved and locked away, it looks so feminine, so I thought why not take the next step and keep you in panties for the rest of your trial period”

My pussy immediately became moist. I don’t think I have ever been happier in our relationship. The road we were heading down was even better then I had fantasized. He moved his hands in front of his crotch to cover his panty clad locked cock. In my new realm of female dominance I saw this as an act of disobedience that could not be tolerated. Without thinking I physically pushed him against the wall hard. The look on my face must have been pretty angry, because I recognized the fear in his eyes. I spoke firmly and deliberately:

“Listen to me you servant ! I own that cock and I own you. If you disrespect me like that again you’ll buy yourself another week in lock up. Is that clear?”

“Yes ma’am, I’m sorry” was his only reply.

I slapped his face hard. “Don’t forget who is charge here!”, i said as i fondled the key that hung from around my neck.  I took the pics I wanted.

He meekly nodded in agreement. The lack of fight he put up was telling. His submission to my verbal and physical attack was feeding my already growing feelings of power and dominance. My emotions were running high and it felt like another milestone moment in our journey towards a Female Led Relationship was unfolding right before me.

I was caught in the moment. Already dressed for the office I quickly removed my pants and threw him on the bed. The events that had led up to this had my pussy sopping wet. I mean I had just slapped him in the face and called him a servant, and he did nothing.

I mounted his face and began grinding out an orgasm. He didn’t resist. I don’t think he could have if he wanted to. My thighs were clamped around his head and my pussy was ravaging his face.

“You understand you’re my servant now don’t you?”

“Yeth” all I could hear from under my hungry pussy.

I lifted up for only a second: “What are you to me”

“I’m your servant” Came his immediate answer.

Perfect I though to myself. I finished and quickly for dressed again and headed off for work.

On my drive in I thought about the scene. First the humiliation he must have felt when I announced that he would be wearing women’s underwear from now on. Then the humbling emotion when I physically pushed him into the wall and slapped his face, before forcibly queening him.

At this point I knew that this is what I wanted. I wanted this trial period too become a permanent lifestyle. We would both be happier, it would improve our relationship and deepen our love for each other. Studies have shown this to be true and my own experiences reinforced this.

On Friday I spent most of the day at work reading more articles and guides on building a loving Female Led Relationship. Saturday morning, the time we had designated for his release, was coming up and I really didn’t want this to end. Why would I?

  • I hadn’t had to do any housework all week. My servant did it all
  • I got waited on hand and foot at night
  • Foot rubs and worshiping every night
  • And all the oral sex a girl could handle.

It was perfect. If I unlocked him Saturday morning, I feared all the progress we made this week would be in vain, and we’d be starting at square one again. I just couldn’t allow that to happen. But I had given my word at the beginning that this would be a trial period. Of course I could just “Change my mind”, but what if I could make it his idea to continue?

Friday night is here and and my perfectly behaved caged man is at my side. All the housework done, pretty panties covering his weak little white dick. I’m wearing my tightest pajama bottom and stroking his cage, over the panties, and asking if he’s excited about it being removed tomorrow? Of course he is. I’m whispering in his ear how much I’ve enjoyed this week and how I feel we’ve made tremendous strides. His cock is straining against the cage. I tell him he can take off the panties. His cock is dripping precum. I reach down and wipe a drop of with my finger. I raise my finger to his mouth and he obediently sucks it dry.

I tell him to get on his knees while I remove my pajama bottoms. Constantly reminding him that tomorrow is his big day. I lay back down on the couch, and much like the past week, ask him if he’d like to eat my pussy. Of course the answer is an exuberant “YES”. He begins to approach, but I stop him. “Maybe you should have to wait?”

I turned over and guide head to within inches of my ass. I let my cheeks brush his face and his lips. “How would you like to worship my ass instead?”. 

“I’d really rather eat your pussy”

“That’s not an option tonight” I kept my tone friendly but decisive.

“If that’s my only choice then of course I want to worship your ass”

I should point out that in 4 years together, he has never properly worshiped my ass. I think most women who are not in a Female Led Relationship are missing out on this very pleasurable experience. Another reason to chastise your man and make him your servant.

I brought his face to withing an inch of my ass before stopping.

“If that’s your only choice? No, you have a much tougher choice to make now servant. How bad do you want to worship this ass in your face?”

I was stroking his cage. Precum was furiously leaking out. I knew what the answer would be. He was in a frenzied state and would do or say anything.

“Please let me lick your ass”, he begged

Here was the moment of truth:

“Okay, I will let you do that, but in return you have to agree to go one more week in chastity. The choice is yours. You can say no and we’ll stop the teasing tonight and let you cum tomorrow as planned”

During this whole discussion his face was an inch from my ass. I felt each breath against my exposed cheeks.

