Depersonalization is a key technique of male training. Women use various forms of objectification, e.g., prolonged bondage and isolation.

Mistress Owner is training the new male to see himself as an animal. He has not been permitted to stand and walk for a week. He follows her everywhere.

Forbidden speech, the only sounds he makes are involuntary moans when whipped. Mistress Owner beats him with the riding crop often. The blows are recreational cruelty.

Like many enslaved males, he eats and drinks from bowls. Mistress uses his mouth as a urinal. He needs little water.

She has trained him to urinate into a hole in the floor. A larger hole in the corner serves for defecation. Never permitted privacy, his Mistress watches and laughs.

The male receives maintenance discipline twice daily.

In the morning Mistress Owner beats his buttocks and thighs with a cane.

This is repeated before bedtime. If he has displeased her, the nighttime session is longer and more brutal.

His body already bears permanent scars. His welts make her smile.

A female supremacist, she thinks all men inferior. Women must control males. Pain is necessary. She believes hurting men is a duty.

Animal training usually lasts a month. The slave is ready to become a useful servant.

Standing again is difficult. His movement awkward. Mistress Owner’s riding crop stimulates him to do better.

His ego gone. The idea of resistance unimaginable. He sees himself as chattel.

Other Dommes admire the diligence and humble obedience of her men.

She enjoys sharing her male training method. Once a month she holds an open house and gives a talk. More men will undergo animal discipline.

Women must punish their males. Without discipline males are prone to foolish, self-destructive and chaotic misbehavior.

Cane spankings are the most common form of disciplinary corporal punishment. Sometimes a routine caning is not enough. The male may need more intense or different punishment.

His spanking may last longer. Strokes of the cane fiercer. Or Mistress Owner can use a whip. Or discipline the male without lashes.

This Mistress Owner is shopping. One of her males follows. He carries her packages. Often this is a treat for the male. Rarely does a male leave Mistress Owner’s home or estate.

Despite two severe cane spankings, this male continued in wayward misbehavior. She ordered him to wear a latex punishment suit. Normally the slave would be nude.

The weather is hot. The thick latex prevents him from sweat from evaporating. Inside the suit, his body is miserably hot. The trapped sweat stings and burns.

Mentally the male is begging Mistress Owner to take it off. Or at least return home. She is a leisurely shopper. They will be out in the warm weather for hours.

Normally, the male accompanies her at lunch and eats her table scraps. Instead, he will go hungry while tied to a pubic slave attachment pole.

In this community, males wear red during punishment. The color makes their disgrace conspicuous. Everyone knows he is an unsatisfactory male.

Women are free to abuse slaves dressed in red. While his Mistress Owner eats, several women will spit on him.

She will remove the suit this evening. His skin will burn from hours in the latex suit.

Her last punishment will be to tie him across a table. His arms, ankles and necks shackled. She will sprinkle a substance the causes skin to itch. The effect will last for hours. The male cannot sleep.

In the morning, contrite and repentant, he will serve Mistress Owner properly.

Two weeks of agony. He has been whipped, slapped, punched. Desperation makes him drink a woman’s hot urine directly from her body. Eat greasy tasteless food off the floor.

His sense of time died. Suffering seems to have gone on for months. An atheist, he is beginning to believe in Hell.

The helpless man has learned to keep silent. He awoke in chains. When he spoke, the woman punched him. Since the first day, he utters only moans and whimpers.

She whips him so often that he has lost count. She has trained him to grovel. Even if she has stepped in excrement, he licks clean the soles of her boot.

She no longer allows him to stand. He crawls

Sometimes he cries. She never reacts. Futile tears have left him desperate to please the woman.

She is implacable. Her face is masklike. Her eyes hint her pleasure in his pain.

Today she spoke. He learned his fate.

She will sell him. A woman will buy him. He will be her property.

Mistress Slaver admits she does not know his future. It does no matter. He has no choice to obey.

