I have let my husband feel the warmth inside me twice and my friend Jen once this year. It was such intense pleasure for him and he was grateful even though he did not cum but one of those times. He tells me that it makes going back into the cage difficult to handle because it felt so good 1. being hard again and 2. feeling that pleasure of soft, warm and tight flesh surrounding his member. So I can see how we could use that to keep the arousal high and the cage feeling tighter. Each time he readjusted to life back in the cage but it took a couple of days.
I think this is a great tease, to let your man out of his cage, get him hard and allow him to enter your warm moist pussy for just a couple of pumps, then lock him up again, I would love this.
This is hot. Denial of penetration is much worse for me than denial of orgasm. The feeling of penetration is one of the best things in the whole world. Soft, warm, tight flesh is fantastic. To be denied that and kept in a cage the whole time would be the worst denial.
I am allowed 10 strokes every month or two. I don’t have any choice in this. M ties me up and doles them out. I could not avoid being reminded. They would go all to quickly, be over before I was ready, and leave me more frustrated than before.
After being locked for about a month my Mistress unlocks me and let me “rest” inside her for about 30 seconds. She has a crop in her hand and if I make any thrusting movements she prompty whips my ass with it. She wants me to always remember how good her pussy feels . She also likes to unlock me and tie me to a chair. She will wipe her juice under my nose so i can smell her while she masturbates. Once I am soft she locks me back up.
Although quite rare, my wife loves to remind me how good she feels by getting me to just below the edge of cumming and super sensitive then slides herself down on me. I am not allowed to move. We hug and kiss sensuously while every once and a while she will slowly slide up and down a little just to keep me throbbing but not enough to orgasm. This goes on sometimes for an hour or so then she slips off, no orgasm for me, cools me down and locks me back up again with her juices still on me. She just feels so damn good. I am messed up big time for days, even weeks after that. Seriously messed up. Just thinking about her or a kiss or a slight touch and I’m raging hard and throbbing in my cage.
You’re right there! It’s been nearly two years since I’ve experienced penetration, I’ve almost forgotten what it feels like. My avatar says it all really: that is a direct quote from my wife. “Your tongue does such a good job I don’t miss your penis at all!” My cage keys are in a mini-safe with a combination which only my wife knows. Interestingly any time my wife notices the cage on me when I’m naked she seems surprised so clearly it’s not something she worries about (unlike 101 other things!).
My g/f is going through a phase where she isn’t much into sex. As I write this I have been locked up for 90 days and have not felt her warmth for that long. I’ve been teased by her hand a few times, but it’s not the same as feeling her from the inside. I hope she allows me inside of her again someday.
The desire to submit and obey is very close to spiritual if you think about it. It is said that those who abstain for these types of reasons (spiritual) actually gain health benefits from it. Now I wish I could find those studies. Never mind though.