“I’m sorry honey. I know this is a tough decision. I know how badly you want to lick my asshole, but you also have been waiting to come tomorrow. You can only have one, what will it be?”

His breath hastened. Then I felt it. His lips on my asshole. Oh my god! I’m overwhelmed! A week ago there would be no chance of him ever eating my ass. Now he’s giving up an orgasm to do it!

“You know what this means honey?”

He murmured a yes as his tongue began exploring my ass.

“Oh baby, I’m very happy with the decision you’ve made. Look at how far we came, and now we have another week to go. I love you, my servant”

I was triumphant. He truly was my servant and we were on our way to a full time FLR. I was true to my word. He didn’t get the privilege of eating my pussy that night, but all efforts were directing at pleasing my previously neglected ass. How humiliating. How degrading. How truly loving. I lost track of time as I fell into and out of bliss.

yes ma’am, please please please – anything”

“Ok then here’s what I’m willing to do: I’ll unlock you and give you one chance to prove to me that you have a cock worthy of entering a pussy, any pussy. All you have to do is last 45 seconds without cumming. Dear, any real man with control over his cock can last much longer then that. If you can just last 45 seconds inside of me, without cumming, I will rethink my rationing of your orgasms. In fact, I’ll let you have freedom for the next week. All you have to do is make it 45 seconds. Easy peasy. But if you fail, and shoot your little was before the 45 seconds is up, you’re going not going to cum until 2015 (almost 30 days). Do we have a deal?”, I asked?

“Yes Ma’am” came his instant reply”

That was all I needed to here. I produced the key and turned it in the lock. The “click” sounds as the lock snapped seemed to echo in this quiet moment. As I slowly pulled the cage from his penis, he immediately became erect.

“Remember our deal – You have to last 45 seconds or else” Is aid as I set the stopwatch on my phone.

I knew even before I lowered myself onto his 5.5″ peepee that he had no chance of winning this bet. No chance of feeling like a real man, capable of satisfying a woman. No chance of regaining any of the pride or machismo that I spent the last 12 months taking from him.

He entered into me slowly. I gave him a couple seconds to remind him what it felt like to be in a pussy. Then I began to move up and down. Slowly at first and then rapidly increasing the pace.

I whispered softly in his ear “come on baby show me you can handle my pussy”

The look on his face said it all. I could see him fighting the urge. He quickly grunted and and within seconds he exploded in what would be his final orgasm of 2014.

I lifted myself off him and stopped the stopwatch. With a smirk, I put it in his face and asked him to read the results.

“12 seconds”, he muttered in a dejected tone. .

“12 seconds?”, I laughed back at him. “how do you expect to please a woman in 12 seconds? That’s pathetic!”.

Although through this little exercise he got to cum, a very powerful lesson was learned. Even when the stakes are high, he is unable to perform like a man. I was able to demonstrate exactly why his penis deserves to be locked up and denied. And why I have to seek out men who can give me what he can’t.

He sealed his own fate by agreeing to this wager and not being able to perform when it mattered most. I intend to enforce the terms of our wager and ensure he doesn’t cum again in 2014.

Who knows in 2015 we may up the ante.

 

 

A locked man truly will do anything.

emasculating her husband

When you have reached this stage in the relationship, there is no turning back for him. By shaving him, putting him in panties, and locking his cock the wife proves that she is the leader in the marriage. Forever. His only choice is to accept this fate and do his best to keep her happy in the hopes that she will reward him with an occasional orgasm.

When they go out shopping or to dinners, she will proudly wear the key to his cock around her neck. Or perhaps her ankle. It will be awkward for him. An embarrassing but constant reminder of his role in the relationship. He’ll remain pantied and cock locked on their outings. She should dispose of all his male colognes and insist that he uses her perfume as well as female deodorant. Masculinity is no longer in his makeup. Masculinity is for real men with real cocks. They both know.

This is permanent. This is reality

Mistress L loves a foot massage and a pedicure and she loves to have Her feet smelled and licked. She likes the practical aspect of having Her feet cleaned if the soles are filthy but She also enjoys how it feels and the sensation of the Owner and the slave. When you are licking a person’s dirty foot soles, it is clear that you are their inferior and they rank high above you. At no other time am i more happy than when my Wife orders me to lick Her feet clean, especially if the soles are dirty and smelly. I love it and it is a treat for me.

