A long-term subservient husband to a dominant female, In chastity since 2006 and permanent chastity since 2008. Now a cuckold to my wife/mistress and her girlfriend Anna – who I will also serve in a polyamorous relationship ruled by our Goddess who is also my wife/mistress.

This is a great post and the pictures of the whole process of shrinking your penis totally mirror mine. In addition to really shrinking the penis with a small cage, leaving the cage on for months or years means your body totally “learns” that erections are painful and after a number of months, my body actually has given up ever trying to get an erection. Not only is my dick now tiny, it continues to atrophy and who knows what it will look like in a few more years. From Her standpoint, the smaller the better and I do like not having much of a “package” as workouts and swimming are much better with a tiny dick and cage.

She likes to shop on Saturdays and She likes to have me scrub and clean the entire house!

Be careful what you ask for. 12 years later and 10+ years of permanent chastity, there’s no going back.

You have come a long way sweetie, after a year in a cage, you can’t even get that pathetic little cock of yours hard anymore…. soon we will no longer need to keep it locked up, I dare say another six moths will do the trick… Now thank me for giving you the privilege of taking your masculinity away…

It’s funny but even though mine has shrunk over the past 10-12 years to be barely a nub that never gets hard, we both prefer to be in a steel cage with a PA piercing for complete control. I feel utterly uncomfortable without it.

There doesn’t seem to be any side effects to being caged for a dozen years. Our doctor, who has been part of the equation all along, pays close attention and says if I don’t mind the fact that I have a completely shrunken tiny penis that will probably never get an erection, nothing is wrong.

Once Her orgasms became our orgasms everything fell into place and we both loved permanent chastity.

Question for all you in long term chastity. I have seen several post that indicate that your penis will shrink if you keep in long term chastity. I can’t get a smaller cage if I wanted too. My princess yell that my penis was shrinking.

Mine has shrunk very noticeably over 10 years. The key is no orgasms ever and once morning woodnslows down and stops, go to smaller and smaller cages. Started with 3.5” cage. Now don’t fill 1” cage.

In the morning, my slave gets up first and makes me breakfast. He awakens me by slowly kissing my feet.

After I am awake, he slowly licks me to orgasm. It is a wonderful way to start the day. While I eat breakfast, Roger prepares my bath. Then he bathes me, does my hair and paints my toenails. My slave sees me off to work the same way he welcomed me, on his knees, naked and kissing my feet.

I hope this has been an inspiration to women out there who want to have the good life. I have never been happier, and neither has my slave/husband.

Try it, Take Control…

Thanks to Oracle and FemaleSupremacy

Even more to the point when the husband/slave is in permanent chastity. There’s absolutely nothing I won’t do to please Our Goddess.

At some point mine became completely useless. My erogenous zones are my nipples and my anus. My tongue is my most useful organ.

He woke up this morning extremely horny, way more so than usual, with wet boxers. He had a nocturnal emission I guess you could say. Not unexpected, he’s had no kind of release in just over 9 weeks – no milking or ruined, nothing. He did have his chastity tube on but that won’t prevent something like this – not sure anything really would.

So the question is – do I count that as his release and start the clock over at zero? He has no memory and obviously was still desperate to cum. Or do I keep going with it as if it didn’t count and continue to call it 9+ weeks of complete denial?

And the humiliation! (as if telling thousands of people he jizzed in his sleep doesn’t count…). He woke me up to tell me like a good boy and he paid for it. I told him that he is apparently a 12yr old boy now so he must make his voice crack when he talks to me today (and I will call him at work to make sure others can hear him). I also made him put his underwear in his mouth and suck them clean. Milked, ruined, or a nocturnal oops, he still has to clean his mess.

When you are in permanent chastity the question doesn’t apply but everything else does – especially cleaning up the mess.

When I embraced submission to the point of Her orgasms becoming my orgasm, wonderful things happened. I actually felt Her orgasm inside my groin. I drained significantly. I tingled and my skin became very sensitive. It was fantastic. Now, when I’m horny I beg for the chance to please Her and, of course, She has me do whatever else She wants to tease and delay. But soon, my willingness to please Her wins out and I get to take Her to Her happy place, sometimes over and over.

I don’t know if I could handle 6 months of strict chastity but I think it’s awesome that you have restricted him in this way, amongst all the other restrictions you have placed on him. And the cuckold… wow!!! May I ask how long you plan to keep him locked without orgasm? Do you cuckold him often? CBT? Humiliation? Feminization?

A little secret: Kyle didn’t think he could go 6 months without orgasm either. No one ever does. But once that lock clicks shut, what you think you can do is irrelevant. What you want to happen is irrelevant.

A common mistake subs make is to think that chastity is all about how long they can go without orgasm. That’s not true. It’s not a sub’s challenge at all. It’s the Domme’s challenge to see how long she can go without giving him one – and I’ve always loved a challenge

Currently, I have no plans to ever allow Kyle another orgasm ever again. His orgasms don’t benefit me at all – in fact they rob me of my obedient, desperate-to-please buff slave.

Now, let me think … which do I want more? One of those – a devoted man who hangs on my every word, obeys my every command, worships the ground I walk on, and regards me as literally the only woman in the entire world… or a drooling selfish masterbater and a big sticky mess for ME to clean up because he’s passed out from HIS pleasure, followed by weeks of disobedience while I wait for his desperation to impress me to build back up to more pleasing levels?

Yeah, he’s not getting another orgasm.

When She reaches this point and conclusion, you will never orgasm again. At least a penile type.

More than 10 years and She still enjoys experimenting and moving down the path of a female dominant relationship.

flr-feminist-couple asked: Wow, so you never had orgasm since 2008? That is impressive! My soon to be hubby is very very far from you in controlling him, but I will change that over time 🙂

There was one crazy night about 3-4 year ago when She tied me firmly to the bed, removed the caged and blew me (She was way drunk) and then “snowballed” me. I was so cranky for ten days after that She swore that was the last time – and I’m sure it was. Anal orgasms though are different. They drain me, amuse Her and don’t seem to cause the same dopamine crash. Good luck in the discipline. She discovered training me was an”3-legged stool”. One leg is permanent chastity. A second is physical discipline – chores, expectations, immediate discipline for failure to meet expectations and maintenance spankings to make sure I know She is boss. Pegging is the 3rd leg and while physically pleasing to me, it’s clearly a domination thing. It takes all 3 in good measure to put and keep me in the right place. I now crave Her leadership and guidance. It makes my life much better although I’m not sure I would have believed it 8 years ago. Good luck and I would enjoy hearing about your progress down this wonderful path.