One thing we both enjoy a great deal is spooning/cuddling in the morning, mixed in with me rubbing her back. However, after I have been locked for awhile I have a habit of…humping her. I can’t help it. Her skin is so firm and soft, and when my hip are pressed up against her tush, and I have been locked and feeling very horny, its just happens.

Well, my wife says its disrespectful and she wants it to stop, and if it doesnt stop my lock up will be extended beyond the three month lockup I am currently in. Although she still wants me to spoon her. And I just dont know if I can. Sometimes it almost feels like I am doing it involuntarily.

Anyone else having to control themselves this way? I am finding it very, very difficult.

I’ve not tried stopping them completely, but I do consciously try and prevent them taking over and getting too big out of a fear of your situation occurring. The spasms are incredibly erotic sensations, and are one of teh few physically erotic sensations I have on a regular basis, so I wouldn’t want to be told to banish them. In the light of that – I feel for you.

Sounds like your wife is having a lot of fun teasing you while you are locked up! Surely she knows that is next to impossible for you to control yourself in a situation like that and is probably laughing to herself inside. If I were you, I would prepare myself for extended lock up.

I sympathize completely, but unfortunately that is part and parcel of the tease & denial aspect of female-dominated male chastity. Curious if physical punishments, such as spikes added before spooning/massages or whippings afterwards, would be more effective than the less immediately tangible adding on of days.