There will be no escape. His new owner lives where all men are women’s slaves.

The slaver leaves. She returns with another woman.

The man’s terror deepens. He had once promised to marry her. He never showed up for the wedding.

She had felt such shame. Her parents had spent a small fortune on the wedding.

Embarrassed, angry, she wanted revenge. She wanted to murder him.

Her rage never faded. She learned to not think of it. There was nothing she could do.

Her feelings about men changed. She felt only contempt for men. For a time, she worked as a ProDomme. She learned of the Femdomonomic subculture.

She moved to an isolated community. Now she knew how to get even with her ex-fiancé.

She hired the most ruthless slaver she knew of. She had planned to immediately take possession of her new chattel.

She decided to let the slaver break him. He would feel life could not get worse. Then she would take him to her dungeon.

He will wait on her every whim. Daily humiliation and pain will be his lot.

Her friends will aid in his degradation. A seemingly endless series of women will spit on him. Strange women will laugh at his suffering.

He will star in dungeon parties. Women will join to make him suffer.

Chained, gagged, stockings on his legs, an older husband is whipped by his young Mistress Wife. Their marriage is a succession of domination, bondage and humiliation.

His first wife died years ago. When he felt the urge to remarry, he sought a younger woman.

Selfish women excited him.

He used to joke that he liked bitchy women. Unaware of his desires, he wanted a woman who would hurt him.

He dated women whose faces suggested cruelty. Finally, he met a woman who seemed to silently laugh at him.

She accepted gifts with indifference. Her eyes seem to mock him. Smiles were sarcastic. She never said thank you.

She permitted cunnilingus. His penis went untouched and unused. Denial made him desperate. His frustration was thrilling.

They went to a costume party. He as a Roman senator. She glistened in an elaborate dominatrix costume. She even carried a whip. His eyes returned to it during the night. He seemed more attracted to the lash than the woman.

Back at her apartment he was high from too many cocktails. His inhibitions broke. He begged her to whip him.

“I wondered when you would ask,” she said. At her command he stripped.

The lashes stung. Even through his pain, he realized she knew how to handle a whip. She must have whipped other men. That made his beating more exciting.

Thereafter, dates concluded with whippings and spankings. She wore boots. He licked them instead of kissing her.

He proposed. She laughed at him. He cried. Telling to shut up, she accepted. There were conditions. She would be the boss. He would obey her orders.

They were wed at the registrar’s office.

She had wanted an older man as her slave. Someone with gray hair who would beg her to hurt him.

She whips her husband daily. In their large basement dungeon, she subjects him to myriad torments. He whimpers and screams, she laughs.

Mistress Wife hurts more than his body. Physical degradation and verbal humiliation tear at his heart.

She reminds him constantly of his age. Tells him he is a pervert for marrying a younger woman. She mocks him for being fat and too weak to diet.

One of her nicknames for him is ‘toilet paper.’

He worships her. Even as body and spirit ache, his gratitude never dies.

My wife and I take a couple of four-day weekends each summer to get gardening and big cleaning projects done around the house. During these weekends, she takes total control and I do as I am told. On Friday morning, she attaches the remote shock collar under my balls and gives me my first assignment. This usually involves a lot of yard work. My wife puts on one of her bikinis and relaxes on a chaise lounge while I clear brush, pull weeds, etc. If she is displeased with my progress in any way, she gives my balls a jolt of electricity along with instructions on improving my performance. This continues each day while I clean the garage, wash and wax both cars, etc. During the entire weekend, my wife teases me sexually but I am not allowed an orgasm. Before bed each night, I must give her a one-hour, full body massage and lick her to as many orgasms as she wants – usually two but occasionally three. The remote for the shock collar is always nearby and she doesn’t hesitate to use it. On Monday night, we go out to dinner at a great restaurant. She wears a low cut dress and great perfume and really ratchets up the teasing. I am going insane by this point and she really delights in my frustration. We then go home and I am finally allowed to make love to her. We both really enjoy these weekends.

