In some female-led relationships the male may even be asked to occasionally provide sexual service with his penis while foregoing his own orgasm, a profound mental and physical challenge. Other female-led relationships will be oriented so the chastised male will more often than not provide sexual service in every way except by using his penis. Ultimately, it is for you to decide how best to weave chastity into your relationship. What is important to understand, however, is that chastity is one great way to keep your submissive man feeling and expressing his submissiveness to you.
Almost every account of a chastity regimen notes that the man becomes much more attentive to the needs of his partner, serving her better both sexually and in a myriad of other ways that are pleasing to her.
Female-led relationships require the male to overcome this biological predisposition and the cultural conditioning that reinforces it. Female-led relationships require the male to find ultimate pleasure in his partner’s pleasure, rather than subordinating her pleasure to his own. As the Female-led relationship develops, the female becomes more in control and more restrictive of her submissive male.
10 Rules in Femdom Relationship
1. Respect for Women – Yes I absolutely respect women and want to see a woman be the first President of the United States
2. Submission to Female Authority – I am married almost 33 years and have been submissive to my wife almost 32+ years.
3. Service to Goddess – My Goddess is my wife and I serve as her sissy husband and maid at home. In the colder months I shave completely and wear pretty lingerie to please her. Our lingerie is my responsibility to wash fold or hang. She has me happily panty trained and I am slowly collecting bras that fit my small breasts.
4. Female Body Worship – I bathe and shave her as requested and enjoy offering her oral pleasure with nothing expected in return.
5. Obedience Training & Discipline – I have purchased for her paddles, wooden handled straps, crops and canes and she uses them on me routinely. In a moments notice she can tell me to be over her lap and I will accept a hand spanking. She carries a small wooden paddle in her purse for punishment when needed outside of the house.
6. Tease & Denial – As I mentioned above, I will orally please her and expect nothing in return. Many a night I have gone to bed with the taste of her pussy and ass on my tongue and a restricted erection in my cage.
7. Enforced Male Chastity & Strict Orgasm Control – I am permanently locked in a steel chastity device and my Goddess will never let me out. She even insisted that I get my penis pierced so that there will be absolutely no chance of escape, no matter how desperate I become.
8. Strap-On Training – She has a good leather harness and several dildos she likes to use on me. I can ejaculate when pegged.
9. Discomfiture & Humiliation – I am branded with two hearts (interlocking) and I will soon be required to wear a permanent collar around my neck. She takes me panty and bra shopping and makes me wear lingerie for all outings. I must prepare tea and lunches for her various women’s groups, and curtsy and bow while serving all of the ladies in attendance.
10. Housework – I do all of the housework – cooking, cleaning, dusting, vacuuming, laundry and mopping – while she is free to relax and pursue her own interests. This is how life should be in a female-dominated home, with the male hoping to be rewarded with additional chores.