After about three years of ramping up, lengthening my time locked she got me to where she keeps me locked all the time now. I’ve been locked in chastity at least 358 days a year the past nine years! She has eliminated every excuse I used to use for her to unlock me even going to the doctor, I see her doctor.

She is very demanding about making me re-lock after a month or more. She always makes me promise her that I will re-lock right after I shower or she won’t unlock me for a release!

She says, “Males don’t need to ejaculate! Their body will either reabsorb it or they will have a nocturnal emission!”

Twice she has made me go almost two months to cause me to have a wet dream and when I told her what happened she says, “Well there’s your release for this month! Hope you enjoyed it!”
I love it and I thrive on my Wife being stern with me. I see it as very sexy and it turns me on. The meaner crueler she is the more I love her for treating so abruptly.

I did finally admit to my wife that my inattentiveness and poor behavior on Labor Day was a result of having such a deep and powerful orgasm the day before. Her delightful smile and quick response startled me, “Okay, no more orgasms for you, then!” I feigned a shocked look, but thanked Donna and told her I would much rather please her than worry about when my next orgasm would be.

We had a fun conversation a couple of days later when I playfully tried to back out of the arrangement. “Remember when we talked about me not coming anymore? Can we reconsider that?” Donna smiled and said, “If you are going to be selfish and moody afterward, you will never come again. End of discussion.”

Donna has been happy and playful all week. Perhaps she knows that her loving, supportive husband is back and realizes that we are both most satisfied when her pleasure comes first! I’m not sure if I will be permitted release ever again, but I am feeling truly blessed to have a wonderful woman to love, cherish, protect, romance and serve.

When I accepted that I can have orgasms as much as I want and I’m not obliged to give my husband an orgasm, we both started to enjoy more. He has a strong mental satisfaction while satisfies me that is stronger than his orgasm.
Female-centric relationship is better for both. He has a much more energy, he spends a lot more quality time with me, gives me more attention. I love his passion. I love it when he does most of the housework.

An ideal goal would be to have your husband agree to wear his cage for a whole year, with no prospect of any orgasms, ruined or otherwise. This would demonstrate his undying love for you.

The next task would be to work out the logistics by considering the individual problems. To eliminate the need for shaving he could have a course of laser treatment at a beauty salon, to permanently remove the hair. The cage could be kept clean by having your husband sit in a bath, with disinfectant added, once a week and this would also improve his own hygiene, etc.

Everything that interferes husband to his wife stretched maximally satisfaction should be abolished. Husband’s full orgasm is best to abolish and and leave only ruined orgasm. His ruined orgasm needs to happen after long denial. Three to four times a year is more than enough.
All this helps husband to he have maximum enjoyment while satisfying his wife.The husband in this way more and longer enjoys. He sometimes experience strong mental orgasm while satisfy his wife. I love my husband and we both enjoy FLR.

We have been the chastity lifestyle for about the past 8 years with me locked all the time. It started after I asked my Wife to marry me when she made me promise to wear a male chastity device permanently.

Like your Ken I too get excited when my Wife gives me chores to do especially if it means my next release depends on them.

I like when my Wife is so demanding about requiring me to be locked all the time. She always makes me promise her that I will relock that day or after a shower before she will consider getting her key and unlocking me. I have gotten used to only once a month or longer releases and 4-7 weeks is common.

She desires a loving obedient husband and a well behaved one. Being denied orgasms sure helps me with the well behaved part and in truth is something we both love. I have been denied for going on 4 years and have not had an orgasm.