I instructed My slave/husband to buy one of these Remote Shock Puppy for Me several months ago. Once this shock trainer arrived, I looked it over and ordered him to attach it to a locking bondage belt that I secured around his waist. I immediately started experimenting with the shock settings on this wicked little device. It has 16 levels of shock intensity. I discovered that level 3 or 4 are good to get his immediate attention or to summon him to My presence. I use levels 5 to 7 as for punishment for minor infractions, while higher levels are reserved for more severe discipline. Usually anything above level 8 is sufficient to drop him to his knees. I don’t think I have inflicted anything higher than level 11 on him which makes him beg for mercy!

I keep My slave in his ‘shock trainer belt’ nearly all the time (except when bathing and so forth). One of the things I really like best about having this shock trainer attached to a bondage belt worn around My slave’s waist is that it is easily concealable under his clothes and he can wear it anywhere we go (except if we’re flying somewhere of course). I really enjoy that I am able to discipline (shock) him when we are out in public like at a restaurant, shopping mall, and so forth. I usually shock him whenever I see is his attention wander from me, or he dares to glace a little too long at another woman. Sometimes I just give him a shock when we are out and about for My own amusement because I like to see him squirm!

Of course this shock trainer is absolutely great to use on My slave around the house. This shock trainer has a fairly good range and I love the fact that I can use it to summon him or administer punishment to him remotely and at various level of intensity wherever My slave is around the house, or in the yard, with just a simple touch of a button! (Isn’t technology wonderful?) Since I have been using this shock trainer on him for several months now, I have seen a huge improvement in his obedience, politeness and attentiveness towards me. Some of my girlfriends have noticed all the positive improvements in My husband’s behavior.

One of My favorite uses for this shock trainer is when I allow My slave the privilege of licking My sweet pussy or having sex with Me. I like to give him a shock combined with a command like “faster”, “slower”, “deeper”, “harder”, etc. He responds incredibly well to this sort of training and this way I can control his actions so he provides Me with the exact sexual simulation and experience that I want when I want it. Using this approach with the shock trainer, I have also been able train my slave not to cum inside me until I (sometimes but not always) give him permission to do so. He would rather hold back his cum with all his will rather than risk receiving a merciless torture session including high intensity shocks for squirting his cum without My permission. Ladies, take My advice and buy one of these shock trainers for your slave/husband. Using this shock trainer combined with the male chastity device of your choice will keep him under your complete control and help make living with him a real pleasure for you 24/7!

We recently started using a remote shock puppy trainer on my husband’s testicles to ensure obedience. This particular model has six shock levels plus a vibrating signal. It’s amazing how effective it has been. He was the one that suggested that I get it for him but now he is terrified of the little buzzer.

Since we started our FLR, we had a rule that if I called him or gave him an order he must drop whatever he is doing and come to me or do what I told him to do. This used to work according to his mood, and while I of course had the right to punish him, I didn’t do it regularly because I’m lazy. Now I call him using the vibrating feature and he knows that if he doesn’t come immediately (or if he doesn’t obey an order immediately) his nuts will get zapped. He is so responsive and so fast now!

When we go out I always make him wear the fully recharged zapper and he behaves like a gentleman, since he knows that I keep the remote with me at all times and that I’m not afraid to use (frankly, I like to use it  hahaha!). My sweet husband never argues with me anymore and shows proper respect at all times.

Even when the zapper is not on, he knows that he will be wearing it before he goes to bed every night. That is a ritual we have since we got the device. Every night he strips, puts on his zapper and asks me if I am happy with his behavior for the day. If I’m not, I give him shocks of varying intensity and duration depending on the infractions. I love to see the look on his face when he asks the question, especially on those days when he knows he’s been a bad boy, which are now becoming rare.

