Two Sundays ago, we were getting ready for church and she was dressed in her pantyhose and black slip, which I find very sexy. I spent too much time in the bathroom and she was getting impatient. When I came out, she mentioned that if we had more time, perhaps she would give me a spanking to teach me that a Lady must never be kept waiting. This floored me because my wife has never expressed an interest in spanking me.
When she said those words to me “Perhaps I should spank you…” I immediately fell to my knees and kissed her hose covered legs. She told me to get up because we were going to be late for church.
During the end of the church service, my wife handed me the church bulletin on which she had written a note. It said … “when we get home, I am going to spank you.”
I can’t describe what I felt other than to say I felt frozen in submission. I know I entered into what has to be subspace. I was so excited and I didn’t care that we were in church. I couldn’t help myself and I couldn’t concentrate on the rest of the Preacher’s sermon. All I could think about was my wife and what she had written.
We finally made it home and she took off her dress, once again only wearing her panty-hose, slip, and bra. She sat on the edge of the bed and she told me to undress and to lay across her lap. I did and she proceeded to spank me with her hands and later her hairbrush. She was gentle but firm and she had me squirming by the time she was finished.
I took the initiative and planted kisses all over her feet, legs and thighs. She removed her slip and tore a hole in her panty hose and guided my head to her womanhood. She relaxed on the bed and I orally pleasured her until she had an orgasm. She forbid any sexual stimulation of my penis and made me sleep on the floor next to her bed.
She is now open to having a weekly discipline session. She liked my attitude after the spanking and how attentive I was to her needs. We repeated this last Sunday and she says that it will become a regular event as long as I keep up with my improved behavior.
The best way to stir her dominant desires is by your continual obedience and servitude. The urge to dominate you in such a manner occurred because you had surrendered to her desire to transform you into a househusband. This was empowering and liberating for her. No doubt, she could sense the submissive energy coming forth from you as you surrendered to her demands and this excited her sexually and stirred her dominant nature. There will be other similar events that will transpire as she continues to explore her dominance but she needs to feed off of your submission. So don’t worry about trying to get her to perform a certain act on you but rather focus on serving her. Stir her dominance with your submission and you never know how it will manifest and when it does, be willing to follow her lead.
Society is evolving toward female domination and thus I believe more and more women will be requiring that their husbands take on the wife’s last name. This is a societal dynamic that is still in its infancy but it is starting to become a trend that will continue to grow with each generation. In the past few months, I have received a number of e-mails from engaged women who have expressed a desire to do this.
I believe with the ever-increasing popularity of female domination, more women are going to make this demand on any man who desires to marry them. Female domination couples are not interested in equality and this practice offers a man the chance to prove his submission and devotion right from the outset of the marriage. For any man who is willing to do this (and is willing to put up with the societal persecution and male peer ridicule that will no doubt accompany this choice) is demonstrating that he views his wife as being the head of the marriage. A man who is willing to take on the woman’s last name is definitely putting feet to his words when he says that he wants a FemDom marriage.
The power of this has the potential to be enormous. Every time the man must verbalize or write his name, he will be reminded that he is in the submissive role. And since he will no doubt suffer some teasing from his male peers and friends, he will have to endure a degree of humiliation each time he must explain why he chose to take his wife’s last name. This has the potential to give the woman enormous power in the relationship and if it is indeed a FemDom marriage, it will provide her the opportunity to use her husband’s humiliation to build upon her dominance.
What we are witnessing within our modern day society is a slow, steady but real and significant transfer of power and authority from male to female. It was destined to be this way and the seeds of change have been implanted by Nature into the very beings of both men and women. When a seed is planted, the life force begins to work but in the early stages nothing is visible to the naked eye. The seed must be cultivated, fed and in the proper time, it will spring forth and grow.
Society is evolving and women are coming into power but it is not the result of some devious plot designed my radical feminists in an effort to brainwash men. Society is evolving because man harbors the desire to be under the control of loving female authority. It just so happens (and not by accident) that this is occurring at the same time that women are becoming liberated and are beginning to feel comfortable in the dominant role.