After I came home from work today, i completed all my house hold chores and while my wife was out at the jazz concert, I made Her a nice dinner and bought some pretty flowers. I also took the time to buy about a dozen new candles for the house and had them all lit when she arrived home. I like to make my Wife happy with all things and about all things. My biggest joy is to see Her happy and to work tirelessly for Her.

When she arrived home, she noticed the clean house and the new candles. She was delighted. She had Her flip flops on and She said before She ate that I needed to clean Her flippies. She sat down, kicked up Her flip flops onto the foot rest and calmly said, ” Love, you need to lick the bottoms perfectly clean immediately”. She didn’t need to tell me twice! I was on my knees lapping the soles of Her flip flops totally clean. She instructed me to be a good slave and swallow everything. She told me i need to be grateful for all She gives me. After about 20 minutes of licking, Her thongs were clean and I had only the tops to do. She went to go eat and i was left licking flip flops. As long as my Mistress is happy, then so am I. I adore worshiping Her feet.

List for servant

Clean all furniture with wood polish
Sweep vacuum and polish all wood floors by hand
Clean bath tubs toilets mirrors and floors by hand
Thoroughly clean kitchen including cabinets
Sweep deck and front porch area
Lick clean 3 pairs if flip flops top and bottoms
Clean oven
Do all laundry
Change all beddings
Go to dry cleaners
Wash Mistress L’s car
Prepare dinner
Clean windows
Oil Mistress’ cane

Mistress L told me today how she adores me because I do so much work for her. See, by nature ,my Wife is demanding and likes things her way but she is not a cruel domineering woman. She is a kind demanding woman and I love that. I arrived home after a super busy day at the office and met her at the door with a bow to her feet as she was on her way out to the gym.

She told me to prepare dinner, swift all the hard wood floors and do some laundry before she arrived back home. I gladly agreed and jumped to work. Getting orders from her especially while I have my CB 6000 on gives me so much pleasure. I have had my cage on for 4 days now with no release. Mistress L told me that if i am perfect for Her that maybe on the weekend. But of course, she releases 3 times a day. I love that so much.

In my selfish mind, I crave cruelty and sadistic behavior from Mistress L. I crave to suffer for Her. But in reality I also want a sweet domme Wife. I have Her and I am so grateful for Her. I do not have much time to blog and I apologize for not being more attentive but my Wife keeps me busy serving her and doing the tasks around the house so that she may relax and have an easier life. In fact it is more important that I perform my duties as my Wife’s slave. I do like telling the world that i am an obedient servile humble footlicking husband. My wife texted me that if i do everything well tonight, I may get to lick the bottoms of her feet and flip flops.

Part of this comes from the fact that when at the feet of a person, you are professing their superiority over you . And that is why I bow to my wife at least 40 times a day. If she walks into a room, I abandon my tasks to run over, kneel and press my face to her feet and inhale deeply. If her soles are showing when I enter a room, I run to her, kneel and press my lips to her bare soles . One thing I have learned is that a superior woman like my wife appreciates respect from her servant when it is given with out reservation. Meaning even if my wife has dirty soles, I bow to her willingly and I will implore her to allow me to clean her bare feet with my tongue. She loves foot lickings. I wonder if other wife Mistresses like foot lickings. And if so, does it enhance the experience if the Mistresses feet are stinky and or dirty? Mistress L wears flip flops boots and bare feet most of the time and I adore the end result.

Our arrangement is simple: I work to make the money, my wife dictates how it is spent and saved, she does NO housework, i do all the household chores, i ask my wife for permission to watch TV, to be on computer, to spend money, and i am in total servitude to Mistress L—my loving wife whom i utterly worship.

Recently, Mistress L has decided to lock me up in a chastity device which i wear almost always now. Suffice it to say, when i am in my cage, i feel like a total slave to my wife and my only intention is hard work for her and to make her life easier. I long to bow to her feet and to be a servile husband, knowing the whole time that she adores me, loves me, will care for me and will completely own me. Other topics that have come up recently between Mistress L and myself are floggings( among other punishments), foot worship, boot and flip flop worship, her dating other men, and even toilet training. As I said our desire is great and our passion is even greater. We have been at this WLM for 6 months and it has been bliss. I love coming home from my 10 hour day to find my Wife with her feet kicked up and a list of chores for me to do. She has become much more comfortable with the idea that even though i work all day, that i should come home and work more for Her.

 

serving wife makes husband happy

i have learned that my true happiness comes from serving my Wife. I love to wait on her hand and foot, do all the house chores, and completely obey all of her wishes. I am her faithful humble servant husband.