I recommend this gadget to all dominant wives. Once you get it, use it every day (at least make him put it on, even if just to tell him that he can take it off since he had been a good boy that day). Once he is convinced that you will never let any misbehavior go unpunished, he will become a new man, one you will like a lot!

My girlfriend asked me this as a valentine’s gift. We intended to first play with it for “small attitude adjustment ” in our FLR, but within a week it has became the main symbol of her power over me, the command in full display on the table all the time. If at first I was mildly shocked when poorly doing my domestic tasks, she had started expanding the use for other things, from notifying me I’m not doing my best when licking her to, this morning, “convincing” me to lick my cum out of her pussy, without having said a single word in response to my apprehension.

This devices creates one of the most humiliating feeling I know, since once put in I really feel like a trained dog : she can shock me anytime she wants, will increase the strength if I repeat any mistakes ( and knowing she never used the max level yet is quite scary) and, most of all will make me instantly shut up or even once beg her when I hear the sound (announcing I escaped the shock but might not do it again).

Next day we went shopping. She headed for the coffee shop and told me to go to the back of the store. Man did I feel vunerable walking past all those people on my way to the back of the store wearing this thing. Milling around the back of the store I felt a 4 and turned to see my wife walking my way. She was grinning from ear to ear. I thought she was going to make me carry around some bras, underwear and other female products. Not this trip anyway. We shopped and went to check out. While paying for the purchases, I made small talk with the lady cashier. I didn’t see my wife walk away a little bit. In mid sentence I got hit with a 4.

I told him to kiss me on the neck and hand while in the store, and he immediately complied. I even had him kiss the hand of the sales girl at the store-she loved it! She had no idea why he was so compliant though. Just be careful and use only the low settings in public if you don’t want him to yelp. At home when he is too slow at licking me under my skirt, he gets a bigger jolt to remind him of the need to pleasure me well. Be careful though, as too much shock can ruin the mood and cause loss of erection-but only briefly. This is an excellent way to train your man to eat pussy just the way you like it.

Told him to get it ready and never looked back. I love shocking the SHIT out of his cock and balls and yes the levels for him are up to 5 but beyond that is so hot watching him thanking me for not turning it up higher and when I am a real BITCH , ladies listen to me…just keep pressing the shock button repeatedly, oh and when I get him to eat me out, I just love the moaning and screaming as he licks me and it for sure keeps him in line. I love it. Buy it. Use it. Abuse It. lol.

 We walked into the bedroom of the suite and her husband was tied up in a standing position against the dresser, facing the bed. He was totally naked, except for the wrist and ankle cuffs, the collar around his neck and the metal device attached to his penis. I didn’t notice it at first but I soon realized that his penis was pierced and there was some sort of a metal chastity device around his penis. He was a handsome man who was probably around 45 to 50 years old. His wife was probably 40 to 45.

If the husband confessed to being denied intercourse with his wife for three years, chances are rather good that was indeed the truth. She wanted Olivia to hear that confession, as that was her way of showing off to another woman the kind of control she wielded over her husband.

There is something about a woman demanding a man remain chaste and forbidding sex during the courtship that places the man in the submissive role. His urges are to have sex but the woman gains the dominant position when she demands that they wait until marriage.

I live the FLR lifestyle 24/7/365, with my husband subservient to me and securely locked in a Neosteel Arch belt. It has been a long and winding journey which I would like to share with anyone who is interested.

Deciding to convert our marriage to FLR was a major step, but locking my husband in chastity was in many ways even more important and has made my life exactly what I always wanted and deserved.

It has been a 40 year road to get to this point. I want to share day to day issues that come up and hear from all of you in this forum but I have to explain how I reached this stage of my life, I hope it is helpful so that you can understand a mean bitch’s point of view.

