When it comes to pleasure for my Mistress Wife, it mostly does not include an orgasm for me. Sex mostly only happens because she allows/initiates it and it does NOT end until she has decided she is completely satisfied. I suppose I do feel an absolute sense of accomplishment by giving my Mistress Wife the pleasure she wants/needs/demands, but I don’t feel as though a get a “gold star” or deserve a blue ribbon for my efforts. I truly do have intense sexual pleasures being witness to and part of the reason my Mistress Wife gets sexual pleasure, and truly is all about her.

While I have always been somewhat “in charge” in my marriage — sexually and otherwise, I have experimented as I have learned more. I have restricted my husbands sexuality in many cases and sexual reward is fairly infrequent and directly connected to compliance and “good” behavior.  I expect some might find this manipulative or out of sync with “equality” in marriage.

Wife led marriage is extremely empowering. Extremely.

Sometimes a wife can wonder if she is giving into a lust for power.

Let’s be honest. It’s pretty nice to be the Queen of the household, to have your husband at your beck and call, to be adored and worshiped, to make the important decisions and not have to explain them to your husband.

But where do you draw the line? How far can you go? Can you go too far in asserting control of you marriage? Are you indulging a lust for power?

This is something that every wife needs to think about because the more you exercise erotic power in your marriage the less your husband will resist you. Given determination and the right technique you can get him to accept almost anything you decide.

My wife and I have came to a point with chastity, that she no longer wants me to go free again. She has completely taken control of my orgasms saying that in 2016 she only it’s planning allowing 2 or 3 orgasms from me.
We graduated to me being permanently “Orgasm Denied” instead. She unlocks me from the cage every now and then and really works me over with everything at her disposal. She has mastered getting me to edge and keeping me there sometimes for long periods of time but always keeps me from going over the edge before locking me back up again. I haven’t had an orgasm in several years but she keeps me very attentive by telling me that some day, maybe, she will let me have an orgasm.

This keeps me aroused for her to no end. I am at her beck and call constantly and I will do anything for her. Our sex life is super amazing now, actually beyond amazing. I literally can’t get enough of her. Just a phone call from her or just thinking about her and I’m throbbing badly for her (heck doing it now just talking about her) and can’t wait to be with her again.

I read the story once of a guy in chastity whose wife kept promising to let him fuck her but for one reason or another it never quite happened for the poor guy.

I am promised nothing. When my wife decides she needs attention she will just tell me to get her magic wand out and use it and or go down on her while we are laying in bed. She has never said maybe tonight or in a week or any other amount of time and I am not allowed to ask. I am OK with this.

I think many wives must be enjoying doing this
My wife has done this to me on many occasions
When asked, she said she enjoys watching my frustration
At least in my case it gradually developed my submissiveness

my wife has done this many times to me. She will lead me to believe I am going to be allowed out and then after her getting her fill she tells me that I took her to far and she just can’t go on right then. Makes it my fault, LOL.

The worst was the last time we went away for an overnighter. We had sex for hours, taking a break now and again, her getting many orgasms, me being allowed to edge. Basically she let me do anything I wanted to her and her to me. The only rule for me was to save my orgasm until the night was about over. Then as it got late she mentioned how hot seeing me in my cage made her and asked me to put it on as it gets her so turned on. After she watched me lock it shut she then says “oh crap I left the key at home” then had me make her cum again as my situation had really turned her on. That night was the worst/best ever.

He should be doing all those things for you even if he is in permanent chastity and knows full well that you have no desire to ever let him out.  Even though I desired the chastity originally, my goal is to reach a state where I want out of chastity, but I’m talked out of it by a loving, yet strict wife and out of my desire to please and not disappoint her, much like what you’ve done with your husband. I find your relationship with him to be truly remarkable and so full of love.