Yes, of course he is still whipped regularly – if not by me then by our delightful and increasingly dominant maid Mady; but the fact is that a combination of earlier training, strict chastity and a more or less permanent cock cage had really improved elliot’s behaviour.

Which leads me to the question: are men actually better behaved whan they have very little hope of sexual activity? I’ve read various accounts of men who are in chastity worshiping their wives in the hope of being allowed some sexual relief. But that seems very instrumental. What happens to men when you take that hope away almost entirely?

Men are, as I often point out, funny creatures. They spend far too much of their time thinking about sex. If you, as a strict and loving wife, take sex largely out of the equation – save your own pleasure of course – my sense is that, after a period of adjustment, they will rechannel all that sexual energy into more productive uses.

Which is not to say that you want to remove sexual excitement. But, by keeping a man in a constant state of hopeless sexual frustration and by removing any sexual agency, I think many wives might find that their husbands are far more ready to accept the direction they so desperately need without the necessity of frequent whippings.

As my darling elliot relates on his blog, today was the first day he has been locked into a scrotum stretcher.

I have to admit I was more than a little sceptical when I first came across these chunks of heavy stainless steel on Amazon. But their shiny finish and uncompromising humbling of the precious male equipment struck me as just the thing for my sweetie.

Keeping elliot in his little cock cage 24/7 has its appeal but, of course, the novelty has worn off a bit. But the idea of stretching his silly ball sack seems to promise a bit of fun, and mild discomfort, for the cold winter months. The trade name of the device is “Ball Stretcher” but that is incorrect. The device fits snugly above the little orbs and, I gather, the weight stretches the skin.

We’re starting with the smallest, 10mm with a weight of 4.3 ounces. You can buy them up to 50mm and nearly 2 pounds…Yikes! In fact, because of elliot’s cage I doubt we will be able to go much more than 30mm. Look at how well elliot adjusted to having his cock permanently caged. Men are odd but they are also very stoic.