About six years ago I met a kind, gentle, considerate man and got married again. He was different from anyone I had been with before and also the first white man I had ever dated. It was good to have someone in my life but the marriage was not that really satisfying in any way. And then my husband lost his job and couldn’t find a new one, fortunately I became a partner at the firm around that time and could support us. But I started to resent that I was the breadwinner, that he didn’t satisfy me in bed, that he was basically a weak, indecisive man. It infuriated me that I had married a weak, soft man that I had to support financially.

Last two years without any release for him, and he is so balanced now in his destiny The numbness has fine-tuned my strategy and besides the obvious frustration I can see in his eyes when I make him perform, still not been able to feel anything, I also sense a very very proud husband, who gets a boost from knowing that he has given it all up of for me.

Truth is I would not keep him like this if it was not that I knew for a fact that this is truly what he wants.
Oh, countless times he has told me that he never saw this coming, that he used to be a victim of the wellknown male fantasy; that the lifestyle would lead to so much more sex and action for him.

I must admit that I am the one who has got the benefits, sexually as with dozen of other areas.
Perhaps I am not paying back as I should but it is hard to give when You are being served and pampered all the time;-)
He is an oral expert and I can say that he is up there with Anne. God I have turned naughty!
Intercouse is on the other hand in decline, but I guess that is what I have read from other ladies too. When oral is THAT GOOD, who needs more? Well, I can still enjoy to ride it from time to time…. He is well-equipped, so it would be a shame not to take use of it;-)
He is afterall still my MAN;-)

My g/f used to have me on an unlock schedule and I had an idea of when I would cum, but now she has me locked up indefinitely. It’s less pressure for her to grant me a release without having to keep inline with a schedule and it keeps me guessing. The basis for us is that I am to be locked in my cage indefinitely. This establishes her authority and control over me. She sees no reason for me to be unlocked at any time and I agree. The only time when we plan to take off the cage is for 15 minutes on Sunday nights for a supervised thorough cleaning, then it’s back on for another 7 days.

To earn my releases, we took a page from KeepHimCaged’s blog and we use a coin toss.

If I do good things for her or make her cum, then I can earn a earn a coin toss. As long as I keep flipping heads then I build credits, but if I flip tails then it’s back to zero. One head is nothing, two heads is an hour out my cage (supervised and no touching myself), three heads is a teasing session, four heads is a hand job or blow job with her option of making it a ruined orgasm, and 5 heads is PIV sex. I can cash in my credits any time along the way, but then I go back to zero. If we have PIV sex or I have an orgasm, then I need to wait at least a week before earning tosses again. In 3 weeks, I’ve only earned 5 tosses and built up two heads and now I’m back to zero. It’s tough!

I’m in shock.

Everything changed tonight.

It changed

And I’m trying to process it. As I write this.

My lovely wife woke me up when she came in the bedroom around 10pm. She cuddled up to me and chatted for a minute or two.

Before asking the question.

You were supposed to fuck me with the strap-on tonight did you forget about that?

She said that.

My wife, who has never liked toys or vibrators inside her, she said that.

Yes Ma’am I would love to do that.

I answered. Eager.

So she unlocked the bedroom toybox and in a minute I had a seven inch purple cock strapped to me. About the same size as the one still locked away in the chastity device.

I put a condom on the strap-on and then knelt between her legs to get her ready. She let me kiss her pussy for a few minutes but then pushed me away.

I’m not cumming in your mouth tonight. Now fuck me.

She said.

Getting up on all fours.

Into her favorite position.

She had the Hitachi under her and arched her back, giving me her pussy.

It was so strange feeling myself straining helplessly in the cage as I pushed the silicone dildo inside her. I went easy at first because I couldn’t feel anything but she was pushing back onto me and making noise right from the start so pretty soon I picked up the tempo grabbed her hips and was grinding deep inside her.

And she came. Hard and fast.

I was shocked how much she enjoyed it.

She who doesn’t like toys inside her.

Loved it.

When she caught her breath she told me it felt exactly like me.

Seriously she said- I couldn’t tell a difference.

