Last fall I visited a friend in NYC I met on Fetlife. Just before she married her submissive husband she met a man that interested her. After about two years of training her husband she decided to be more honest with him about her desires. She didn’t ever want to leave him but she wanted her sexual liberty.

Now they have an a fabulous lifestyle. They both work but, unlike him, she is a workaholic attorney. He has a regular 9 to 5 schedule. He comes home, cleans the house, and makes dinner each night. Often, she comes home late but he is always at home waiting to serve her. He takes care of everything to her exacting requirements. I couldn’t find a speck of dirt or disorder in her entire apartment. He’s also a great cook. While staying with them they maintained a light friendly banter but it was clear he was on his very best behavior. They sleep in separate bedrooms.

Her boyfriend who she made contact with again, also works crazy hours like she does. She and her boyfriend could NEVER live together. They would both be too tired and stressed to enjoy each other. Instead, they have an agreement to see each other from Friday night to Sunday morning each week.

On Friday, her submissive husband has a bag packed for her. She showers and dresses for a night out. Her boyfriend picks her up. She spends the weekend with her lover. On Sunday about noon, her slave husband picks her up at her boyfriend’s brownstone.

She no longer has coitus with her husband but does allow him to give her quite a lot of oral pleasure. He bathes her, massages her, dresses her, and brushes her hair each night. He remains chaste. His release is by hand on Sunday night if he has pleased in every way. I didn’t see any corporeal punishment but I’m sure she isn’t shy about meting it out. I can always tell by the way a slave looks at his owner. I see adoration but it’s also spiced with a little fear. It’s clear to me that they love each other and have found what works for them. Her boyfriend was out of town on the weekend I stayed with them. I’m sure her husband loves it when he gets her all to himself.