I have teased him with the idea of never allowing him to have sex with me again.  His tongue and fingers can do wonders and is he even worthy of having sex with a Goddess? (I have asked him that question) lol. The idea of denying him this pleasure forever is exciting to me but I don’t think it I could do without it.  As it stands now, intercourse is a special privilege for him and I only allow that privilege on occasion.  He knows that he is lucky when I allow it and that as a submissive it is very special when he is allowed to put his sex inside a Goddess.  Most of the time he pleasures me orally.  When we do have intercourse, I usually do not allow him to orgasm. On a rare occasion I will allow it.  He actually gets a “rush” out of being used like this, where I have an orgasm and he his denied during sex. Frankly I could do without the mess so I enjoy it to.  Although I do allow intercourse occasionally, it is fun to put the idea in his head that one day I may choose to deny him this privilege forever.

I will tease his cock and tell him how hot and excited I am but that he is not allowed to have sex with me. I will tell him that I know how bad he wants it. This drives him wild and usually gets him begging. Then I go in for the kill.  I will get on top of him and rub my sex all around his cock, teasing him but not letting him in.  This drives him insane (and me too!).  Ultimately I end up on his face, making him lick me to an orgasm while he is denied.  This is so much fun for both of us and it has a lingering effect on him for days afterward.

I truly believe these statements leave a lasting imprint on a submissive’s mind and help keep them focused on serving and being obedient.  I encourage you to incorporate them into your relationship.  Every once in rare moment I have allowed Thomas to be on top. When it does happen, I might say something like, “well consider that a gift.  It won’t happen again.” or “You weren’t supposed to be on top.  You’ll be punished for that.”

Saying these types of things over and over again have a lasting impact on you submissive’s mind over time. For example, whenever you assign a new chore or task you could use “Starting now and lasting forever….”.  If he tells you how great it is serving you, then you can respond with “That’s great to hear.  This is how your life will always be, so I’m glad you enjoy it.”

• Endless pampering whenever you want
• No need to do laundry. That’s his job now.
• Kitchen cleaned & dishes washed and put away every night
• No more pumping gas
• Bills are paid every month. I don’t even think about them.
• Orgasms whenever I want, however I want and he expects nothing in return
• A play toy (him) to play with whenever I want
• Coffee ready for me every morning
• I have the final say in all matters and he knows this and agrees to it. He yields to my authority and decisions. This means arguments are practically non existent.
• He anticipates my needs and wants and strives to make me happy. This is huge!
• Gifts and flowers from him just because he appreciates me
• Open communication.  We talk about anything.
• I never have to clean a bathroom again.  Yea!
• My clothes are ironed every day
• I do what I want
• He does everything I tell him to do.

Giving appreciation is important for both the dominant and the submissive.  As the leader of the relationship I will thank Thomas when he has been good for me or if he does something thoughtful for me.  I believe this motivates him to serve me even more.  He does the same for me.  He will thank me if I do something special for him like buy his favorite snack or treat him to a special night of teasing.  What I love the most is when he pampers me and then later thanks me for allowing him to pamper me.  Talk about royal treatment!  There are many days where I ride him until I have an orgasm and there is no orgasm for him (in fact that happens most times).  He will thank me for that and tell me how great it was.  I find that incredible!