After that she tried on the strap-on. She had me lick it clean from her use first and then I asked her to fuck me with it. She agreed but when I laid on my back she said no- if I wanted to get fucked then I’d be doing it with my ass in the air.

I got into the position she wanted and she pressed it against my ass hole.

It took a few minutes and I helped to get inside but once she did she railed me from behind for a couple minutes before it popped out by accident and I think we both decided that was fine for a first try.

We cleaned up and then I gave her a nice back and foot massage.

Still caged.

And we talked

About the strap-on.

One would think a man getting fucked in his ass for the first time ever would be the highlight of the evening.

But I think for both of us it was something else.

It was how well she liked the strap-on.

Inside her.

I’ve been in and out of chastity for most of this year. And all the while the stop-gap to my time locked up has always been the fact that she likes a good fucking.

I always told myself I’d never be locked up more than a week or so because she likes a penis inside her too much.

Toys don’t cut it.

My wife likes the real thing.

That was yesterday.

That was literally yesterday.

Before she went to sleep I did everything but beg to be let out of the cage and the wasn’t budging. She gave me a very serious talk that this is how it’s going to be now and I better get use to it. She loves the strap on and may want to try a thicker one. Don’t worry I’ll still be allowed orgasms occasionally but not like it’s been up until now. Not even close.

I’d give anything to have sex with you. I told her.

And she said

We just did.

He is my husband but in name only. His position is much more wifely in the old sense of that term. He does what he is told. He is sexually compliant and rarely allowed to enjoy his own pleasure. He is subject to very strict discipline and is whipped for disobedience, talking back, or even taking a disrespectful tone. Most of all, in our marriage, he is the junior, subservient partner.

I am the Head of our Household and elliot obeys me without demur. Because that is who he is. Of course I remind him of his place from time to time but it is actually unnecessary; elliot is at his most alpha accepting his corrections and pleasuring me without any expectation of reward.

He is my husband but in name only. His position is much more wifely in the old sense of that term. He does what he is told. He is sexually compliant and rarely allowed to enjoy his own pleasure. He is subject to very strict discipline and is whipped for disobedience, talking back, or even taking a disrespectful tone. Most of all, in our marriage, he is the junior, subservient partner.

I am the Head of our Household and elliot obeys me without demur. Because that is who he is. Of course I remind him of his place from time to time but it is actually unnecessary; elliot is at his most alpha accepting his corrections and pleasuring me without any expectation of reward.

Then she projected that pattern and its results on letting John orgasm every month and found that for every year, they (and especially she) would lose that special devotion generated by male chastity for three to four months. She considered that loss much to high to permit if she didn’t have to, and she didn’t have to. John seemed perfectly content with the less frequent orgasms as long as there were frequent periods of sexual play, touching and teasing – even if it was just for Sarah’s benefit.

Figuring that if she allowed him to orgasm every month, then in a year she would be about 120 days or fully one third of the year in which she would not enjoy the special attention and devotion that she receives the rest of the time. This loss was too high of a price to pay for giving him the pleasure of monthly orgasms and instead she went to once every three or four months, extending that recently to seven months and seriously contemplating a year or more. Significantly, she noted that she had the absolute right in their arrangement to do this and her husband would obey.

Cunnilingus is an important part of  Wife Led Marriage. I prefer to receive cunnilingus as a ritual because it is more spiritual and meaningful, not just sensual. Cunnilingus is the most intimate of sexual acts and WLM give a it a powerful erotic charge.

The worship of the wife, pussy worship, is not limited by time. Tantric cunnilingus can last as long as the wife wants, even hours. Everything happens slowly without haste. The husband begins by peering at his wife’s pussy .  He smells her pussy , inhales a few deep breaths, holds them for a few seconds, and exhales. He tastes her pussy slowly, gently.

Cunnilingus should be frequent, at least once or more a day. The longer your husband’s denial cycle, the greater will be his enjoyment of the ritual and the more enthusiastic he will be in performing it.