No sex and strict rules

My Lady does not use my penis for intercourse…we have been together now for appox 40 months..all of which I have been locked in a device . She removes it rarely ..maybe twice a year on average and it is mostly to whip my junk.

My wife isn’t bothered about my penis at all. I haven’t entered her for a couple of years now. She loves my oral worshipping and while this is happening teases me by stroking all around my balls and buttocks, running her hands gently up the inside of my thighs, so that a long strand of precum is produced. She tries NEVER to touch my penis, so that an accidental orgasm is avoided. When milking me with a Njoy wand, again she does not touch my penis. Despite the lack of penis involvement this sort of sex is very intense and takes me an hour or two to recover from. Since her practice is making perfect I seem to be moving from 3 or 4 accidental orgasms a year towards zero.
In addition to the typical discipline items, I have begun to use the penalties as a tool to train him on specific things.  This methodology just seemed to happen naturally for me.  As an example, I focused on how he cleans the kitchen. I became very strict about wiping down the sink and the timing of when dishes get washed and put away.  These are things that annoyed me a bit in the past but it was not always worth the effort to enforce.  However, now I can fine him easily with little effort.  Once I was satisfied with the kitchen, I moved on to how he puts clothes away.  I am not sure which area I will hit on next :). Little-by-little I am molding him into my perfect little submissive husband.  Not only is he getting better at pleasing me, I am also making money in the process. Thomas has even admitted that he enjoys how strict I have become.