Today while I was at the office my wife texted me that she was finding her new found Power a little uneasy at times. she asked me for patience. Another text came from her about an hour later. It was was my list of chores for the evening when I get home from work. It read as follows: Swifter all floors up stairs and down Vacuum all rugs Clean the kids bathrooms Do 2 loads of laundry Do dishes Massage Wife’s feet for 30 minutes Well, I was astonished at how my Wife has just stepped into this dominant role. Now mind you, she does not bark orders or call me slave but she exerts her power well. And I find it incredibly sexy how comfortable she is with her being the Mistress and me being the slave. She feels perfectly fine to order me to do a long list of chores every day and have me humbly accept it. She then texted me that we will be having a long talk tonight while I am massaging her feet. The discussion will be how my cage is coming back…… Servant hubby rob

She said that she knew always she had it in her to by my Mistress and owner but that now she was free to do so. As we move slowly from step one to step two, I want to be very patient with my Queen. She needs love protection and total service and obedience from me. I will give it completely. For her I am a doormat.

She said she would enjoy kicking up her feet and having me do all the work around the house. I feel that this HUGE secret she has kept( that is open now) will now finally allow us to have the type of marriage I so desire with my Wife. I want to know while I am at the office working hard for her and my kids, that she is not lifting a finger in the house. And that when I come back from work she EXPECTS me to work more for her while she relaxes as a Mistress should.

Mistress L told me last week that despite her not working outside of the home and earning a paycheck, that she is no longer going to feel the guilt pangs that cause her to do an occasional load of laundry or washing the dishes. I was elated to hear this. In my mind it has always been my dream to be locked in chastity, go to work to earn a living ( which she then controls that money), then to come home to be handed a list of chores to be completed before night’s end. My Wife shouldn’t lift a finger to do any household chores. That is her servant’s job. All the while my wife is on her laptop, chatting on the phone with feet kicked up and generally relaxing, not being bothered with subservient tasks that are clearly beneath her station. She flat out told me last week that she expects me to toil for her at work and then at home.

She purchased this app from the Apple store called home chores. Wonderful app! It allows my wonderful Wife to make a list however exhaustive as she would like and then send it to my i phone. When I open it up, it lists all of my chores in great detail.

Yesterday my Wife went to the Spa all day with her GFs and left me a list of over 50 items to be completed by the time she got home. She did arrive home at 11 pm. I greeted her, as she inspected the house. She was pleased. She told me because i had toiled all day for her, that i would be able to orally serve her to climax and then i could smell and lick her feet for her. She is too good to me!! All the while being caged. She then told me not to think of orgasm for myself—that would not be happening tonight. I obeyed as usual. As i knelt at Her bare feet while in my curve, I couldn’t help but feeling over powering love for the Woman i worship. She fell asleep while i licked the soles of her feet clean for her. I love my Mistress Wife….

It was a very typical Saturday: I woke up early to start my day of toiling for my beautiful Wife/Mistress and went downstairs quietly. I started doing dishes, laundry and cleaning. After breakfast was made and several chores were done ,I heard the bell from upstairs. I sprang up the stairs, arrived at my Wife who was holding Her bell and I bowed to
her bare feet and waited for Her to speak. “Good morning my darling servile husband—i see you have started slaving away for me?” I responded affirmatively and was eager to hear what my Queen and Owner had planned for the day. She told me rise from Her feet and to begin massaging Her feet while She reclined on the chaise couch. I immediately obeyed and began massaging Her feet . She then told me that She was going out with some girlfriends to spend the day shopping at Nordstroms, having lunch, getting pedicures and going to the spa. She said how She loved not having to work one bit and spending the money that Her slave husband makes.I was in heaven listening to Her and being at Her soles.

She then told me while She was out I was to clean the whole house from top to bottom, do all floors by hand, run errands, wash Her car, finish all the laundry, prepare dinner and vacuum the house. She said with a cruel smile,” Oh by the way servant, while you are caged up in chastity and slaving for me I will be going out and I will not be home until very late or even until early morning.hahahaha!”. I was speechless. I just uttered, “yes Mistress as You wish. You are my Owner and i am grateful to be Your chattel.”

I am here for Her pleasure and to suffer for Her. She then told me I was to wait up for Her as she certainly would need Her dirty feet licked clean and She would be kind to me and allow me to eat a cream pie!!! I almost passes out. She then said,” by the way honey. You will be locked in your device for 8 weeks with no release at all. But you will still have to clean my feet,ass,pussy,and all foot wear . Got it slave?” I got it alright and wow what an amazing woman i am married and enslaved to. As She ordered me to lick her feet, I was looking forward to her having fun while I slave away. I know there will be suffering and more to tell soon. I adore my Wife and Mistress.